Today, I believe many people were moved by the same article just like me.
It has been five years since Qiao Renliang passed away. Recently, Qiao Renliang's parents were interviewed by the media and re-talked about their feelings after becoming parents who lost their soles.
Many of the descriptions in the interview made people’s eyes sore:
Recalling Qiao Renliang’s feelings when he was held in their arms when he was born, the two elders were very sad, "It’s hard to raise such a big one. , Now I’m back in such a small box..."
Father Qiao did not have any channels to know about the psychological pain his son endured during his career.
Mother Qiao is the same, she often takes care of Qiao Renliang's diet and daily life, and has a very harmonious relationship with her son.
It’s just that my son usually eats very little and he likes to draw the curtains in the bedroom dark.
He comforted Qiao's mother and said that it was because of the reason to recite the lines in the room, and the scars on his body were also caused by accidents during filming.
It was not until Qiao Renliang had an accident that Qiao's mother knew it was a white lie by her son.
When she saw her cold son, Qiao's mother cried and fainted on the ground holding him. After a few nights of sleeplessness, she found her throat lost her voice.
Mother Qiao will blame herself whenever she thinks about this, but after a long time, she has to control herself not to think again.
"Can't drill in this, you got in, what should you do if you can't get out?"
After reading,Those of us have also more intuitively felt the misery that this family once had.
After all, as a passer-by, it is very sad to think of this regrettable news; as the biological parents of kimi , the pain that their two elders have to endure must be a thousand or ten thousand levels deeper than our regret.
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Fortunately, Qiao's father and Qiao's mother are still trying to rebuild their lives.
As mentioned in the above interview, the two elders have been indulging in the grief of bereavement until they recently started to study short video accounts, and there are things in their lives that can be put into more energy, and this is gradually getting better. .
This process is actually not easy.
You can see that the video account run by the two elders together contains some cooking videos taken by them.
They cook very special ingredients, because the effect is not good when the simple cooking video is posted at the beginning.
Gradually they have found a new way, and more and more people are paying attention to them.
They usually don't talk about the identity of Qiao Renliang's parents.
Many netizens have been following the account for a long time, only to realize that the Shanghai aunt who cooks is Qiao Renliang's mother.
In addition to cooking content, other content will also be shared in the account.
For example, Qiao's parents and Qiao's moms go out to play together, eat ice cream, and their faces are always full of optimism.
They occasionally promote Qiao Renliang's brand, because "this shop is also left by my son, one of the few thoughts" , guard it,I just did my best for my son.
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It is hard to imagine that even Qiao's parents who live so optimistically have attracted bad reviews.
Before this, unclean comments were often seen in their comment section.
It has been five years since Kimi passed away, and there are still netizens who will go to the comment section to question the two elders. Can you still eat?
There are many people who talk about the appearance of the two elders, saying that they have bad faces, Qiao's mouth is crooked, and Qiao's eyes are too big.
What's more, it also links these things with Kimi... It's really hard to imagine, this is actually a speech that a living person can say.
Even when Dad Qiao was handling the ingredients in the video, someone told him not to kill, expose their scars, and ask, "Where is your son?"
Qiao's mother who often reads comments from netizens does not fail to see these, but no matter how sad, they can only complain with virtue:
"Auntie is sorry, I hope the video will bring you positive energy."
In the face of all this, more conscientious netizens can't stand it anymore and start to speak for them.
A contestant who was born as a super speaker, Liu Yuanyuan , made a special video to call on these people not to abuse Qiao's father and Qiao's mother on the Internet. They should not be born so vicious.
Qiao's father and mother also recorded a video to thank Liu Yuanyuan for his support, and then explained his appearance to the audience.
Dad Qiao said that his crooked mouth was actually caused by the nerves he encountered during the previous operation. He also teased himself, saying that he could be called "Master Qiao";
And Qiao's mother said that he The big eyes are because of the pituitary tumor.
The two are still telling these facts in a very positive manner, which is touching and sad.
The most puzzling thing is this.
They said that in fact, they are also trying hard to show the good side of life, because they want to be a role model for more families who have lost only one family and sufferers of depression.
It's not easy to get out of the sea on your own, but you still remember more people who are in a similar situation to them. Qiao's father and Qiao's mother are really broad-minded.
Since then, there has been a "patrol team" in the comment area of the two elders:
These are people who care about Qiao's parents, who are spontaneously guarding the cleanliness of their comment section.
"Start patrol, pay attention to your words."
"I will patrol from 10 to 12, and I hope you will support my work."
"Report 15426 The comments are not malicious, and we will close for the time being."
How should I put it, there is indeed a lot of warmth among people that is worth pursuing.
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Therefore, the so-called concern of those who speak bad words is not good intentions at all.
If you really care about your deceased, you won’t take this emotion,It has become a malicious stab at the backbone of their loved ones-
Come closer, will be greeted some time after the death of teacher in Yuexian, even if they make a vibrato.
On the day of Gao Yixiang 's birthday, his girlfriend bella took a group photo to mourn the deceased and was also attacked by netizens in the name of justice.
Of course, there is also Qiao Renliang's friend Chen Qiaoen .
As his closest relatives and friends, Qiaoen Chen did not post online news when the accident happened, and was scolded cold-blooded; afterwards, she mourned her deceased and was scolded for consuming him.
However, when the Keyboard Man no longer cared about all of this, she still expressed her remembrance with her actions, went to the cemetery of Qiao Renliang to pay her respects, and kept on watching his family members.
All people who are shrouded in grief are in places you can't see, trying to adapt to life.
Therefore, not everyone can bear the maliciousness by making good use of the weapon of public opinion. Those who shouldn't be criticized, don't let them be hurt again.
The "patrol team" that stood up for Qiao's father and Qiao's mother is the real positive effect that public opinion should have, and it is the "goodness" that people should have in the face of the outside world.
Finally, I hope that every family who has experienced parting pains can rebuild their lives; I wish every "we" will be born towards the sun.
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