Hello everyone, I am Cuckoo's mother~
I only found out when I chatted with my mother that my niece had a period of menstruation and was already a big girl. I have to sigh that time passes so fast. The little girl who was staggering behind me has grown up.
As a parent, I feel that it doesn’t seem like my daughter has been born to puberty, and it’s just a short time.
Adolescent is actually a test on girls’ life. What kind of experience will it be when she first had her period?
A netizen said that when she came to her aunt, her grandfather taught her how to use aunt scarf . The comment section below
all laughed out loud. However, everyone praised it and said that grandpa was not conservative and taught children to view this matter correctly and not to be hesitant.
is indeed, when a girl has her first period, if a close elder teaches her child physiological knowledge with a normal mind, the child can view her own changes with a correct attitude and benefit her whole life.
Another netizen said that his physiological knowledge was taught by the boys in the class.
Girls often don’t pay attention to so much, and they are also confused about physiological changes. If students use knowledge to popularize science, then children can benefit from it.
But if you meet some people talking in a way of making jokes and making fun of them, the girl may feel shame or inferiority complex , which has a great psychological impact.
There is also a netizen who recalled his childhood experience, saying that his mother was not around and no one told her about these things. She only hid in the toilet and used a lot of paper, and did not dare to go to the store to buy sanitary supplies.
In fact, when faced with their physiological changes, girls will be more or less panicked and helpless. If not guided correctly, some children will even take detours.
So, when your daughter has a period for the first time, the mother must say the following 4 sentences to her, and the child will benefit for the rest of her life.
First sentence, child, you have grown up
First, congratulations, you have grown up.
Because when puberty, boys and girls will undergo a series of physiological changes, which is a very normal process.
At this age, being able to have a period of time means that you are healthy and thriving.
But do you know, what's going on with our bodies?
Every girl has an uterus , which is where the fetal baby lives. You lived in your mother's uterus for ten months before you were born.
Under normal circumstances, girls will have two ovaries, on the left and right sides of the uterus. When a girl is born, there are already many egg cells in her ovaries, but they are not mature.
Only in adolescence will one egg cell develop and mature every month and is excreted from the ovaries.
So, the girl will have her period.
So, when you see blood on your pants, don't panic, and don't think this is an unspeakable thing. This is a very normal natural law and an inevitable process for life to mature.
Maturity will make your world interesting and amazing. Don’t have psychological burdens, just move forward bravely.
The second sentence, pay attention to hygiene
Our abdomen and privacy parts are actually very fragile.
When you grow up, you can no longer be as willful as a little girl. Especially during menstruation, don’t touch the cool or ice-like ones and protect your uterus.
Pay more attention to hygiene, use sanitary napkins correctly, and replace them diligently. Wash with running warm water every day to avoid bacterial growth. When taking a shower, try to shower and not bathe.
can participate in sports properly, but not too vigorously. Because strenuous exercise may cause stomachache.
Our abdomen likes warmth and not coldness. If you feel uncomfortable or painful in your stomach, remember to drink more hot water or apply it with a hot water bag.
There will be some minor worries in growing up, but I believe you will be able to overcome and adapt soon.
The third sentence, protect yourself
This is what my mother wants to say to you the most: Be sure to protect yourself!
Maturity also means having fertility. Especially as girls, we must protect ourselves!
Do you know what kind of contact is bad intention?
If someone touches your privacy area with his hands or part of his body, then this is a malicious infringement. You must leave quickly and tell your parents.
Do not stay alone in the same room with the opposite sex (relatives, friends, classmates, teachers, etc.). If the other party shows signs of infringement, you should boldly refuse and find a way to leave and come back to tell us.
Don’t accept gifts from the opposite sex at will. Only by respecting and loving ourselves can we better protect ourselves.
In addition, during adolescence, you will also have a good impression of the opposite sex, and you will even have a vague "like" feeling. This is also a very normal situation.
is just that when you get along with the opposite sex, you must have your own bottom line.
You must not have too intimate physical contact, you cannot stay overnight, and you cannot let your emotions ignore your studies and family. You should not trust the opposite sex on the Internet and reveal your personal information, meet or even date with them at will.
Adolescent means both maturity and danger.
stick to the bottom line, understand what can and what cannot be done, and always have a vigilance of self-protection. Only in this way can we protect ourselves and grow smoothly.
The fourth sentence, there are many kinds of beauty
puberty that are accompanied by physiological changes, and there are psychological changes.
For example, you will care more about other people's eyes and evaluations, more about your own image and appearance, and even be troubled by the question of "beautiful or not".
But I want to tell you that there are many kinds of beauty.
What we see most intuitively is external beauty. However, external beauty not only refers to the face or figure, it also includes body shape and temperament.
Such as a positive and healthy body, and a vigor that exudes vitality. Therefore, we can pay more attention to our demeanor and not arch our backs with our chests in our arms. Don't take a blind diet, either, as it will cause your body to get sick. You should also look at things with an optimistic attitude to keep yourself confident.
The sunny upward posture will add a little more points to your beauty.
There is also the beauty of clothing.
Adolescent children love to dress up. Mom encourages you to see more beautiful things and cultivate your own aesthetics.
Just, mom also hopes that you can understand that popular things are good. Blindly following the trend and imitating may make you lose yourself. Only what suits you are suitable for you.
Finally, there is a beauty of personality.
Beauty is not only external but also internal. External beauty may affect others' first impression of you, but inner beauty will make people decide whether to be willing to date you for a long time.
Mom hopes that you can incorporate the beautiful qualities of kindness, courage, strength, self-esteem, self-love, courage to be enterprising and other beautiful qualities into your personality and become a part of your beautiful personality.
Mom believes that you can use your personal charm to get out of your glorious life.
Adolescent is the flower season and the rainy season. When a girl has a period of menstruation, her mother must tell her the above 4 sentences to benefit her child for a lifetime ~
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