When it comes to speeches, they naturally think of eloquence. When it comes to eloquence, they naturally think of classic Zhuge Liang "Discussions against the Confucians". In fact, when Zhuge Liang was entrusted by Liu Bei to go to Jiangdong to persuade him to join forces with Cao Cao, he used a "provocation method" to achieve his goal;
The same provocation method was also used on Zhou Yu , which immediately came into effect. It can be seen that Zhuge Liang's wisdom in using this method is really extraordinary.
In the second semester of the second year of high school, I accidentally made a thing happen to me. Later, I was engaged in speech eloquence training and found that a random sentence actually achieved the effect of "provoking" the method.
"I'm unintentionally, I moved out and live, will you go out and live?" Liu Zhaojun told me after class.
"Move out? It seems to have to be approved, right?"
" Write the application, Teacher He agrees, parents agrees, and the dormitory manager agrees." Liu Zhaojun blew his nose.
"Okay, I'll tell you about it at home."
In order to have a quiet learning environment and get into a good university, after I communicated with my parents, my parents agreed; after applying with any teacher of the class teacher, Teacher He also agreed. But when he was about to move out in the end, the dormitory manager disagreed.
"Xun, have you moved out too?" I caught Yang Qixun downstairs in the dormitory and asked.
"Yes, I moved last week. Several of our class moved." Yang Qixun's face and lips were shaking slightly, and it has been like this since junior high school.
"Then the dormitory manager agreed to you to move?"
"I moved without saying anything."
"Oh, strange, why can't I move?"
"It must be... Panda feels that there have been too many moves recently, so you can move late." Yang Qixun mentioned the nickname given to the dormitory manager by his classmates. He is tall and powerful, and he is "full of cat power" when checking the house, so he got his name.
Yang Qixun continued, "You can go to his leader, the director in charge of student work. A classmate in our class is in a similar situation."
wait for me to ask the director's residence, and then quickly ran to to knock on the door at the director's house on the third floor of the faculty and staff dormitory building. The person who opened the door was a girl of similar age. After I explained my purpose, she went to call her father out.
Director came out of the kitchen in a blink of an eye, surrounded by an apron, and saw that he didn't know me, so he asked me what I had to do, and there was still food in the pot...
I quickly explained the purpose of coming. After reading the signed application, the director left a sentence "You go and tell the dormitory manager that I agreed to it", and hurried back to the kitchen.
I took the director's "oral order" and went to the dormitory manager happily, but I was still turned away. I had no choice but to go back to find the director.
knocked on the door and opened the door. The director was full of anger and smell of the kitchen.
"Director, still...no..."
"Why can't it work?"
"He doesn't agree..."
"He doesn't agree..."
"I just agree!"
"He said...you said! It's not okay..."
"I can't say anything!? Which one can do it?!" The director's anger erupted, walked out hurriedly, and said as he went downstairs, "Let's go! Come find him!"
I followed behind happily, and the director said to himself as he walked, "I can't say anything...?"
When he arrived at the dormitory building, the director scolded the dormitory manager, and I also moved out of the dormitory building with a swagger, and lived in the homes of the nearby school until the end of the college entrance examination.
moved out of the school's twists and turns, and the casual "You said it is not okay...", which actually achieved the effect of provoking. It was something I didn't say deliberately at that time, but it was "unexpected and reasonable".
My place is about ten minutes walk from the school. Yin Dafang and Li Fangliang from other classes live next door. We often have breakfast, study, and exchange exam preparation experience together.
In the more than a year before the college entrance examination, I often read aloud by the window in the evening, heading towards the back mountain outside the window, ups and downs...
From the dead branches of autumn plum blossoms, to the blooming wintersweet blooming, and then to the summer fall of plum fruits, listening to the " Glorious Years " of the band beyond, I spent a period of exciting sounds-glorious years!
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