3 years ago, my senior sister worked hard in Shanghai for many years and after she had some savings, she decided to immigrate to the United States with her husband and children.
She and her lover lived in the United States for three months. After all the preparations for immigration were completed, she and her lover gave up their plans to immigrate to the United States at the same time, and finally went to Toronto in Canada to settle down, which surprised me a little.
2 years ago, my senior sister sighed on the phone, "If you want to make money, we should have more opportunities in our country, which is easier."
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0 Senior sister was admitted to Zhengda in 1997. My understanding of her is also dramatic.
The calculus teacher in the first year of the year is surnamed Yuan. The dialect of the lecture is too strong, so it is difficult for me to understand what he is talking about, so I simply stopped listening to the lecture. Because I did all math in high school by myself, I didn’t feel particularly nervous if I didn’t take calculus classes for a semester.
A week before the exam, in the large classroom of our Public Administration Institute, I opened the calculus textbook and read dozens of pages, but it was stuck.
I immediately found two classmates around me for advice, but they couldn't understand it either. I turned around and saw a quiet little girl sitting in the seat behind me, burying her head to do the question.
I knocked on the desktop in front of her, "Classmate, ask you questions."
She was disturbed by me, but she was not angry. She looked at me with a smile, took my textbook, read the question, and immediately opened a blank piece of paper, and explained the question to me clearly.
Her calmness and confidence made me, a madman who claims to be a math genius, amazed.
"Which class are you from? Why don't I know you?" I asked her.
"I am your senior sister, from the 97th grade of business school." She replied with a smile.
"Are you at level 97?" I looked at her childish little fat face and asked her even more shocked. I was incredibly - I am at level 99, she looks two or three years younger than me, how could she be a senior sister at level 97?
"Haha." She chuckled, ignored me anymore, and lowered her head to read and do the questions.
I am a man of a crazy and arrogant person, but when I see a master with real skills, I will have the obsession of making friends with sincerity.
I immediately knocked on the table in front of her again, "Senior Sister, you are so awesome! We are about to take the exam, and I have only read one-sixth of the calculus textbook. Can you leave me a phone number? I have encountered calculus questions I don't understand these days, so I will call you in your dormitory to find you?"
It was the end of 1999. We didn't have a mobile phone or a pager. The contact between our classmates depends on the dormitory phone number. Three days before the
Calculus test, I had not finished reading more than half of the textbooks, so I stayed in the Evergreen Lantern Classroom in the Octagonal Building for two nights.
At around 3 a.m. when I was taking the calculus, I encountered an exercise question that I couldn’t solve after the textbook, so I put it there, set an alarm clock at 6 a.m., and continued to look back until I finished reading a book.
The alarm clock at six o'clock rang, and I immediately found a public phone, called my senior sister's dormitory, and found her, "Senior sister, Jianghu emergency! I took the calculus exam this morning, and I couldn't solve the problem!! I'm waiting for you in the eternal light classroom in the southeast corner of the octagonal building!"
Senior sister put down the phone in a daze, rushed to the classroom at around six o'clock, read the question again, picked up the pen and paper, and explained it to me - in the entire calculus textbook, this guy answered the last question that stumped me, just like I answered 1+1, which was as arrogant and confident as I answered.
The Calculus Examination for Freshman Years, I, a person who has never listened to the class, actually got the best score in the school, which shocked our calculus teacher. Teacher Yuan specially found me and asked, "Who did you copy?"
I haven't answered him yet, but he shook his head and said to himself, "That's right. If you copy someone else, you must have a tie for the first place."
Many students say that I am a math genius and don't study mathematics much. I took the first place in the department in the freshman year of calculus, and almost got the full score in math statistics in the sophomore year.However, I know very well that if my senior sister, a genius, had it been impossible for me to quit such a thick calculus textbook within a few days without my senior sister tutoring me during my self-study process.
From then on, I became my senior sister’s little fan.
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Among all disciplines, my favorite subject is mathematics, the second is philosophy, and the third is history.
The subject that I am most proud of and has always supported my confidence in studying is mathematics - from junior high school to high school, from high school to college, all my mathematics is self-study.
I once joked that mathematics is my stimulant and English is my sweating drug.
Mathematics was difficult in high school. The math teacher taught two weeks of class. I spent two hours reading the textbook and doing the most difficult after-class exercises, so I could integrate all my knowledge.
At that time, I set a very funny rule for myself: no matter what class, I would read the math textbook when I was sleepy, because I became excited when I read the math textbook. The more I learned, the more I became more energetic, and I immediately stopped drowsy. When I am in the best spirit, I learn English because I hate this subject the most. I will have a headache after learning it for a while and I will get sleepy and . I will not be able to learn English even more when I am sleepy.
Some of my classmates have better math grades than mine, but the math problems they have done are at least 10 times that of mine. When it comes to their talent in learning mathematics and their love for mathematics, I have never met anyone who convinced me.
The appearance of my senior sister made me realize that learning mathematics is because there is a heaven beyond heaven and a sister beyond human beings.
I told my senior sister the first grade in the college that I had taken the calculus score and said that this time she was shocked - she knew very well that I only spent those few days studying calculus.
"If you are in our department, no matter how good my calculus points are, I can only get second place." I told the truth.
"It's different, okay? You play every day, and you just finished learning a calculus for a few days before the exam. I am studying every day. If I am not as good as you, will there be any reason?" the senior sister sighed.
This is the truth. I like to read history, philosophy, celebrity biographies, and then play, do some small business of reselling phone cards and pirated books. I don’t like rote memorization at all. The senior sister is a very smart and diligent person who is studying at all times except for eating and resting.
Naturally, my senior sister was admitted to the public-funded graduate student of Zhengzhou University and continued to study in the business school.
Although the senior sister looks soft and weak, she is very strong inside and has a strong opinion on her work.
After graduating from graduate school, my senior sister went to Shanghai to work, and we were disconnected for nearly a year. Before I graduated, when I went to Shanghai to find my old classmates, I found my senior sister’s graduate supervisor and asked for her contact information in Shanghai and visited her.
That was the second year that my senior sister had started working, and it might be the time when she was under the greatest pressure in life and work. When I saw her, I was shocked, but I tried my best not to show it: in just one year, that confident, sunny and energetic senior sister had been imprinted with fatigue and haggardness between her eyebrows by the fast-paced and high-intensity pressure in Shanghai.
She generously invited me to a big meal and asked me what I planned after graduation. I said I had signed a contract with a teacher at a high school in a county town. She asked me in surprise, "Which county can keep you? Why don't you come to Shanghai with such a personality?"
"You have been in Shanghai for more than a year, how do you feel?" I asked her, she will always be my senior sister, and everything is ahead of me, which makes me encounter problems and has an additional partner to ask for advice.
"I am not familiar with the place and I am really tired at the beginning." The senior sister smiled and sighed, "There are too many places to pay! At the end of the month, those who are urging to pay gas fees, water fees, and rents, either call and text messages or post the order on the door. If you pay one day later, you may be cut off from water and electricity and drive to the street."
"I can't bear it anymore, so go back to Zhengzhou. The environment is familiar, there are many classmates and friends, and your teachers will definitely be willing to help you, so you don't have to live so tired." I advise her.
"Haha, I won't go back again after I come out."The senior sister raised her head, "The pressure is high, and she can learn a lot. This company is one of the top 500 in the world and has a relatively high starting point. "
" Senior sister is senior sister, she will always be so strong inside. "I sincerely admire.
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After we parted in Shanghai, we had more than ten years, and we had not seen each other again, so we slowly broke off contact.
In 2017, my two partners and I registered Degu Huisheng (Shanghai) Enterprise Management Center in Shanghai and started to do equity investment. I remembered that my senior sister worked in the top three management consulting companies in the world for so many years, and she would definitely give me many valuable guidance on my management consulting and project investment business. So I once again contacted her by
13 and had not contacted her for nearly 10 years. After I called her, there was no greeting or politeness. I happily reported my name and said straight to the point, "Senior sister, I'm in Shanghai. I have something to ask you for advice. "
" Hehe," 13 years later, her silver bell-like laughter did not change at all, "Tomorrow at noon, we will add WeChat, I will send you the positioning, you come to Lujiazui , I will treat you to dinner. "
" No, I'll treat you this time. "I felt happy and moved in my heart.
I remembered again in the classroom at Zhengzhou University in 1999. I turned around and saw a girl I didn't know, but arrogantly knocked on the desk in front of her, "Classmate, ask you questions." "
I also remembered the childish girl in the classroom of Zheng University in 1999. She smiled and said to me, "I am your senior sister, from a 97-level business school. "
And the phone call at 6 a.m. The difficult question that my senior sister answered for me actually appeared in the Calculus test paper of that day...
Everyone will meet many people in their life, but it will always be left in memory. It is always a few that touches us when I think of it.
is the few of these few.
is the meeting that time, and the senior sister told me that she is going to leave Shanghai again.
"I have discussed with your brother-in-law. I will finish the matter at hand this year, and I will take my children with my family to immigrate to the United States next year to see a different world. "Senior sister is still the proud senior sister, her eyes always staring at the unknown, and she always likes to challenge herself.
"I envy you. I originally planned to see all the places I want to go in China before I was 30, and then start a business for ten years, and when I was 40, I would turn around the world where I want to go. "I sighed sincerely, "But I am 38 years old this year and have never been abroad yet. "
" It's okay, when you want to go abroad, I have friends in the United States, Australia, and Canada, and my senior sister will recommend you. "The senior sister said proudly.
A year later, the senior sister really left Shanghai and went abroad to experience a new life with her family - sighing for her.
Some time ago, I contacted the senior sister again and asked about her situation abroad, "Everyone has their own good. However, if you really want to start a business, it is better to make money in China. "
" That's it. Xue Manzi Relying on his Chinese father's identity and resources, he became a US citizen after making money in China, but he still returned to China to invest and make money in virtual currency. Duan Yongping made a lot of money in China. After becoming a US citizen, he continued to make BBK and oppo make money in China under the name of a national brand, and also supported Huang Zheng to build Pinduoduo in China to make more money. Zhang Tielin became a British nationality in 1998, Liu Yifei got an American nationality, and Siqin Gaowa , Gong Li , Nicholas Tse , etc., all of them have added foreign nationality, but without exception, they all returned to China to make money. Since they have become foreign nationality, why don’t they start businesses and invest in foreign countries? Because China has the largest market, the most opportunities, the most suitable for entrepreneurship and more opportunities to make money. "I said these data in one breath, hoping that she can return to China to develop.
" Hehe, since I have come here, I must gain a foothold here. Besides, when I go back, I will be retired. "The senior sister's words were very calm, but they were still so powerful.
attached: After writing this article, I sent the original manuscript to my senior sister. She made some suggestions for revisions before the current manuscript was completed.
The reason why I wrote this article was a friend who had achieved certain success. When complaining about the domestic entrepreneurial environment, I complained that the country was not as good as abroad. I asked him back: Have you been abroad? Many people have immigrated abroad, such as Xue Manzi, Pan Shiyi, , Sun Hongbin, , Duan Yongping, Chen Hong , Gong Li, after changing nationality, they all went back to China to start a business. If you have a brain, you should figure out what's going on!
This reminds me of the senior sister who immigrated abroad some time ago, "If you want to make money, you still have more opportunities in China if you want to start a business." So I created this article.
After many people have successfully started their own businesses in China, they have money and capital, and they no longer want to accept the supervision of Chinese laws and allow themselves to seek more freedom and rights than ordinary Chinese people. This is understandable - but if they deliberately criticize China, criticize us for giving birth to us and raising our motherland, and criticize all the rules of the game in China, that is, forget their roots and forget their ancestors.
This is like our generation of children from the countryside. Because of the hard work of farmers' parents, they went to college and gained a foothold in the city. When they saw some bad habits in their parents, they could criticize them and expected them to correct them. But because they could not correct these bad habits, we would not support them. We would strongly criticize them and even be enemies with them. This is to find excuses and steps for our unfilial piety. This is to be ungrateful and forget our ancestors. This is to not want to repay their parents and motherland, we should first find a safe step for our betrayal and unfilial piety by smearing their parents and smearing their parents. This is to find a safe step for our betrayal and to fool the world on the surface! ! ! I have to slam them, despise them, expose them!
Don’t ignore your conscience, and want to deceive the world and steal reputation, and pretend to be a public intellectual with a high profile! ! I'm gonna be! ! ! (It is definitely not for the senior sister. She is a very wise and rational person. As she said, each has its own good, but the one with the most entrepreneurial opportunities is China, and the one that talks the most humane is China. I think this is the perception that a normal person should have. He can not only see the good of China, but also see the good of Canada. He cannot immediately feel ashamed of himself just because he sees the good side of foreign countries, and immediately feel ashamed of himself. He wants to kneel down and lick Western civilization. He also despise everything from his ancestors and step on his feet to show the purity of kneeling to the West!)
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