However, friends who have watched the 1993 version of "Bao Qingtian" will definitely not be unfamiliar with this popular Taiwanese female star. She once created many images of pure jade girls on the screen, and she was very popular back then.

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Di Ying The name may feel a little unfamiliar with it.

But friends who have watched the 1993 version of "Bao Qingtian" will definitely not be unfamiliar with this popular Taiwanese female star.

She once created many images of pure jade girls on the screen, and she was very popular back then.

Pure little junior sister

She later married actor Sun Peng, and the two gave birth to a son, which was very pampered.

She once talked about her parenting lessons on the show, which surprised everyone.

Di Ying said that she is a darling madman and is extremely spoiled by her son Sun Anzuo . never educates or scolds her. Even if she makes a mistake, she will silently follow her and "wipe her butt".

Diying social platform screenshot

Mother and son are like a pair of "conjoined babies", sticking together every day. So much so that Sun Anzuo's dependence on his mother is much greater than that of other normal children.

Usually children are weaned at the age of one or two. In this highly dependent environment, Sun Anzuo was not weaned until he was 12 years old.

When talking about these in the show, Di Ying looked complacent and proud.

They have participated in couple kissing competitions, and even when their son was in his teenage years, he would bite his mother's butt.

This mother and son "love each other and die." In the eyes of outsiders, they are not like mother and son, but more like lovers.

Di Ying and her son are very close

Di Ying also said that she also relied on her son very much and slept in the same bed for 15 years, and asked her son to touch her chest to sleep.

It was not until her son had a physiological reaction when he slept with her that she realized that the child had grown up and it was time to divide the room.

Son praises mother's breasts Q-split

Sun Anzuo, who grew up in such a "perverted" spoiled spoiled, developed an arrogant and arrogant personality as expected.

As an adult, Sun Anzuo went to the United States to study. As a military fan, he bought a lot of guns and ammunition. Once he told his friend that he was going to attack the school and told his friend not to go to school, so as not to be injured by accident. My friend was so scared that he called the police immediately.

Media reports

Soon, the police arrested Sun Anzuo's dormitory and found more than 1,600 bullets, including 425 AK-47 bullets, 295 AR-15 bullets, as well as a 9-centimeter pistol and several bulletproof vests.

Faced with such a huge amount of ammunition, the local police also exclaimed: I have never seen it in the past 54 years since I was a police officer.

Fortunately, the police caught him in advance and could not imagine how many innocent people would die if it really exploded.

The media was in an uproar at that time. Isn’t this the consequence of excessive spoiling! But what’s funny is that after this incident came out, Di Ying and her husband publicly stated that

"Our child is still young and just talks about playing. The whole family knows about buying bullets."

Di Ying completely ignored the incident in the interview

has prepared a large number of guns and ammunition. Such a big thing can be just a fun thing? Di Ying and his wife not only knew about it, but also did not stop it!

Can Di Ying's parents think it's a big deal only when someone dies...?

When he learned that his son was in prison, Di Ying traveled back and forth between the United States many times to spend money to save his son, but he also had a lot of relationships, but in the end he was futile.

In this way, Di Ying became a mother who "personally" sent her son to prison .

When I first heard about this kind of thing, my reaction was the same as everyone else. was shocked and surprised.

There should be love, intimacy, and no sense of distance between mother and son. This should be an enviable thing.

However, Di Ying's intimacy with her son, which can only be described as "perverted".

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In October 2018, a scene that happened on a high-speed rail caused heated discussion and anger among netizens.

In full view of everyone, a father kissed his daughter like a devil.

Even though the girl covered her mouth with her hands in resistance, her father's movements did not stop.

My daughter covered her mouth unwillingly

Regardless of everyone's strange eyes, he lifted up his daughter's clothes, kept kissing and touching. He even put his hand into his daughter's pants.

The little girl repeatedly begged: "Dad, I feel pain, don't touch my ass again..."

Obviously, this father's intimate behavior has been not the first time.

Father's actions are slutty

This scene makes everyone look really dazzling and uncomfortable.

It is understandable that a father loves his daughter as his life, but as his daughter grows up, there must be a bottom line for physical contact. It is obvious that my daughter does not like this intimacy, and even rejects and resists it.

The intimacy between father and daughter does not constitute an illegal act, but the father's behavior not only cannot make the child feel love, but will instead have an indelible psychological shadow on her future life.

Children are also human beings, they are independent individuals who need care, love, and even more respect.

We always say "Men is too lucky to avoid mothers, and women are too lucky to avoid fathers."

Because young children have already become aware of gender since they were 3 years old. They will observe with their eyes and recognize the difference between their parents and themselves.

Even for relatives, you should grasp the standard and measure of expressing love.

Once upon a time, the remarks of Zhu Yuchen's mother in the program " My Boy " made people feel Zhu's unclean control and suffocating "crazy" love through the screen.

Zhu Yuchen's mother is 72 years old. In order not to let her son cook, she followed her son to the crew with her things on her back. She would go wherever her son was filming;

Because she didn't want to see her son be beaten, she would not allow Zhu Yuchen to take on costume dramas and martial arts scenes;

is afraid that her son will get angry, so she has been squeezing juice for her son for decades, and get up at 4 a.m. every day, she knows every relationship between Zhu Yuchen, and will also interfere.

Zhu's mother interferes with her feelings

"Men and women have different divisions of labor, so women should be good wives and mothers"; "I love my son with my whole life!" "I have no self at all..., my position at home is that I am the two Filipino maids."

, Zhu Yuchen, who was "porn" with his self-dedication

, cried bitterly under the absolute care of his mother.

He said: My pressure is too great, also shouted to my mother, "You will kill me like this!"

Zhu in pain

, who was controlled by his mother for 40 years, had thought of escaping from his mother's control. He ran from Shanghai to Beijing to study, and after graduation, he chose to stay in Beijing.

But, my mother always uses a bitter trick: when she goes home, he finds that her mother is always crying "Why am I so unpromising, my son just leaves me like this" , and he will compromise every time.

Mom's uninterrupted love has become a shackle that he cannot escape.

Too many parents, like Zhu Ma, lose themselves, cannot distinguish the boundaries of love, and regard their children as the only meaning in their lives. I always mistakenly take the efforts of controlling desire as love itself.

Just like Di Ying, although she no longer sleeps together, she wants to "caring for" her son from other aspects.

She created a high-pressure and closed growth environment for her son Sun Anzuo-

Don't allow him to act alone, keep a close eye on food, clothing, housing and transportation at any time, and if he contacts the teacher, he will cut off his son and other classmates' classes and go to...

Sun Anzuo's life seems to be like a "little emperor", but in fact there are hidden dangers.

Due to the long-term lack of contact with the outside world, Sun Anzuo will inevitably do everything that is out of place and unaware of it.

Previously, Sun Anzuo shared many violent videos online, and even made homemade flamethrowers, and had bad records of violent behavior in school.

(photo by Sun Anzuo on social networks)

Recalling the previous article, my father Sun Peng proposed that his son be an arms dealer, maybe Sun Anzuo's increasing depravity had a sign of his predecessor.

, and Di Ying chose to ignore it without principles.

Jung once said:

"The worst impact of parents on their children is to make their children feel that they don't have their own lives."

If parents do everything for their children, then where are they themselves? If parents can have no life for their own lives, then the child will think that they can also have no lives.

Gao Xiaosong said in " Strange Talk ": I am sad for my Chinese parents.

They do not have their own independent lives and their independent personalities.

Everything about them is built on the child.

Gao Xiaosong denounced Chinese parents as "not independent"

Why are some Chinese children so unindependent?

Because their parents are not independent.

Many parents, since they have children, have decided that "you are my whole world, and I must tie you up with you for the rest of my life." Parents like

cannot sincerely teach their children to be independent.

In the American education system, there is a famous "Twenty Code Rule". The literal meaning of the rule

is to require parents to keep at least "twenty yards" away from their children.

The deeper meaning of this rule is to advocate that parents do not have to revolve around their children at all times, but should cultivate their independence from an early age and allow their children to have their own initiative and decision-making power.

All love in the world is for reunion, but the love of parents is for separation.

American psychologist Scott Parker once said:

"Love that knows separation is true love. Parents must actively separate from their children in order to promote their children's personality growth and ultimately become a person with independent personality."

Separation does not mean severing relationships, but while giving love, they firmly tell their children that you are you and I am me.

In this way, the relationship is still close, but both parents and children can have a healthy selves.

In the process of children's growth, companionship is very important, but companionship also requires quality. It is not that the more time the better, nor is it that you have to give up your life to accompany them.

We are parents, but we are also independent people.

We are still young, in good health, and in a refreshing spirit. We still have the strength to compete with children who don’t like to do homework and don’t eat well. We should use a little bit of strength to learn to gradually separate from our children.

The child’s world needs you, but it cannot be all you. Your world needs him, but it cannot be all him.

Let us gradually fade out with love for our children as they grow up and become more decent and warm in his world.

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