Today I will teach you how to identify a person through the circle of friends, analyze it from the perspectives of the content of the circle of friends, update frequency, and visible range. Not to mention 100% preparation, 80% is still there.
First of all, it is the content of the circle of friends. Remember one sentence: the more a person expresses in front of you, the more he lacks. Because what people want to show to others is what they think is valuable and meaningful. If it is common, they will not have any desire to share. Can they understand?
If he always likes to post sports cars, luxury goods, and likes to show off his wealth, then it means that he has something, but he may not be able to hold on, because it is easy to expose his wealth and attract people's attention. Such a person has a special personality and is indeed not too deep-minded. But because you don’t know how to keep a low profile, it is easy to get jealous.
and a person who always likes to post photos of playing shows that his life is not very fulfilling, but in order to create the illusion of fulfilling his life, he may take N times more photos whenever he goes out to play. I also want to see if I can attract more people, which means that such people are more good at raising fish.
and a person who always posts selfies means that he is still a little inferior and hopes that others can recognize his appearance. But a person didn’t take many selfies before, but suddenly he took more selfies. In fact, his current state has new goals. He is attracting the attention of his target.
Let’s talk about the update frequency. A person posts on Moments every few days, or even posts a few messages a day. Such people treat Moments as a hole in a tree. When they are happy, they say a few words, and when they are unhappy, they complain a few words, and say everything.
generally has two situations. Either the person wants to attract others' attention and give him a sense of existence; or he is emotionally unstable and his mind is not very mature. Those who are emotionally stable and mature in their minds may not post once a year, because in their eyes, nothing is worth posting to WeChat Moments.
Finally, it is the visible range. The visible range in the circle of friends is divided into the last three days, the last month, the last six months and all, these four situations.
Set people in the past three days are actually a little tricky. They think this can create a sense of mystery and are very vigilant, making it impossible for others to understand them. Such people are usually more self-centered.
The second type is set to one month or six months. This situation is the most common, but people who are usually visible for half a year will be more confident than those who are one month old and will be more able to operate their own circle of friends. They will delete or hide their circle of friends;
Finally, they are set to be visible for all. Such people are often simpler and more comfortable. They will not care too much, and they do not care about others' opinions about them. To add, if a person's circle of friends suddenly shortens, it means that he is likely to be in a bad mood.
No matter what you post in your circle of friends, it is just a personal choice. As long as you think it is suitable and you like it, it is reasonable.
Psychological test: Test the words your ex wants to say to you most
1. Do you quarrel over trivial matters when you are together?
Yes, I often feel very tired —2
rarely argues over trivial matters —2
Occasionally, but I can make up soon —3
2. Do you think you are a person who likes to reflect on yourself and is willing to correct your mistakes?
is —3
is not —4
3. Will TA take the initiative to tell you about your troubles?
often says - 5
doesn't say much - 4
4. Will you tell your parents about the process of your love?
, and often complain to my parents. —6
, occasionally, they will say it when they ask —5
, hardly say it, there is nothing to say —5
, there is nothing to say —5
5. How much energy are you willing to spend to get what you want?
Everything goes with the flow, it’s mine after all, it’s mine —7
Work hard, maybe you can succeed —6
Try your best, I have to get everything I want —B
6. Is it because a third party appeared?
Yes—A
No—7
7. Has the other party taken the initiative to contact you after breaking up?
Yes—D
No—Ch
