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There is a question on the Internet: Is the change in the concept of "many children and many blessings" the main factor for contemporary young people to choose to be single? The issue of
has aroused many discussions. Some people think that ideas affect actions are indeed the main factor; while some people think that being poor and not being poor for three generations is the main problem.
When talking about "many children and many blessings", we have to mention the small peasant society. This concept originated from the small peasant society. Since Agricultural society emphasizes the continuation of bloodline and requires a large amount of farming labor , the concept of "more children and more blessings" emerged.
. In the information society, people's concept of family has gradually faded, and the emergence of industrialization has allowed machine production to replace the traditional human farming , so people no longer pay attention to the traditional concept of "more children and more blessings".
What's more, as the pressure of life gradually increases, there are endless situations where children cannot support their parents' elderly care, which indirectly leads young people to abandon the traditional concept of marriage and love and choose to be single, or a more helpless future.
Of course, the first thing that encountered the problem of "more children and less blessings" was not the new generation of young people, but the elderly born in the 1965 and 1970s.
They eventually became the first generation of people with "more children and fewer blessings".
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60 to 65 people born in the age of 1980s or the earliest batch of post-90s. People born after 65 years usually have children born in the 1990s or 2000s. What is the difference between
80 and 90s? In addition, what is the difference between the earliest batch of post-90s and the latest batch of post-90s?
Generally speaking, the generation born in 80 is both traditional and trendy, and belongs to the "middle" generation. They usually follow the traditional concept, get married and have children, and complete the mission of family inheritance.
, and the post-90s generation actually have to be divided into two groups. The first group of people were born in the 1990s . Although they faced extreme inclination, was coming ashore earlier, so the pressure they faced was a little smaller than the people behind.
The second batch of people are the "people behind" mentioned above. They are only in their twenties, but they already have the concept of "not getting married and not having children" and have long abandoned the tradition of "more children and more blessings".
More importantly, the latest batch of post-90s generations of post-90s and new generations of post-00s faced by them is really a bit serious, so that countless Buddhists and the concept of lying flat are common.
Just imagine, the pressure of life increases and traditional concepts gradually disappear. How many people can pass on the 1990s and 2000s complete the task of inheriting family genes and bloodlines?
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For this, the post-60s and post-70s who are parents will accuse them of being ignorant and have no idea of a big family.
In fact, from some perspectives, there is no need for parents to blame. is related to the fact that the dying of the post-90s and post-00s generations has something to do with the first generation of people who live "more children and fewer blessings" in 1965s and post-70s. After
65, there is usually only one child, while a small number of people should have two or three children. The post-70s generation has encountered an era of opening up the second and third children, so some post-70s generations will have children after the age of 40 and have two to three children.
When they had not given birth to a second child, they always thought that multiple children were just multiple pairs of chopsticks. They came to their senses only after the second or third child was born. It turns out that every child is a veritable " Gold-swalking Beast ".
It takes at least millions to raise children to graduate from college. Some children, even after graduating from college, cannot find a job, are directly unemployed, and are dependent on their parents at home. Therefore, the cost of raising will increase geometrically.The first child born in
65 and 1970 may have graduated from college and are facing these "hard life" problems.
Only when parents are so tired did they raise a child. But the child is even a problem with starting a family and starting a business, and the internal sequel is still so serious. This makes them not want to go back to their parents' old path.
The more educated the young people who have been to college, the more they have the idea of "not wanting to go back to their old paths of their parents."
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Somewhere around, countless post-90s have put forward a view that they have suffered so much, and their parents cannot raise their children to prevent their old age. Why do they still have to do something that "the result is already destined"?
If a person proposes this concept, it means that the person has a problem. However, if a group of people, even people born in the same era, put forward this view, it proves that this view is universal.
Parents born in the 1990s and 2000s have emptied six wallets to help their children buy houses and cars, and they don’t even have much money left for retirement. Finally, they are likely to face the result of "living old age alone".
There is a saying on the Internet: "The post-60s and post-70s are the last generation to be filial to their parents and the first generation abandoned by their children."
Since the first generation is them, the second generation is the post-80s, and the third generation is the post-90s and post-00s, which continues. In this way, those born in the 1990s and 2000s who think through this level will naturally become desireless.
The main problem is that parents born in the 190s and 2000s, that is, the 1960s and 200s (mainly 20s and 200s) use their naked life experiences to let them see through the reality of the rest of their lives.
people, once they see through it in advance, once they discover the truth of life from their parents, the tragedy of the family will inevitably be inevitable. This is a "causal cycle" linked one by one.
text/Shushan Youlu
