If you ask me what changed a person's ten years, from mental model , consciousness dimension to thinking mode, then what kind of thinking mode can change our next ten years? So the following four points, I think you can subvert your life.
First, the transition from consumerism to primitive accumulation, The former is to enjoy every penny earned in the moment and spend it on consumer goods, but the latter, delayed gratification will save excess money , Used for investment, many years later, the former is still on the way to work for a livelihood, and he dare not stop for a day, but for the latter, his assets have achieved passive appreciation. When he was 18 years old, he was studying and education part-time. Training and teaching, learning training management, entrepreneurship, investment, I have achieved financial freedom in a relative sense. I have a lot of time investment. At the age of 25, I established my own side business in what I love and excel at. Coming. More cash income has achieved a positive cycle for financial growth. In the next ten years, whether you want to continue to be a refined poor or achieve financial freedom depends on the flow of every penny you are now.
Second, the transition from passive learning to active learning. When we were in school, we were forced to do all kinds of homework in order to cope with the exam. Later I discovered that the purpose of learning is definitely not just for the score, but for cognitive upgrading, from forced learning To take the initiative to find all kinds of knowledge, the self-driving force comes from my giving meaning to this matter, only learning can make people become excellent, only good enough, I have more rights to choose life , I can live the life I want, so I study. To me, it is a kind of rigid need. If excellence is not a rigid need for you, then you will not become excellent. Go back Look at those skills that we didn't learn well. In fact, they have always been dispensable to us.
Third, the fragmentation of time management is a lesson in the use of concentration. Studies have shown that our brains enter a working state,It takes a certain amount of warm-up time. For example, when we think about a management problem, the brain needs five minutes to warm up. When thinking about a scientific problem, the brain needs half an hour. If it just enters the state, it will be interrupted every hour. Looking at the mobile phone five or six times, our brain will be in a process of repeated warm-up, and it will be difficult to enter deep thinking. Slowly, your attention will be divided and a network will be formed. Rather than rooting at one point, at this time the ability to think deeply has actually been lost. If money is gone, you can make time. Essentially, it does not belong to us, but attention is controlled by each of us. , Can train a very precious irreversible resource, but it is often ignored by us. When others are immersed in nipple music, we are reading deeply. Over time, our concentration will be better trained. Essentially In other words, all the values we output are the output of our attention, and the management of attention is actually a manifestation of a person's competitiveness.
Fourth, from being self-centered to building a sense of altruistic service, For the generation of our only child, we have been surrounded by our parents since we were young. We are used to being served by others, but in fact, this It is a passive taker posture. We do not have the ability to mobilize the resources around us, nor do we have a sense of serving others and being considerate of others, but the essence of interpersonal communication is the exchange of resources and the establishment of a sense of service. He is The transformation of an identity from a taker to a giver gives value to others, whether it is money, knowledge or contacts. The more valuable things you output, the more likely you are to get valuable rewards. A friend asked before, women except If you sell badly, how can you survive in the women's pile? Then my answer is to serve others. Giving is a way of thinking only possessed by the giver. It means that you are rich. Before we become rich, why should we have the thinking and service consciousness of the rich first? The establishment of quotient is actually an increase in emotional intelligence. The above four points are actually anti-human. It is like growth. It is always accompanied by pain, inertia, and nipple pleasure. Enjoying the moment and narcissism are our natural human instincts. It is precisely because of this that a little bit of anti-humanity is especially precious and able to be done by others. Things that can't be overcome, can overcome the instinct that others can't overcome,Your future will be great.
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