□Chen Jianhua
It was the time to get the heat, and I returned to my hometown. Outdoors are hot and hot at over 40 degrees. In the air-conditioned ward, I quietly waited for my dying mother, hoping that her disfigured face would reappear and her soft and drooping hands would become stronger again.
Occasionally, reading the college entrance examination stories of our peers on their mobile phones, I can’t help but recall the college entrance examination path my mother accompanied us three brothers.
My mother has been suffering from amnesia for seven or eight years. When she was awake, when she talked about her three sons, she would often say to people with a proud look: 78, 79, 80, three college students in three years. The three brothers won three consecutive years, becoming the greatest comfort and pride of their mother in this life.
My mother was born in a family of scholars. Although she didn't read much, she was soaked in books and seemed to have a different temperament than ordinary people since childhood. After marrying my father, I learned to be a tailor and gave birth to three children in succession, from 1958 to 1962, an average of one in two years.
Although I live in the countryside, my mother seems very special. Her love of cleanliness is famous for cleaning. She cleans twice a day, the room is spotless and the red painted furniture is always clustered like new. She insists on changing her children's clothes every day. She is always the first to go to the creek marina to wash in the morning, and often knocks on the ice to wash in winter.
My father works in a rural supply and marketing cooperative and regards the store as his home all year round. The daily management and education of children mainly become the mother's responsibility. As a tailor, she personally sanitized the clothes of her three sons since she was born; when her sons went to school one by one, our new schoolbags were made by her.
Mom and Dad and Us (photo taken in 1964. The author is the former left).
Mother is as cautious as a hen protects a chick, but never be too cute or indulgent. I attach great importance to reading. As long as we are reading, she walks lightly. If my father brings friends to his house, he will never let their idle talk affect us.
Although the time of study coincided with the "Cultural Revolution", the three of us brothers ranked among the best in the class. What’s even more difficult is that despite the many obstacles, with the care and struggle of parents, all three children were able to complete their studies from elementary school to junior high school and high school. My brother used this process for 12 years, I was 10 years, and my brother was the shortest, only 9 years.
In the summer of 1977, when my younger brother graduated from a "capped high school" that was first in elementary school and then in junior high school, our family had three "educated youths returning home".
The difference between "going to the countryside" and "returning to the countryside" is that the former is that urban residents have registered their household registration in rural areas, while the latter is that "I am a rural person, and I go back to the countryside." The father is a resident household and the mother is an agricultural household. According to the policy, the children are all agricultural households.
I went to a district-run high school. The graduation souvenir was a straw hat issued by the school, with one for each person, and four big words were sprayed with red paint: "Ambition in the countryside" - Yes, at that time, he was determined to be in the countryside, and had no choice. This is also the destiny of our three brothers.
Who knew that in the summer of 1977 when my younger brother graduated from high school, a thunder thunder sounded: National has resumed the college entrance examination ! The news spread to the remote village where we are in as the radio wave synchronized, causing ripples in the hearts of many young people. God-given opportunity, you must not miss it! At that time, we were not too excited, but my mother happily and resolutely bombarded us, just like an old chicken who was knocking out of her nest: Go, register, and I will take the college entrance exam for me!
has almost no preparation, and I can't find any review books, let alone what will happen to the test questions. I took the exam. We also believe that luck is aroused.
However, the result was not achieved overnight. After the first exam in the county, my younger brother, who had been studying for the shortest years, was eliminated first; in the subsequent provincial unified examination, my elder brother and second brother were also unnamed.
Actually, this is not surprising. Back then, the Xuanping area of Wuyi, Wuyi, was within a radius of hundreds of miles and nearly a thousand candidates. There were very few candidates on the list. I heard that the only "Sun Shan" who was admitted to the undergraduate degree was a fresh graduate of Wuyi No. 2 Middle School.
77 College Entrance Examination became a collective trial for the three of us brothers. Although the jump rod has not passed, everyone has no regrets and is still happy, even if they fail the exam, they are not depressed.After the exam, the three brothers should do what they should do: the eldest brother is still his private teacher, the younger brother goes back to the commune pig farm to pick his stones, and I continue to be my grain custodian, drying grain, hoeing the fields, farming and mowing grass, and also going to school to teach on behalf of others.
Winter is gone and spring is coming, and in another half a year, the seven or eighth college entrance examination will be ushered in. Can't you still take the exam for
? Of course the test! The mother's attitude was unambiguous. The father quietly discussed with his mother and asked the children to lower their goals: both the eldest brother and the younger brother will change to apply for technical secondary school. At that time, many people thought that jumping out of the farming gate was success. Only I am born not afraid of farming and am very energetic. If I want to jump, I will jump into the dragon gate, and my goal is still to be college.
Facts have proved that I was right in my persistence - the second brothers of the three brothers were the first to qualify and passed the exam! The school is the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University, and is admitted to the first choice and first major. The title of the Golden List, get what you want!
recalls the 78th college entrance examination, and the process of the exam is easy and a little dreamy. In those six months, I was a substitute teacher in an elementary school. After teaching, I did not focus on reviewing and preparing for the exam. Because I suddenly became interested in the calculus questions that were added to the last year's test paper, I played calculus freely for several months.
Really focused review is about ten days before the exam. I couldn't leave, and I opened my mouth when I was having a meal. I focused on the yellow paper "College Entrance Examination Review Outline" published by the Ministry of Education, and then easily walked into the examination room. Although the college entrance examination was also a hot day that year, I slept very soundly for three consecutive nights.
I took the liberal arts subjects, but the total score of the five subjects was 337.3 points, which was not very good, but it was 57.3 points higher than the score line of that year. The good news that
is coming online was told by my brother to go to the mountains. That day it was my turn to be a forest ranger in the production team. The dusk was full of twilight and the peaks were solemn, and my brother's "little brother" and "little brother" were shouting very crisply.
Because I have had the experience of the Qiqi College Entrance Examination, I have no extravagant hopes in my heart. So I was very surprised to get the news of the online launch, and I was so happy that I was falling from the sky. Not only at home, but the entire mountain village seemed to be in full swing! Because, in our small mountain village with a hundred people, the highest education among our parents is junior high school. My father, who graduated from junior high school, said that from the generations to the next generation, the ninth generation is illiterate. And I will be the first college student in the history of this village.
My father killed a chicken that night and asked me to eat it quickly to replenish my body and participate in the physical examination. My mother, who was so heavy and decent, was even more idle. She happily burned hot water to let me bathe and wash my feet, and picked a new shirt, so that I could get up early the next day and go to the city for a physical examination. As for me, I was knocked out by a colorful ball that suddenly fell from the sky. Inexplicably excited, I couldn't sleep all night!
Good things want to be cut off. Suddenly I felt grateful to my mother and felt that she was so wise and great!
half a century later, the same frame photo (taken on New Year's Day 2017).
That was 1974. I graduated from junior high school and saw no hope of recommendation from high school. My mother took me to the head teacher Lei’s house in the dark and asked him to help. Teacher Lei admitted that I was the best student in the class and his favorite student, but I really couldn't help because "the right to recommend is in the brigade." In my family, my brother had already recommended him to high school for the first year. "It's good enough to be able to go to one of them," which was what the brigade cadres said.
When I returned home, under the dim light, my mother started to do my job and mobilized me to go back to junior high school to repeat the class, just like my brother back then, waiting for the chance next year.
I was a little stubborn by nature, and my tone was firm and a bit heroic answered my mother: I have expressed my determination on stage, "One red heart, two kinds of preparations", I want to do what I say.
It started from that summer vacation. At the age of 14, I participated in the labor force in the production team. The main content of the labor was to follow the women to pick cotton, and the labor was divided into two points a day.
However, my mother did not give up. High school is on the way. At that time, my mother worked as a tailor at the commune location. There was a lot of news in the tailor's shop. Based on the information she inquired, she finally caught an opportunity and the commune directly recommended to make up for the lack of a dropout classmate, so that I could sit in the high school classroom three weeks after the start of school.
I believe that if my mother had not been so persistent back then, if she had not been to high school for those two years, she would have probably not been in the future.
In a blink of an eye, it is the 79th and 9th college entrance examination. Maybe I was inspired by my qualifying and became a private teacher in junior high school, and I changed my course and applied for the university.Because he couldn't leave his post, he rode his bike to 15 miles when he had time and went to Wuyi No. 2 Middle School to "study classes". As a result of "free class", I was admitted to the civilian teacher class of Zhejiang Normal University and became a 7-year-old html teacher in mathematics at Middle School after graduation. To take advantage of it, my working years have been calculated continuously since I was a private teacher three years ago. Unlike me, the last time I had worked hard to write off the two years of " farming age ".
If we talk about the help of the mother to the eldest son, the most worth mentioning is that when the brother graduated from junior high school and was facing dropout, the mother actively tried to get him back to school. Finally, he went to high school the next year and also competed for the opportunity to come.
Big brother and second brother are all in college. In the blink of an eye, it is the summer of 1980, and it is my turn to sprint. After the eldest and second child, the mother placed all her hopes on her favorite young son.
In view of the fact that I graduated from "local high school", my brother's jumping rod has been put low. First, I was arranged to repeat the class in the third grade of junior high school, and then I went to the review class of the technical secondary school. My father even said to my younger brother very bluntly: As for you, as long as you can pass the technical secondary school entrance exam, I will thank you very much. If you fail the exam, it doesn't matter. I retire early, so you can respect the "sloppy class" of my supply and marketing cooperative.
Maybe the three words "sloppy class" hurt him deeply. After failing to take the secondary school entrance examination for two consecutive years, the younger brother said: Both brothers went to college, and he must take the college entrance examination.
To be fair, there was no difference between taking the college or taking the technical secondary school exam when I chose to take the exam, but it was all in the thought of applying for the exam. After a year of hard study in the high school class, in the summer of 1980, my younger brother was admitted to the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University in one fell swoop, and my younger brother became my junior brother.
My mother is very energetic and always wants her to be successful. I believe that my younger brother will change to college and take the college entrance exam best. In the year of high school re-class, the mother's care for her youngest son can be said to be unparalleled - she ran 15 miles to deliver food to him every few days, and dragged him to pray to the gods and worshipped the Bodhisattva before the exam, which made people feel restless.
What is the mystery of an ordinary family, three college students have been produced in three years?
htmlOn New Year's Eve more than 0 years later, I heard an interesting conversation between my parents. At that time, the mother, who had not yet suffered from amnesia, pointed her finger at her father and said: Back then, what's the use of reading books? I said that after reading the book, it is all in my own stomach, and no one else can take it away! The honest father laughed and replied: You just believe that "everything is inferior, but only reading is high." Now it seems that you are right, and the credit is all yours!Of course, the credit is not only for the mother. But compared to my mother, my father is more like a mountain, quiet and unknown, which is really the support of our whole family. I am glad that there are such fathers and mothers behind our growth.
Last week, the hospital arranged for the 87-year-old father to be admitted to the same ward as the 85-year-old mother. It is a blessing in life to accompany you in old age. Although we cannot "behaved and not travel far away", and we cannot let their children and grandchildren hang around and enjoy family, our parents are the biggest concern of the three brothers. Fortunately, although my father suffered a two-shot stroke, he was admitted to the hospital for many years and his body was still strong and his brain worked. At this moment, while I was waiting for my mother, I looked through the old photos on my phone with my father. Looking back on the past, I couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion.
walked out of the ward, but saw the sunset burning like a fire in the west. Looking at the sunset, I silently pray for my parents in my heart, wishing them peace of mind and peace of mind and happiness again. At the same time, I also pray for my motherland: the country is prosperous and the family is prosperous. I hope that just like the college entrance examination opened, our country can move towards the trend of the times and continue to shine with the upward power!
(written on July 22, 2017)
Chen Jianhua: Our college entrance examination prequel
My university (photo taken in the Chinese department classroom).
5 years ago, I wrote an article "My College Entrance Examination". At that time, I waited in front of my mother's sickbed and wrote it on my mobile phone. It not only commemorated the 40th anniversary of the college entrance examination, but also felt the feelings and was inspired by the scene. Later, I was included in the book "120 Look Back". Unfortunately, five days after the composition, my mother finally left. Under the protection of her three sons, she returned to the land she was thinking about in her hometown.
Recently, the same theme of the old memories of the students of Hangzhou University 78 have been published one after another. The main story of the story is Sun Yat-sen University Changjiang Scholar Huang Shizhong classmate asked me if I also wrote an article, and I will just follow this article. After reading it, "Huang Changjiang" replied: Dawen carefully recorded the process of the college entrance examination. However, this mission has been basically completed in "120 Look Back". Now, what we want to know is the impact your great mother and father have on you from your experience in elementary school to high school. Inheriting the vigorous management of "Huang Changjiang" in "building walls" and carefully mention it, I think I will write about my parents in the form of "replenishing".
A little bit of insight is written before: Resuming the college entrance examination is a real correction. For our generation, the greatest significance is that it has opened a huge and fair door to opportunity, so that the country and society can show a new and prosperous scene of horses galloping and thriving.
Youdao is: Opportunities are for those who are prepared. How children seize opportunities and prepare for them depends on the school and their own factors, but in a family, the role played by parents is often crucial.
My hometown is Wuyi County . Wuyi is a famous hometown of bright stones and a hot spring city. Judging from the map of Zhejiang, it is like a diamond-shaped emerald inlaid in the hinterland of central Zhejiang. There is a watershed called Fanling in the middle of the county, which separates the water systems of Qiantang River and Oujiang River. On the Oujiang River system, it belongs to the original boundary of Xuanping County . Xuanping was a county established in the Ming Dynasty. It was abolished in 1958 and existed for more than 500 years. It was originally under the jurisdiction of 号官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官Wuyi and Xuanping have different water systems and different dialects, but the two people have similar personalities. There is a sentence that summarizes it all - "Xuanping is honest and stupid Wuyi."
Both parents were born and raised by Xuanping, so they were naturally honest and responsible. They were all born in the early 1930s, one born in the year of the sheep and the other born in the year of the rooster. They tied the knot in 1957, and gave birth to three sons in the next six or seven years.
My father had been working in a grassroots supply and marketing cooperative before he retired. He was 92 years old and spent his days in his hometown hot spring nursing hospital. During her lifetime, her mother was a famous local tailor and her skill was superb. She had a "Flying Man" sewing machine with her for decades and has now become a "cultural relic". The parents have been ordinary people all their lives, without outstanding achievements and no assets. They believe that their greatest wealth in this life is their three sons, and their best way out is to study. Like their knowledgeable ancestors, they believe that to get out of the mountains and rivers, they can only change their destiny by studying. Compared with their contemporaries, parents are considered to be literate, although they don’t read many books, they are OK in the countryside. My father graduated from a junior high school. My mother studied in elementary school for several years. After liberation, she participated in the rapid development of literacy class and was said to have worked as an accountant in the village at her mother's home. My parents know that their educational level is limited. In my memory, the education of our three brothers from elementary school to high school mainly belongs to the school. The fifth "good warrior" is evaluated in primary schools. The fifth "good" is "good completion of tasks". Working hard to complete learning tasks has become our goal. The common characteristic of the three brothers is that they are more attentive and self-conscious in their study, and their grades are also ahead of their class.
Home is located in the mountainous area of southern Wuyi. It has an economic situation that is not developed, life is quite difficult, but the atmosphere of studying is relatively prosperous. Despite being in the "Cultural Revolution" era, our school generally achieved "learning as the main focus and learning differently". Sometimes it is a blessing in disguise, such as the policy of mobilizing urban teachers to return to their hometowns to teach, so we have also met some good teachers who graduated from normal schools and are quite qualified. For example, the female principal of elementary school, Mr. Wu Yuemei, came back from the original county minority transfer. She is beautiful and dignified and very friendly.
Elementary school class teacher Zeng Cailiang is an old teacher with rich teaching experience and was also transferred from another school. Although Mandarin is not standard, his blackboard writing and calligraphy are very good. I remember when I was in the fourth and fifth grades of elementary school, he often asked me to "put aside" during class and copied critical articles on the ping-pong table in the auditorium outside the classroom. When I graduated from high school in 1976, Teacher Zeng accidentally broke his leg and asked me to give him a substitute for half a month. This is my first time as a substitute teacher.Since then, substitute classes have become my second main job during my return to my hometown to work as a farmer. In two years, half of them were in the classroom and half in the fields, teaching Chinese and math classes from the second grade of elementary school to the second grade of junior high school.
There is another small episode about substitute classes: Half a year ago, the Yangjia Middle School, the employee children's school in the north of the county, solemnly invited me to be a substitute class teacher, and I needed a proof of consent from my brigade. I never thought that the brigade would not give this certificate, so I couldn't go to that school. It's really unimaginable, it's just from the southern part of the county to the north, it's just a substitute class teacher! But this is the reality back then. In current terms, this move is really called "not much harm and extremely insulting." It also shows how significant it is to cancel the "unit consent" when Deng Gong later decided to resume the college entrance examination. Many years later, my daughter went abroad to study, and I told her this story, telling her that our freedom was once so restricted. Now, thanks to the country's reform and opening up policies, we should cherish and make full use of this freedom of choice. As long as you are willing, you can fly as high as you go.
Junior high school class teacher Lei Chenzheng is an She ethnic teacher. He has a beautiful face, clear lectures, very good teaching, and good at drawing. During this period, my Chinese and writing skills improved greatly. The long paragraphs of my writing text were often drawn by the teacher in red circles and explained as a model essay. Under the influence of Teacher Lei and the strong artistic talent of Fa Xiao Jin Weigang, I also fell in love with painting. Because I can write and draw, I basically took care of the blackboard and wall posters in the class. The same goes for high school. When I arrived at university, although there were many experts and my studies were heavy, I couldn't help but have some classmates saying, "We often eat chalk dust together." After graduating from university, I worked in journalism for 38 years from running a newspaper to becoming a new media. Looking back, this life of media career is actually destined in junior high school. Maybe this is called fate.
A substitute teacher of chemistry came in the last semester of junior high school. His snow-white teeth, dark skin, and his whole body exuded a youthful atmosphere. He is teacher Shen Zhiquan who just graduated from a district high school. Teacher Shen not only has a clear lecture, but also has a knowledgeable and talented person, and is very close to me. Later, fate was a mess. He delayed three years because he insisted on applying for science, and finally changed his course and took the liberal arts degree. He became my junior brother of the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University. Of course, one day is a teacher and a lifelong teacher. Decades of relationships that are both teachers and friends are nothing more than a precious fate in the world.
The high school I went to was Taoxi High School, which was founded by Taoxi District in 1972. One district and one high school were the standard configuration at that time. Taocun, the location of Taoxi District, is a settlement of descendants of Tao Yuanming, according to research. This place is surrounded by mountains and water, and ancient trees are vast, which can be regarded as a true peach blossom land. There is also an ancient temple in the Yuan Dynasty, Yanfu Temple, which is a national key cultural heritage protection unit. At that time, Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin and both left footprints for investigation here. However, when we were in high school, we knew very little about these things. The school is still in its inception period. The school building and playground have not been built from the first to the third session. The school clearly stipulates that half of the work and half of the study will be spent on studying high school courses in two years, but everyone generally feels that they have achieved success in their studies. Why? A very important factor is that the district leaders are good at running the school and have unique insights. A group of high-quality teachers from inside and outside the district are recruited to teach the school.
For example, both Chinese teachers are from the Chinese department of Zhejiang Normal University. The English teacher is from the Foreign Language Department of Hangzhou University. The chemistry teacher Jiang Kejing is from the Nanjing University . Physics teacher Wang Junling is a famous physics teacher in the county...
One of the Chinese teachers Chen Xiaoye, from Pingyang, Wenzhou, wears a pair of delicate tortoiseshell glasses . My father at that time accurately described him in one word: gentle and kind. Yes, Teacher Chen is gentle, talented, and has a strong scholarly spirit, and is highly praised by students. He and I are also very close. He recommended my essay on "Water Margin" to broadcast it at the county radio station. In the July 7th College Entrance Examination, Teacher Chen is the Chinese test teacher in the region. He said that he had criticized the composition "Road" I wrote - no matter how the test paper is sealed, he could recognize my word at a glance. He felt that my composition was very good from the idea to the expression, and encouraged me to continue working hard and fight again next year.Teacher Zhang Jian, who teaches English, is our class teacher. His hometown is Shaoxing . At the time, the couple came from the Foreign Language Department of Hangzhou University to Xuanping, who was unable to speak in life. Teacher Zhang is full of passion in class, full of energy after class, and is good at getting along with students. When I was about to learn English, I was also very excited. Although I was three weeks late at school, I quickly caught up. Soon I was drawn to read the text, which was very popular. Unexpectedly, the good times didn't last long. The English class that had just been learned for a semester was suddenly stopped. "If you don't learn ABC, you will still do the revolution." Teacher Zhang changed to teach a temporary pieced-up class - "politics and literature", which is the hybridization of politics and Chinese. Teacher Zhang later returned to Shaoxing, and when we went to see him, he always had endless things to say. I said that because I felt that my English foundation was poor, I simply learned Japanese. I remember that I was fortunate to meet an English teacher who was from a professional class, but in the end I was still an English blind person. It was so heartbreaking!
The four gentlemen of Taoxi High School (Teacher Zhang Jian is on the right back).
There is also a "Old Man Xu" who lives in a stairwell to do chores. She seems unpopular, but she is actually the "three dynasty principal" of the Japanese occupation period, the Republic of China era and the New China. "Old Man Xu" is written with standard formal , and he fills out all the various awards and graduation certificates from the school.
This is Taoxi High School back then. I think if it is put into the present, it will be a good place for key high schools in the province. Urban and rural educational resources were a rare balance in that era.
In addition to school education, it also relies on self-study - self-study driven by interests. The focus is on reading various extracurricular books. Elementary and junior high schools have various comic strips and novels. High schools have a wider range of readings and more can be read. It is truly a time when book famine. Many comic strips and novels are watched by classmates and villagers while rushing to read, "fragrant flowers" are read publicly, and "poisonous weeds" are read secretly. I have heard of a handwritten copy "The Heart of a Girl", but I have never seen it. I guess someone will not dare to read it because it is "very poisonous". There is also "Boe Liang and Zhu Yingtai" that is said to be also a "poisonous weed". After climbing over the mountain behind the village, there was a pond. The adults advised him that in the early years, they fell in love with men and women, but in the end they were tied up and rolled into the pond. Perhaps the poison among them was "Liang Zhu".
Among all extracurricular readings, the most exciting and unforgettable thing is the old-fashioned red lacquer book box that my grandma quietly opened for me, which was left by my uncle in his room in his hometown. After graduating from junior high school, my uncle worked in Lishui and became a royalist during the Cultural Revolution. He hid back to his hometown for half a year in the most chaotic period. One night, we suddenly heard a violent barking of dogs, and then we found out that it was our uncle who was captured by the rebels.
Recalling this scene made people shudder, but it was not surprising in the past: when we were young, we also had the experience of being called up in the middle of the night to move with our pillows, and the room was blocked as soon as we turned around.
Grandpa, who had some historical problems, was once criticized by kneeling down. He was a strong person and was a very humiliated person. When he got home, he took a rope to hang it. Grandma grabbed the rope.
, a naturally optimistic and timid father, suffered from depression due to grievances, and tried to jump into the river and take rat poison to break himself. Fortunately, grandma and mother advised him kindly, but he still had a sense of responsibility, and the sky at home finally did not collapse.
There is also a brother under 10 years old who was inexplicably besieged on the blackboard by his classmates before criticizing him, but when he went home, he could only cry secretly. The weak mother changed her normal behavior after knowing it, and ran to the teacher's office with a slight face to ask for an explanation...
won't say it anymore. This is not a complaint meeting, and there are no painful memories of which households in the "ten-year catastrophe". This is also the biggest reason why the country ends the class struggle as its key point and does not make trouble!
Return to my uncle's old book box. The contact with the book box was probably two years after "barking in the middle of the night". I guess my uncle can hide in such a small space for half a year, largely because of this box of books. There is light in the book. There is no loneliness in the book. For me, a mouse fell into the barn at a young age.
The box not only contains the "Four Great Classics", but also " West Chamber ", "Romance of the Gods", "The Snow Field of the Forest", "The Fire King Kong", "Bitten Flower", "Wild Fire Spring Breeze Fighting the Ancient City", "How Steel Is Made", " Zhuoya and Shula's Story ".Lu Xun's "Three Xian Collection", "Two Heart Collection", "Morning Flowers and Evening Collection" are also seen from here. Grandma gave me the old-fashioned copper spoon in the shape of a "卡" and told me to take the book and read it myself and put it back. Many years later, when I revealed this experience in front of my uncle's sickbed and thanked him for the spiritual food he left behind, my 80s could not help but shed tears of mixed feelings with me...
Primary, Junior High School, and High School graduation certificate.
is untold again, so hurry up and get back to the topic.
When it comes to parents, relatives and friends praise Lao Chen and his wife for their ability to teach their children. I thought about it carefully. In fact, my parents are more like "kung fu is beyond poetry" when it comes to education. Yes, they cannot teach us too much due to their own conditions. Their cleverness is not to teach us much cultural knowledge directly, but to strive for the children's due reading opportunities, create a better learning environment, stimulate their enthusiasm for learning, and enhance their self-consciousness in learning. In addition, it also includes cultivating good character and improving life and survival ability. In one sentence, let parent-child love integrate into all aspects of children's growth.
separate, let’s talk about my father first. My father is gentle, kind, loyal, honest and honest, and basically belongs to the person who is happy and happy. For example, the eldest brother and the second brother graduated from high school and returned to his hometown to farm, and there was no hope of recommending military service or college. My father specially hired a carpenter to come to his house and bought two wheelbarrows with exquisite materials and extremely strong s. The brother and brother each had one, and the meaning was very clear: be determined in the countryside and work gloriously.
Of course, my father will also actively strive for opportunities when he sees them. For example, when my younger brother graduated from junior high school at the age of 12 and had no hope of recommending high school, his father learned that the neighboring brigade intended to run a high school class in his primary school, so he found the brigade secretary's house and asked him to help him take over the child. Although it is a high school class taught by two elementary school teachers, at least the children are not allowed to drop out of school at a young age.
My father is talented, has a strong memory, and has a strong desire for reading since childhood. He and his uncle can also be said to have changed their destiny by studying. The only ones in the village had a public meal after liberation.
talks about the experience of a teenager. What my father can’t let go of until he is old is that he has not read enough books. "That year, Master Jian passed the exam, but he was too light and was not admitted. At that time, there was a Puyu Middle School in Xuanping County that could also go to study, but your grandfather calculated that if I went to the county town to study, I had to pay nine dan of rice tuition, and a cow I raised at home had to hire someone to grazed. After going back and forth, I could buy a mu of land a year. After settlement, my grandfather said, forget it, don't study anymore." My father looked regretful.
Regarding reading, the older generation believes in "sinking stones and rotting", and believes that as long as you spend time reading books, you will always make progress. My father said he graduated from a junior high school. I heard him introduce his experience of studying. It took him seven years to calculate that the primary school was in total. Most of the time was in the War of Resistance Against Japan, and it was normal to go up and down. I believe my father is a piece of material for studying. Before taking the college entrance examination, I read the national textbooks he read, and I also saw the small regular script he wrote, and the handwriting was as neat as a copybook. One of the characters is written in the picture and it is unforgettable: "Today's business, today's end."
My father wrote very well, and abacus is also good at typing. He trained our three brothers to inherit their father's business since he was a child. For this purpose, he made two practice boards with large and small ones, both of which were painted with black and white, with white brushes and black chalks. In addition, he also bought several pairs of plastic small abacus for us to practice abacus . From setting an example and teaching by example, my father did everything he could do.
There has always been a saying in China that fathers are strict and mothers are kind. As far as my family is concerned, it may be more accurate to say that fathers are kind and mothers are strict. My father rarely scolds people, but my mother controls it a little harshly, which is said later.
My father works in a supply and marketing cooperative. He goes home once or twice a month. He often has the opportunity to go on a business trip. He always brings some local specialties for the elderly and children to taste. For example, Jinhua crispy cake, cloud cake, , cowpea crispy , chicken cake, , baked bread, etc., we often have eaten since we were young.When my brother and I were in high school in the district, other students usually only had a can of pickles a week (the traditional vegetables in my hometown, the vegetable heart was pickled and dried and then marinated, which was almost saltier than salt). As for us, my father cooked the vegetables every now and then asked the cargo transporter of the supply and marketing cooperative to bring them, including fried hairtail, dried vegetables and meat, lard residue, etc., which made people feel full of fatherly love.
The college entrance examination has been restored, and my father has unconditionally supported us to take the exam. Before the July-8th college entrance examination, I went into seclusion for ten days to review and was locked in the bedroom of my father's supply and marketing cooperative - the corner of an old ancestral hall. During the day, my father provided full catering logistics services after work; at night, the father and son were lying on the same bed, and he was also responsible for turning on and off the electric fan to kill mosquitoes. That was a ten days of extremely efficient efficiency, and it was truly a matter of not leaving home and focusing on it. Thank you very much for the "College Entrance Examination Review Outline" issued by the Ministry of Education that year. I reviewed it according to the requirements of the outline, and sat on the back seat of my father's bicycle, and he carried it to the town examination room to take the college entrance examination.
For my father, the joy of being named to the list is the financial burden. Although there was a people's scholarship system in that era, and the tuition and living expenses were mainly borne by the state, my father always did his best to support us. Since I was admitted to university, my father sent 10 yuan a month as a expense other than the scholarship. In 1980, the highest peak, his three sons were in college at the same time. At that time, his father's salary was 43.5 yuan, and each person had 30 yuan a month, which means that he only left his living expenses and subsidies for his family. However, my father would rather save money than deduct us any points. He would often increase his budget after returning to school after winter and summer vacations. Of course, he also knew very well that his sons were sensible and no one would spend money indiscriminately.
I was unable to make my father's painstaking efforts. I also learned from my father to record the detailed accounts of income and expenditure, and recorded every expenditure in four years of college. The account book was not found for a while, but I remember counting that except for the scholarship, it cost more than 1,300 yuan in total. Of course, most of it was paid by my father.
First arrived in Hangzhou (take a photo with Wu Xiaowen, a fellow fellow student in the 78 Chinese training class).
I talked about my father, let’s talk about my mother. Compared with fathers, perhaps the mother has a stronger obsession with studying, less refusal to accept her fate, more courageous in fighting, and more strict in her children.
On the mother's side, grandparents and grandparents were both from the so-called "good family". In the late Qing Dynasty and early Republic of China, my grandfather's father (i.e., Tai Grandpa) founded "Zhicheng Primary School" in the village. He asked his four sons to study, and finally parted ways in the military, political and academic circles. In the ninth year of the Republic of China, Tai Grandpa himself received a praise from the President: "Extremely Sexual", and the original copy is still preserved in the county museum. Among the four sons of the Grandpa, Zhu Tian, the third son, was the most famous. He served as the staff officer of the Zhejiang Provincial Defense Forces Command. He followed Sun Yat-sen to participate in the Northern Expedition and moved to Guangdong, Jiangxi, Zhejiang and Anhui. He fought countless wars, but unfortunately died young. My grandfather ranked fourth in the year and studied the least in self-confidence. He graduated from Chuzhou Agricultural School in the 1930s and worked in Xuanping County.
The origin of the scholars is that my grandmother's family seems to be deeper than my grandfather's family. There were many college students in the 1940s and 1950s. My uncle said that Wang Ruzhi, a female scientist who participated in the first atomic bomb explosion test in New China, was her grandmother’s early classmate and also her granddaughter of her grandmother’s family.
There is one of the grandfather’s family mottos, which is to encourage learning, believing in “there is a golden house in books”, and encourage descendants to go out, “Don’t let the sect guard their homes or stop their ambitions.” Grandma died the year I was born. My grandfather had a tragic fate. It was not until 1974 that I went to high school that I returned to my hometown from the distant exile in Inner Mongolia. Despite this, the obsession with reading from my grandfather’s family has taken root and blossomed in his eldest daughter’s heart, which has profoundly influenced and changed our destiny.
I have recorded my mother's chance to study for her three sons. In fact, I don’t know how much effort my mother put into high school that year. Because I don’t care about my grades when I go to high school, I only rely on recommendations, and the quota is allocated to the brigade, and the recommendation rights are in the brigade. At that time, a relative was a brigade cadre. My mother asked him to help, but he said, "Everyone knows that we are relatives, I can't speak." My mother asked the junior high school class teacher to find a way for his favorite students, but the head teacher said that he could not help. There was no result in mediation through other channels. I mobilized me to go back to junior high school to resume my studies in the coming year, but I refused to obey.
What should I do if I spend all my time and there are walls everywhere? If it were a father, he might have accepted his fate, but his mother would not give up or give up. She stared at the opportunity behind.
A cousin from my junior high school class recommended to go to high school. When I came back on the first Sunday, my mother stared at her and asked this and that. The core was to ask if there were any classmates who didn’t report. My cousin said no. My mother reminded: If anyone doesn’t go, you must tell her.
When I came back on the second Sunday, my cousin told my mother: A classmate from the next brigade came for a week due to family difficulties. He didn’t come this week, so I can’t say it anymore. My mother suddenly felt that the opportunity had come, so she acted quickly. After verifying the information and inquiring about the replacement path, the mother fully mobilized the connections she accumulated as a tailor, and used her son's excellent study sign to compete with her own character and popularity. After several days of running around, the commune member in charge of education finally decided: Our Deyun Commune will make up for the vacancies in high school by ourselves.
Revisiting the "Neople" Lao Yu (right), who made the decision to make me into a high school class.
adheres to the ancestral teaching of "do not let the back home", and the mother pays great attention to cultivating her son's independent living ability so that she can have the opportunity to let go in the future. For example, rural boys rarely wash clothes by themselves, but their mother took us to Xibu to wash clothes from childhood: from wiping soap to brushing the collar and cuffs, from rubbing and rubbing to pounding clothes with wooden trowels, to how to clean, wrung, dry, and even how to fold neatly in the end, the procedures are very rigorous and orderly. There are also how to cook and organize the room. My mother has also trained us since childhood. Thanks to the "boy skills" given to us by my mother, we seemed at ease in terms of self-care ability whether we went to college or work.
The mother said that although she didn't like reading very much when she was a child, she really likes children who are good at studying. In addition to his own son, whenever he meets a good child, his mother must have a bright eye for him. Once, I went to the same village to work as a tailor. When I heard that the girl in the family was very good at studying, my mother showed a lot of love. Seeing this, the hostess said casually that if you really like it, let her be your daughter. My mother kept saying that how could that work? I didn't expect the joke to come true, my mother had a goddaughter out of thin air. My mother once read the letter from a girl to me, and she whispered "mom" in the letter, which was very intimate! After my brother was admitted to college, my mother transferred all her energy to the girl, and from time to time to return classes to the girl, giving her various care and encouragement. As a result, this year, the girl soared into Peking University. There is an insider in my hometown. After reading the article "Three College Students in Three Years" written by me, I joked: Wrong, it should be four college students in four years! Later, the girl became my sister-in-law.
In the same year, Wuyi No. 2 Middle School’s senior high school re-class was also on the list, my cousin and my aunt’s son. In the summer of the first year, my uncle and my son had major differences on whether to continue to go to senior high school to resume classes. At the critical moment, my mother rushed to my sister's house and persuaded her brother-in-law to say: "You always have to read books. If you don't have enough money, I'll make up for it!" My uncle was a very personal person, but he could only listen to his aunt's words, so he immediately changed his mind and decided to let his son inherit and repeat the year. In the August 1st college entrance examination, my cousin really lived up to expectations and was admitted to the National University of Defense Technology in one fell swoop. My cousin later studied for graduate school and went abroad. After returning to China, he successfully started a business in Shanghai, and led his three brothers to study and start a business, which completely changed the trajectory of life and the destiny of the family.
It is true that parents teach their children well, especially mothers, they really have a way to deal with their children, and some things you can’t even imagine.
I was only two years old that year. It is said that my mother held me in one hand and carried a basket of clothes in the other to wash. After arriving at the creek port, she put a piece of straw mat she brought with her on the field stems, put me on the mat, picked up a branch and drew a circle in the mud, and said, "Be good, sit down and don't move, don't play with mud, wait for my mother to wash her clothes and bring you home." I was indeed sitting motionless. This scene was very similar to Sun Wukong used a golden hoop to draw a circle to create a Vajra cover.
□Chen Jianhua
It was the time to get the heat, and I returned to my hometown. Outdoors are hot and hot at over 40 degrees. In the air-conditioned ward, I quietly waited for my dying mother, hoping that her disfigured face would reappear and her soft and drooping hands would become stronger again.
Occasionally, reading the college entrance examination stories of our peers on their mobile phones, I can’t help but recall the college entrance examination path my mother accompanied us three brothers.
My mother has been suffering from amnesia for seven or eight years. When she was awake, when she talked about her three sons, she would often say to people with a proud look: 78, 79, 80, three college students in three years. The three brothers won three consecutive years, becoming the greatest comfort and pride of their mother in this life.
My mother was born in a family of scholars. Although she didn't read much, she was soaked in books and seemed to have a different temperament than ordinary people since childhood. After marrying my father, I learned to be a tailor and gave birth to three children in succession, from 1958 to 1962, an average of one in two years.
Although I live in the countryside, my mother seems very special. Her love of cleanliness is famous for cleaning. She cleans twice a day, the room is spotless and the red painted furniture is always clustered like new. She insists on changing her children's clothes every day. She is always the first to go to the creek marina to wash in the morning, and often knocks on the ice to wash in winter.
My father works in a rural supply and marketing cooperative and regards the store as his home all year round. The daily management and education of children mainly become the mother's responsibility. As a tailor, she personally sanitized the clothes of her three sons since she was born; when her sons went to school one by one, our new schoolbags were made by her.
Mom and Dad and Us (photo taken in 1964. The author is the former left).
Mother is as cautious as a hen protects a chick, but never be too cute or indulgent. I attach great importance to reading. As long as we are reading, she walks lightly. If my father brings friends to his house, he will never let their idle talk affect us.
Although the time of study coincided with the "Cultural Revolution", the three of us brothers ranked among the best in the class. What’s even more difficult is that despite the many obstacles, with the care and struggle of parents, all three children were able to complete their studies from elementary school to junior high school and high school. My brother used this process for 12 years, I was 10 years, and my brother was the shortest, only 9 years.
In the summer of 1977, when my younger brother graduated from a "capped high school" that was first in elementary school and then in junior high school, our family had three "educated youths returning home".
The difference between "going to the countryside" and "returning to the countryside" is that the former is that urban residents have registered their household registration in rural areas, while the latter is that "I am a rural person, and I go back to the countryside." The father is a resident household and the mother is an agricultural household. According to the policy, the children are all agricultural households.
I went to a district-run high school. The graduation souvenir was a straw hat issued by the school, with one for each person, and four big words were sprayed with red paint: "Ambition in the countryside" - Yes, at that time, he was determined to be in the countryside, and had no choice. This is also the destiny of our three brothers.
Who knew that in the summer of 1977 when my younger brother graduated from high school, a thunder thunder sounded: National has resumed the college entrance examination ! The news spread to the remote village where we are in as the radio wave synchronized, causing ripples in the hearts of many young people. God-given opportunity, you must not miss it! At that time, we were not too excited, but my mother happily and resolutely bombarded us, just like an old chicken who was knocking out of her nest: Go, register, and I will take the college entrance exam for me!
has almost no preparation, and I can't find any review books, let alone what will happen to the test questions. I took the exam. We also believe that luck is aroused.
However, the result was not achieved overnight. After the first exam in the county, my younger brother, who had been studying for the shortest years, was eliminated first; in the subsequent provincial unified examination, my elder brother and second brother were also unnamed.
Actually, this is not surprising. Back then, the Xuanping area of Wuyi, Wuyi, was within a radius of hundreds of miles and nearly a thousand candidates. There were very few candidates on the list. I heard that the only "Sun Shan" who was admitted to the undergraduate degree was a fresh graduate of Wuyi No. 2 Middle School.
77 College Entrance Examination became a collective trial for the three of us brothers. Although the jump rod has not passed, everyone has no regrets and is still happy, even if they fail the exam, they are not depressed.After the exam, the three brothers should do what they should do: the eldest brother is still his private teacher, the younger brother goes back to the commune pig farm to pick his stones, and I continue to be my grain custodian, drying grain, hoeing the fields, farming and mowing grass, and also going to school to teach on behalf of others.
Winter is gone and spring is coming, and in another half a year, the seven or eighth college entrance examination will be ushered in. Can't you still take the exam for
? Of course the test! The mother's attitude was unambiguous. The father quietly discussed with his mother and asked the children to lower their goals: both the eldest brother and the younger brother will change to apply for technical secondary school. At that time, many people thought that jumping out of the farming gate was success. Only I am born not afraid of farming and am very energetic. If I want to jump, I will jump into the dragon gate, and my goal is still to be college.
Facts have proved that I was right in my persistence - the second brothers of the three brothers were the first to qualify and passed the exam! The school is the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University, and is admitted to the first choice and first major. The title of the Golden List, get what you want!
recalls the 78th college entrance examination, and the process of the exam is easy and a little dreamy. In those six months, I was a substitute teacher in an elementary school. After teaching, I did not focus on reviewing and preparing for the exam. Because I suddenly became interested in the calculus questions that were added to the last year's test paper, I played calculus freely for several months.
Really focused review is about ten days before the exam. I couldn't leave, and I opened my mouth when I was having a meal. I focused on the yellow paper "College Entrance Examination Review Outline" published by the Ministry of Education, and then easily walked into the examination room. Although the college entrance examination was also a hot day that year, I slept very soundly for three consecutive nights.
I took the liberal arts subjects, but the total score of the five subjects was 337.3 points, which was not very good, but it was 57.3 points higher than the score line of that year. The good news that
is coming online was told by my brother to go to the mountains. That day it was my turn to be a forest ranger in the production team. The dusk was full of twilight and the peaks were solemn, and my brother's "little brother" and "little brother" were shouting very crisply.
Because I have had the experience of the Qiqi College Entrance Examination, I have no extravagant hopes in my heart. So I was very surprised to get the news of the online launch, and I was so happy that I was falling from the sky. Not only at home, but the entire mountain village seemed to be in full swing! Because, in our small mountain village with a hundred people, the highest education among our parents is junior high school. My father, who graduated from junior high school, said that from the generations to the next generation, the ninth generation is illiterate. And I will be the first college student in the history of this village.
My father killed a chicken that night and asked me to eat it quickly to replenish my body and participate in the physical examination. My mother, who was so heavy and decent, was even more idle. She happily burned hot water to let me bathe and wash my feet, and picked a new shirt, so that I could get up early the next day and go to the city for a physical examination. As for me, I was knocked out by a colorful ball that suddenly fell from the sky. Inexplicably excited, I couldn't sleep all night!
Good things want to be cut off. Suddenly I felt grateful to my mother and felt that she was so wise and great!
half a century later, the same frame photo (taken on New Year's Day 2017).
That was 1974. I graduated from junior high school and saw no hope of recommendation from high school. My mother took me to the head teacher Lei’s house in the dark and asked him to help. Teacher Lei admitted that I was the best student in the class and his favorite student, but I really couldn't help because "the right to recommend is in the brigade." In my family, my brother had already recommended him to high school for the first year. "It's good enough to be able to go to one of them," which was what the brigade cadres said.
When I returned home, under the dim light, my mother started to do my job and mobilized me to go back to junior high school to repeat the class, just like my brother back then, waiting for the chance next year.
I was a little stubborn by nature, and my tone was firm and a bit heroic answered my mother: I have expressed my determination on stage, "One red heart, two kinds of preparations", I want to do what I say.
It started from that summer vacation. At the age of 14, I participated in the labor force in the production team. The main content of the labor was to follow the women to pick cotton, and the labor was divided into two points a day.
However, my mother did not give up. High school is on the way. At that time, my mother worked as a tailor at the commune location. There was a lot of news in the tailor's shop. Based on the information she inquired, she finally caught an opportunity and the commune directly recommended to make up for the lack of a dropout classmate, so that I could sit in the high school classroom three weeks after the start of school.
I believe that if my mother had not been so persistent back then, if she had not been to high school for those two years, she would have probably not been in the future.
In a blink of an eye, it is the 79th and 9th college entrance examination. Maybe I was inspired by my qualifying and became a private teacher in junior high school, and I changed my course and applied for the university.Because he couldn't leave his post, he rode his bike to 15 miles when he had time and went to Wuyi No. 2 Middle School to "study classes". As a result of "free class", I was admitted to the civilian teacher class of Zhejiang Normal University and became a 7-year-old html teacher in mathematics at Middle School after graduation. To take advantage of it, my working years have been calculated continuously since I was a private teacher three years ago. Unlike me, the last time I had worked hard to write off the two years of " farming age ".
If we talk about the help of the mother to the eldest son, the most worth mentioning is that when the brother graduated from junior high school and was facing dropout, the mother actively tried to get him back to school. Finally, he went to high school the next year and also competed for the opportunity to come.
Big brother and second brother are all in college. In the blink of an eye, it is the summer of 1980, and it is my turn to sprint. After the eldest and second child, the mother placed all her hopes on her favorite young son.
In view of the fact that I graduated from "local high school", my brother's jumping rod has been put low. First, I was arranged to repeat the class in the third grade of junior high school, and then I went to the review class of the technical secondary school. My father even said to my younger brother very bluntly: As for you, as long as you can pass the technical secondary school entrance exam, I will thank you very much. If you fail the exam, it doesn't matter. I retire early, so you can respect the "sloppy class" of my supply and marketing cooperative.
Maybe the three words "sloppy class" hurt him deeply. After failing to take the secondary school entrance examination for two consecutive years, the younger brother said: Both brothers went to college, and he must take the college entrance examination.
To be fair, there was no difference between taking the college or taking the technical secondary school exam when I chose to take the exam, but it was all in the thought of applying for the exam. After a year of hard study in the high school class, in the summer of 1980, my younger brother was admitted to the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University in one fell swoop, and my younger brother became my junior brother.
My mother is very energetic and always wants her to be successful. I believe that my younger brother will change to college and take the college entrance exam best. In the year of high school re-class, the mother's care for her youngest son can be said to be unparalleled - she ran 15 miles to deliver food to him every few days, and dragged him to pray to the gods and worshipped the Bodhisattva before the exam, which made people feel restless.
What is the mystery of an ordinary family, three college students have been produced in three years?
htmlOn New Year's Eve more than 0 years later, I heard an interesting conversation between my parents. At that time, the mother, who had not yet suffered from amnesia, pointed her finger at her father and said: Back then, what's the use of reading books? I said that after reading the book, it is all in my own stomach, and no one else can take it away! The honest father laughed and replied: You just believe that "everything is inferior, but only reading is high." Now it seems that you are right, and the credit is all yours!Of course, the credit is not only for the mother. But compared to my mother, my father is more like a mountain, quiet and unknown, which is really the support of our whole family. I am glad that there are such fathers and mothers behind our growth.
Last week, the hospital arranged for the 87-year-old father to be admitted to the same ward as the 85-year-old mother. It is a blessing in life to accompany you in old age. Although we cannot "behaved and not travel far away", and we cannot let their children and grandchildren hang around and enjoy family, our parents are the biggest concern of the three brothers. Fortunately, although my father suffered a two-shot stroke, he was admitted to the hospital for many years and his body was still strong and his brain worked. At this moment, while I was waiting for my mother, I looked through the old photos on my phone with my father. Looking back on the past, I couldn't help but feel a lot of emotion.
walked out of the ward, but saw the sunset burning like a fire in the west. Looking at the sunset, I silently pray for my parents in my heart, wishing them peace of mind and peace of mind and happiness again. At the same time, I also pray for my motherland: the country is prosperous and the family is prosperous. I hope that just like the college entrance examination opened, our country can move towards the trend of the times and continue to shine with the upward power!
(written on July 22, 2017)
Chen Jianhua: Our college entrance examination prequel
My university (photo taken in the Chinese department classroom).
5 years ago, I wrote an article "My College Entrance Examination". At that time, I waited in front of my mother's sickbed and wrote it on my mobile phone. It not only commemorated the 40th anniversary of the college entrance examination, but also felt the feelings and was inspired by the scene. Later, I was included in the book "120 Look Back". Unfortunately, five days after the composition, my mother finally left. Under the protection of her three sons, she returned to the land she was thinking about in her hometown.
Recently, the same theme of the old memories of the students of Hangzhou University 78 have been published one after another. The main story of the story is Sun Yat-sen University Changjiang Scholar Huang Shizhong classmate asked me if I also wrote an article, and I will just follow this article. After reading it, "Huang Changjiang" replied: Dawen carefully recorded the process of the college entrance examination. However, this mission has been basically completed in "120 Look Back". Now, what we want to know is the impact your great mother and father have on you from your experience in elementary school to high school. Inheriting the vigorous management of "Huang Changjiang" in "building walls" and carefully mention it, I think I will write about my parents in the form of "replenishing".
A little bit of insight is written before: Resuming the college entrance examination is a real correction. For our generation, the greatest significance is that it has opened a huge and fair door to opportunity, so that the country and society can show a new and prosperous scene of horses galloping and thriving.
Youdao is: Opportunities are for those who are prepared. How children seize opportunities and prepare for them depends on the school and their own factors, but in a family, the role played by parents is often crucial.
My hometown is Wuyi County . Wuyi is a famous hometown of bright stones and a hot spring city. Judging from the map of Zhejiang, it is like a diamond-shaped emerald inlaid in the hinterland of central Zhejiang. There is a watershed called Fanling in the middle of the county, which separates the water systems of Qiantang River and Oujiang River. On the Oujiang River system, it belongs to the original boundary of Xuanping County . Xuanping was a county established in the Ming Dynasty. It was abolished in 1958 and existed for more than 500 years. It was originally under the jurisdiction of 号官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官网官Wuyi and Xuanping have different water systems and different dialects, but the two people have similar personalities. There is a sentence that summarizes it all - "Xuanping is honest and stupid Wuyi."
Both parents were born and raised by Xuanping, so they were naturally honest and responsible. They were all born in the early 1930s, one born in the year of the sheep and the other born in the year of the rooster. They tied the knot in 1957, and gave birth to three sons in the next six or seven years.
My father had been working in a grassroots supply and marketing cooperative before he retired. He was 92 years old and spent his days in his hometown hot spring nursing hospital. During her lifetime, her mother was a famous local tailor and her skill was superb. She had a "Flying Man" sewing machine with her for decades and has now become a "cultural relic". The parents have been ordinary people all their lives, without outstanding achievements and no assets. They believe that their greatest wealth in this life is their three sons, and their best way out is to study. Like their knowledgeable ancestors, they believe that to get out of the mountains and rivers, they can only change their destiny by studying. Compared with their contemporaries, parents are considered to be literate, although they don’t read many books, they are OK in the countryside. My father graduated from a junior high school. My mother studied in elementary school for several years. After liberation, she participated in the rapid development of literacy class and was said to have worked as an accountant in the village at her mother's home. My parents know that their educational level is limited. In my memory, the education of our three brothers from elementary school to high school mainly belongs to the school. The fifth "good warrior" is evaluated in primary schools. The fifth "good" is "good completion of tasks". Working hard to complete learning tasks has become our goal. The common characteristic of the three brothers is that they are more attentive and self-conscious in their study, and their grades are also ahead of their class.
Home is located in the mountainous area of southern Wuyi. It has an economic situation that is not developed, life is quite difficult, but the atmosphere of studying is relatively prosperous. Despite being in the "Cultural Revolution" era, our school generally achieved "learning as the main focus and learning differently". Sometimes it is a blessing in disguise, such as the policy of mobilizing urban teachers to return to their hometowns to teach, so we have also met some good teachers who graduated from normal schools and are quite qualified. For example, the female principal of elementary school, Mr. Wu Yuemei, came back from the original county minority transfer. She is beautiful and dignified and very friendly.
Elementary school class teacher Zeng Cailiang is an old teacher with rich teaching experience and was also transferred from another school. Although Mandarin is not standard, his blackboard writing and calligraphy are very good. I remember when I was in the fourth and fifth grades of elementary school, he often asked me to "put aside" during class and copied critical articles on the ping-pong table in the auditorium outside the classroom. When I graduated from high school in 1976, Teacher Zeng accidentally broke his leg and asked me to give him a substitute for half a month. This is my first time as a substitute teacher.Since then, substitute classes have become my second main job during my return to my hometown to work as a farmer. In two years, half of them were in the classroom and half in the fields, teaching Chinese and math classes from the second grade of elementary school to the second grade of junior high school.
There is another small episode about substitute classes: Half a year ago, the Yangjia Middle School, the employee children's school in the north of the county, solemnly invited me to be a substitute class teacher, and I needed a proof of consent from my brigade. I never thought that the brigade would not give this certificate, so I couldn't go to that school. It's really unimaginable, it's just from the southern part of the county to the north, it's just a substitute class teacher! But this is the reality back then. In current terms, this move is really called "not much harm and extremely insulting." It also shows how significant it is to cancel the "unit consent" when Deng Gong later decided to resume the college entrance examination. Many years later, my daughter went abroad to study, and I told her this story, telling her that our freedom was once so restricted. Now, thanks to the country's reform and opening up policies, we should cherish and make full use of this freedom of choice. As long as you are willing, you can fly as high as you go.
Junior high school class teacher Lei Chenzheng is an She ethnic teacher. He has a beautiful face, clear lectures, very good teaching, and good at drawing. During this period, my Chinese and writing skills improved greatly. The long paragraphs of my writing text were often drawn by the teacher in red circles and explained as a model essay. Under the influence of Teacher Lei and the strong artistic talent of Fa Xiao Jin Weigang, I also fell in love with painting. Because I can write and draw, I basically took care of the blackboard and wall posters in the class. The same goes for high school. When I arrived at university, although there were many experts and my studies were heavy, I couldn't help but have some classmates saying, "We often eat chalk dust together." After graduating from university, I worked in journalism for 38 years from running a newspaper to becoming a new media. Looking back, this life of media career is actually destined in junior high school. Maybe this is called fate.
A substitute teacher of chemistry came in the last semester of junior high school. His snow-white teeth, dark skin, and his whole body exuded a youthful atmosphere. He is teacher Shen Zhiquan who just graduated from a district high school. Teacher Shen not only has a clear lecture, but also has a knowledgeable and talented person, and is very close to me. Later, fate was a mess. He delayed three years because he insisted on applying for science, and finally changed his course and took the liberal arts degree. He became my junior brother of the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University. Of course, one day is a teacher and a lifelong teacher. Decades of relationships that are both teachers and friends are nothing more than a precious fate in the world.
The high school I went to was Taoxi High School, which was founded by Taoxi District in 1972. One district and one high school were the standard configuration at that time. Taocun, the location of Taoxi District, is a settlement of descendants of Tao Yuanming, according to research. This place is surrounded by mountains and water, and ancient trees are vast, which can be regarded as a true peach blossom land. There is also an ancient temple in the Yuan Dynasty, Yanfu Temple, which is a national key cultural heritage protection unit. At that time, Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin and both left footprints for investigation here. However, when we were in high school, we knew very little about these things. The school is still in its inception period. The school building and playground have not been built from the first to the third session. The school clearly stipulates that half of the work and half of the study will be spent on studying high school courses in two years, but everyone generally feels that they have achieved success in their studies. Why? A very important factor is that the district leaders are good at running the school and have unique insights. A group of high-quality teachers from inside and outside the district are recruited to teach the school.
For example, both Chinese teachers are from the Chinese department of Zhejiang Normal University. The English teacher is from the Foreign Language Department of Hangzhou University. The chemistry teacher Jiang Kejing is from the Nanjing University . Physics teacher Wang Junling is a famous physics teacher in the county...
One of the Chinese teachers Chen Xiaoye, from Pingyang, Wenzhou, wears a pair of delicate tortoiseshell glasses . My father at that time accurately described him in one word: gentle and kind. Yes, Teacher Chen is gentle, talented, and has a strong scholarly spirit, and is highly praised by students. He and I are also very close. He recommended my essay on "Water Margin" to broadcast it at the county radio station. In the July 7th College Entrance Examination, Teacher Chen is the Chinese test teacher in the region. He said that he had criticized the composition "Road" I wrote - no matter how the test paper is sealed, he could recognize my word at a glance. He felt that my composition was very good from the idea to the expression, and encouraged me to continue working hard and fight again next year.Teacher Zhang Jian, who teaches English, is our class teacher. His hometown is Shaoxing . At the time, the couple came from the Foreign Language Department of Hangzhou University to Xuanping, who was unable to speak in life. Teacher Zhang is full of passion in class, full of energy after class, and is good at getting along with students. When I was about to learn English, I was also very excited. Although I was three weeks late at school, I quickly caught up. Soon I was drawn to read the text, which was very popular. Unexpectedly, the good times didn't last long. The English class that had just been learned for a semester was suddenly stopped. "If you don't learn ABC, you will still do the revolution." Teacher Zhang changed to teach a temporary pieced-up class - "politics and literature", which is the hybridization of politics and Chinese. Teacher Zhang later returned to Shaoxing, and when we went to see him, he always had endless things to say. I said that because I felt that my English foundation was poor, I simply learned Japanese. I remember that I was fortunate to meet an English teacher who was from a professional class, but in the end I was still an English blind person. It was so heartbreaking!
The four gentlemen of Taoxi High School (Teacher Zhang Jian is on the right back).
There is also a "Old Man Xu" who lives in a stairwell to do chores. She seems unpopular, but she is actually the "three dynasty principal" of the Japanese occupation period, the Republic of China era and the New China. "Old Man Xu" is written with standard formal , and he fills out all the various awards and graduation certificates from the school.
This is Taoxi High School back then. I think if it is put into the present, it will be a good place for key high schools in the province. Urban and rural educational resources were a rare balance in that era.
In addition to school education, it also relies on self-study - self-study driven by interests. The focus is on reading various extracurricular books. Elementary and junior high schools have various comic strips and novels. High schools have a wider range of readings and more can be read. It is truly a time when book famine. Many comic strips and novels are watched by classmates and villagers while rushing to read, "fragrant flowers" are read publicly, and "poisonous weeds" are read secretly. I have heard of a handwritten copy "The Heart of a Girl", but I have never seen it. I guess someone will not dare to read it because it is "very poisonous". There is also "Boe Liang and Zhu Yingtai" that is said to be also a "poisonous weed". After climbing over the mountain behind the village, there was a pond. The adults advised him that in the early years, they fell in love with men and women, but in the end they were tied up and rolled into the pond. Perhaps the poison among them was "Liang Zhu".
Among all extracurricular readings, the most exciting and unforgettable thing is the old-fashioned red lacquer book box that my grandma quietly opened for me, which was left by my uncle in his room in his hometown. After graduating from junior high school, my uncle worked in Lishui and became a royalist during the Cultural Revolution. He hid back to his hometown for half a year in the most chaotic period. One night, we suddenly heard a violent barking of dogs, and then we found out that it was our uncle who was captured by the rebels.
Recalling this scene made people shudder, but it was not surprising in the past: when we were young, we also had the experience of being called up in the middle of the night to move with our pillows, and the room was blocked as soon as we turned around.
Grandpa, who had some historical problems, was once criticized by kneeling down. He was a strong person and was a very humiliated person. When he got home, he took a rope to hang it. Grandma grabbed the rope.
, a naturally optimistic and timid father, suffered from depression due to grievances, and tried to jump into the river and take rat poison to break himself. Fortunately, grandma and mother advised him kindly, but he still had a sense of responsibility, and the sky at home finally did not collapse.
There is also a brother under 10 years old who was inexplicably besieged on the blackboard by his classmates before criticizing him, but when he went home, he could only cry secretly. The weak mother changed her normal behavior after knowing it, and ran to the teacher's office with a slight face to ask for an explanation...
won't say it anymore. This is not a complaint meeting, and there are no painful memories of which households in the "ten-year catastrophe". This is also the biggest reason why the country ends the class struggle as its key point and does not make trouble!
Return to my uncle's old book box. The contact with the book box was probably two years after "barking in the middle of the night". I guess my uncle can hide in such a small space for half a year, largely because of this box of books. There is light in the book. There is no loneliness in the book. For me, a mouse fell into the barn at a young age.
The box not only contains the "Four Great Classics", but also " West Chamber ", "Romance of the Gods", "The Snow Field of the Forest", "The Fire King Kong", "Bitten Flower", "Wild Fire Spring Breeze Fighting the Ancient City", "How Steel Is Made", " Zhuoya and Shula's Story ".Lu Xun's "Three Xian Collection", "Two Heart Collection", "Morning Flowers and Evening Collection" are also seen from here. Grandma gave me the old-fashioned copper spoon in the shape of a "卡" and told me to take the book and read it myself and put it back. Many years later, when I revealed this experience in front of my uncle's sickbed and thanked him for the spiritual food he left behind, my 80s could not help but shed tears of mixed feelings with me...
Primary, Junior High School, and High School graduation certificate.
is untold again, so hurry up and get back to the topic.
When it comes to parents, relatives and friends praise Lao Chen and his wife for their ability to teach their children. I thought about it carefully. In fact, my parents are more like "kung fu is beyond poetry" when it comes to education. Yes, they cannot teach us too much due to their own conditions. Their cleverness is not to teach us much cultural knowledge directly, but to strive for the children's due reading opportunities, create a better learning environment, stimulate their enthusiasm for learning, and enhance their self-consciousness in learning. In addition, it also includes cultivating good character and improving life and survival ability. In one sentence, let parent-child love integrate into all aspects of children's growth.
separate, let’s talk about my father first. My father is gentle, kind, loyal, honest and honest, and basically belongs to the person who is happy and happy. For example, the eldest brother and the second brother graduated from high school and returned to his hometown to farm, and there was no hope of recommending military service or college. My father specially hired a carpenter to come to his house and bought two wheelbarrows with exquisite materials and extremely strong s. The brother and brother each had one, and the meaning was very clear: be determined in the countryside and work gloriously.
Of course, my father will also actively strive for opportunities when he sees them. For example, when my younger brother graduated from junior high school at the age of 12 and had no hope of recommending high school, his father learned that the neighboring brigade intended to run a high school class in his primary school, so he found the brigade secretary's house and asked him to help him take over the child. Although it is a high school class taught by two elementary school teachers, at least the children are not allowed to drop out of school at a young age.
My father is talented, has a strong memory, and has a strong desire for reading since childhood. He and his uncle can also be said to have changed their destiny by studying. The only ones in the village had a public meal after liberation.
talks about the experience of a teenager. What my father can’t let go of until he is old is that he has not read enough books. "That year, Master Jian passed the exam, but he was too light and was not admitted. At that time, there was a Puyu Middle School in Xuanping County that could also go to study, but your grandfather calculated that if I went to the county town to study, I had to pay nine dan of rice tuition, and a cow I raised at home had to hire someone to grazed. After going back and forth, I could buy a mu of land a year. After settlement, my grandfather said, forget it, don't study anymore." My father looked regretful.
Regarding reading, the older generation believes in "sinking stones and rotting", and believes that as long as you spend time reading books, you will always make progress. My father said he graduated from a junior high school. I heard him introduce his experience of studying. It took him seven years to calculate that the primary school was in total. Most of the time was in the War of Resistance Against Japan, and it was normal to go up and down. I believe my father is a piece of material for studying. Before taking the college entrance examination, I read the national textbooks he read, and I also saw the small regular script he wrote, and the handwriting was as neat as a copybook. One of the characters is written in the picture and it is unforgettable: "Today's business, today's end."
My father wrote very well, and abacus is also good at typing. He trained our three brothers to inherit their father's business since he was a child. For this purpose, he made two practice boards with large and small ones, both of which were painted with black and white, with white brushes and black chalks. In addition, he also bought several pairs of plastic small abacus for us to practice abacus . From setting an example and teaching by example, my father did everything he could do.
There has always been a saying in China that fathers are strict and mothers are kind. As far as my family is concerned, it may be more accurate to say that fathers are kind and mothers are strict. My father rarely scolds people, but my mother controls it a little harshly, which is said later.
My father works in a supply and marketing cooperative. He goes home once or twice a month. He often has the opportunity to go on a business trip. He always brings some local specialties for the elderly and children to taste. For example, Jinhua crispy cake, cloud cake, , cowpea crispy , chicken cake, , baked bread, etc., we often have eaten since we were young.When my brother and I were in high school in the district, other students usually only had a can of pickles a week (the traditional vegetables in my hometown, the vegetable heart was pickled and dried and then marinated, which was almost saltier than salt). As for us, my father cooked the vegetables every now and then asked the cargo transporter of the supply and marketing cooperative to bring them, including fried hairtail, dried vegetables and meat, lard residue, etc., which made people feel full of fatherly love.
The college entrance examination has been restored, and my father has unconditionally supported us to take the exam. Before the July-8th college entrance examination, I went into seclusion for ten days to review and was locked in the bedroom of my father's supply and marketing cooperative - the corner of an old ancestral hall. During the day, my father provided full catering logistics services after work; at night, the father and son were lying on the same bed, and he was also responsible for turning on and off the electric fan to kill mosquitoes. That was a ten days of extremely efficient efficiency, and it was truly a matter of not leaving home and focusing on it. Thank you very much for the "College Entrance Examination Review Outline" issued by the Ministry of Education that year. I reviewed it according to the requirements of the outline, and sat on the back seat of my father's bicycle, and he carried it to the town examination room to take the college entrance examination.
For my father, the joy of being named to the list is the financial burden. Although there was a people's scholarship system in that era, and the tuition and living expenses were mainly borne by the state, my father always did his best to support us. Since I was admitted to university, my father sent 10 yuan a month as a expense other than the scholarship. In 1980, the highest peak, his three sons were in college at the same time. At that time, his father's salary was 43.5 yuan, and each person had 30 yuan a month, which means that he only left his living expenses and subsidies for his family. However, my father would rather save money than deduct us any points. He would often increase his budget after returning to school after winter and summer vacations. Of course, he also knew very well that his sons were sensible and no one would spend money indiscriminately.
I was unable to make my father's painstaking efforts. I also learned from my father to record the detailed accounts of income and expenditure, and recorded every expenditure in four years of college. The account book was not found for a while, but I remember counting that except for the scholarship, it cost more than 1,300 yuan in total. Of course, most of it was paid by my father.
First arrived in Hangzhou (take a photo with Wu Xiaowen, a fellow fellow student in the 78 Chinese training class).
I talked about my father, let’s talk about my mother. Compared with fathers, perhaps the mother has a stronger obsession with studying, less refusal to accept her fate, more courageous in fighting, and more strict in her children.
On the mother's side, grandparents and grandparents were both from the so-called "good family". In the late Qing Dynasty and early Republic of China, my grandfather's father (i.e., Tai Grandpa) founded "Zhicheng Primary School" in the village. He asked his four sons to study, and finally parted ways in the military, political and academic circles. In the ninth year of the Republic of China, Tai Grandpa himself received a praise from the President: "Extremely Sexual", and the original copy is still preserved in the county museum. Among the four sons of the Grandpa, Zhu Tian, the third son, was the most famous. He served as the staff officer of the Zhejiang Provincial Defense Forces Command. He followed Sun Yat-sen to participate in the Northern Expedition and moved to Guangdong, Jiangxi, Zhejiang and Anhui. He fought countless wars, but unfortunately died young. My grandfather ranked fourth in the year and studied the least in self-confidence. He graduated from Chuzhou Agricultural School in the 1930s and worked in Xuanping County.
The origin of the scholars is that my grandmother's family seems to be deeper than my grandfather's family. There were many college students in the 1940s and 1950s. My uncle said that Wang Ruzhi, a female scientist who participated in the first atomic bomb explosion test in New China, was her grandmother’s early classmate and also her granddaughter of her grandmother’s family.
There is one of the grandfather’s family mottos, which is to encourage learning, believing in “there is a golden house in books”, and encourage descendants to go out, “Don’t let the sect guard their homes or stop their ambitions.” Grandma died the year I was born. My grandfather had a tragic fate. It was not until 1974 that I went to high school that I returned to my hometown from the distant exile in Inner Mongolia. Despite this, the obsession with reading from my grandfather’s family has taken root and blossomed in his eldest daughter’s heart, which has profoundly influenced and changed our destiny.
I have recorded my mother's chance to study for her three sons. In fact, I don’t know how much effort my mother put into high school that year. Because I don’t care about my grades when I go to high school, I only rely on recommendations, and the quota is allocated to the brigade, and the recommendation rights are in the brigade. At that time, a relative was a brigade cadre. My mother asked him to help, but he said, "Everyone knows that we are relatives, I can't speak." My mother asked the junior high school class teacher to find a way for his favorite students, but the head teacher said that he could not help. There was no result in mediation through other channels. I mobilized me to go back to junior high school to resume my studies in the coming year, but I refused to obey.
What should I do if I spend all my time and there are walls everywhere? If it were a father, he might have accepted his fate, but his mother would not give up or give up. She stared at the opportunity behind.
A cousin from my junior high school class recommended to go to high school. When I came back on the first Sunday, my mother stared at her and asked this and that. The core was to ask if there were any classmates who didn’t report. My cousin said no. My mother reminded: If anyone doesn’t go, you must tell her.
When I came back on the second Sunday, my cousin told my mother: A classmate from the next brigade came for a week due to family difficulties. He didn’t come this week, so I can’t say it anymore. My mother suddenly felt that the opportunity had come, so she acted quickly. After verifying the information and inquiring about the replacement path, the mother fully mobilized the connections she accumulated as a tailor, and used her son's excellent study sign to compete with her own character and popularity. After several days of running around, the commune member in charge of education finally decided: Our Deyun Commune will make up for the vacancies in high school by ourselves.
Revisiting the "Neople" Lao Yu (right), who made the decision to make me into a high school class.
adheres to the ancestral teaching of "do not let the back home", and the mother pays great attention to cultivating her son's independent living ability so that she can have the opportunity to let go in the future. For example, rural boys rarely wash clothes by themselves, but their mother took us to Xibu to wash clothes from childhood: from wiping soap to brushing the collar and cuffs, from rubbing and rubbing to pounding clothes with wooden trowels, to how to clean, wrung, dry, and even how to fold neatly in the end, the procedures are very rigorous and orderly. There are also how to cook and organize the room. My mother has also trained us since childhood. Thanks to the "boy skills" given to us by my mother, we seemed at ease in terms of self-care ability whether we went to college or work.
The mother said that although she didn't like reading very much when she was a child, she really likes children who are good at studying. In addition to his own son, whenever he meets a good child, his mother must have a bright eye for him. Once, I went to the same village to work as a tailor. When I heard that the girl in the family was very good at studying, my mother showed a lot of love. Seeing this, the hostess said casually that if you really like it, let her be your daughter. My mother kept saying that how could that work? I didn't expect the joke to come true, my mother had a goddaughter out of thin air. My mother once read the letter from a girl to me, and she whispered "mom" in the letter, which was very intimate! After my brother was admitted to college, my mother transferred all her energy to the girl, and from time to time to return classes to the girl, giving her various care and encouragement. As a result, this year, the girl soared into Peking University. There is an insider in my hometown. After reading the article "Three College Students in Three Years" written by me, I joked: Wrong, it should be four college students in four years! Later, the girl became my sister-in-law.
In the same year, Wuyi No. 2 Middle School’s senior high school re-class was also on the list, my cousin and my aunt’s son. In the summer of the first year, my uncle and my son had major differences on whether to continue to go to senior high school to resume classes. At the critical moment, my mother rushed to my sister's house and persuaded her brother-in-law to say: "You always have to read books. If you don't have enough money, I'll make up for it!" My uncle was a very personal person, but he could only listen to his aunt's words, so he immediately changed his mind and decided to let his son inherit and repeat the year. In the August 1st college entrance examination, my cousin really lived up to expectations and was admitted to the National University of Defense Technology in one fell swoop. My cousin later studied for graduate school and went abroad. After returning to China, he successfully started a business in Shanghai, and led his three brothers to study and start a business, which completely changed the trajectory of life and the destiny of the family.
It is true that parents teach their children well, especially mothers, they really have a way to deal with their children, and some things you can’t even imagine.
I was only two years old that year. It is said that my mother held me in one hand and carried a basket of clothes in the other to wash. After arriving at the creek port, she put a piece of straw mat she brought with her on the field stems, put me on the mat, picked up a branch and drew a circle in the mud, and said, "Be good, sit down and don't move, don't play with mud, wait for my mother to wash her clothes and bring you home." I was indeed sitting motionless. This scene was very similar to Sun Wukong used a golden hoop to draw a circle to create a Vajra cover.
When I was about the same age, one day I went to my mother's room and found that the door was bolted and could not be pushed in. I knocked on the door and asked my mother to open the door. But my mother responded in the room: "Be good, mom is asleep, you are going to be a brother soon. Go and sleep with grandma, and she said, grandma, grandma, mom said that you let your feet take me to sleep." It is said that I was obediently passing through the dark corridor alone and touching my grandma's room to follow grandma. Sure enough, within two days, my younger brother was born.
The above two stories may have been told by my mother or grandma later, but I believe it is true because there are some memories. The story below
was created by myself or by myself. When I was 11 years old, my mother underwent major surgery at Jinhua Hospital due to cervical cancer, and I took three weeks off to go to the hospital for care. It is the time to pick oranges, and the mother and son bought some oranges to eat. The orange peel left behind - the Chinese medicine tangerine peel was dried and sent to the acquisition station. It cost a total of 6 cents. Holding a few lead coins, I ran to Xinhua Bookstore to buy comic strips. I saw a book called "Send Intelligence" through the counter that cost exactly 6 cents. I knew this was a story about sending a letter to me, so I wanted to buy it at that time. But after a change of thought, he quickly left the bookstore and ran back to the hospital.
I happily told my mother that the orange peel was sold. My mother asked, "How much did it sell?"
"6 points."
"Oh~" Before my mother "Oh", I immediately said, "I bought books."
Mother said, "Okay~"
Before she could finish her words, I quickly ran back to Xinhua Bookstore to buy the comic strips I had. I turned around and told my mother about the story and the song of my heart. My mother said in a angrily and loving tone: "It's great to buy books, how can I scold you!"
or the above three short stories, if they are labeled with small tags, they can be called self-discipline, independence and not too sensible.
In family education of more than children, mothers pay special attention to "leading the young", which not only allows children to be orderly in the old and young, but also helps, learns, and understands each other. Not only is it said that "big leads the small" on the way to school in Sanli, but also intentionally or unintentionally encourage the big ones to take the lead and the small ones to keep up in their studies, daily life and play.
For example, after eating, you are not allowed to stumble after serving. You are often encouraged to eat quickly and cleanly: "Eat fast, be a wife; eat slowly, beg for beggars!" What should I do if I kill a chicken occasionally, three children have two chicken legs? The mother sets rules: two people eat thighs, one each, one eats calves (wing roots), two people, each of which recognizes themselves, fair and just and joyful. Whenever you play toys or play games, you often have to give in and give in to the smaller ones. My younger brother likes to play with guns. Since I was a child, I have made countless toy guns for my younger brother. Some are even suspected of "privately making guns": saw the handle of the gun with wood, match the trigger, saw the short of the barrel with a sprayer rod, connect the bullet shell, dig a small piece of small round metal behind and drill a hole, then match it with a thimble and connect it to a spring, use the copper burst paper for children to play as a fuse, and fill the barrel with earth and salt for hunting. Try it, hehe, good guy, you can really fight!
for studying, thank you for taking a good start. This later science man worked meticulously since childhood, had a neat and refreshing homework, and his handwriting was dignified and beautiful. He was a role model for his two younger brothers to learn from. However, in my memory, my elder brother also relied on learning once. Back then, the "useless theory of reading" was prevalent, and rural children were not surprised to skip school. That day, influenced by the village partners, the eldest brother was slow to go to school. It happened that his mother was not here, but his grandfather discovered it. Grandpa said that Lai Xue was not good at all, so he broke a thorn in the firewood pile, saying that you would go or not, and raised the thorn in his hand, while he was raising it towards his eldest grandson's calves. Finally, I finally saw my brother going to school as usual with tears in his eyes. I probably hadn't gone to school at that time, but Shan Thiya's power was deeply imprinted in my mind. I know that even though the school has cancelled the ruler, the family still has to have thorns. As a human being, you still have to be cautious and respectful!
, what secret weapon is Shan Thornyya? It is actually the branches of an ordinary fir tree. The branches and leaves are full of sharp thorns. When the sun becomes hard, it hurts a little but does not hurt the bones. Therefore, when a child is disobedient, adults always threaten: Do you want to eat fir thorns if you don’t obey! In a sense, the thorns represent discipline and rules.Of course, I feel that the thorns in my mother's mouth are basically deterrent weapons, at least I have never experienced them once.
I don’t know if I have experienced the smell of pine thorns, because my younger brother is naughty by nature. Especially when I go home for lunch in summer and have to go back to school for a nap, the children always want to escape. Sometimes my younger brother would go to the stream to swim and play in the water with his friends. If the mother learns afterwards, she will definitely be punished, which is not only to abide by school discipline, but also to make a personal safety plan. Some kind-hearted villagers also reminded me that you must be obedient and must not make your mother angry, otherwise her slender fingers will hurt when they hit her body!
Physical education classes are usually the favorite of rural children, and writing essays may be the most feared of rural children. This may be related to Chinese teaching methods. A good text can analyze the background and general meaning of the era and paragraphs as soon as it starts, and then break down the pieces to understand or analyze words, words, and sentences, which makes people feel boring but daunting. Little do people know that the basis of writing is reading - reading, reading, or reading. "If you read 300 Tang poems well, you will chant them even if you can't write poems." As mentioned earlier, I have been a substitute teacher in all grades, and I think I have the right to speak for this.
Mothers are in charge of learning, and there are also times when they are not "principles". That is, when writing essays, not only will the big guide the smaller ones, but sometimes the big ones will simply take over.
In the early years, I also saved a composition draft written by my brother for me. It was a short comment, with the title "Bao" and "Fight" and the theme was to fight hard and say "Private" with a flash of thought - when you have a bad idea in your mind, should you "Bao" or do you bravely reveal it and fight against it? Looking back, it is incredible to ask elementary school students to write such a major, profound and boring essay. At that time, I was in the third grade and just started writing classes, so it was normal for me to not write. I think it must be because I don’t know how to write, so my mother asked my brother to help me write. Brother Kuai is really a bit skillful. He used only two or three hundred words to explain the principles of "bao" and "fight", and his handwriting was clear and he had no changes.
In another two years, it will be my brother's turn to scratch his head for writing an essay. what to do? As a result, after several times, my mother discussed with me: "You are brother, please help him. He will naturally write something he will do when he grows up." When it comes to this, I can only obey the order. My mother was right, and my brother later wrote a very good essay and won the first place in the district's composition competition. Later, I followed my footsteps and went to the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University. Tagore said that the power of a child is the power of growth. An old colleague of mine said back then: Believe that children will grow up, and this is the truth.
Chinese Class 78 Family portrait of the sixth group of the second class.
As required by "Huang Changjiang", let's say so much about our college entrance examination prequel, especially about my parents. Or, the college entrance examination recollections of five years ago were written as "outer chapter", and this article will be used as "inner chapter". Time flies, and now the three of us brothers have almost all retired. We sit together and recall our childhood experiences and my parents. We are glad that we have caught up with a good era and glad that our parents helped us seize the good opportunity.
(Crafted on August 22, 2022, also to commemorate the 118th anniversary of Mr. Deng’s birth)
reunites in my hometown (2009 Spring Festival family portrait).
[Echo Wall]
Qianjiashan : The growth of every child is obtained by the efforts of his parents. Only with such respectable parents can there be four college students leaving the same family.
Zhu Chengjun : When I woke up early in the morning to read the article of Chen Jianhua, I found that there were many miracles among my classmates. First, the two Fang brothers were in the Chinese department of Shanghang University, and then the four masters of Zhuoya's family. Now, the Jianhua family has passed 3+1, which is really exciting. The ones that should be thanked the most are parents. In the same era, in the same family of multiple children, it must be the credit of their parents who can get into college in a row. Therefore, we pay eternal salute to our old fathers and mothers.
Cao Bula : I feel more and more that we men are really inferior to women. Although men still dominate in the whole society, has the firmness of faith, lofty vision, pure persistence in emotions, as well as dedication, sacrifice, selflessness, and transcendence, that is, from the perspective of human emotions and spiritual character, we men are not as good as women. two articles by Jianhua provide vivid examples of this point of view. If it weren’t for the nurturing, raising and education of such a great mother, how could it be that “four heroes in one family”? Thinking of myself, being able to be born and grown up in this life is mainly due to the mother's achievements. I think: If one day the men in this country are as good as women in terms of spiritual character, then true modernization will come.
Wu Chaoqian : @Cao Bula Incisive comments!
Lu Lihan : @Cao Bula @Zhu Chengjun There are three Fan brothers who were admitted to university in the same year!
Chen Jianxin : I have read Jianhua’s extrabirth of the college entrance examination, and now I read the internal biography again. Finally, I learned why his mother could send her three sons to university back then. It turned out that it was His mother’s family background played a huge role. His grandfather and grandmother's family not only attaches importance to education, but also produces so many outstanding talents! Therefore, His story further confirms my point of view. Many of our classmates have the source of culture behind it. Of course, wealthy families have more living water in this way. We cannot measure our family status after birth or even the education level of our parents, but should go back to three generations.
Just like me, my parents are obviously less educated than Jianhua’s parents. Both of them are on the urban poverty line and are not able to receive the most basic primary education. It was not until after marriage that they started to learn literacy in the literacy class. My father was over 30 years old at that time, and my mother was in her early 20s. But my grandfather is what my grandmother calls "Wenzhang". I have always understood this Shaoxing dialect vocabulary as a cultural person, who has read books and uses culture to make food. Although he died young, his influence on my mother was profound. My mother made rapid progress after learning literacy. Later, she read newspapers and compositions that exceeded the elementary school level. Because she liked literature, she customized "People's Literature" to benefit his son. She also borrowed it to me from the first novel I read.
So, reading Jianhua's "outside biography" and "internal biography" together can make us understand that One tried his best to let the three sons finish high school in the dilemma of that year and finally encountered a good era and entered university. Behind this seemingly magical fact, the family origins are at work.
I guess that without the changes in the Chinese nation since modern times, it is very likely that Jianhua’s mother would not marry Jianhua’s father, just like my mother would not marry my father. History is full of magical accidents, and this is probably fate. However, the inevitability of facing each other is more worthy of our deep thought.
I emphasize the origin of family culture, but it does not exclude the role of individuals. Jianhua's mother was so persistent in letting her three sons study, which was due to her personality. This is much higher than my mother. My mother just inadvertently influenced me, but she didn't pay attention to my personal studies, so she didn't say anything about whether I continued to study in high school and whether I was still studying in the factory. She just asked me to be a good worker. This gave me a lot of freedom to some extent, but like Jianhua's mother, I pushed hard on the journey of my three sons to study, and my mother did not do it. As a result, I was the only one of my four sisters and brothers in my family. In this regard, Jianhua’s mother is even better.
Zhu Chengjun : When commenting on my article, everyone said that I don’t look like I come from the countryside. In fact, I do little farm work. I have to thank my parents. They think I can study, so they don’t force me to do farm work, which shows that they have a broad vision. [Grin].
In the past, we always said that men and women were inequality in ancient China, but in fact, it is not entirely true. After a woman becomes a mother, her status in her family often exceeds that of a man. There is an old saying in Ningbo: I would rather be an official father than a beggar mother, which shows my mother's lofty status.
There is a saying in the Internal Classic that people take their father as their priest and mother as their basis. The mother determines a person's basic qualities.
Chen Jianhua : @Zhu Chengjun Learn and apply it.From phenomenon to essence, agree with Bra and you, women are indeed great compared to men. It seems that genetic research has proven that a child's IQ is 100% inherited from his mother. [Smiley Face].
Tong Guoliang : After reading the prequel and inner biography of Jianhua’s first and last articles about the college entrance examination, I felt that the records were detailed, full of affection and connotation. The family of three children has gone through twists and turns and is admitted to university. It is indeed hard-won and worth celebrating. From the legend of the two college students, Zhong Yixin and Qingzhi brothers, to the legend of Zhuoya as a four-time college student, and other classmates who have experienced hardships and even suffered extraordinary hardships, and then have entered the university, there is a shadow of family behind them, and it is positive culture that plays some role.
In the suffering "Cultural Revolution", there is still a trace of cultural light shining, which is particularly commendable. Culture focuses on inheritance. In the article, Jianhua recorded the family background of his mother and father, and the impact on their growth since childhood, especially his mother's diligence, simplicity and wisdom, which played a key role in helping her three children get into college. In fact, it is still the inheritance of culture. The spiritual character, wisdom and family style and academic style of the parents directly or indirectly influence future generations. History and chronicles (the biggest difference between history and chronicles is that history records but discusses it, while aspirations record but not discusses it) have the functions of "governing, preserving history, and educating". This time, writing a series of articles about what happened before and after the college entrance examination, not only allows future generations to see what their predecessors have experienced, but also can "understand" something. Thank you, Jianhua, for providing a real blueprint.
Yu Zhuoya: Reading Jianhua’s college entrance examination memories, my mood kept rising and falling. Behind the growth of the three brothers is because of such extraordinary and selfless parents. They firmly believe that the greatest wealth in this life is the three sons, and the best way for children is to study. My father's financial pressure and the small pastries I bought home, my mother's "Flying Man" sewing machine, my uncle's old book box, my brothers' "big with small", my small blackboard and plastic abacus, etc., all caused me too many similar memories...
I was in the same group as my classmates in Jianhua for four years, and they were familiar and friendly to each other. For a while after graduation, I took my daughter to Hangzhou to see a doctor many times. He invited me to live in his house. In order to give me a little more rest, I also queued up to register for me in the early morning. After dinner, we had a happy chat time. Such a deep friendship is extremely precious! I am forever grateful.
Ren Ping : Jianhua is sincere and kind, talented, and a good friend. [joy].
Shangjian: Under the proposition of "college entrance examination", my understanding of my classmates is far better than that of four years in school. The hardships and difficulties that everyone has experienced and the situations of their respective families truthfully reflect the stories of one grade and another era.
In many memories, the wisdom and dedication of mothers are a highlight. The memories of classmate Jianhua express his deep love and respect for his mother, allowing us to see a rural woman who, with her belief in reading, is firm and persistent, and devotes her all to the effort. She uses a Feiren brand sewing machine to let her three sons fly out of the poor countryside. He is such a smart, hardworking, knowledgeable, worthy of respect and nostalgia. Children raised by mothers like
are indeed outstanding. I don’t need to elaborate on the character and talent of Jianhua. This boy who only knew that he wrote good handwriting when he was in school now has a strong writing style and unique insights, which makes me sincerely admire him. [powerful].
Chen Jianhua : @Shang Jian. Student Shang has a unique vision and has made some sense. Indeed, my mother likes "flying people" and has created three "flying people". She is not afraid of us flying far away, but she is afraid of us staying at home. Thank you. [Close Fist][Close Fist].
Zhang Lingyan : We didn’t know much about the situation in the countryside back then. Only after we became college students did we notice the college entrance examination situation around us. In the city, what people hear more is that teachers' children are more likely to get into college, and expanding the scope is that the descendants of intellectuals are more likely to get into college.And Chen Jianhua, Zhu Chengjun, Lai Wenhong, Qian Zhixi, Xu Helong, Huang Shizhong, Yu Zhuoya... These young people who returned home from the past seemed to be unique in cultural deserts like rural islands and stood out in . Today, after reading their college entrance examination memoir articles, we will find that behind their personal efforts, there is actually a group of educated elders who are influencing and guiding them . Therefore, the rural islands in the city are the same. In the 1977-78 years, the "useless knowledge theory" that was rampant in was the descendants of cultural people, or the generation who understood culture and advocated culture were influencing and saving their next generation.
Ren Ping : @Zhang Lingyan It makes sense. Young people’s own values and fighting spirit are necessary.
Zhang Lingyan : @Ren Ping Yes, this is the result of the interaction between internal and external factors.
Cen Baokang : @Chen Jianhua A loving mother and filial son, a family of fireworks. [Strong]
Chen Jianhua : @Zhang Lingyan Summary very well! By extension, the inheritance of Chinese civilization has also gone through hardships and stubbornly moving forward. [Strong][Strong].
Fang Qingzhi : @Zhang Lingyan [Strong][Strong] Good summary! It's not inadvertently, but naturally. [Grin].
Zhang Lingyan : @Chen Jianhua Yes, it’s just that the inheritance of the city is a bright line, while the inheritance of the countryside is often a quiet and deep flow, which is easy to be ignored. Thanks to Shizhong’s creativity, let the students recall the students’ thoughts of mentioning someone and something that was deeply affected during the college entrance examination. This makes the bits and pieces that are immersed in the wilderness and mountains gather into a trickle, allowing us to see the inheritance of the inheritance of Chinese civilization in the countryside among college entrance examination students.
Fang Qingzhi : Brother Jianhua is similar to mine and he is from the group next door, so we still had a lot of dates during our college years. He is humble, simple and unpretentious, and speaks softly. It feels extremely comfortable to interact.
The strong family cultural genes and personal positive progress made four heroes in that special era, and completely changed the entire family through the college entrance examination. From 1978 to 1981, four dazzling emeralds appeared in Wuyi County, a hinterland in central Zhejiang, which is completely reasonable. At the class reunion more than 0 years later, Jianhua quietly brought several boxes of gifts to all-grade students who had not met for a long time. The crystal-clear and round red lotus seeds still remain fragrant, which shows that they have feelings and righteousness.
Yu Zhuoya: Qingzhi said it very well! [Close Fists][Close Fists][Close Fists]
Du Wenqing : @Fang Qingzhi I was also eager to enter a key university back then. It’s just because I reviewed at home and lacked guidance from teachers, the answers were not standard enough, not accurate enough, and too many points were deducted. [Cover your face]. But for the children of the farmer family, it is already happy enough to be able to break out of the farming door and get rid of the heavy physical labor.
Chen Jianhua : @Fang Qingzhi Xiao Fang is over-reputable! If it is not unfair to the vulgarity, the Chen family is really inferior to the old Fang family. I deeply feel that our classmates can get together, and after nearly half a century, the deeper the knowledge and deeper the affection, it is better than the soybean-flavored wine that has been stored for a hundred years. It is a fate that can only be cultivated in centuries! [Close Fists][Close Fists]
Zhao Jianzhong : One year I went to Wuyi and heard Jianhua tell his mother's story, including the scene of his mother when she died. There are some details I still remember. I noticed that no matter where the land of Zhejiang and even China is, there will be some talented people, whose wisdom, mind, spirit, insight, and even their appearance are far above the surrounding beings. Jianhua's mother is like this. A certain area of water and soil often produces a very small number of outstanding people. Jianhua's gentleness is as gentle as jade, as light as chrysanthemum, as smart as beautiful as Wuyi fluorite, and his beautiful eyes are all melted into his mother's genes. His mother is amazing; it is a happy thing to have such a mother's children.
Jin Jianren : Jianhua's "inside" and "outside" chapter tells the story of how four golden phoenixes fly out of the family, which is interesting to read.There are several examples in our grade. The good seedlings of always emerge one by one. It is not so much a gene, but a family tradition. It can be seen from the fact that Jianhua's mother is born to understand management. The ancient Taoist warm-heartedness is Chen’s mother’s character. The fourth phoenix became the Chen family’s wife, which is the best reward. Jianhua upholds his mother's good qualities. I have had several things to bother Jianhua, and Jianhua always exceeds my expectations. Once, I accidentally talked about my wife's uncle's disease, and Jianhua helped me get folk remedies and herbs to give them to my house. I'm very grateful.
Zhao Jianzhong : @Shujian The genes I mentioned are basically the same as the family tradition you mentioned. After gene externalization, it becomes a family tradition.
Chen Jianhua : Thank you Brother Jianren for the Misfortune Award. Always remember your courage, talent and character. Suddenly I found that these are all related to your massive amount. I am ignorant. I only found out when I chatted that day that you are still the wine king in our grade. I am Buddhist. I guess someone in our group six will express dissatisfaction. Unfortunately, everyone is over the age of trying to fight for wine, so it seems that how to discharge the wine jar seats without objection has become a problem.
Jin Jianren : @Chen Jianhua People’s potential needs to be stimulated, and the same is true for alcohol. When the expectant wife put a bottle of white wine in front of her, she said: See how much you can drink? How can I not drink it? After drinking, I rode my bike to Xinhua Cinema to watch "Iron Armor Zero Eight". It should not be uncommon to be able to drink a pound of white wine, but the road from the dormitory of the Agricultural University is covered with rice fields on both sides. I can ride a bicycle and take people without falling, which is the real alcohol tolerance. From then on, I am full of confidence.
Wu Chaoqian : @Chen Jianhua The expected brother Jianhua’s memory article is indeed a big deal, and the full text is full of gratitude, thanks to parents, teachers, and times. Chen Jianhua's parents taught their children by example and deeds, and made three college students in three years. Jianhua’s mother’s foresight created the fourth college student of the Chen family!
Coincidentally, my father, like Jianhua's father, both graduated from high school and wrote well and made good calculations. My father has a high elementary education and is already a prominent figure among the neighbors in the old city of Wenzhou. He is a worker but is very arrogant. His neighbors respectfully call him "Mr. Wu". My father was a firm admirer of "only high schooling". His neighbors admired him for his salary of only more than 40 yuan, supporting his family of nine, and none of his seven children dropped out of school. My eldest brother was admitted to Wuhan Water Conservancy and Electric Power College in the early 1960s. My second brother graduated from junior high school and had two choices: technical school and high school. My father opposed the opposition and chose the latter. As a result, in 1969, my second brother went to Heilongjiang to support the border as an educated youth, while his classmates who entered the technical school became seafarers or workers, which was very strong. The mother, who felt sorry for her children but couldn't read a single word, complained about her father's choice many times, and the father, who was very enthusiastic, was speechless. After all, it is a grass-roots person. His father's knowledge determines that he cannot see too far and he has no hope for the youngest child in his family - my study.
In my eyes, my father's brush calligraphy and fountain pen calligraphy are very beautiful and outstanding, but I never had the patience to teach me how to write. The one who has a great influence on my study is the eldest brother. My elder brother often tells his college life and his stories of swimming in the Yangtze River. These are my continuous motivation for studying, and in fact they are another channel for inheriting the family’s cultural genes.
My father said to his neighbor proudly more than once in his later years: "My three sons and three daughters-in-law are all college students!" (My second brother passed the key line in the Heilongjiang College Entrance Examination in 1977, but was admitted to the Mathematics Department of Shuangyashan Normal University) This shows that my father also cared about me very much, but he didn't say it in front of me.
As a pseudo-"collector", I was deeply shocked by Brother Jianhua's cultural relics level. My earliest cultural relics were junior high school students’ certificates, and the Jianhua Brother’s primary school graduation certificate is more valuable. Brother Jianhua made detailed records of every income and expense in the four years of college. He is really a person who is capable of doing great things. I have similar experiences. I just graduated from university and worked in agricultural and rural surveys in the Municipal Party Committee Office. I like to visit farmers' markets. In more than two years, I have visited more than 40 markets of all sizes, and recorded the prices of major agricultural products such as meat, chickens, ducks, fish, vegetables, and soy products. Later, I changed my career, changed my interests and lost my laptop. If it continues to this day, it will definitely be a family. It seems that you can't do big things without perseverance.
Everyone’s memories have their own unique perspective. When they are brought together, they are vivid and charming paintings and heavy historical records of that era. Thanks to Brother Jianhua, our memories are richer and more three-dimensional!
Chen Jianhua : It seems that Brother Chaoqian’s family has entered the paternal society, and you have provided a sample of successful paternal lines. However, if it is convenient, you can trace your grandparents back to you. I guess your grandparents have a more story. As for collection, it is definitely not as good as you, mainly because I didn’t pay attention to custody earlier. But when it comes to these physical objects, I suddenly thought of asking everyone to collect and preserve them. One day, they can combine the "building of walls" to make a concentrated display.
Wu Chaoqian : @Chen Jianhua My mother is a housewife who doesn’t know a single word, but it has a great impact on me! [Smile][Smile][Smile]. The outsiders in my family (brother-in-law and sister-in-law, etc., are inaccurate) praised my father's vision!
Lu Lihan : @Chen Jianhua As my brother said, in that era, it was only a matter of thinking whether a farmer's children took the college or a technical secondary school. It is very simple to consider the problem. Let’s talk about it outside the farming gate. It is due to the mentality of seeking stability. Several of my friends have very high IQs, but they all chose to take the technical secondary school entrance exam, and they are basically normal schools. Due to their low start, their future development is limited.
I accidentally discovered that in those years, technical secondary school graduates, especially normal students, were basically from farmers. The reason for this is that The problem is very real for the children of farmers to consider - let’s talk about after breaking out of the farming family. The key is to take off the straw sandals and change into leather shoes.
is a city household registration, but it is different. , either if you don’t take the exam, you must go to the university. They are considering the issue of "leather shoes quality" or the issue of future career orientation . From this perspective, it is understandable that Shen Lan felt a little frustrated when she received the admission notice from the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University that year.
I taught at Jinyun Middle School back then. To be frank, I am quite enthusiastic. When it comes to taking the university or taking the technical secondary school, I chose the university without any ambiguity. I am confident that as a teacher at Jinyun Middle School, I can’t even pass the university. So how many people in the whole county can pass the university? A classmate from the same high school class as me, who also substituted a class at Jinyun Middle School and had a urban household registration. He said he would take the college entrance exam, but he was disdainful of the technical secondary school. The science subject was also launched in 1977, but the political review failed. In 1978, he continued to take the science subject, and I changed to the liberal arts subject. He often comes to my room to brag: Unless you fall asleep in the exam, I don’t believe you won’t pass the exam, and you have to do it well! As a result, he took the second place in science that year and went to Zhejiang University.
Chen Jianhua : @Lu Lihan From the first time I saw you in college, the image of a founder appeared in my mind for some reason, and it has been lingering for forty years. With your courage and confidence, you must be sure to pass the college entrance exam. However, as you were at that time, I believe there was still pressure to compete with your students on the same stage. There was a pair of teachers and students in my hometown. The students easily signed up for the exam, but the teacher was reluctant to apply for the exam. He was worried that once the students passed the exam and failed the exam, how could they still be on the podium in the future? Fortunately, they were all admitted in the end: the teacher graduated from Jinyi Middle School and the scores were the same as mine; the students were fresh graduates of the commune local high school, went to the college line, and entered a teaching point of Zhejiang Normal University, and everyone was very happy.
Lu Lihan : Competing on the same stage with students, there must be pressure. This has been explained in my memory article. To be precise, in the 1978 college entrance examination, I competed on the same stage with my teachers and students, but fortunately my teachers also passed the exam. He is also a top student at Jinyi Middle School. ——Jinyun County was once transferred to Jinhua area. Xuanping and Jinyun belong to Chuzhou and are connected by official roads.
Xu Helong : After reading Brother Jianhua’s college entrance examination prequel, it was like listening to the eldest brother next door chatting about home, and it felt very friendly. The story of the Jianhua brothers' family is a typical example of the ideals of rural people in that era : a strict mother and a kind father, a good teacher, a good teacher; a promising child, a bright family! I believe that Brother Jianhua’s family must be a “good family” that everyone praises!
As many students have discussed, the inheritance of Chinese culture mainly depends on the family in rural areas.The cultural genes of the family have strong vitality and can sometimes be inherited from across generations. The success of the three Jianhua brothers obviously inherited the matriarchal cultural genes. Jianhua's mother's extraordinary insights, her persistent belief that reading can change her destiny, and Jianhua's father's silent love for moistening things are important conditions for the three Jianhua brothers to become successful. In particular, the educational method of Jianhua's parents' leniency and strictness and encourages self-reliance and self-improvement is a textbook for parents and is worthy of summary and promotion.
admires Brother Jianhua's simple, smooth, profound and emotional narrative style, presenting us with a legendary vivid story and providing an important sample for understanding that era.
Chen Jianhua : @Long Tenghu Yue Thank you Marshal for listening to the old man’s chatter. Although you are younger than me and do more farm work than me, some of your stories are also wonderful, and your writing style is smoother and more vivid. I feel that the special significance of this collective remembrance move is not to record the college entrance examination, but to truly display the vast puzzle of that era through the extension and excavation of everyone and every family. also includes the specific context of rural cultural heritage and evolution. In a sense, Our generation of people who are fortunate to "jump to the farm" collectively have a responsibility to keep a real record for our rapidly disappearing villages, our parents who are getting old or getting old. I look forward to the Marshal having more words about flying dragons and phoenixes.
Qian Zhixi : Brother Jianhua’s college entrance examination article describes his family background in more detail, which is very valuable for understanding the culture of the township . In that era, Brother Jianhua's family was a relatively high class in the countryside. Because his father was educated and worked in a supply and marketing cooperative, he actually encountered a crisis that he might not be able to go to high school, which is amazing!
Jianhua Brother is gentle and elegant, now knows that this temperament comes from his family. His younger brother Jianzhong is also very pretty and taller than his brother. This was caused by that special era. My four brothers are the second brothers, and I am also the shortest one among my brothers. Chen Shengyong, a master's classmate from Wuyi, has a good relationship with Jianhua Kunzhong. Brother Sheng Yong often talks about Brother Jianhua’s family. Brother Jianhua’s brother and his wife are very familiar with me. But I haven't seen each other for many years!
Chen Jianhua : Thanks to Brother Zhixi’s love and encouragement. The world is very big, and the world is very small. There are so many people in the vast sea of people, and they are crowded with each other, and many times there are just a few people. Maybe this is what is called fate. Brother Shengyong is also my close friend for decades. His college entrance examination was very legendary. He was obviously admitted to a technical secondary school student, but he was inexplicably admitted to a technical secondary school student. He was unwilling to stop there, so he came out to teach in the normal school for two years and went directly to take the postgraduate entrance examination and became your classmate. Fate will tease people, but he is not someone who lets fate tease people. You are all scholars and people with stories. [Silly Smile][Silly Smile].
Wu Chaoqian : @Qian Zhixi @Chen Jianhua Chen Shengyong is so familiar. I remember that he once gave a special lecture on "Strengthening the Construction of Socialist Consultative Democracy" at the Standing Committee of the Wenzhou Municipal CPPCC, a hot topic at that time. I remember he is the dean and professor of the School of Public Administration of Zhejiang University of Technology and Business, and a member of the Standing Committee of the Provincial CPPCC. His major and literary research are a bit far apart! I don’t know that he and Brother Zhixi are actually graduate roommates and have such a deep friendship with Brother Jianhua, otherwise I would have asked more questions at that time.
Fang Yixin : The three Chen Shengyong mentioned are also my classmates and friends for many years. He first worked in the Provincial Academy of Social Sciences, and later transferred back to Hangzhou University (later Zhejiang University) to be a teacher. Later, he went to Zhejiang University of Technology and Business as a dean as the School of Public Administration.
Shen Lan : After reading Brother Jianhua’s article, it seems like I’m watching a deeply touching video, Awesome mother and a filial child . I also think of more mothers, especially Zhuoya's mother, whom I am familiar with. They are all great mothers who are smart, hardworking, selfless, knowledgeable, dare to fight, and do not accept their fate. Our mother's generation was really hard back then. She had to support half of the sky outside and worry about everything at home. You have to be careful when you have a meal or a piece of clothing, work hard all day long, and you have to be worried about all kinds of unrestrained disasters. The mothers in rural areas have more worries about their children's future because of the household registration system.But with persistence and belief, they seized the opportunity to change their destiny for their children, which is admirable! The sharing of classmates makes us understand and cherish each other more. Thank you! ——The Xuanlian brought by Brother Jianhua is the best lotus seed I have ever eaten. The memory is still fresh and the fragrance lingers on the mouth.
Chen Jianhua : @Shen Lan Thank you, thank you for your understanding and unremitting praise for the women in the farm (fishing) village like Zhuo Ya and me. My mother especially likes to listen to good things, and even a little bit stinky. For example, in the late stage of Alzheimer's disease, I deliberately teased her and asked her who is the most beautiful. She would giggle and light her nose with her fingers and say, "It's her, it's her!" I believe that if she knew in heaven, she would definitely enjoy it and be very happy.
In addition, Xuanlian in my hometown is one of the three famous lotus in China. It was once a tribute in the Qing Dynasty. It is said that the seeds come from the lotus throne of Guanyin Bodhisattva. "God gave Xuanping gold and earth, and the earth nurtured the white jade lotus in the palace." Xuanlian deserves the glory of the best lotus seeds in the world as you said. Thank you for advertising for Xuanlian for free. [Smile][Close Fists][Close Fists].
Jin Shuliang : Studying in school is not just about learning from books, from teachers, but more importantly from classmates. In my interactions with Brother Jianhua, I felt that he was a sincere, enthusiastic, tolerant and generous person who could be trusted. Seeing that he always smiled and peacefully, he never thought that he had experienced the tempering of life. It really fits the saying: Everyone is a book. I have had the honor of meeting his parents, and I sincerely thank them for sending me a classmate and close friend.
Before Jianhua entered high school, he started working in farmland at the age of 14 because of a cadre's words: "It's just your family's ingredients..." When I was in the countryside, I was recommended to raise the price many times, and I was repeatedly blocked by the sentence "Just his family...". Although this sentence seems to have not become history, fortunately, there are not many people who have heard of it.
Chen Jianhua : @Jin Shuliang Thank you to the elder brother for taking the time to read and for his care for his father, mother and family over the years. I just went to elementary school the year you graduated from high school. The misunderstanding of history made you wait for more than ten years as classmates with us. I remember that Brother Jianxin said before that if my mother turned her head down, my mother would most likely not marry my father (although my father is not bad). I also agree with this. All of these may be historical mistakes. I have a fallacy. should choose the right direction from a country and nation. From the perspective of the reality of everyone, maybe we should not only thank history for its correctness, but also history for its mistakes. After thanking me, I immediately bid farewell to mistakes and set out again towards the correctness and justice of history. Classes and strata are objective dynamics, but they should never be manipulated again. [Close Fist][Close Fist][Close Fist].
Ni Jianping : @Chen Jianhua What is the township called on the map of Xuanping in Wuyi? When I read the articles of Jacky Cheung, I also need to check the place name on the map. For example, if I want to check where Toumen Island is, I need to check the articles? In addition to sharing articles, I also go there to have a fun and share it with doubles.
Chen Jianhua : The old county town of Xuanping is called Liucheng. My hometown is Taoxi Town to the north. I look forward to taking the opportunity to accompany you [Close Fists] [Close Fists].
Wu Chaoqian : Brother Jianping is really interested, and he actually travels with the article and shares it with both. [Close Fist][Close Fist][Close Fist].
Ren Ping : @Ni Jianping You might as well play, and you are still smart in your hands and feet now. Are you still in Zhuji, Shaoxing?
Ni Jianping : OK, I really hope to travel with Brother Ren Ping.
Wu Chaoqian : @Ren Ping @Ni Jianping Support, organize in-depth tours to places where old classmates fight, live, and fall in love. Senior tour group. [Smile][Smile][Smile].
Fang Yixin : I read two articles by Brother Chen Jianhua. It is both simple and plain, and vivid and concrete. It is very helpful: especially the role of parents and families in the growth and development of children. Through the examples of the three brothers of Jianhua, it is undoubtedly more prominent. Jianhua has a great and good mother. She not only teaches her children well, but also has great vision and great knowledge in major issues such as studying and taking college entrance examinations. All the students said it in their messages, and they praised it very much. Jianhua's mother is completely worthy of it.
What I want to say is that Jianhua also has a very good father. He works in a rural supply and marketing cooperative. Although he "refers to the store as his home all year round" and does not directly raise children, it is his hard work and earning wages that provide the family with the capital to live. Jianhua's father is also very caring for his children. For example, he found a way to get his younger son to go to high school and not let him drop out of school at home; he had expected the worst plan for his younger son's way out, and he was in line with the "sloppy class" of his own supply and marketing cooperative. For example, "The joy of being named on the list is accompanied by the heavy burden of the financial burden." Since 1980, Jianhua's father gave his three sons who were in college every month, "the living expenses and subsidies for his family are only 13.5 yuan left for himself," and so on.
It is said that father's love is like a mountain. In Chinese families, compared with mothers' care for their children and daily housework, fathers' love for their children is often deeper and more implicit, and less visible, but it is also very important and indispensable. Also, taking care of the mother who has "had been suffering from amnesia for seven or eight years", is definitely mainly Jianhua's father. It is precisely because of the company and care of his wife that Jianhua's mother has peacefully completed the last journey of her life. Therefore, while thanking and praising the great mother, don’t forget to support and work hard behind the scenes. Jianhua's father is now 92 years old and is spending his days in his hometown's hot spring nursing hospital. I wish the elderly good health and longevity.
Chen Jianhua : @Fang Yixin Thank you to the empathy of the Dafang family. I am very glad that we all have very kind, kind and stoic parents who also have some solutions. The rivers flow endlessly. In the middle, every family has stories to dig. Father’s love is like a mountain, mother’s love is like water, and many ordinary parents are actually worth erecting a monument. Maybe this is not a grand narrative, but it is the original and true nature of life. [Close Fist][Close Fist].
Zhang Lingyan : @Fang Yixin @Chen Jianhua Fang Yixin is right. Your mother’s guidance on studying for you three is based on your father’s money to support the family. In the face of material shortage at that time, the position of the supply and marketing cooperative was relatively valuable. Of course, it declined later. I had a primary school classmate who was good at singing and dancing. He became a private primary school teacher and was also very competent for this job. But later her father retired from the supply and marketing cooperative. Without saying a word, she withdrew from the position of a private teacher to take over her father's position, because the supply and marketing cooperative was very affordable at that time. But later, private teachers could become regular and receive salary from civil servants, and she finally retired from the supply and marketing cooperative just for the company's pension.
Fang Yixin : @Zhang Lingyan Indeed, the work of supply and marketing cooperatives was still very popular back then. [Fist-Close].
Chen Jianhua : @Zhang Lingyan Do you know that you are reviving the supply and marketing cooperative now? As old children of supply and marketing, we have a very complicated relationship with this institution that supports decades of commercial life in rural China. Our supply and marketing cooperative was founded in 1951, and my father went in 1952 and worked until he retired. It can be said that most of his years of glory and honor and disgrace were attributed to the supply and marketing cooperative.
When I first went to Hangzhou University to study, I wrote letters to my home frequently. My father always read the letters in the cotton counter, saying that they were written like novels. After learning about this situation, he was so embarrassed that he dared to write letters from home. My father is still knowledgeable about the positioning of the supply and marketing cooperative, which is what I told my brother that "sloppy class". I feel sorry for the collapse of the huge system of grassroots supply and marketing cooperatives in the 1990s, but I think this is also a historical necessity. When the first small shop next to the supply and marketing cooperative opened and was closed almost 24 hours a day, I knew that the end of the official and business business that had just opened the sun high was coming. To put it bluntly, reform cannot be lagging behind, let alone stagnating or regressing. This is not only related to the fate of the supply and marketing cooperative.
Zhang Lingyan : @Chen Jianhua You can imagine the pride that your father reads your letter in public at the counter. You three brothers are his pride, and they are treasures that he has worked hard all his life.
Fang Yixin : Jianhua is right. History cannot reverse, and the Yangtze River and the Yellow River cannot flow backward.
Zhang Lingyan : @Fang Yixin @Chen Jianhua I have an aunt, my grandfather’s brother-in-law. When I was doing business in Ningbo, it was a point my grandfather placed in Ningbo.After liberation, he returned to his hometown in Ningxi and joined the supply and marketing cooperative. My aunt had no job and raised five or six children. Their family's life seems a bit hard to the people in the city, but in the local rural areas, their family's conditions are better. A cousin of my 1964-year-old educated youth has been back at home. Later, she married into Cixi, Ningbo. The other party was an employee of the supply and marketing cooperative. She didn't dislike my cousin's rural household registration and didn't have a job. She said it didn't matter, but we were not afraid. Later, when my eldest aunt saw that her daughter often brought back big bags when she came back, she praised her son-in-law for not having anything in her family. Chen Jianxin, his aunt, is also from a supply and marketing cooperative in Huzhou. So I know that the supply and marketing cooperative was a golden rice bowl in those days.
Fang Yixin : @Zhang Lingyan These are examples of the financial rice bowl of the supply and marketing cooperative. [Smiley Face].
Chen Jianhua : In the era of shortage of materials, the supply and marketing cooperative is indeed quite popular.
Ye Xiaofang : When it comes to Chen Jianhua, I always call him "Little Scholar". First, he is younger than me and looks young; second, he thinks he is very elegant, full of articles, good at writing, restrained and subtle, and calm in his work, which is very consistent with the title of "scholar".
read his article and learned that the success of his three brothers was due to the cultivation and care of his parents, especially his mother. It confirmed that a good mother is better than a hundred good teachers.
Who has experienced abnormal years, who has no three or two scars on his body and has a grievance? Chen Jianhua couldn't see it. His words were plain and calm, full of rationality and hope: "Which family does not have painful memories of the 'ten-year catastrophe'? This is also the biggest reason why the country ends the class struggle as the mainstay and does not make trouble!" "Pray for the motherland: the country is prosperous and the family is prosperous. I hope that just like the college entrance examination opened that year, our country can move towards the trend of the times and continue to shine with the upward power!" I admire his open-mindedness and vision!
is right. I want to see the scholar’s account book when I have the chance. It is the most primitive and vivid life record.
Ren Xiaogang: I didn’t have much date when Jianhua was in school (mainly because he didn’t play basketball. [grin]). After reading his memory, I was envious of his parents who had such good deeds. These days, he has been responding to his classmates in the group. I think the gains of his three bachelor's degree in one subject are really the nourishment result of good Chinese parents. This is not only a simple Everbright Chen family, but also a way to export talents to our ethnic group. His deep understanding and fluent expression of this era would be absolutely impossible without going to college. Therefore, I agree with Brother Jin Shuliang's words: "Studying in school is not just about learning from books, from teachers, but more importantly from classmates." The strong aura formed by being with excellent classmates is irreplaceable to books. Recently, I have absorbed a lot of information from many classmates, and I often sigh in my heart: How lucky!
Jinhong : Our sixth group Chen Jianhua is "Brother Cheng", sincere and reliable. Reading his "original story" and "prequel" can clearly see his family's cultural heritage, including the inheritance of character cultivation in the simple, vivid and affectionate narrative. Jianhua's "sincerity" originally originated from this and is extremely precious. The group photo of our group included in the article was named "Chinese Class 78 Group 6 Family Portrait". I feel very happy to be in it.
Wang Lin: Jianhua is smart and has a good person. I heard that among the students who were admitted to the 78th grade of the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University, the highest score was MCA; when I graduated, the highest score was Jianhua. Among the students who were so talented and wanted to hang their heads, it was definitely not easy to get the first place. As for character, it is recognized by everyone, and there is no need to repeat it.
In 2012, I was sent to work at the Provincial Journalists Association Ethics Committee by the Radio and Television Group. Although I had no direct working relationship with Jianhua, who was in charge of the Journalists Association, I attended the Provincial Journalists Association meeting from time to time. When the leader Jianhua spoke every time, he did not use a manuscript or had no clichés, but he quoted various facts and data to explain the problem, which was convincing. He has both requirements and trusts his subordinates very much. The atmosphere of the Journalism Association is relaxed and harmonious. The News Ethics Committee where I work is advanced in the country every year, which is all thanks to Jianhua's gentle and intelligent leadership. What impressed me was that his office was very clean and tidy.I heard that every income and expenditure he made in college had detailed records, and it was concluded that the total expenditure of 1,300 yuan for four years at that time was 1,300 yuan. I admire him for his serious and careful work, organized and persevering!
Chen Jianhua : Thank you all classmates, thank you Brother Shizhong for his unremitting efforts to edit and correct it. Last night this morning, I made some corrections and asked him to post them. The text was still rough and sparse, and the new media had no layout constraints, so it was easy to become an old woman's foot binding. Fortunately, no matter how fragrant or smelly it is, I would like to smell it.
I deeply feel that our classmates can get together, and after nearly half a century, the deeper the knowledge and deeper the affection, it is better than the soybean-flavored wine that has been stored for a hundred years. It is a fate that can only be cultivated in centuries! [Close Fist][Close Fist].
Through each of us or different accounts, we leave a collective memory that is not necessarily grand but very true but true for the mountains we climbed, the river we waded, the road we walked, and the sea we went out. Thanksgiving is worthy of gratitude, and whipping should be whipping. Learn from the past and know the future, so that our times will strive for better and avoid worse, so that our descendants have a better future, and let the rest of our lives continue to be smooth, pure, fulfilling and warm! [Close Fist][Close Fist][Close Fist].
[Huang Shizhong compiled the school]
Author profile: Chen Jianhua (pse name: Jin Feng), born in October 1960, from Wuyi, Zhejiang, was admitted to the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University in 1978. Senior Editor of Zhejiang Daily. He has served as deputy editor-in-chief of Public Relations News, director of the International and Domestic News Department and Night Editor Department of Zhejiang Daily, editor-in-chief of Zhejiang Online News Website, secretary-general of Zhejiang Journalists Association and chairman of the New Media Committee. He is the executive director of the 9th China Journalists Association and a member of the New Media Committee.
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Of course, I feel that the thorns in my mother's mouth are basically deterrent weapons, at least I have never experienced them once.I don’t know if I have experienced the smell of pine thorns, because my younger brother is naughty by nature. Especially when I go home for lunch in summer and have to go back to school for a nap, the children always want to escape. Sometimes my younger brother would go to the stream to swim and play in the water with his friends. If the mother learns afterwards, she will definitely be punished, which is not only to abide by school discipline, but also to make a personal safety plan. Some kind-hearted villagers also reminded me that you must be obedient and must not make your mother angry, otherwise her slender fingers will hurt when they hit her body!
Physical education classes are usually the favorite of rural children, and writing essays may be the most feared of rural children. This may be related to Chinese teaching methods. A good text can analyze the background and general meaning of the era and paragraphs as soon as it starts, and then break down the pieces to understand or analyze words, words, and sentences, which makes people feel boring but daunting. Little do people know that the basis of writing is reading - reading, reading, or reading. "If you read 300 Tang poems well, you will be able to recite them even if you can't write poems." As mentioned earlier, I have been a substitute teacher in all grades, and I think I have the right to speak for this.
Mothers are in charge of learning, and there are also times when they are not "principles". That is, when writing essays, not only will the big guide the smaller ones, but sometimes the big ones will simply take over.
In the early years, I also saved a composition draft written by my brother for me. It was a short comment, with the title "Bao" and "Fight" and the theme was to fight hard and say "Private" with a flash of thought - when you have a bad idea in your mind, should you "Bao" or do you bravely reveal it and fight against it? Looking back, it is incredible to ask elementary school students to write such a major, profound and boring essay. At that time, I was in the third grade and just started writing classes, so it was normal for me to not write. I think it must be because I don’t know how to write, so my mother asked my brother to help me write. Brother Kuai is really a bit skillful. He used only two or three hundred words to explain the principles of "bao" and "fight", and his handwriting was clear and he had no changes.
In another two years, it will be my brother's turn to scratch his head for writing an essay. what to do? As a result, after several times, my mother discussed with me: "You are brother, please help him. He will naturally write something he will do when he grows up." When it comes to this, I can only obey the order. My mother was right, and my brother later wrote a very good essay and won the first place in the district's composition competition. Later, I followed my footsteps and went to the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University. Tagore said that the power of a child is the power of growth. An old colleague of mine said back then: Believe that children will grow up, and this is the truth.
Chinese Class 78 Family portrait of the sixth group of the second class.
As required by "Huang Changjiang", let's say so much about our college entrance examination prequel, especially about my parents. Or, the college entrance examination recollections of five years ago were written as "outer chapter", and this article will be used as "inner chapter". Time flies, and now the three of us brothers have almost all retired. We sit together and recall our childhood experiences and my parents. We are glad that we have caught up with a good era and glad that our parents helped us seize the good opportunity.
(Crafted on August 22, 2022, also to commemorate the 118th anniversary of Mr. Deng’s birth)
reunites in my hometown (2009 Spring Festival family portrait).
[Echo Wall]
Qianjiashan : The growth of every child is obtained by the efforts of his parents. Only with such respectable parents can there be four college students leaving the same family.
Zhu Chengjun : When I woke up early in the morning to read the article of Chen Jianhua, I found that there were many miracles among my classmates. First, the two Fang brothers were in the Chinese department of Shanghang University, and then the four masters of Zhuoya's family. Now, the Jianhua family has passed 3+1, which is really exciting. The ones that should be thanked the most are parents. In the same era, in the same family of multiple children, it must be the credit of their parents who can get into college in a row. Therefore, we pay eternal salute to our old fathers and mothers.
Cao Bula : I feel more and more that we men are really inferior to women. Although men still dominate in the whole society, has the firmness of faith, lofty vision, pure persistence in emotions, as well as dedication, sacrifice, selflessness, and transcendence, that is, from the perspective of human emotions and spiritual character, we men are not as good as women. two articles by Jianhua provide vivid examples of this point of view. If it weren’t for the nurturing, raising and education of such a great mother, how could it be that “four heroes in one family”? Thinking of myself, being able to be born and grown up in this life is mainly due to the mother's achievements. I think: If one day the men in this country are as good as women in terms of spiritual character, then true modernization will come.
Wu Chaoqian : @Cao Bula Incisive comments!
Lu Lihan : @Cao Bula @Zhu Chengjun There are three Fan brothers who were admitted to university in the same year!
Chen Jianxin : I have read Jianhua’s extrabirth of the college entrance examination, and now I read the internal biography again. Finally, I learned why his mother could send her three sons to university back then. It turned out that it was His mother’s family background played a huge role. His grandfather and grandmother's family not only attaches importance to education, but also produces so many outstanding talents! Therefore, His story further confirms my point of view. Many of our classmates have the source of culture behind it. Of course, wealthy families have more living water in this way. We cannot measure our family status after birth or even the education level of our parents, but should go back to three generations.
Just like me, my parents are obviously less educated than Jianhua’s parents. Both of them are on the urban poverty line and are not able to receive the most basic primary education. It was not until after marriage that they started to learn literacy in the literacy class. My father was over 30 years old at that time, and my mother was in her early 20s. But my grandfather is what my grandmother calls "Wenzhang". I have always understood this Shaoxing dialect vocabulary as a cultural person, who has read books and uses culture to make food. Although he died young, his influence on my mother was profound. My mother made rapid progress after learning literacy. Later, she read newspapers and compositions that exceeded the elementary school level. Because she liked literature, she customized "People's Literature" to benefit his son. She also borrowed it to me from the first novel I read.
So, reading Jianhua's "outside biography" and "internal biography" together can make us understand that One tried his best to let the three sons finish high school in the dilemma of that year and finally encountered a good era and entered university. Behind this seemingly magical fact, the family origins are at work.
I guess that without the changes in the Chinese nation since modern times, it is very likely that Jianhua’s mother would not marry Jianhua’s father, just like my mother would not marry my father. History is full of magical accidents, and this is probably fate. However, the inevitability of facing each other is more worthy of our deep thought.
I emphasize the origin of family culture, but it does not exclude the role of individuals. Jianhua's mother was so persistent in letting her three sons study, which was due to her personality. This is much higher than my mother. My mother just inadvertently influenced me, but she didn't pay attention to my personal studies, so she didn't say anything about whether I continued to study in high school and whether I was still studying in the factory. She just asked me to be a good worker. This gave me a lot of freedom to some extent, but like Jianhua's mother, I pushed hard on the journey of my three sons to study, and my mother did not do it. As a result, I was the only one of my four sisters and brothers in my family. In this regard, Jianhua’s mother is even better.
Zhu Chengjun : When commenting on my article, everyone said that I don’t look like I come from the countryside. In fact, I do little farm work. I have to thank my parents. They think I can study, so they don’t force me to do farm work, which shows that they have a broad vision. [Grin].
In the past, we always said that men and women were inequality in ancient China, but in fact, it is not entirely true. After a woman becomes a mother, her status in her family often exceeds that of a man. There is an old saying in Ningbo: I would rather be an official father than a beggar mother, which shows my mother's lofty status.
There is a saying in the Internal Classic that people take their father as their priest and mother as their basis. The mother determines a person's basic qualities.
Chen Jianhua : @Zhu Chengjun Learn and apply it.From phenomenon to essence, agree with Bra and you, women are indeed great compared to men. It seems that genetic research has proven that a child's IQ is 100% inherited from his mother. [Smiley Face].
Tong Guoliang : After reading the prequel and inner biography of Jianhua’s first and last articles about the college entrance examination, I felt that the records were detailed, full of affection and connotation. The family of three children has gone through twists and turns and is admitted to university. It is indeed hard-won and worth celebrating. From the legend of the two college students, Zhong Yixin and Qingzhi brothers, to the legend of Zhuoya as a four-time college student, and other classmates who have experienced hardships and even suffered extraordinary hardships, and then have entered the university, there is a shadow of family behind them, and it is positive culture that plays some role.
In the suffering "Cultural Revolution", there is still a trace of cultural light shining, which is particularly commendable. Culture focuses on inheritance. In the article, Jianhua recorded the family background of his mother and father, and the impact on their growth since childhood, especially his mother's diligence, simplicity and wisdom, which played a key role in helping her three children get into college. In fact, it is still the inheritance of culture. The spiritual character, wisdom and family style and academic style of the parents directly or indirectly influence future generations. History and chronicles (the biggest difference between history and chronicles is that history records but discusses it, while aspirations record but not discusses it) have the functions of "governing, preserving history, and educating". This time, writing a series of articles about what happened before and after the college entrance examination, not only allows future generations to see what their predecessors have experienced, but also can "understand" something. Thank you, Jianhua, for providing a real blueprint.
Yu Zhuoya: Reading Jianhua’s college entrance examination memories, my mood kept rising and falling. Behind the growth of the three brothers is because of such extraordinary and selfless parents. They firmly believe that the greatest wealth in this life is the three sons, and the best way for children is to study. My father's financial pressure and the small pastries I bought home, my mother's "Flying Man" sewing machine, my uncle's old book box, my brothers' "big with small", my small blackboard and plastic abacus, etc., all caused me too many similar memories...
I was in the same group as my classmates in Jianhua for four years, and they were familiar and friendly to each other. For a while after graduation, I took my daughter to Hangzhou to see a doctor many times. He invited me to live in his house. In order to give me a little more rest, I also queued up to register for me in the early morning. After dinner, we had a happy chat time. Such a deep friendship is extremely precious! I am forever grateful.
Ren Ping : Jianhua is sincere and kind, talented, and a good friend. [joy].
Shangjian: Under the proposition of "college entrance examination", my understanding of my classmates is far better than that of four years in school. The hardships and difficulties that everyone has experienced and the situations of their respective families truthfully reflect the stories of one grade and another era.
In many memories, the wisdom and dedication of mothers are a highlight. The memories of classmate Jianhua express his deep love and respect for his mother, allowing us to see a rural woman who, with her belief in reading, is firm and persistent, and devotes her all to the effort. She uses a Feiren brand sewing machine to let her three sons fly out of the poor countryside. He is such a smart, hardworking, knowledgeable, worthy of respect and nostalgia. Children raised by mothers like
are indeed outstanding. I don’t need to elaborate on the character and talent of Jianhua. This boy who only knew that he wrote good handwriting when he was in school now has a strong writing style and unique insights, which makes me sincerely admire him. [powerful].
Chen Jianhua : @Shang Jian. Student Shang has a unique vision and has made some sense. Indeed, my mother likes "flying people" and has created three "flying people". She is not afraid of us flying far away, but she is afraid of us staying at home. Thank you. [Close Fist][Close Fist].
Zhang Lingyan : We didn’t know much about the situation in the countryside back then. Only after we became college students did we notice the college entrance examination situation around us. In the city, what people hear more is that teachers' children are more likely to get into college, and expanding the scope is that the descendants of intellectuals are more likely to get into college.And Chen Jianhua, Zhu Chengjun, Lai Wenhong, Qian Zhixi, Xu Helong, Huang Shizhong, Yu Zhuoya... These young people who returned home from the past seemed to be unique in cultural deserts like rural islands and stood out in . Today, after reading their college entrance examination memoir articles, we will find that behind their personal efforts, there is actually a group of educated elders who are influencing and guiding them . Therefore, the rural islands in the city are the same. In the 1977-78 years, the "useless knowledge theory" that was rampant in was the descendants of cultural people, or the generation who understood culture and advocated culture were influencing and saving their next generation.
Ren Ping : @Zhang Lingyan It makes sense. Young people’s own values and fighting spirit are necessary.
Zhang Lingyan : @Ren Ping Yes, this is the result of the interaction between internal and external factors.
Cen Baokang : @Chen Jianhua A loving mother and filial son, a family of fireworks. [Strong]
Chen Jianhua : @Zhang Lingyan Summary very well! By extension, the inheritance of Chinese civilization has also gone through hardships and stubbornly moving forward. [Strong][Strong].
Fang Qingzhi : @Zhang Lingyan [Strong][Strong] Good summary! It's not inadvertently, but naturally. [Grin].
Zhang Lingyan : @Chen Jianhua Yes, it’s just that the inheritance of the city is a bright line, while the inheritance of the countryside is often a quiet and deep flow, which is easy to be ignored. Thanks to Shizhong’s creativity, let the students recall the students’ thoughts of mentioning someone and something that was deeply affected during the college entrance examination. This makes the bits and pieces that are immersed in the wilderness and mountains gather into a trickle, allowing us to see the inheritance of the inheritance of Chinese civilization in the countryside among college entrance examination students.
Fang Qingzhi : Brother Jianhua is similar to mine and he is from the group next door, so we still had a lot of dates during our college years. He is humble, simple and unpretentious, and speaks softly. It feels extremely comfortable to interact.
The strong family cultural genes and personal positive progress made four heroes in that special era, and completely changed the entire family through the college entrance examination. From 1978 to 1981, four dazzling emeralds appeared in Wuyi County, a hinterland in central Zhejiang, which is completely reasonable. At the class reunion more than 0 years later, Jianhua quietly brought several boxes of gifts to all-grade students who had not met for a long time. The crystal-clear and round red lotus seeds still remain fragrant, which shows that they have feelings and righteousness.
Yu Zhuoya: Qingzhi said it very well! [Close Fists][Close Fists][Close Fists]
Du Wenqing : @Fang Qingzhi I was also eager to enter a key university back then. It’s just because I reviewed at home and lacked guidance from teachers, the answers were not standard enough, not accurate enough, and too many points were deducted. [Cover your face]. But for the children of the farmer family, it is already happy enough to be able to break out of the farming door and get rid of the heavy physical labor.
Chen Jianhua : @Fang Qingzhi Xiao Fang is over-reputable! If it is not unfair to the vulgarity, the Chen family is really inferior to the old Fang family. I deeply feel that our classmates can get together, and after nearly half a century, the deeper the knowledge and deeper the affection, it is better than the soybean-flavored wine that has been stored for a hundred years. It is a fate that can only be cultivated in centuries! [Close Fists][Close Fists]
Zhao Jianzhong : One year I went to Wuyi and heard Jianhua tell his mother's story, including the scene of his mother when she died. There are some details I still remember. I noticed that no matter where the land of Zhejiang and even China is, there will be some talented people, whose wisdom, mind, spirit, insight, and even their appearance are far above the surrounding beings. Jianhua's mother is like this. A certain area of water and soil often produces a very small number of outstanding people. Jianhua's gentleness is as gentle as jade, as light as chrysanthemum, as smart as beautiful as Wuyi fluorite, and his beautiful eyes are all melted into his mother's genes. His mother is amazing; it is a happy thing to have such a mother's children.
Jin Jianren : Jianhua's "inside" and "outside" chapter tells the story of how four golden phoenixes fly out of the family, which is interesting to read.There are several examples in our grade. The good seedlings of always emerge one by one. It is not so much a gene, but a family tradition. It can be seen from the fact that Jianhua's mother is born to understand management. The ancient Taoist warm-heartedness is Chen’s mother’s character. The fourth phoenix became the Chen family’s wife, which is the best reward. Jianhua upholds his mother's good qualities. I have had several things to bother Jianhua, and Jianhua always exceeds my expectations. Once, I accidentally talked about my wife's uncle's disease, and Jianhua helped me get folk remedies and herbs to give them to my house. I'm very grateful.
Zhao Jianzhong : @Shujian The genes I mentioned are basically the same as the family tradition you mentioned. After gene externalization, it becomes a family tradition.
Chen Jianhua : Thank you Brother Jianren for the Misfortune Award. Always remember your courage, talent and character. Suddenly I found that these are all related to your massive amount. I am ignorant. I only found out when I chatted that day that you are still the wine king in our grade. I am Buddhist. I guess someone in our group six will express dissatisfaction. Unfortunately, everyone is over the age of trying to fight for wine, so it seems that how to discharge the wine jar seats without objection has become a problem.
Jin Jianren : @Chen Jianhua People’s potential needs to be stimulated, and the same is true for alcohol. When the expectant wife put a bottle of white wine in front of her, she said: See how much you can drink? How can I not drink it? After drinking, I rode my bike to Xinhua Cinema to watch "Iron Armor Zero Eight". It should not be uncommon to be able to drink a pound of white wine, but the road from the dormitory of the Agricultural University is covered with rice fields on both sides. I can ride a bicycle and take people without falling, which is the real alcohol tolerance. From then on, I am full of confidence.
Wu Chaoqian : @Chen Jianhua The expected brother Jianhua’s memory article is indeed a big deal, and the full text is full of gratitude, thanks to parents, teachers, and times. Chen Jianhua's parents taught their children by example and deeds, and made three college students in three years. Jianhua’s mother’s foresight created the fourth college student of the Chen family!
Coincidentally, my father, like Jianhua's father, both graduated from high school and wrote well and made good calculations. My father has a high elementary education and is already a prominent figure among the neighbors in the old city of Wenzhou. He is a worker but is very arrogant. His neighbors respectfully call him "Mr. Wu". My father was a firm admirer of "only high schooling". His neighbors admired him for his salary of only more than 40 yuan, supporting his family of nine, and none of his seven children dropped out of school. My eldest brother was admitted to Wuhan Water Conservancy and Electric Power College in the early 1960s. My second brother graduated from junior high school and had two choices: technical school and high school. My father opposed the opposition and chose the latter. As a result, in 1969, my second brother went to Heilongjiang to support the border as an educated youth, while his classmates who entered the technical school became seafarers or workers, which was very strong. The mother, who felt sorry for her children but couldn't read a single word, complained about her father's choice many times, and the father, who was very enthusiastic, was speechless. After all, it is a grass-roots person. His father's knowledge determines that he cannot see too far and he has no hope for the youngest child in his family - my study.
In my eyes, my father's brush calligraphy and fountain pen calligraphy are very beautiful and outstanding, but I never had the patience to teach me how to write. The one who has a great influence on my study is the eldest brother. My elder brother often tells his college life and his stories of swimming in the Yangtze River. These are my continuous motivation for studying, and in fact they are another channel for inheriting the family’s cultural genes.
My father said to his neighbor proudly more than once in his later years: "My three sons and three daughters-in-law are all college students!" (My second brother passed the key line in the Heilongjiang College Entrance Examination in 1977, but was admitted to the Mathematics Department of Shuangyashan Normal University) This shows that my father also cared about me very much, but he didn't say it in front of me.
As a pseudo-"collector", I was deeply shocked by Brother Jianhua's cultural relics level. My earliest cultural relics were junior high school students’ certificates, and the Jianhua Brother’s primary school graduation certificate is more valuable. Brother Jianhua made detailed records of every income and expense in the four years of college. He is really a person who is capable of doing great things. I have similar experiences. I just graduated from university and worked in agricultural and rural surveys in the Municipal Party Committee Office. I like to visit farmers' markets. In more than two years, I have visited more than 40 markets of all sizes, and recorded the prices of major agricultural products such as meat, chickens, ducks, fish, vegetables, and soy products. Later, I changed my career, changed my interests and lost my laptop. If it continues to this day, it will definitely be a family. It seems that you can't do big things without perseverance.
Everyone’s memories have their own unique perspective. When they are brought together, they are vivid and charming paintings and heavy historical records of that era. Thanks to Brother Jianhua, our memories are richer and more three-dimensional!
Chen Jianhua : It seems that Brother Chaoqian’s family has entered the paternal society, and you have provided a sample of successful paternal lines. However, if it is convenient, you can trace your grandparents back to you. I guess your grandparents have a more story. As for collection, it is definitely not as good as you, mainly because I didn’t pay attention to custody earlier. But when it comes to these physical objects, I suddenly thought of asking everyone to collect and preserve them. One day, they can combine the "building of walls" to make a concentrated display.
Wu Chaoqian : @Chen Jianhua My mother is a housewife who doesn’t know a single word, but it has a great impact on me! [Smile][Smile][Smile]. The outsiders in my family (brother-in-law and sister-in-law, etc., are inaccurate) praised my father's vision!
Lu Lihan : @Chen Jianhua As my brother said, in that era, it was only a matter of thinking whether a farmer's children took the college or a technical secondary school. It is very simple to consider the problem. Let’s talk about it outside the farming gate. It is due to the mentality of seeking stability. Several of my friends have very high IQs, but they all chose to take the technical secondary school entrance exam, and they are basically normal schools. Due to their low start, their future development is limited.
I accidentally discovered that in those years, technical secondary school graduates, especially normal students, were basically from farmers. The reason for this is that The problem is very real for the children of farmers to consider - let’s talk about after breaking out of the farming family. The key is to take off the straw sandals and change into leather shoes.
is a city household registration, but it is different. , either if you don’t take the exam, you must go to the university. They are considering the issue of "leather shoes quality" or the issue of future career orientation . From this perspective, it is understandable that Shen Lan felt a little frustrated when she received the admission notice from the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University that year.
I taught at Jinyun Middle School back then. To be frank, I am quite enthusiastic. When it comes to taking the university or taking the technical secondary school, I chose the university without any ambiguity. I am confident that as a teacher at Jinyun Middle School, I can’t even pass the university. So how many people in the whole county can pass the university? A classmate from the same high school class as me, who also substituted a class at Jinyun Middle School and had a urban household registration. He said he would take the college entrance exam, but he was disdainful of the technical secondary school. The science subject was also launched in 1977, but the political review failed. In 1978, he continued to take the science subject, and I changed to the liberal arts subject. He often comes to my room to brag: Unless you fall asleep in the exam, I don’t believe you won’t pass the exam, and you have to do it well! As a result, he took the second place in science that year and went to Zhejiang University.
Chen Jianhua : @Lu Lihan From the first time I saw you in college, the image of a founder appeared in my mind for some reason, and it has been lingering for forty years. With your courage and confidence, you must be sure to pass the college entrance exam. However, as you were at that time, I believe there was still pressure to compete with your students on the same stage. There was a pair of teachers and students in my hometown. The students easily signed up for the exam, but the teacher was reluctant to apply for the exam. He was worried that once the students passed the exam and failed the exam, how could they still be on the podium in the future? Fortunately, they were all admitted in the end: the teacher graduated from Jinyi Middle School and the scores were the same as mine; the students were fresh graduates of the commune local high school, went to the college line, and entered a teaching point of Zhejiang Normal University, and everyone was very happy.
Lu Lihan : Competing on the same stage with students, there must be pressure. This has been explained in my memory article. To be precise, in the 1978 college entrance examination, I competed on the same stage with my teachers and students, but fortunately my teachers also passed the exam. He is also a top student at Jinyi Middle School. ——Jinyun County was once transferred to Jinhua area. Xuanping and Jinyun belong to Chuzhou and are connected by official roads.
Xu Helong : After reading Brother Jianhua’s college entrance examination prequel, it was like listening to the eldest brother next door chatting about home, and it felt very friendly. The story of the Jianhua brothers' family is a typical example of the ideals of rural people in that era : a strict mother and a kind father, a good teacher, a good teacher; a promising child, a bright family! I believe that Brother Jianhua’s family must be a “good family” that everyone praises!
As many students have discussed, the inheritance of Chinese culture mainly depends on the family in rural areas.The cultural genes of the family have strong vitality and can sometimes be inherited from across generations. The success of the three Jianhua brothers obviously inherited the matriarchal cultural genes. Jianhua's mother's extraordinary insights, her persistent belief that reading can change her destiny, and Jianhua's father's silent love for moistening things are important conditions for the three Jianhua brothers to become successful. In particular, the educational method of Jianhua's parents' leniency and strictness and encourages self-reliance and self-improvement is a textbook for parents and is worthy of summary and promotion.
admires Brother Jianhua's simple, smooth, profound and emotional narrative style, presenting us with a legendary vivid story and providing an important sample for understanding that era.
Chen Jianhua : @Long Tenghu Yue Thank you Marshal for listening to the old man’s chatter. Although you are younger than me and do more farm work than me, some of your stories are also wonderful, and your writing style is smoother and more vivid. I feel that the special significance of this collective remembrance move is not to record the college entrance examination, but to truly display the vast puzzle of that era through the extension and excavation of everyone and every family. also includes the specific context of rural cultural heritage and evolution. In a sense, Our generation of people who are fortunate to "jump to the farm" collectively have a responsibility to keep a real record for our rapidly disappearing villages, our parents who are getting old or getting old. I look forward to the Marshal having more words about flying dragons and phoenixes.
Qian Zhixi : Brother Jianhua’s college entrance examination article describes his family background in more detail, which is very valuable for understanding the culture of the township . In that era, Brother Jianhua's family was a relatively high class in the countryside. Because his father was educated and worked in a supply and marketing cooperative, he actually encountered a crisis that he might not be able to go to high school, which is amazing!
Jianhua Brother is gentle and elegant, now knows that this temperament comes from his family. His younger brother Jianzhong is also very pretty and taller than his brother. This was caused by that special era. My four brothers are the second brothers, and I am also the shortest one among my brothers. Chen Shengyong, a master's classmate from Wuyi, has a good relationship with Jianhua Kunzhong. Brother Sheng Yong often talks about Brother Jianhua’s family. Brother Jianhua’s brother and his wife are very familiar with me. But I haven't seen each other for many years!
Chen Jianhua : Thanks to Brother Zhixi’s love and encouragement. The world is very big, and the world is very small. There are so many people in the vast sea of people, and they are crowded with each other, and many times there are just a few people. Maybe this is what is called fate. Brother Shengyong is also my close friend for decades. His college entrance examination was very legendary. He was obviously admitted to a technical secondary school student, but he was inexplicably admitted to a technical secondary school student. He was unwilling to stop there, so he came out to teach in the normal school for two years and went directly to take the postgraduate entrance examination and became your classmate. Fate will tease people, but he is not someone who lets fate tease people. You are all scholars and people with stories. [Silly Smile][Silly Smile].
Wu Chaoqian : @Qian Zhixi @Chen Jianhua Chen Shengyong is so familiar. I remember that he once gave a special lecture on "Strengthening the Construction of Socialist Consultative Democracy" at the Standing Committee of the Wenzhou Municipal CPPCC, a hot topic at that time. I remember he is the dean and professor of the School of Public Administration of Zhejiang University of Technology and Business, and a member of the Standing Committee of the Provincial CPPCC. His major and literary research are a bit far apart! I don’t know that he and Brother Zhixi are actually graduate roommates and have such a deep friendship with Brother Jianhua, otherwise I would have asked more questions at that time.
Fang Yixin : The three Chen Shengyong mentioned are also my classmates and friends for many years. He first worked in the Provincial Academy of Social Sciences, and later transferred back to Hangzhou University (later Zhejiang University) to be a teacher. Later, he went to Zhejiang University of Technology and Business as a dean as the School of Public Administration.
Shen Lan : After reading Brother Jianhua’s article, it seems like I’m watching a deeply touching video, Awesome mother and a filial child . I also think of more mothers, especially Zhuoya's mother, whom I am familiar with. They are all great mothers who are smart, hardworking, selfless, knowledgeable, dare to fight, and do not accept their fate. Our mother's generation was really hard back then. She had to support half of the sky outside and worry about everything at home. You have to be careful when you have a meal or a piece of clothing, work hard all day long, and you have to be worried about all kinds of unrestrained disasters. The mothers in rural areas have more worries about their children's future because of the household registration system.But with persistence and belief, they seized the opportunity to change their destiny for their children, which is admirable! The sharing of classmates makes us understand and cherish each other more. Thank you! ——The Xuanlian brought by Brother Jianhua is the best lotus seed I have ever eaten. The memory is still fresh and the fragrance lingers on the mouth.
Chen Jianhua : @Shen Lan Thank you, thank you for your understanding and unremitting praise for the women in the farm (fishing) village like Zhuo Ya and me. My mother especially likes to listen to good things, and even a little bit stinky. For example, in the late stage of Alzheimer's disease, I deliberately teased her and asked her who is the most beautiful. She would giggle and light her nose with her fingers and say, "It's her, it's her!" I believe that if she knew in heaven, she would definitely enjoy it and be very happy.
In addition, Xuanlian in my hometown is one of the three famous lotus in China. It was once a tribute in the Qing Dynasty. It is said that the seeds come from the lotus throne of Guanyin Bodhisattva. "God gave Xuanping gold and earth, and the earth nurtured the white jade lotus in the palace." Xuanlian deserves the glory of the best lotus seeds in the world as you said. Thank you for advertising for Xuanlian for free. [Smile][Close Fists][Close Fists].
Jin Shuliang : Studying in school is not just about learning from books, from teachers, but more importantly from classmates. In my interactions with Brother Jianhua, I felt that he was a sincere, enthusiastic, tolerant and generous person who could be trusted. Seeing that he always smiled and peacefully, he never thought that he had experienced the tempering of life. It really fits the saying: Everyone is a book. I have had the honor of meeting his parents, and I sincerely thank them for sending me a classmate and close friend.
Before Jianhua entered high school, he started working in farmland at the age of 14 because of a cadre's words: "It's just your family's ingredients..." When I was in the countryside, I was recommended to raise the price many times, and I was repeatedly blocked by the sentence "Just his family...". Although this sentence seems to have not become history, fortunately, there are not many people who have heard of it.
Chen Jianhua : @Jin Shuliang Thank you to the elder brother for taking the time to read and for his care for his father, mother and family over the years. I just went to elementary school the year you graduated from high school. The misunderstanding of history made you wait for more than ten years as classmates with us. I remember that Brother Jianxin said before that if my mother turned her head down, my mother would most likely not marry my father (although my father is not bad). I also agree with this. All of these may be historical mistakes. I have a fallacy. should choose the right direction from a country and nation. From the perspective of the reality of everyone, maybe we should not only thank history for its correctness, but also history for its mistakes. After thanking me, I immediately bid farewell to mistakes and set out again towards the correctness and justice of history. Classes and strata are objective dynamics, but they should never be manipulated again. [Close Fist][Close Fist][Close Fist].
Ni Jianping : @Chen Jianhua What is the township called on the map of Xuanping in Wuyi? When I read the articles of Jacky Cheung, I also need to check the place name on the map. For example, if I want to check where Toumen Island is, I need to check the articles? In addition to sharing articles, I also go there to have a fun and share it with doubles.
Chen Jianhua : The old county town of Xuanping is called Liucheng. My hometown is Taoxi Town to the north. I look forward to taking the opportunity to accompany you [Close Fists] [Close Fists].
Wu Chaoqian : Brother Jianping is really interested, and he actually travels with the article and shares it with both. [Close Fist][Close Fist][Close Fist].
Ren Ping : @Ni Jianping You might as well play, and you are still smart in your hands and feet now. Are you still in Zhuji, Shaoxing?
Ni Jianping : OK, I really hope to travel with Brother Ren Ping.
Wu Chaoqian : @Ren Ping @Ni Jianping Support, organize in-depth tours to places where old classmates fight, live, and fall in love. Senior tour group. [Smile][Smile][Smile].
Fang Yixin : I read two articles by Brother Chen Jianhua. It is both simple and plain, and vivid and concrete. It is very helpful: especially the role of parents and families in the growth and development of children. Through the examples of the three brothers of Jianhua, it is undoubtedly more prominent. Jianhua has a great and good mother. She not only teaches her children well, but also has great vision and great knowledge in major issues such as studying and taking college entrance examinations. All the students said it in their messages, and they praised it very much. Jianhua's mother is completely worthy of it.
What I want to say is that Jianhua also has a very good father. He works in a rural supply and marketing cooperative. Although he "refers to the store as his home all year round" and does not directly raise children, it is his hard work and earning wages that provide the family with the capital to live. Jianhua's father is also very caring for his children. For example, he found a way to get his younger son to go to high school and not let him drop out of school at home; he had expected the worst plan for his younger son's way out, and he was in line with the "sloppy class" of his own supply and marketing cooperative. For example, "The joy of being named on the list is accompanied by the heavy burden of the financial burden." Since 1980, Jianhua's father gave his three sons who were in college every month, "the living expenses and subsidies for his family are only 13.5 yuan left for himself," and so on.
It is said that father's love is like a mountain. In Chinese families, compared with mothers' care for their children and daily housework, fathers' love for their children is often deeper and more implicit, and less visible, but it is also very important and indispensable. Also, taking care of the mother who has "had been suffering from amnesia for seven or eight years", is definitely mainly Jianhua's father. It is precisely because of the company and care of his wife that Jianhua's mother has peacefully completed the last journey of her life. Therefore, while thanking and praising the great mother, don’t forget to support and work hard behind the scenes. Jianhua's father is now 92 years old and is spending his days in his hometown's hot spring nursing hospital. I wish the elderly good health and longevity.
Chen Jianhua : @Fang Yixin Thank you to the empathy of the Dafang family. I am very glad that we all have very kind, kind and stoic parents who also have some solutions. The rivers flow endlessly. In the middle, every family has stories to dig. Father’s love is like a mountain, mother’s love is like water, and many ordinary parents are actually worth erecting a monument. Maybe this is not a grand narrative, but it is the original and true nature of life. [Close Fist][Close Fist].
Zhang Lingyan : @Fang Yixin @Chen Jianhua Fang Yixin is right. Your mother’s guidance on studying for you three is based on your father’s money to support the family. In the face of material shortage at that time, the position of the supply and marketing cooperative was relatively valuable. Of course, it declined later. I had a primary school classmate who was good at singing and dancing. He became a private primary school teacher and was also very competent for this job. But later her father retired from the supply and marketing cooperative. Without saying a word, she withdrew from the position of a private teacher to take over her father's position, because the supply and marketing cooperative was very affordable at that time. But later, private teachers could become regular and receive salary from civil servants, and she finally retired from the supply and marketing cooperative just for the company's pension.
Fang Yixin : @Zhang Lingyan Indeed, the work of supply and marketing cooperatives was still very popular back then. [Fist-Close].
Chen Jianhua : @Zhang Lingyan Do you know that you are reviving the supply and marketing cooperative now? As old children of supply and marketing, we have a very complicated relationship with this institution that supports decades of commercial life in rural China. Our supply and marketing cooperative was founded in 1951, and my father went in 1952 and worked until he retired. It can be said that most of his years of glory and honor and disgrace were attributed to the supply and marketing cooperative.
When I first went to Hangzhou University to study, I wrote letters to my home frequently. My father always read the letters in the cotton counter, saying that they were written like novels. After learning about this situation, he was so embarrassed that he dared to write letters from home. My father is still knowledgeable about the positioning of the supply and marketing cooperative, which is what I told my brother that "sloppy class". I feel sorry for the collapse of the huge system of grassroots supply and marketing cooperatives in the 1990s, but I think this is also a historical necessity. When the first small shop next to the supply and marketing cooperative opened and was closed almost 24 hours a day, I knew that the end of the official and business business that had just opened the sun high was coming. To put it bluntly, reform cannot be lagging behind, let alone stagnating or regressing. This is not only related to the fate of the supply and marketing cooperative.
Zhang Lingyan : @Chen Jianhua You can imagine the pride that your father reads your letter in public at the counter. You three brothers are his pride, and they are treasures that he has worked hard all his life.
Fang Yixin : Jianhua is right. History cannot reverse, and the Yangtze River and the Yellow River cannot flow backward.
Zhang Lingyan : @Fang Yixin @Chen Jianhua I have an aunt, my grandfather’s brother-in-law. When I was doing business in Ningbo, it was a point my grandfather placed in Ningbo.After liberation, he returned to his hometown in Ningxi and joined the supply and marketing cooperative. My aunt had no job and raised five or six children. Their family's life seems a bit hard to the people in the city, but in the local rural areas, their family's conditions are better. A cousin of my 1964-year-old educated youth has been back at home. Later, she married into Cixi, Ningbo. The other party was an employee of the supply and marketing cooperative. She didn't dislike my cousin's rural household registration and didn't have a job. She said it didn't matter, but we were not afraid. Later, when my eldest aunt saw that her daughter often brought back big bags when she came back, she praised her son-in-law for not having anything in her family. Chen Jianxin, his aunt, is also from a supply and marketing cooperative in Huzhou. So I know that the supply and marketing cooperative was a golden rice bowl in those days.
Fang Yixin : @Zhang Lingyan These are examples of the financial rice bowl of the supply and marketing cooperative. [Smiley Face].
Chen Jianhua : In the era of shortage of materials, the supply and marketing cooperative is indeed quite popular.
Ye Xiaofang : When it comes to Chen Jianhua, I always call him "Little Scholar". First, he is younger than me and looks young; second, he thinks he is very elegant, full of articles, good at writing, restrained and subtle, and calm in his work, which is very consistent with the title of "scholar".
read his article and learned that the success of his three brothers was due to the cultivation and care of his parents, especially his mother. It confirmed that a good mother is better than a hundred good teachers.
Who has experienced abnormal years, who has no three or two scars on his body and has a grievance? Chen Jianhua couldn't see it. His words were plain and calm, full of rationality and hope: "Which family does not have painful memories of the 'ten-year catastrophe'? This is also the biggest reason why the country ends the class struggle as the mainstay and does not make trouble!" "Pray for the motherland: the country is prosperous and the family is prosperous. I hope that just like the college entrance examination opened that year, our country can move towards the trend of the times and continue to shine with the upward power!" I admire his open-mindedness and vision!
is right. I want to see the scholar’s account book when I have the chance. It is the most primitive and vivid life record.
Ren Xiaogang: I didn’t have much date when Jianhua was in school (mainly because he didn’t play basketball. [grin]). After reading his memory, I was envious of his parents who had such good deeds. These days, he has been responding to his classmates in the group. I think the gains of his three bachelor's degree in one subject are really the nourishment result of good Chinese parents. This is not only a simple Everbright Chen family, but also a way to export talents to our ethnic group. His deep understanding and fluent expression of this era would be absolutely impossible without going to college. Therefore, I agree with Brother Jin Shuliang's words: "Studying in school is not just about learning from books, from teachers, but more importantly from classmates." The strong aura formed by being with excellent classmates is irreplaceable to books. Recently, I have absorbed a lot of information from many classmates, and I often sigh in my heart: How lucky!
Jinhong : Our sixth group Chen Jianhua is "Brother Cheng", sincere and reliable. Reading his "original story" and "prequel" can clearly see his family's cultural heritage, including the inheritance of character cultivation in the simple, vivid and affectionate narrative. Jianhua's "sincerity" originally originated from this and is extremely precious. The group photo of our group included in the article was named "Chinese Class 78 Group 6 Family Portrait". I feel very happy to be in it.
Wang Lin: Jianhua is smart and has a good person. I heard that among the students who were admitted to the 78th grade of the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University, the highest score was MCA; when I graduated, the highest score was Jianhua. Among the students who were so talented and wanted to hang their heads, it was definitely not easy to get the first place. As for character, it is recognized by everyone, and there is no need to repeat it.
In 2012, I was sent to work at the Provincial Journalists Association Ethics Committee by the Radio and Television Group. Although I had no direct working relationship with Jianhua, who was in charge of the Journalists Association, I attended the Provincial Journalists Association meeting from time to time. When the leader Jianhua spoke every time, he did not use a manuscript or had no clichés, but he quoted various facts and data to explain the problem, which was convincing. He has both requirements and trusts his subordinates very much. The atmosphere of the Journalism Association is relaxed and harmonious. The News Ethics Committee where I work is advanced in the country every year, which is all thanks to Jianhua's gentle and intelligent leadership. What impressed me was that his office was very clean and tidy.I heard that every income and expenditure he made in college had detailed records, and it was concluded that the total expenditure of 1,300 yuan for four years at that time was 1,300 yuan. I admire him for his serious and careful work, organized and persevering!
Chen Jianhua : Thank you all classmates, thank you Brother Shizhong for his unremitting efforts to edit and correct it. Last night this morning, I made some corrections and asked him to post them. The text was still rough and sparse, and the new media had no layout constraints, so it was easy to become an old woman's foot binding. Fortunately, no matter how fragrant or smelly it is, I would like to smell it.
I deeply feel that our classmates can get together, and after nearly half a century, the deeper the knowledge and deeper the affection, it is better than the soybean-flavored wine that has been stored for a hundred years. It is a fate that can only be cultivated in centuries! [Close Fist][Close Fist].
Through each of us or different accounts, we leave a collective memory that is not necessarily grand but very true but true for the mountains we climbed, the river we waded, the road we walked, and the sea we went out. Thanksgiving is worthy of gratitude, and whipping should be whipping. Learn from the past and know the future, so that our times will strive for better and avoid worse, so that our descendants have a better future, and let the rest of our lives continue to be smooth, pure, fulfilling and warm! [Close Fist][Close Fist][Close Fist].
[Huang Shizhong compiled the school]
Author profile: Chen Jianhua (pse name: Jin Feng), born in October 1960, from Wuyi, Zhejiang, was admitted to the Chinese Department of Hangzhou University in 1978. Senior Editor of Zhejiang Daily. He has served as deputy editor-in-chief of Public Relations News, director of the International and Domestic News Department and Night Editor Department of Zhejiang Daily, editor-in-chief of Zhejiang Online News Website, secretary-general of Zhejiang Journalists Association and chairman of the New Media Committee. He is the executive director of the 9th China Journalists Association and a member of the New Media Committee.
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