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01, Volume Start
Family, for everyone, is like a garden. Planting melons gets melons, and planting beans gets beans.
family will affect a person's destiny. What kind of family does have often have a deep impact on a person.
" Ode to Joy " says: "A person's original family is a person's fate."
If a person is spoiled or treated unfairly in his original family, it may seriously affect a person's personality shaping.
Character determines the development of a person's destiny.
The educational methods, living environment, and family style of parents will affect their children's future.
A person comes from any family, and his life is his life.
02. It is difficult for families with bad family traditions to make their children promising
Families with bad family traditions to subtly affect their children's lives.
The family style is not upright, and parents always like to take shortcuts, rely too much on others, and refuse to live down-to-earth, so the next generation will easily be affected.
In " Knows ", Sheng Hong "porns his concubine and kills his wife" and also loves and cares for his concubine Lin Qinshuang and his daughter Mo Lan in every possible way.
Lin Qinshuang used improper means to have an affair with Sheng Hong and secretly formed a fetus. In a last resort, the Sheng family must give her a title.
When my daughter talks about marriage, she re-uses the same trick. In order to make Mo Lan marry, she supports her private meeting with Liang Han despite her reputation.
And her daughter, Molan bet on the future of all the sisters in the family, allowing her grandmother to come forward and get what she wants.
But she was not doing well at all in the Liang family, and her family didn't like her. Her mother angered her father and ended up in a tragic ending.
A person comes from a family with a bad family style, and will not have too big a situation, and the future will be difficult.
Susan Forward wrote in " Original Family ": "Home is a channel for conveying love and warmth, and a channel for conveying hatred and hurt. But filial piety makes us only see the former and deny the existence of the latter."
When the family style is not upright, it will make it difficult for children to have a good character and personality.
Only by having a good family tradition can children have positive energy in their hearts and give them a better destiny.
03. If you have money at home, you may not be able to live a good life.
Everyone comes from a different family and will have different economic gaps.
was born into a wealthy family and may not necessarily live well in the future. If his parents spoiled him, his life might get worse and worse.
Some parents like to struggle and know how to gallop in the business world, but they don’t know how to educate their children.
If parents have too many resources but are always too indulgent and doting on their children, which leads to them being ignorant, then they may lose their fighting spirit and go on a wrong path on the road of life.
Some families have poor family conditions, but they have a rigorous family style. Parents will cultivate their children to be upright, brave and self-disciplined. Then, they will definitely succeed in counterattacking under a certain opportunity and become a better person.
A family should pay attention to the education of their children and cultivate a good family tradition, which is more important than giving children a better material life.
If you want your children to have a good destiny, parents should create a good living atmosphere for their children.
The family conditions are too good. If the child cannot be guided correctly, it will make him feel that he is very superior. They will habitually "limit their parents" and give up independence and no longer make progress.
04. Although the family is poor, they value education and are often good at life. On the road of life, families that attach importance to education are often easy to rewrite the trajectory of their destiny.
Poverty is not scary. What is scary is that you use poverty as an excuse and are unwilling to learn or try. and even, in some families, there is no careful education after giving birth to children.
Some parents think that as long as their children are full and wear warm clothes, it is enough.In fact, a family that raises but does not teach will definitely lead to children missing out on the opportunity to get a good education.
Kego Higashino said: "Everyone wants to be born in a good family, but he cannot choose his parents. If you send you a card, you can only try to play it as well."
After growing up, you will find that the state of childhood is the basis for shaping your own personality.
Although some families are very poor, parents can always give their children warmth and care and pay attention to their children's educational issues.
And, in life, learn to grow up with your children and let your children have a good psychological state. Let them shape a strong heart during their growth and face their life and career better and positively in the future.
was born in a family that valued family, cultivated good character, and continued learning ability, so that you can see higher, go further, and realize higher life value on the road ahead.
05. Summary
In life, a person comes from whatever family he comes from. However, a person must learn to grow throughout his life.
Everyone will be affected by the environment they are in during their growth. Because the first thing you come into contact with is your parents and family, and in the future, you will develop a personality.
As the growth process, learn to reflect on yourself, constantly see your own shortcomings, see your shortcomings, and actively correct them. Don’t fall into the shackles of your original family, but try to live a better appearance.
On the road of life, you are full of confidence, don’t complain or be pessimistic, and fight for more happiness and happiness for your life.
Each of us cannot choose the family we were born, and we cannot change our original family, but on the road of life, we can only have a better life by constantly adjusting ourselves and breaking through ourselves.
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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.
