text: Zhang Quanmin
picture: From the Internet
The biggest losses I suffered in this life were all on a woman. Maybe everyone would think I am a person with very bad character, otherwise how could he say that the biggest losses I suffered in this life were all on a woman?
Swear to the sky, I am kind in my heart and dare not say how noble my character is, but I am definitely not a lustful person with inferior character. However, God will do something to others, but the few losses I suffered have to do with this woman.
I am from Xiyuan, Linwei District, Weinan City. My parents died early since childhood. My grandparents in their 50s raised me.
Because I had no parents since I was a child, I was bullied by my classmates at school and looked down upon by my teachers, so I didn’t have the chance to go to school after I finished junior high school.
My academic performance in junior high school was still good. I was in the top 5 in the class every time I took the exam. If my parents were alive, or if my grandparents were healthy, I might be able to get a high school diploma. Although today's high school diploma has no value, it still had some effect back then.
If I had to go to high school when I graduated from junior high school, it was based on the school recommendation. Although my studies in junior high school are not bad, I have no background and are not recommended by my teachers.
A classmate in my class, I helped him do math homework and write essays. Just because his father is a full-time cadre in the village, he was recommended to high school without any suspense.
And when it comes to the loss of a woman, it happened on the winter day of my first year of junior high school.
At that time, our village responded to the government's call that all villages had to draw young and strong men and women to bring their own tools to the south bank of Weihe during the slack farming period. Each township and village are divided into sections and each completes its own task of repairing flood control embankments.
We eat and work on the river bank during the day, and sleep in the tent set up on the river bank at night. The ground is covered with thick wheat stalks and grass, and then a reed can be laid.
The villagers of each team were crowded together, the man was in a tent and the woman was in a tent. I worked with my cousin, and at night they poked their legs and drilled into a bed.
The weather was very cold at that time, and the Hepu would be warmer, which is what we often call to keep warm . At dusk, I stood in the distance and looked at the green tents standing on the river bank, like rows of soldiers.
This tent is provided by the township government.
The tent is not powered, and the lighting is made of a fire-water cover lamp, which we locals call.
We used cart to pull the loess dam for a day and we were very tired. After dinner, we got into bed and couldn't chat for a few days, and we would soon fall asleep.
In the second half of that night, I woke up after being soaked in my urine, so I turned over and put on a cotton coat to pee in the wheat field under the dike more than ten meters outside the tent.
There was fog in the air at that time, and the wind was cold. After peeing, I lifted my pants and returned to the tent and then went to sleep, waiting for the sound of the military call to get up, and then I would start a new day of labor.
I returned to the dark tent, and leaned on my memory to fumble into the quilt again. My cousin reached out and held my legs.
But I didn't expect that when I was sleeping soundly, I was awakened by a woman's scream. When I opened my eyes, I slept in the tent of a group of women in my neighboring town, and stabbed my legs with a young girl in her 20s for half a night.
is full of iron evidence and I cannot tolerate my argument. This was a very serious problem at that time.
Then, I was beaten and scolded by several men from the neighboring town and sent to the responsible cadres of our commune.
The commune armed officer asked me with a serious face and what was going on? I sobbed and said that I didn't know what was going on. I was confused about the wrong tent and got into the wrong quilt, but I didn't take off my clothes...
The armed officer laughed and said, "No wonder the girl said that she met the fox fairy, and you ran to the woman's tent in a daze."
Unexpectedly, after that, I had a nickname: "Lonely Immortal!"
I swear to the sky again. I really had no evil thoughts in my heart at that time. I didn't know that there was something wrong with the line on the brain nerves, so I directed myself to run into the wrong tent.
The commune cadres considered that I did not cause any substantial harm to the woman, so they locked me up in a black house in the commune for three days and released me.
This incident made me a celebrity in our town. When adults and children see me from afar, they will shout me: "Fox Fairy!"
Days pass day by day, and I am growing up day by day.
Because I am notorious, no matchmaker is willing to introduce my girlfriend to you. The young men of the same age as me in the village entered the wedding hall one by one. Some of them were already fathers, but I still had chopsticks and were a bachelor.
But for some reason, I was not in a hurry at that time. After finishing the farm work, I hid at home and read various novels.
On the early spring of the year when I was 25, the secretary of our village suddenly came to my house and said to me with a smile: "Uncle will introduce you to a wife, do you want it?"
I said with a wry smile: "Then will a girl marry me, a famous fox fairy."
Secretary squished the smile on his face and said seriously: "I'm not kidding you, what I said is true, that's it..."
Secretary said that there is a woman in a village north of Weicheng . She looks good and is one year older than me. A year ago, her husband had a car accident, but there was a 3-year-old girl and a boy over one year old. The woman wanted to recruit a son-in-law. If I were willing, she would not ask me for a penny of bride price. The woman's house was wide and had a large house. She had color TVs, refrigerators, motorcycles and other furniture at home...
After my husband died, she paid a lot of money. Another advantage was that her house was very close to Weicheng, just behind Sanma Road in Weicheng. Now the city is constantly expanding, and their village will definitely become the city center of Weicheng in the future. Now that you have gone to the girl's house, transfer your household registration to the girl's village, and you will also be assigned to the land. The compensation for the state's land acquisition in the future is not a small number...
I was moved by the secretary.
The next day, I put on a suit and leather shoes and walked the village secretary's weighted flying pigeon bicycle, and took the old secretary to meet the woman. On the way, the village secretary told me that the woman was his eldest aunt's daughter.
Although a woman is one year older than me, she looks younger by me and looks like a woman in the city. After chatting for a while, no one had any objections, so they went to a hotel in Weicheng for dinner. It was a guest invited by the woman because I didn't have any money when I went there. Although I went there, I guess the chance of success was not high, and I didn't want to spend money in vain.
Unexpectedly, on the third day after I got home, the woman called me to go to her house and told me that there was something wrong. At that time, mobile phones were not popular yet, but our village secretary installed a landline phone at home. It was charged for a long distance call based on time, and it cost 50 cents to answer a call.
I went this day, and this time I was no longer empty-handed. I bought a few gifts, mainly for her two children, including milk candy, biscuits, and two toys.
The woman was very happy and said she helped me contact a job in Weicheng, which was to help a large beef and mutton soaking bun restaurant to make pancakes. I can do this technique, and I can make it for myself when I am a teenager.
"You work in the city during the day, and after get off work at night, you walk back to my house by yourself." She said.
I said, "Okay."
Half a month later, we lived together. Then, we obtained our certificates and held a banquet to entertain relatives and friends.
A year later, my household registration was moved to my wife's village. When I was dividing the land that year, I also had nearly two acres of land.
That day, I didn’t expect my wife to smile and shout my nickname, “Fox Fairy”. I was stunned for a moment and said with a sarcastic smile: "Do you know my nickname?"
My wife smiled mysteriously again and said: "You didn't expect that your nickname was given to you by me..."
I was a little surprised when I heard it: "At that time, your village also went to build a flood control embankment?"
My wife nodded.
Then I said that the bed I got into the wrong bed that night was her bed. I shook my head and expressed my disbelief and incredible.
But my wife serious face said it was true. She asked me to let me go, because I didn't do anything to her that night...
Could it be that this is what people often say about the fate of the previous life?
To be honest, when I was a child, our family was still harmonious. Every day when I came home from get off work, my adopted son and daughter would call me affectionately, bring me slippers, give me face and wash water to hand over towels, and be well for my biological children.
But it gradually changed after growing up. It especially made me feel bad that my wife pampered her son too much.
After graduating from college, I didn’t look for a job and went to work. I had to wear famous brands when I put on my clothes, , Apple when I played with my mobile phone, and bought more than 200,000 yuan for a car. As the adoptive father, I couldn’t say it, so I had to say a few words in front of my wife. My wife thought I was long-winded. Finally one day, I had a big fight with my wife and I went to divorce.
After divorce, I stopped going home, so I went to the police station to get a separate household registration book for myself.
During this period, I no longer worked for people to bake pancakes. Instead, two years ago, I rented a house and opened a beef and mutton soaking steamed bun restaurant, and the business was pretty good.
For several years, I also bought a car and a house in Weicheng.
Weicheng is developing very fast. Just as the old secretary of our village arrived at that time, his wife's village became the city center, and the country began to acquire land, and each household received a considerable compensation.
I also have a compensation of nearly 300,000 yuan, but I can't get it. The ex-wife and adopted son received it on my behalf through their relationship. I asked the mother and son many times but failed. In the end, I sued the mother and son and won the lawsuit.
But my ex-wife has not paid back the money to me for a long time.
helpless, I plan to apply for forced execution to the court. But I didn't want to do anything, so I called in advance to communicate with my ex-wife, and on the phone I expressed my attitude.
is a kind of way that you will never give up even if you achieve your goal.
Two days later, I was greeting guests at my beef and mutton soaking steamed bun restaurant. My ex-wife arrived and I hurriedly took her to my office. As soon as she entered the door, I comforted her not to cry and said slowly.
She sobbed and said that it was not that she didn't want to pay back my money, it was her son. My adopted son suffered from uremia . The doctor said that it was too early to find out, and he would be able to recover quickly. But it would take a lot of money...
I heard this and felt mixed feelings. Although my ex-wife and I have divorced, my adopted son must have been the one I watched grow up. I still have some feelings with my ex-wife...
I was silent for a while and said, "Do he live in the hospital or at home?" The ex-wife said, "In the Municipal People's Hospital..."
I sighed softly, take me to see him, my ex-wife nodded, and I drove my ex-wife to the inpatient department of the Municipal People's Hospital and saw the pale adopted son.
Adopted son called me dad. This dad gave me the courage to be a dad immediately. I said to my adopted son: "Take care with peace of mind. You don't have to worry about medical expenses, dad will find a way to solve it..."
There were bright tears quietly sliding down from the corner of my adopted son's eyes.
