In March 2011, in the imaging department of a hospital in Singapore, Zhang Qingxiang endured the pain behind him and ran out.
The doctor's words echoed in his ears for a long time, and the joy of coming and the shock of leaving formed a sharp contrast.
Zhang Qingxiang
Zhang Qingxiang is also a doctor, a famous local medical beauty doctor in Singapore.
"A billion yuan worth", "young and promising", "successful career" and other words have always been the evaluation of him.
Originally, he thought that he had both "talent" and "wealth", and was a real winner in life.
But what I didn’t expect was that a little physical problem some time ago would “break” all of this.
Zhang Qingxiang recalled everything in the past and finally could only sigh hatefully.
"I am the most typical product in today's society."
What happened to Zhang Qingxiang in the hospital, and why did he feel so emotional?
What kind of story does his past have and what ending will it have?
families have no way to get money. As the saying goes, money is not omnipotent, but it is absolutely impossible to have money without money.
This sentence has been regarded as a famous saying by many people since ancient times.
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Today’s story truly confirms the relationship between "money" and "universal power".
Zhang Qingxiang is from Singapore and was born in a relatively poor family in 1972.
In this family, "money" is basically a luxury.
My parents have always adhered to the frugal way and principles of life, and have also used this principle to teach Zhang Qingxiang.
However, compared to the frugality that parents have become accustomed to, Zhang Qingxiang seems particularly special.
He has a strong sense of self-esteem, and "poverty" in his heart makes people feel sad and pitiful.
Zhang Qingxiang saw his classmates wearing clean and tidy clothes, but he was a shabby dress that was not suitable.
He felt deeply unfair and even felt that his classmates targeted him because of this.
When I was young, I had already made a vow in my heart to get rid of poverty.
In Zhang Qingxiang's eyes, the biggest difference between the poor and the rich is the "dignity" exchanged for "money".
Singapore student
In order to gain this "dignity", Zhang Qingxiang devoted all his energy and effort to his studies.
The honest and simple parents do not have the "motivation" of their son. In their opinion, eating and clothing is the greatest pursuit.
Zhang Qingxiang did not have any hope for his parents. He knew that his parents had low education and had no education.
. He realized the importance of learning since he was a child. He read a lot of books and learned a wide range of knowledge.
In his opinion, people with low education can only do some basic physical work to support their families.
His parents are typical examples, so he put all his "hope" on himself.
It is easy for parents to satisfy themselves, but they are not. If you want to live a life that is more generous than your classmates, you must make greater efforts.
Zhang Qingxiang’s “depression” is not groundless, all this has to be discussed from a simple matter.
One day, a classmate saw Zhang Qingxiang’s shoes break and started joking.
"Autumn is so cold, why do you still wear sandals?"
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classmate said to him while pointing at his shoes.
The embarrassing feeling instantly swept across Zhang Qingxiang's body. He looked at his classmates incredibly, but couldn't say a word.
Some of the classmates around were laughing, some were discussing something, and the whispering voices came from all directions.
These scenes fell in Zhang Qingxiang's eyes, and he felt that his classmates were full of malicious intentions towards him.
The young Zhang Qingxiang didn't say anything. He hid this feeling deep in his heart, as if he had other preparations.
cannot compare with students in terms of conditions, so let’s make yourself stronger in other aspects.
Zhang Qingxiang studied harder, and he spent almost all his time studying.
While other classmates were having fun during class breaks, Zhang Qingxiang carefully reviewed his homework in his seat.
When other students came home from school, Zhang Qingxiang took the textbook and papers and asked the teacher questions seriously.
When other students were already asleep, Zhang Qingxiang lit a kerosene lamp to recite the knowledge points. The score of
was improved very quickly, and Zhang Qingxiang used the simplest and fastest method to push himself to another level.
Singapore in the 1980s
Hard work, hard work and diligence are just one aspect, and Zhang Qingxiang still has a rare intelligence.
Not only does he work hard in his studies, he also needs to be an excellent person with "morality, intelligence, physical fitness and aesthetics".
and also work hard in socializing, using their own learning advantages to help students solve difficult questions and also help them accumulate connections.
In order to achieve "class leap", Zhang Qingxiang did his best to achieve the greatest benefits in the face of shortage of educational resources.
From elementary school to middle school to university, Zhang Qingxiang has been striving to move forward.
has little wealth and cannot get into business to achieve
All over the world, "doctors" seem to be a respected profession.
Singapore is the same. If you become a doctor, it will be equivalent to gaining a "social status" that makes people like it.
Singapore hospitals
And the income of doctors is not low. In addition to being respected, this is another profession with bright prospects.
When I was in college, Zhang Qingxiang decisively chose to move towards the direction of "doctor".
As we all know, medical students' courses are very heavy, and it can even be said that learning is very painful, but Zhang Qingxiang has not been afraid of hardship since childhood.
He worked hard to "read books" and firmly walked on the path he chose.
Being a doctor is no longer about "making money". Sometimes Zhang Qingxiang feels that he has a heavy responsibility on his shoulders.
God will not let down every effort, and Zhang Qingxiang's efforts have finally gained fruit. When
graduated, Zhang Qingxiang successfully became an ophthalmologist during his internship.
and came to a good public hospital and became colleagues with many professors in the medical field.
Zhang Qingxiang has a strong learning ability and is humble in asking for advice. Everyone can see his strength.
Evaluating a doctor's strength naturally depends on his achievements and experience.
Zhang Qingxiang
Medical knowledge is not achieved overnight, but is the accumulation and application of professional knowledge day after day.
Zhang Qingxiang is undoubtedly a good seedling. Many professors like him very much and are willing to give him what they have learned.
Everything is developing in the best direction, and Zhang Qingxiang is not far from his dream.
But he also knew very well that "stability" and "decent" are only one aspect, and earning more money is the actual idea.
It will take many years to go to become a professor-level doctor. Such a waiting is long and painful.
Some of the "small news" of colleagues around him gradually made Zhang Qingxiang lose his heart.
The salary of public hospitals is relatively low compared to other private hospitals , and many interns choose to leave after the internship period.
Some of them went to private hospitals with higher wages, or other places to go.
And one of the choices that made everyone feel disturbed is the popular "medical beauty" hospital.
"Medical Beauty" and "plastic surgery" projects are no longer just standard activities for the rich, but are also welcomed by more people.
A medical beauty hospital in Singapore
And such a hospital has amazing profits. At first, Zhang Qingxiang couldn't believe that people were so willing to spend money on "plastic surgery".
He saw a strange phenomenon. Many people think that seeing a doctor in public hospitals is expensive, but they spend more money on "medical beauty" hospitals.
"Pursuit of personality and perfection."——It is the trend of the times, and everyone is desperately chasing this "trend".
Zhang Qingxiang watched many classmates enter such hospitals and get generous rewards.
He gradually felt a little anxious and felt that he had chosen the wrong direction.
Although public hospitals are an enviable "door", they still seem to be worse than the high salary of medical beauty hospitals.
Zhang Qingxiang will not classify himself as an "idealist", he knows that he has always been a pragmatic person.
"I am a vulgar person, and making money will bring me more happiness and sense of accomplishment. "
Medical beauty customers were communicating with
Zhang Qingxiang chose to leave. Faced with the old professor's retention, he refused decisively.
In Singapore, it is also a high threshold to become a "medical beauty" doctor.
has to go through numerous exams and finally get a license and certificate to be qualified to enter a medical beauty hospital.
Because of many medical equipment, only a licensed medical beauty doctor can have the right to use it.
Zhang Qingxiang successfully passed the exam and had a qualification license, and he officially became a "medical beauty" doctor.
Singapore's medical beauty market is much larger than Zhang Qingxiang imagined, and there are almost endless customers every day.
Medical beauty projects are not only the world of women, but the male group has almost broken through the door of the hospital.
The local ultraviolet rays are relatively strong, so many people will have dark spots on their faces.
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Some men are doing medical beauty projects to eliminate dark spots. Such a simple medical beauty surgery has brought Zhang Qingxiang a lot of commission.
"mechanized" medical beauty surgery, the "flowing water" high commission, made Zhang Qingxiang's heart begin to become impetuous.
03 Vanity, no way to be honest in the past
Zhang Qingxiang gradually forgot that he was a professional ophthalmologist, and gradually forgot the "utopia" he yearned for when studying medicine.
People are lazy and can easily get lost in some desires. Later, Zhang Qingxiang thought about it and he was already deeply involved in it at that time.
The doctor who treats and saves patients only gets a thank you from the patient and a salary that can make life well.
And the medical beauty doctor will make people gain a wonderful The sense of accomplishment is the recognition and care of the rich.
A feeling of being exposed to the glory of the upper class society comes naturally, not to mention the wealth that flows like flowing water.
Singapore commercial mansion
Social respect for the rich brings more sense of "nobleness", which is something that Zhang Qingxiang cannot understand.
"It is not uncommon for 'money' to buy 'nobleness'. "
Zhang Qingxiang's desire to make money is getting heavier and he works hard.
His surgical skills are superb, and customers who pass by him can get results that satisfy themselves.
Zhang Qingxiang knows that medical beauty doctors and psychologists are actually similar, and they both need to save patients or customers' "mental illnesses".
Many customers are dissatisfied with their appearance, and the doctor's good aesthetic will bring more pleasure to customers.
Zhang Qingxiang began to read some fashion magazines that he had never read before, in order to improve his aesthetic standards.
Compared with other doctors' standard "big eyes and face slimming", Zhang Qingxiang makes it more attractive according to the characteristics of the customer. .
No industry can cover up a kind of human brilliance, that is, a talented and hardworking person.
No surprise, Zhang Qingxiang is such a person.
He even thinks about the psychology of customers, and of course customers who pursue nature and trends should be treated differently.
Singaporean people
Zhang Qingxiang grasps this degree and talks with customers, and even understands the life experience and social experience of customers.
Even if it is just a small double eyelid surgery, Zhang Qingxiang will take it seriously.
He will ask customers carefully about their thoughts, let customers open their hearts and express their original intention and purpose of the operation.
Zhang Qingxiang finally made the most satisfactory plan based on the customer's preferences and his own ideas.
There is a junior high school girl who came to Zhang Qingxiang for double eyelid surgery.
Zhang Qingxiang was surprised and felt that the girl was too young and there were no major flaws on her tender face. Why did she do it so early?
After inquiry, I learned that the girl’s friend is very beautiful, and she has been compared with her friends by others.
Others always say that friends are beautiful, and girls are the "ugly duckling" that sets off their friends.
This caused great harm to the girl's heart, so she wanted to change herself.
After Zhang Qingxiang got to know her, he did not perform surgery on the girl, but instead enlightened her carefully.
Singapore Management University
and told her that if she really can't accept herself, she will do a beautiful job for her after graduating from high school. There are many examples of
. Some people think that Zhang Qingxiang drove away his clients, whom did the surgery on?
, but only he himself knows, this is precisely because he has brought him loyal customers.
A few years later, the girl came for surgery and named Zhang Qingxiang.
When a person already has talent and hard work and has a little more cleverness, he is destined to be not far from success.
Soon, Zhang Qingxiang became a well-known doctor in the hospital, and many customers would call him to take the surgery.
Zhang Qingxiang is becoming more and more famous and rich. He bought a house and a car and lived the life he yearned for.
The sweet desire is like wheat straw stained with Mars. Once you taste the sweetness, it will be difficult to end.
Zhang Qingxiang met more celebrities and rich people, and he was invited to attend various parties.
Singaporean star Fan Wenfang
has made more friends with rich people. Resources come like "money is throwing money". He realized that this is the life he wants.
His value is getting higher and higher, and he quickly changed into a luxury house and a sports car.
Zhang Qingxiang has less and less time to undergo surgery, but more and more time to communicate.
He is no longer a doctor. He opened his own medical beauty plastic surgery hospital, and later opened a branch in Indonesia .
When Zhang Qingxiang was a celebrity worth billions, did he get what he wanted?
symptoms are urgent, and there is no way to cause medicine to treat
Life did not proceed as Zhang Qingxiang thought, and the changes came in a hurry and panic.
When he ignored his family, for his career, forgot his ideals, and indulged in money, the "heavy punch" of life came.
In March 2011, Zhang Qingxiang felt a sudden sting on his back, and it lasted for a long time.
A hospital in Singapore
He himself is a doctor and knows in his heart that there may be something wrong.
But he has always paid great attention to maintenance and works out normally. He thinks his physical fitness is pretty good.
Zhang Qingxiang delayed the physical examination time again and again. He felt that he might be a lumbar disc problem that had been sitting for a long time.
can be checked and silent Zhang Qingxiang. His bone marrow has metabolic problems and his back is full of cancer cells.
And the cancer cells spread very quickly, and their lungs have been eroded, which is the result of advanced lung cancer.
Zhang Qingxiang looked at the result in disbelief, and the doctor talked about his condition next to him.
Compared with other patients' panic, Zhang Qingxiang was undoubtedly shocked. He knew that it was useless to study medicine.
"In this case, how much time can I leave for me?"
"Conservatively estimated that there will be six months."
Doctor looked at Zhang Qingxiang, who was once full of energy and told him carefully about the result.
Zhang Qingxiang felt that he was going to collapse. He didn't understand why cancer came to him.
But no matter how much you say, it is useless. The most important thing is treatment.
Zhang Qingxiang told the doctor that he wanted the best medicine, even if he prolonged his life, it would be good.
Yes, at this time, no matter how much money you have, it is not as important as your life.
"There are no people, and the money is not spent."The comedy staged in the sketches often reflect the biggest tragedy in life.
sketch "No short of money"
Zhang Qingxiang's family has cancer, but no one has achieved such success as him.
He thinks that God is teasing himself, otherwise why would he make such a joke on himself?
"A billion yuan" cannot buy his life, and "honor, fame and fortune" cannot reduce his pain.
Long-term neglect of the family, his wife didn't care much about him, and after being shocked, she just told him to have a good rest.
And those friends, after learning about it, just sighed that things were unpredictable, Zhang Qingxiang only felt that they were watching their own jokes.
He tried hard to stop all this, but found that he had no other support except embracing "money".
He had long-term habits of drinking, socializing, smoking, etc., which could not be made up for by many fitness.
He could only accept these facts and actively listen to the doctor.
He could only accept these facts and actively listen to the doctor.
He had long-term habits of drinking, socializing, smoking, etc., which could not be made up for.
He could only accept these facts and actively listen to the doctor.
He had long-term habits of drinking, socializing, smoking, etc., which could not be made up for by many fitness.
He could only accept these facts and actively listen to the doctor. Arrangement for treatment.
thoroughly realized, and there is no way to regret it.
The late night Zhang Qingxiang was the most painful, but he was lying on the bed and felt full of regret.
lung cancer picture
I am only thirty-nine years old, and my life is in my prime, but God wants to take back all this.
obviously got it through my own efforts, why is God so unfair?
If I am in the early or middle stage of lung cancer, then relying on my own wealth and the possibility of curing The sex is very big.
but he is in the late stage, which means that God directly cuts off his path.
These are things he can't figure out, he can only cherish his life for six months.
The treatment process is painful. Zhang Qingxiang initially used brain electrotherapy, which are all for later chemotherapy.
but the subsequent treatment made Zhang Qingxiang feel broken, and the doctor wants to give him chemotherapy drugs.
The biggest side effect of this drug is that the mandible bone will be necrotic and chemotherapy will kill Cancer cells can also kill healthy cells.
These are inevitable, so Zhang Qingxiang needs to remove all his wisdom teeth .
Zhang Qingxiang was a little broken at first. He did not think that he would become so "no man or ghost" one day.
This is not the life he wants, this is not the real self, he does not accept such a self.
Hospital
He begged the doctor in pain and asked for a better way.
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But the doctor could only helplessly tell him the truth again and again, and try to let Zhang Qingxiang accept these things.
Zhang Qingxiang felt that God should not torture him like this. He stared at the ceiling while lying on the hospital bed.
The good news came unexpectedly. Zhang Qingxiang did not have wisdom teeth. He no longer had to experience the pain of tooth extraction.
Zhang Qingxiang felt the joy that he had not experienced for a long time, and a trace of sweetness surged into his heart.
Maybe he prayed to heaven many times, and soon, the greater good news came.
Zhang 0 Qingxiang is an extremely rare EGFR-positive patient, which shows that he can do without pain.
only needs to take specific drugs orally every day to control the growth and expansion of cancer cells.
This news made Zhang Qingxiang feel a little free. After all, he will not be bound by the hospital bed in the last six months.
If he can breathe the air in the last six months, it will undoubtedly be the best result.
Zhang Qingxiang wants to do something meaningful, and he seriously reviewed his first half of his life.
found that I seem to have been working hard to make money, but I have never enjoyed my life well.
The meaning of my first half of my life seems to be attributed to the accumulation of wealth, but now these wealth cannot buy back life and happiness.
Zhang Qingxiang began to give a speech, telling his experience to everyone, and using his own story to make people feel something.
It turns out that "money" is really not "omnipotent" and is no longer the "only" in Zhang Qingxiang's heart.
A year later, Zhang Qingxiang passed away, but in the last year of his life, it was the most meaningful time he thought.
Zhang Qingxiang
The tags "benefits from billions", "young and promising", and "successful career" are no longer his yearning in the end.
Because these tags are both his aura and later become his shackles.
Zhang Qingxiang used his last time to tell people that health is the most basic existence and meaning of life.
Only with a healthy body can you experience every wonder in your life. What do you think?
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