Author profile: Qinghe, a gentle observer in the world, likes reading and writing, is good at operational empowerment, and likes to meet you with warm words. Although he is born mediocre, he is also born proud.
If you suddenly receive another message again, the whole city is silent and quarantined at home, what would you think?
Anxiety, resentment, depression, crazy...
Before, I was the same. The repeated stamps made me crazy, anxious, mortgage loans, car loans, and the following food, clothing, housing and transportation were all expenses, and I couldn’t even grab vegetables, I had no jobs, and no side job income. It’s a problem to support yourself, not to mention raising gold-swallowing beast …
But now, I have completely changed. Even if I’m silent at home, I’m full of energy and live a fulfilling and down-to-earth life every day. Not only that, I just found a job and started working, and less than a month later, my boss arranged an operation position to let me run the entire company. I was sealed at home and operated Toutiao, and I gained new fans every day...
all this just because I joined the Hongdan Writing Academy.
Although I was sealed at home, I changed my mindset: can calm down and learn writing and improve my skills, and be an excellent writer .
Joining Hongdan College is the most correct choice at the end of the year. Thank you very much for taking me into this circle.
Nowadays, under the energy of writing, I am gradually calming down, and I am growing...
01 Immersed in learning, keeping me away from anxiety
At first, I didn’t understand the epidemic and was anxious, which made me often unable to find the direction, fell into confusion, and didn’t know where to go.
has no direction, goal, dream life is dead silent. Many communities want to get answers when registering, but only learn some cognition and solutions to problems.
, but I haven't found the answer in my heart for a long time...
Fortunately, I learned writing and could be blocked again. I did not give up on myself, nor did I go to bed early to night like before, watch Douyin, waste time, and waste my life.
In the past, I lost my soul like that, I didn’t know what time I was, I didn’t know where I was in the future, and I didn’t know where I was.
Writing gave me strength and comforted my mentality. It makes me feel motivated when I learn this skill.
When I learn and use this skill, I can no longer fly for the sake of my son in the future, and I can't set off his flying wings.
When my parents were sick, I no longer kneel on the ground, beating my chest and stamping my feet, and I can do nothing.
In my opinion, I have more financial support, allowing me to learn more skills and experience a broader world, and no longer spend my days in these 3 bedrooms and 1 living room.
When my husband needs me, I can give him firm strength to support him and tell him that I can support our small family with him and no longer let him bear all our pressure. We can move forward hand in hand and move forward together under this turbulent and uneasy epidemic.
I am no longer anxious, but calmly deal with everything life gives me.
02 Integrate into the community, so that I will no longer be lonely
I have always been lonely. How can the world be where I am? I am the splendor of the world.
I feel lonely inside, I always feel that no one can firmly choose me, and I am always abandoned and never firmly choose.
is often awakened by nightmares at night, otherwise I would have dreamed of being young and almost hit by a car. Otherwise, I would dream of a nine-year-old girl being sent back to Fangcheng bus from Xinjiang alone, walking alone in fear and wandering...
probably because her heart is too empty and has no direction to support her, and it may be because she has thought about something at night and dreams at night.
is strange. Since I came here, I came to this community, and the event group. Warm sun, warm words are healing my wounds, the stars, and the firm writing style is lingering in my heart for a long time. Time is also using its own energy to drive our study, and Teacher Yuehao is also using her to warm me, making me feel that she has firmly chosen.
still remembers the first micro-class. Her self-introduction made me feel moved, and I enjoyed myself and was really a good name.Yes, there are parents, children, and husbands at home but not themselves.
At work, many things wrap us around, including I just went to work and needed a lot of knowledge points, which I needed to learn, and maybe I forgot how to love myself and how to please myself.
Hammer was blown that morning, why didn’t I think about loving myself well and choosing myself? If no one comes to choose me, then choose myself firmly. Wouldn’t you firmly choose me?
community classmates are particularly energetic and full of strength. It made me no longer feel lonely, and suddenly I felt like I was going home.
Here I was seen by everyone, I was invited by Mu Zili to share with outstanding students, invited by Teacher Yuehao to be an assistant, and for the first time I was invited to be a host event. I have never hosted it, and I have never taken the initiative to be invited by others to do these things.
I felt that the thick ice layer deep in my heart suddenly cracked a gap, and a ray of sunlight shone in warmly, feeling warm all over, like a spring breeze.
This ray of sunshine comes from Hongdan and comes from you who are warm.
03 True writing makes my life more powerful
Life is not perfect. Instead of bringing life more frustration and complaints, it is better to stick to a belief and believe that through hard work, you can make life better.
It’s not that I didn’t have the opportunity to come, but I watched coldly and let him slide out of my hands. I was even more lazy and kept pulling me. I was entertained until I died, and I didn’t have the courage to get out of my comfort zone.
For example, if you lose weight, just exercise, your body brings comfort and physical and mental pleasure, but as you struggle later, your heart will jump out to prevent you from stopping your exercise. You will find many excuses. It is too cold and your body is just right, so tired...
For example, if you think of reading, if you insist on reading, you will have a voice in your heart telling yourself not to read, you are too tired, you will have a headache and want to sleep, it is boring, watch Douyin, play games...
knows that sports will bring you a healthy body, immunity enhances, reading can improve your vision, pattern, etc., all of which are abandoned by me.
Join the writing of Hongdan writing. It takes a month to wait for the camp to open, and layers of obstacles have been set up, which is resistant to writing.
But when I finished the first lesson, I had my little tender teeth breaking out of the ground in my heart, which was changing the seeds and growing teeth.
writing is not that difficult either. You just need to sit down quietly and find a piece of paper or a pen, or turn on your phone, computer word document, turn off the network, set the time, write as you like, write whatever you think, don’t look back, don’t modify, don’t pause, and write in one breath.
didn't expect that he would write more than 600 words in one go, and he didn't expect to insist on publishing his homework on Toutiao.
writing allows me to persevere and have the power to change.
Hongdan said, "From knowing to doing, to getting, there is a huge gap in the middle. What is important is not how much you know, but how much you have done."
Thinking, knowing and doing is the king, and only then can you integrate knowledge and action. Simple daily updates are all in mind, but if you really do it, can you persist for one month, one year, ten years?
One thing that can be done is - writing. Every morning, I have a time to write, persevere, accumulate golden sentences, learn immediately, act immediately, and do not give myself the opportunity to be lazy. As long as I persist and apply what I have learned, we can become excellent writers.
has the courage to get out of the comfort zone, the courage to change yourself, and let yourself shine.
4 Write at the end As long as you study firmly, practice writing constantly, and finish writing, complete every homework, think about how to write during the completion process, find your own writing style, open up a world, and achieve yourself.
May you be calm and persistent, give your all to what you love, and return with a full load.
