Zhang Jiani Her husband cheated on him. The boss Mai Chao, who showed off his wife, showed off his character collapsed. The result is unknown, but Zhang Jiani said, "You can get up and let go." It seems that she responded to the direction of this relationship.
Many people sighed, why can't the boss in real life be as dedicated as in TV series, let us keep hitting the prince and princess' CP, and the ending of the curtain is exactly the same as the end of the cheating.
Why are the sweeter and more pampered in the early stage plot, the more absurd and bizarre the later stage. It turns out that the domineer is always very dedicated, and they prefer fresh and young bodies.
Because of the celebrity effect, even if their behavior is very secretive, they cannot escape the paparazzi entertainment journals who are specifically following. So the cheating was advertised. The life of ordinary people is likely to be more hidden because no one can spy on it. Many betrayals are quietly staged but not being betrayed by the loved ones. They are not only disappointed, but also angry, and sometimes revenge, but most of them are still helpless, despair, confusion, pain, and loss, which makes people unable to let go.
■The emotion of being betrayed has a special persistence, perhaps the one with the longest and strongest negative impact and persistence among all emotions.
For the emotions of being betrayed, many people experience "chaotic" and "intelligent". This emotion is often elusive, but can be felt strongly. When you feel betrayed and deceived, it means that you have misjudged the person and be deceived, which leads to two types of accusations, and self-blame and blame are intertwined.
's decisive help to the basic emotions of being betrayed is not to analyze the experiences related to betrayal, but to deal with the experience of emptiness and loss. Create a safe soil for yourself by forming new experiences of closeness and security.
If you are experiencing the harm of being cheated, the book "Emotional Repair" gives sincere suggestions:
Be loyal to yourself: be loyal to your emotions and ideas, communicate with people you trust, and measure and choose those emotions that affect your behavior.
Respect yourself: Don’t complain or even belittle yourself. Showing respect for yourself is whenever you are uncertain, whenever you want to make a decision, ask yourself how I should respect myself.
Public and sad: Doubt or worry about your partner leaving you, ask questions, bring your feelings and concerns into communication, disclose your thoughts, and be sad enough to make you feel relieved.
Protect and unity: seek support from others, and you might as well complain and confide, and recognize your feelings and values.
Enjoy life well: the best revenge is to make yourself live a better life and enjoy life. This is a good way to cure betrayal and can dispel pain, resentment and disappointment.
Use Fu Seoul to give yourself a sentence: "Don't doubt yourself, don't deny yourself, you have to believe that I deserve to be loved, I deserve to be treated kindly, isn't love just like I dare to like and dare to leave?"
