Lin Pinru is the heroine of "The Temptation of Going Home". When she first appeared, she appeared as a housewife.
There is a line in "My First Half of Life": When you eat, drink and use everything you use, you will have no right to speak. Once this dependence relationship is established, there will be no emotional equality.
Originally, Lin Pinru and Hong Shixian's marriage was unequal, and Lin Pinru was a typical high marriage.
Lin Pinru's original family is very ordinary, and she is even a lower-class family. Her father has no serious job and makes money by singing in KTV. Her mother is a cleaner. Not only does her brother not get into college, but she has been idle at home. To be honest, with Lin Pinru's family background, boys with slightly better family conditions may not look down on her family.
And Hong Shixian is a rich second generation. His father Hong Guorong is very capable and founded Xufeng Construction, a leading enterprise in the industry. The Hong family lives in a luxury house, and Hong Shixian is the only son of the Hong family.
With the Hong family's background, only "Gao Shanshan" is worthy of it. Lin Pinru had an unequal marriage from the beginning
Originally, their marriage was inappropriate. Her mother-in-law Bai Feng especially looked down on Li Yaping. Although her father-in-law valued Lin Pinru's character and thought she was a good wife, she also complained that she was like a bottomless pit.
vs. Lin Pinru and "Gao Shanshan", you find that women, try not to be a housewife, otherwise, you may lose miserably.
01. Although Lin Pinru, a housewife, is very virtuous, the Hong family does not lack nannies;
Indeed, Lin Pinru has contributed to the Hong family. She has kept the family in an orderly manner and understood the taste of the whole family. After she left, Hong Baolian made a lot of trouble.
After Ellie entered the door, Hong Guorong disliked Ellie in every possible way, not only because Ellie interfered in her son's marriage, but also because compared with Lin Pinru, Ellie is really not a little worse.
However, Bai Feng and Hong Shixian could not see Lin Pinru's efforts, because the Hong family's financial situation was not short of nannies at all, and they also had nannies at home.
As the hostess in the family, Lin Pinru is doing the work of a nanny. Then, in the eyes of mother-in-law and men, there is only the value of a nanny. For them, a nanny can be thrown away at any time. Without Lin Pinru, the Hong family can still live a comfortable life.
In this case, if Lin Pinru wants to gain a foothold in the wealthy family, he needs to start doing three things.
First, having children and having children, she may be able to improve her status in this family. Lin Pinru was also very anxious and went to the hospital and eventually had a child. Unfortunately, the child came too late. Hong Shixian had betrayed her. Even the child could not save their marriage.
Second, stop the act of helping your brother and make your mother's family stronger. Originally, they looked down on you. If you ask for money from your parents-in-law for money, isn’t this a chance to humiliate you? Moreover, this is a real thing, making people speechless. Just like when Bai Feng and Hong Shixian mentioned Lin Pinru's parents' home, Lin Pinru couldn't even take a word, just because what they said was indeed true!
Third, with the help of such a good platform as my mother-in-law, improve yourself and have a career.
As a successful man, Hong Guorong naturally hopes to have a suitable successor. He treats his son Hong Shixian who has achieved nothing and only knows how to eat, drink and enjoy himself. On the contrary, he appreciates Lin Pinru with good character, supports Lin Pinru's study, and places his hope on the children in Lin Pinru's belly.
If Lin Pinru becomes strong, he will seize the big tree of father-in-law and develop his own career, not only can he provide himself with a guarantee, but he can also let his in-laws see his own strengths.Once Lin Pinru has a career support, Hong Shixian dared not act recklessly.
02. If she has financial strength, her mother-in-law will not dare to show off her power. She can give her mother's family money, and she has to consider it before a man betrays her.
Take the attitude of mother-in-law Bai Feng. In the early stage, seeing Bai Feng’s attitude towards Lin Pinru, it really makes people half-expected.
In fact, even if she was a nanny at home, she was much more polite, but she only shouted at Lin Pinru alone and criticized Lin Pinru at all times.
Wait until "Gao Shanshan" entered the door, deliberately pretending to be clumsy and not knowing how to do housework, and knocking over breakfast. Although Bai Feng complained, he dared not shout at "Gao Shanshan", let alone treating "Gao Shanshan" as a free nanny.
The reason why she is so double-standard is because she knows very well that she can afford to offend the former, while she can't afford to offend the latter.
Lin Pinru is not only cowardly and will not refute, but her food and clothing are all derived from the Hong family. It is not that the Hong family is afraid that she will turn against each other, but that she is afraid that the Hong family will not want her. Understanding this, Bai Feng naturally has no scruples about Lin Pinru. Anyway, even if Lin Pinru really gets angry, he will at most lose a free nanny. Lin Pinru has no children and no financial strength, which is nothing to the Hong family.
However, "Gao Shanshan" is different. She is not only Gao Hong's daughter, but also an economic strongman. She can not only give birth to children for the Hong family, but also bring greater wealth to the Hong family. No one will be unable to get along with money.
seeking profit and avoiding harm is human nature, bullying the weak and fearing the strong is also a common problem for human beings. Therefore, if you want to avoid being bullied by your in-laws, you have to let them know that bullying you will only harm them but not good. Be nice to you, and live a good life for the family, only good for the family. Benefits are often more effective than feelings.
03. Woman, I hope you understand that you do not have the halo of the protagonist like Lin Pinru. If you do not have financial strength, once something happens to your marriage, the poor one must be you.
What are the consequences of Lin Pinru being a housewife?
Her husband was stolen and her marriage was destroyed. Her family, who had been dragging her back, became a handle for her in-laws to threaten her divorce. What's more, the man and the third party killed her child for the sake of benefit. If she hadn't been alive, she would have died in the sea.
As the heroine in the TV series, Lin Pinru will become "Gao Shanshan" because she actually relies on the protagonist's halo, and for most people, we don't have the protagonist's halo.
If Lin Pinru had no protagonist halo and Gao Hong's help, it would be really difficult for her to take revenge and defeat the Hong family.
Yishu once said this: "Never underestimate the coldness of men when they break up. Women's stupidest thing is to give up their jobs for the so-called family. If you want to be independent in your mind, you must first be financially independent. At least when the song ends and falls, you can support yourself and continue to live with dignity!"
Woman, I hope you understand that you do not have the halo of the protagonist like Lin Pinru. If you do not have the financial strength, once something happens to your marriage, you will definitely be you. At that time, let alone robbing the custody of the child with men, whether it can solve your own survival problem is a question mark.
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