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It was snowing outside the door, and it was desolate. Baoyu and Baochai stood with their backs.
Baoyu said: "Your marriage is not yours, but your family. "
Baochai burst into tears and choked and said, "What about your heart? Can I still rely on it? ”
Baoyu smiled sadly: “My heart has been placed in Lin Meimei’s place for a long time. "
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[Rose]
This is a classic scene in the Hong Kong stage play "Jia Baoyu". Jia Baoyu dreams of returning to the Grand View Garden and meets the woman in the Grand View Garden again. But in the stage play, Baochai fell in love with Baoyu, and until the end she still tested Baoyu with only a touch of affection and delusion.
Apart from the various statements of experts who later studied the Redology, as far as the stage play is concerned, what I see is a poor woman who knows that the man next to him already has another woman in his heart, but he still has the luck to hope to live in the other party's heart without a foothold.
is obviously impossible, but why do we still have expectations? It’s just because I believe from the bottom of my heart that one in a thousand miracle will happen to me, just like reading too many beautiful ancient poems like “When I look back, that person is in the dim light”, so that every time I am in the romantic place of fireworks, I will imagine that the person I have always loved will also look at me silently behind my back.
[Rose]
When I first read Mr. Ba Jin's "Home", I only sympathized with cousin Mei and Mingfeng. Mei and Juexin's love was completely a victim of the implementation of the feudal system. I gave up because the mothers of both parties did not get married on the table. Helpless, one is cowardly and the other is inferior. Poor Mei still had a trace of love after seeing Juexin getting married, and finally vomited blood and died.
And Mingfeng, a little maid from a feudal family, had a relationship with the third young master Juehui. However, when she was forced to marry Feng Leshan as her little wife, she chose to resist silently. When she walked into Juehui's room, she chose not to inform her. The various fluctuations in her heart before committing suicide by jumping into the lake and imagining Juehui to save herself was actually just a false expectation.
didn't have the courage to shout and complain to the world about their inner grievances and dissatisfaction. They clearly chose to govern inaction, but they still had delusions in their hearts. This is the greatest sorrow and helplessness of an era.
[Rose]
When filling out the application form, the mentality of "it is obviously impossible, but I still have expectations" is even stronger. When I heard too many words like "strive to one point and kill a thousand people in seconds", I would still unconsciously comfort myself when I was waiting for the admission result: it was just one point, and maybe I might be admitted.
When I first took the junior high school entrance examination, I missed the county No. 1 Middle School because I was one point away. When I didn't know the admission score line, I only knew that my grades were hovering up and down the admission line, but I kept comforting myself. Later, I realized that I was not in the first place. Although I said it was okay, I was unwilling to accept such facts in my heart.
Until now, every time I check my grades, I have the same mentality. Although I have been wasted for a semester of courses and am not satisfied with the effect of cramming temporarily, I still said "work hard and struggle next semester" hundreds of times, while clicking the mouse to check and praying that I will not fail the exam.
Let it go naturally, just like the so-called good luck, they are both humble words for the strong and excuses for the weak, just as "fate" is the excuse for the weak, and "luck" is the humble words for the strong.
Let it go naturally, it is not an inaction or an excuse without any ideas, but the indifference after the battle, but the indifference that I have experienced thousands of sails.
[Rose]
My friend called me for two hours and said she had broken up. While crying, she said that she would not forget it. She gritted her teeth and scolded her for angrily angrily slapped her on two boats.
I saw it at the beginning, but I was always not optimistic because she was too humble in this love. She could chat with him until midnight, or she could sit outside the basketball court with her nose blowing in the cold winter waiting for him to finish the ball. She told me that she knew that she was not the type she liked, but was willing to give it a try.
[Rose]
Maugham said that love makes people lose all their self-esteem. Those who have to keep their self-esteem high at any time may not be considered love.
Others say that girls in love have negative IQ. I think for girls who decide to fall in love with a humble and compromise attitude from the beginning of a relationship, calm thinking and rational choices are just luxury in love.
The beginning of the story happened, and was caught off guard. At the end of the story, two flowers bloomed, and the sky was separated by one.
Perhaps, we do not have the so-called one-thousandth miracle, nor the sudden surprise, but just live gently in the silent time, growing towards the sun, and fulfilling and comfortable life.
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