Some time ago, Yao Chen was scolded to the hot search again.
The reason is that she posted a set of photos on Weibo, which were bold and avant-garde, and she showed high-end and sexy everywhere.
There is a set of clothes that are still lace-hole, which may subvert many people's impression of Yao Chen before.
Although some fans also asked her, "Why do you want to shoot like this? What's the point?
Yao Chen directly answered: No, I'm happy.
But what's gratifying is that there are more voices shouting for Yao Chen this time.
To be honest, I felt a little moved when I saw more people praising her beauty than scolding her.
From menstruation shame to dressing shame, women receive more insults than understanding and tolerance.
And this time, when facing doubts, Yao Chen just said calmly, "No, I'm happy." "
Yes, since men can show eight-pack abdominal muscles, the woman's body does not have to be tightly wrapped from head to toe. As long as women are willing, they have freedom to dress.
After all, women's desires are worthy of being expressed, and women's desires are also worthy of being respected.
I remember that there is a line in the TV series "In the Skyscraper": "The improvement of our female status is achieved through generations of women's hard work. "
is very glad that women have never given up their efforts. Now more and more women are bold enough to express themselves, and it is easier to get recognition from society.
Shengnan is a single female journalist with ideals and independent life. She pursues love and never messes with relationships between men and women.
But drama The drama is that Sheng Nan was diagnosed with ovarian cancer.
She had to prepare for surgery to remove the ovary, but Sheng Nan would lose sexual pleasure after the operation.
So, her last wish was to experience the one-time pleasure with the person she liked before the operation.
So soon, she fell in love with the literary youth Liu Guangming. She confessed her experience to Liu Guangming and said directly to Liu Guangming: "I want to have sex with you. "
She expressed her lust so boldly, but she did not get Liu Guangming's understanding.
The blood in Sheng's body soaked her pants and was on the sofa, and at the same time scared Liu Guangming to escape.
Sheng's chased her out and cried alone in the dark night.
Perhaps, the blood on the sofa was the blood in Sheng's heart. Only when the heart was hurt, the blood would flow out unstoppably.
Perhaps, the blood on the sofa was the blood in Sheng's heart. Only when the heart was hurt, the blood would flow out. html l4
This is the dilemma of Sheng Nan in the movie "Send Me to the Clouds", and it is also the dilemma of millions of women in real life. Before
, women were not understood and respected, so they had menstrual shame.
and even some normal gynecological diseases were inexplicably believed that only girls who are "not clean" will get it.
Women not only have to endure physical pain, but also have to experience mental torture.
Women not only have to endure physical pain, but also have to experience mental torture.
Yao Chen once said in "Speech of Starry Sky" that if she doesn't meet a good script, she would rather be silent for a while.
believes that she plays Sheng Nan, which is the result of her careful selection. She starred in this film, but she has been impressed by Sheng Nan's spirit of resistance.
This year, 41-year-old Yao Chen is already in her forties.
She has experienced a boom, but was involved in public opinion storm and lost resources, and her career plummeted.
Nowadays, she can be calm when facing doubts.
From being swept up by public opinion to accepting herself and publicly publishing large-scale photos, it is Yao Chen's progress.
From being abused by women indiscretion to dressing in a lot of voices supporting Yao Chen in the comments, it is actually the progress of the times.
But the Jolin Tsai , who was scolded on the hot search, is not as lucky as Yao Chen.
Some time ago, forty-year-old Jolin Tsai held a concert. She and Xiao S sang on the same stage. After singing the song, the two hugged each other and kissed each other enthusiastically, bringing the atmosphere to the highest point.
Subsequently, information about Jolin Tsai's concert was flooded with the screen on major social platforms, attracting more than 900 million people on Weibo.
But some inappropriate sounds also appeared.
Some people say, "This look looks like a hair salon girl, rustic and ugly."
Some people also say, "Two exposers."
There are also many people accusing her: "Why should I wear sexy underwear?"
carefully reviewed Jolin Tsai's stage look. She wore a red lace dress, which looked hot and sexy, but it didn't make people feel vulgar.
, but it is still maliciously speculated by those with bad intentions.
Someone deliberately typed the four words "sexy underwear" and accompanied by a playful expression.
is really disgusting.
There are also many people calling Jolin Tsai's actions on the stage "discomfortable", and said that the same-sex kiss between her and Xiao S was even more "disgusting."
However, the theme of Jolin Tsai's concert was originally "desire", and the main purpose was to encourage women to speak out for themselves bravely.
Thinking of the time before, Jolin Tsai wore a purple tassel dress and said loudly on the stage, "Life after the age of 40 is really feel damn good."
The former Jolin Tsai was afraid that the stage effect would be bad and that she was maliciously evaluated by others, so she would feel sad and she burst into tears on the stage.
Now Jolin Tsai is not only able to speak out her own thoughts loudly, but also knows how to use her influence to speak out for women's careers.
The dress and dress of female celebrities are taken to the table every once in a while.
It is precisely because in some people's stereotypes, women should wear conservatively, but no one has ever really cared about how women can feel comfortable wearing it.
If you want to change the inherent concepts for thousands of years, the road will be long and difficult.
Fortunately, more and more people are awakening their consciousness, and the voices of insults can never obliterate the voices of recognition. These subtle changes are inseparable from the efforts of generations after generation.
In 2015, a poem of desire came out of nowhere.
"In fact, sleeping with you is similar to being sleeping with you. It is nothing more than the force of two physical bodies colliding."
This poem is called "Traveling Most of China to Sleep You". The person who wrote this poem is Yu Xiuhua, a rural woman with cerebral palsy. The erotic desire of women is nakedly displayed in
, which has caused a lot of controversy.
Some people accused her of not understanding "chastity and ignorance", and some people directly called her shameless and a "slut."
In August this year, Yu Xiuhua boldly expressed her love for Li Jian on Weibo.
Someone called her "shameless" and "disturbing Li Jian", but she said domineeringly, "If you disturb me, you are not her wife."
Yu Xiuhua faced a lot of criticism, but she faced her marriage without showing any weakness every time, and was even unwilling to pay 150,000 yuan to divorce her husband under social pressure.
The poem she wrote is bold and straightforward, and does not hide her inner thoughts at all. It has been questioned countless times that "no literary quality".
But she directly responded domineeringly, "Don't talk about quality with the Internet hooligan in a vest."
Facing those who attacked and abused her, Yu Xiuhua had only one attitude, "I am willing to stand in everyone's spit and maintain it as primitive desire and chastity."
But in her opinion, most chastity in their eyes is meaningless, and true chastity should "be just sleeping with the person they like.""
is on Yu Xiuhua's body, and she is wearing three shackles: women, disabled, and poets.
No matter which identity it is, they are required to "understand shame and be polite", and Yu Xiuhua's actions are all challenging the so-called secular world.
She said, "No matter what others say, my aunt only writes her own poems. "
Although she has received a lot of abuse, modern society is still extremely inclusive.
Yu Xiuhua has been greatly recognized. Not only has she won many awards, she has also become the chairman of Zhongxiang Writers Association.
Some people say, "Yu Xiuhua's pursuit of sex is essentially a life of pursuit of freedom. "
deeply agrees with it.
Although she was born with a disabled person with cerebral palsy, she was arranged by her parents to marry her husband who didn't understand her at all, she never compromised.
Yu Xiuhua dared to write such poems because she broke free from her innate constraints and lived a unique style.
In fact, Not only Yu Xiuhua, but everyone who is fearless of rumors and bravely shows himself is worthy of recognition.
hopes that more Yu Xiuhua will appear, so that there will be more unique figures in the world.
Since ancient times, many people have stubbornly put a "tight coil" on themselves. While enduring pain, they also set rules for others according to their own life guidelines.
Once others Living freer than yourself will attract countless slander.
For example, Reyiza , she was scolded for wearing suspenders;
, for example, Cheng Ronghua, who started out by selling tofu and became the richest female female in Tianjin, was connotated with "definitely many tofu";
, for example, Yang Liping, a people's artist, chose not to have children because of her ideals, and was publicly mocked as lonely and helpless;
, for example, girl If she rapes, someone will blame her for her exposure and deliberately seducing the criminal;
For example, a male blogger who shares how to care for her uterus through yoga on the Internet will be called dirty and indifferent;
Mr. Lu Xun once said:
"When she saw her short sleeves, she immediately thought of white arms, she immediately thought of her whole body, she immediately thought of her genitals, she immediately thought of sexual intercourse, she immediately thought of hybridization, and she immediately thought of her illegitimate child. The Chinese people's imagination can only make such a leap forward at this level. "
For most people, whenever a woman's success is mentioned, someone immediately thinks of relying on men to get to power; whenever a man wears makeup, he immediately thinks of "sissy"; whenever a woman talks about getting married, he immediately thinks of women having to have children after marriage...
In the eyes of these people, not only women must fulfill their obligations and abide by the rules, but men can only be "masculinity".
In fact, women have the freedom of women. They have the right to choose what clothes to wear, and they also have the right to choose whether to have children...
Men can also choose whether to want to Makeup, choose whether to wear a skirt...
Although many people are still ignorant, the road ahead is long. In the future, more people will stand up, not only to speak for women, but also to call on everyone to look at the world with an inclusive eye.
The world is neither black nor white, and people are not only against each other.
As long as you live independently and confidently, you should be understood and respected.
Author: July
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