Hello, I am Angelababy . He is a lawyer from Xi'an and has been practicing for 12 years.
12 has done many litigation cases, undertaken many legal consultants, and now has its own team.
I changed to a new law firm because I had a little unhappy with the former law firm.
After leaving, I heard some gossip, which was very interesting. Maybe someone was discussing behind the scenes that he had a long time ago, but he didn't dare to say it. The original words were ", I'm afraid she wrote me in the official account."
The intern lawyer and law firm senior "Lao Ma" I wrote before also hated me and wanted to kill him quickly.
This also reminds me of a recent interview with Yang Li . The reporter asked her friend if she minded that she appeared in her joke.
I forgot the original words that Yang Li answered. The general idea is that friends are used to the stories that happen to her and will appear in jokes. As a talk show actor, she wants to express them. Expression comes from life, so she will naturally write them in.
I think this topic is very interesting, so I will share my views.
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First of all, I want to be more content with those who are worried about me writing about them. I really don’t have to worry, because is not something that everyone deserves to be written about .
This official account was originally updated at the end of November 2020. I have started writing saved manuscripts since September.
There are two motivations and one opportunity to make an original official account.
The first motivation is I really like writing articles. I have had good Chinese grades since I was a child and have won various essay competitions, including essays from Xi'an municipal competitions.
There is a place where I can write things, express what I think and know, and provide some inspiration to others. This is my love buried deep in my heart.
The second motivation is that wants to see if you can make some money. The city was closed down in early 2020, and I was really panicked at home. The main panic was not because I had no money to spend, but because I had nothing to do.
was so idle, I felt that something was so good at this time, and it was also the advantage of online business that I could develop anytime and anywhere.
One opportunity is that I met Yang Xiaomi. If the motivation just lets me know that this thing can be done, the opportunity for is to let me know how to do this thing .
I also said without hesitation that this account has received advertisements and has realized traffic monetization, which has really made me make money.
And you can't say you're making money. I also use the products I've recommended. I got the coupon and bought them. The water and lip balm are all products I've recommended. I feel so good to pull my own wool.
In addition, the official will send samples to the original products, and I will use them myself after taking photos. This kind of product that is not expensive, I think it is particularly useful for some reason. (Do you think Lawyer Yang who likes to take advantage of it is even more cute?)
And it is precisely because of business advertisements that I must maintain high-quality updates and make this account well, otherwise no one will read the article and no one will advertise for me.
So the article I wrote mainly starts from the perspective of topic selection . Is there any discussion on this topic? What can I learn from this topic selection, what inspiration can I give, what methodology can I provide or what kind of emotional value can I provide.
Sometimes they will share their own stories, because it is also a kind of interpersonal relationship with readers, and interpersonal relationships need to be honest and shared.
Many readers have watched me grow up in the past two years. They are friends I have never met before. My personal life and work have changed, and everyone is very concerned about it.
As a friend, of course I also want to give readers an explanation. This is the obligation of the blogger as an expressor, otherwise hiding is a friend.
is also because of this. Not only do I write , I am also working hard to live and grow up so that the topic can be more valuable .
I am doing my career with clear goals. First, I will grasp the risks, and second, I will make valuable expressions.
won’t complain about them every day like they thought they were a grudge. They ruined my career for them, so they are not worthy.
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Besides, what these people are afraid of is being written, that is, what they did is not important, what they are important is that you cannot expose me .
In other words, if he did nothing well, what would he be afraid of writing?
If I make up random things, everyone is a lawyer. If you send me a lawyer's letter, you can sue me. If I hadn't made up my own tricks, then you'd done it, so why don't others write it?
This is very similar to an article I wrote before. Someone was a mistress and didn’t think anything was there. Instead, he blamed the original wife, saying, “How can you report me?”
They were afraid that I would write it, but many people were looking forward to me writing it . Several parties to the case said they were willing to let me write their case, but because the case was not settled and it involved confidentiality, I didn't write it.
and my good friend Wu Zi. She didn't feel satisfied when I asked me to interview her well and write another article. She has more materials.
Stop talking about them, just talk about me. I hope that a big V can take a fancy to me every day, and write more about me if I have nothing to do, so that I can also get the popularity.
However, my name is unknown, and my popularity is just like this. Over the years, no big V is willing to write about me except Xiaomi .
The materials written by Xiaomi are all confessed by me, and I can’t tell you what other people are doing. I can only hate myself for being unsuccessful, and no one is willing to write me.
There is nothing that cannot be said to others. If there is, is not a problem of "word", and if it is a matter of things, is not done well.
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They are worried that writing articles will ruin their reputation, but they say behind their backs that I am also ruining my reputation, they are doing things they shouldn't blame others for not doing.
They just don’t have a public account and have no place to write.
But I wrote it out, and there are still two differences between them and they said behind the scenes.
First, I am standing in the front desk , hiding the information of the person being discussed, telling everyone that I said this, and it is not certain who is saying.
And they are standing behind , talking about me clearly, what I said is Angelababy, but don’t let her know who said this.
The second difference is the different strengths of . They can only discuss it on a small scale at a time, and I discuss it publicly on the official account platform.
What they hate is not me writing, but the scope of my writing is larger than what they can discuss in private.
Then I can only say in this part, who stopped you from opening a public account? You write too. If you don’t have the ability to write, you won’t let others write?
nearly 300 original articles in two years, more than 1 million words, all of which are made by me working overtime, one word at a time.
If you don’t work hard, you still blame me for being strong and trying to manipulate my behavior through accusations. If I am willing to listen, I am really sick.
This is like I work hard to lose weight, and I lose weight and practice my butt after losing weight. Is it because I am worried that someone will say that I am "indifferent and unfaithful", and I don't even dare to wear tight jeans?
I always wear big cotton pants in summer. Whenever I ask, I say yes, my figure is not as good as you, so I feel embarrassed to wear it.
It is the one who feels comfortable, but it is the one who feels uncomfortable.
You can look at it from another perspective. When I wrote it, I didn’t have real names. Although it has a wide range, it mainly outputs value and has no lethality.
The discussion behind them was named, and they were told to people who knew me. The purpose was to destroy my interpersonal relationships. Although the scope was small, it was vicious enough~
Then they were better!
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And the people who said this are not familiar with me at all. They don’t know much about my life as many old fans.
If you follow me, you will know that I am a person with a big heart. When I left, I turned on the article and started a new life.
was angry when the incident happened, but as soon as I entered the new law firm, I started to compete for business volume. That was really hard work. good friends all laughed at me and said that they wanted to lie down, but they were helped up .
After I got up, I found that working is really tiring...
Moreover, Xi'an has cooled down recently, and it takes more energy as soon as it cools down. I am fiercer than before and I am hungry faster and I always want to eat noodles and eat high-calorie rice like boiled buns.
will get fat as soon as you eat... It will lose weight as soon as you get fat, so after eating, you have to go out to run at night. Once you run, you will secrete dopamine , and you will be very happy.
Work during the day and run at night. After running, I took a bath and went to bed. During the break, I had to contact my cat and dog at home. I also wanted to follow " talk show conference " and had to make an appointment with my friends to eat shabu pork. I couldn't remember them at all.
This is like running a marathon. Have you seen anyone who runs first and runs and asks me to go back and pull a squat for the person behind the run, and trip him~
Are those who are all behind and hope that those who are running in front can fall, and have some accidents so that they can surpass them?
But there are too many people participating in this marathon in life. You can’t expect everyone to have an accident and can only run by yourself.
People who focus on running are not in the spirit of turning back and tripping others. Those who can worry about being tripped by others are all people who run behind and think about how to trip others.
Just like a sentence I saw recently, " In fact, your various annotations and readings of me do not constitute one-tenth of me, but you are the ones that you can see at a glance. ."
As I wrote this, I suddenly felt a little naughty. I wanted to tell them: The tricks you are worried about are tricks you can do, because you can't think you won't know, but I have more than you can.
And whether to play or not, the decision is with me or not, and even if you are worried, it is useless~
*Author: Angelababy, lawyer, since entering the industry in 2009, she has handled many cases of various types every year and accumulated a lot of experience. If you want to tell everyone through legal publicity, legal professionals are also warm.
