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A person's instinctive reaction often expresses the most real emotions in his heart.
For example, when you hate someone, you will subconsciously reject him, and it will be very uncomfortable if you accidentally encounter physical contact.
But when you like someone, you can't help getting close to him and even deliberately create physical contact.
In fact, people are like this, rejecting what they don’t like and getting close to what they like.
Men act particularly directly, like it or not, and they act clearly in their subconscious reactions and cannot be hidden at all.
Men are different from women. Men may be hiding in their hearts when they are in love. They often tend to observe first and wait for the right opportunity.
If a woman has a partner of her heart, she must be eager to share it with her good friends, because she can't hide the secrets if she is too excited.
But there will always be some clues to see. Men who are in love will have these three "instinctive reactions" that cannot be hidden. If you don't believe it, listen to what they say.
Ma Guojun, 26 years old, architect: I may not say it when I am attracted to a woman, but I will show it in action. For example, I would unconsciously get my body closer.
When I was in college, I had a good impression of a female classmate, but at that time I was shy and embarrassed to say it out.
And my personality is a bit restrained, I keep my feelings in my heart and never confess my love.
But that female classmate was very outgoing and she would take the initiative to say a few words to me, so we were not too strange.
Once, the class arranged a party, and everyone went to dinner outside the school and had K songs.
That day, her roommate happened to be not attending, and she didn't have someone she knew very well. I saw that she was bored alone, so I sat over and chatted with her.
When they were having a meal, they ordered seafood and had a lot of skin and shells. I helped her peel some.
At that time, there were still a few people in the class who started to make fun of me, and I stopped them, afraid that she would be embarrassed.
When I was singing in KTV, I also sat aside and chatted with her, because neither of us knew how to sing, so we simply didn’t “embarrass”.
The other students sang enthusiastically, and the atmosphere became stronger and stronger. Before I knew it, my body became closer and closer to her.
I didn’t realize that when she was speaking, my body was approaching unconsciously.
should be that attraction. I can't help staring at her when she speaks, and I can't help but want to get closer.
Cheng Junyi, 24 years old, guitarist: I like the intimacy of physical contact with her.
I have a slight obsession with cleanliness, so I don’t like to shake hands with others, and contact them, and I feel that it’s a bit unhygienic.
Most of the friends around me also know my habits, so they won’t touch me or anything else.
I once felt that when I met a woman I like, I might also be disgusted with physical contact, so I consciously did not contact women. I was afraid that I would be moved by then but I would not be able to pass the physical level.
But it turns out that I was really wrong. The principles and habits that I really like will automatically disappear.
She is one of my music fans. I met when I came to see our band perform. Our band is not very famous, so I cherish the few "fans".
is not a fan, but actually it should be said to be friends. They usually get along with each other by friends.
Our band has a performance and will notify her to come and watch it. If she has time, she will definitely come.
has been together for a long time, so she asked the people from our band to go to escape the room together, and she took her little sisters with her.
She was actually quite brave. She followed me the first half of the way, but a "ghost hand" stretched out from behind her scared her. She immediately rushed to the front and grabbed my hand.
When she held me, my first reaction was not to repulse, but to be my heartbeat, I was particularly nervous, and even secretly happy in my heart.
From that time on, I knew that I really fell in love with her. All the things that I thought were impossible for me were realized one by one. When I held her hand, I felt inexplicably moved.
Dong Haiqiao, 28 years old, programmer : I fell in love with her, and I couldn't take my eyes away from her for a moment.
Apart from work, my life is almost like eating and watching movies. It is very monotonous and boring.
Although I am not young anymore, I have only had a relationship once, which is the current period.
My girlfriend and I met at " Haidilao ". At that time, she and her friends were celebrating their birthdays. Seeing me eating alone there, I invited me to "shop" a table together, and it was more interesting to play together.
After her birthday, she took the initiative to ask for my WeChat, and she chatted all over the next few months.
When New Year's Day was approaching, she suddenly asked me out for the New Year's Eve. Anyway, I agreed without any arrangement.
That time, we were the two of us watching the fireworks show together, the park music show, and the roadside stalls together, and we had a great time. After I came back from
, I found that I liked her personality very much, lively and cute, and had no scheming. After
, when I went out to play together, my eyes never left her, and I couldn't help but look at her. I realized that I didn't appreciate her personality, but liked her person.
It turns out that if you like someone, your eyes will be inseparable from her. This is true.
Time Emotional Class:
In Schopenhauer's "The Empty of the World", there is a sentence:
is generated by will, by will, by motivation, and by motivation, and by motivation,
In short, actions are controlled by will, and many actions are subconscious reactions, and he himself did not even react.
When a man is completely moved by a woman, even if he doesn't say it, his instinctive reaction will honestly express what he thinks in his heart.
For example: he will get close to his body, stare at you unconsciously, and like to have some physical contact with you very much.
If there is a man around you who has the above behavior, don’t doubt it, he has indeed been moved by you and cannot stop loving you.
