Some trivial things can often change a person's mentality.
In the TV series "Their Names", An Yan is the assistant trained by Lei Li, but this person is also this person who gave Lei Li a heavy blow to his career. In her words, this is someone I am willing to hand over my back to her.
betrayal, accompanied by indescribable feelings, it hits the heart in detail. After decades of ups and downs in the business world, she has experienced countless wins and losses, but she is not as cruel as this kind of blow. She made an appointment with An Yan, hoping to hear some unscrupulous difficulties, but An Yan gritted her teeth and said: How long does it take for me to sit in your position?
Thunder Grain sighed: It’s a pity, this person is you. Whether it is reality or sad, the friendship that once walked along the way turned into a breeze in this sentence, without any trace.
Why did An Yan betray Thunder Grain, who was treated as a relative?
In the workplace, trust is a double-edged sword.
colleagues, in the eyes of some, are just a group of "workers" sitting together, and have nothing to do with work; in the eyes of some, they are targets of intrigue and have no connection with interests; in the eyes of some, they are a group of comrades with similar ideas, and in addition to dreams, they have friendship.
An Yan and Qin Tian are comrades in the army for Thunder Li. But facing the regret of thunder particles, An Yan was hysterical: Why can't it be me? I hate this kind of trust, it makes me feel that I am born without any threat and can only stand in the safest position behind you forever.
I always thought that trust is a beautiful word. Thunder grain’s questions are no less than the audience’s shock. What kind of brain circuit does An Yan have? In fact, her betrayal is not difficult to understand.
is the first to be hit by the huge psychological gap. As the assistant to the vice president, she does the most complicated work but is exposed to the most luxurious world.
A cup of coffee, she has to cross two streets every day, covering her hands and jogging back to the company, just so that Lei Li can drink the taste she likes and ensures that it is warm; a pair of high heels, for her, is her unattainable price, but it is a birthday gift that Lei Li gives when he opens her mouth.
The huge psychological gap made the initial grace of knowing each other quickly fascinated by the dazzling prosperity. How can people who have seen the vast ocean be content with the turbulent waves of the stream? Just as An Yan's last rhetorical question "Why can't it be me", the subtext is "Why can't it be me".
That was not a sudden idea, but an idea that rose in my heart countless times on the way to buy coffee. wants to make progress and seek promotion. This is understandable, but I am afraid that if I accidentally use too much force, I will take the wrong move.
Next, of course, it is self-knowledge. An Yan has been brought up by Lei Jie since she first entered the workplace and is now standing alone. But understanding a person's behavior is different from being able to act like this.
Don’t want to be a general soldier, you are not a good soldier, but there is another saying: People are more important to know. Among them, there is both awareness of one's own position and objective consideration of one's own abilities. And what she has is not only a kind of blind confidence, but also a kind of ignorance that is ignorant.
If a person does not have a little self-knowledge, he will easily be taken to the extreme. As there is a line in "The Way of Heaven" that says: This specification will only push you to the extreme, either make you feel inferior or make you look like a small market greedy for cheapness, without giving you the right choice at all.
Under the impact brought by the circle, she couldn't wait to cross another world and become another her. There, she no longer has to be careful, no longer obey, she wants to be the one who gives orders.
However, she still knows that she has little power and needs a strong backstage. So, when Dong Lu threw out his olive branch, a huge layout spread out in her mind. The ending of
Anyan is not difficult to predict.
An Yan was very thoughtful. She expected that Qin Tian was the weakness of Lei Jie. Sure enough, using Qin Tian as bait, let Lei Jie abdicate and give in to the virtuous, and she naturally replaced it. But when she was planning to , did she ever think about whether she was in the game or the person in charge? Her ending is not difficult to predict.
career was stranded. She longs to be a person like Thunder Liter. She just needs to walk down to earth and step by step. It is only a matter of time before she can get to power. Just like the first time, Lei Li was also a novice who had just entered the workplace, who had accumulated and made breakthroughs little by little, and achieved his current success. But she couldn't wait.
Zweig once said: She was too young at that time and did not know that all the gifts given by fate had already secretly bid for the price.
Little do you know that whether it is five years or ten years, that is the only way for every successful person. When her strength cannot support her ambitions, the higher she climbs, the worse she will fall.
Lei Li Leaving Mulan said that the company may not be able to have the glory of the past, and she can still develop a new career driven by capital, but An Yan Leaving Mulan said that it is not only insignificant, but also in the circle, it is probably difficult to gain a foothold. After all, although the workplace is not a place for friendship, there are only a few people who dare to believe it.
Lost family. How to choose career and family? This is a difficult problem. But for An Yan, for the sake of her career, she did not hesitate to fall in love with Dong Lu, accepted the "three-year agreement" and gave birth to a son for her, of course, it was hiding it from everyone.
The prerequisite for them to establish a family is to take what they take, which is destined to lose all the benefits. As the president, Director Lu needs a man who expands territory, but if a soldier wants to be the head of the general, he cannot tolerate it. It becomes necessary to bury a thunder around the thunder particle.
Anyan is one of the people that Thunder Grain trusts the most and is also a person with the desire for power. Once a person has desire, it is easy to grasp. Besides, . Mr. Lu’s words also exposed the purpose of Mr. Lu’s choice of Anyan : I like your temperament and never ask why. Men are really afraid of others asking questions, especially the boss.
To put it bluntly, it means being obedient. But An Yan forgot that Mr. Lu is a celibate, how could he change his behavior for decades because of his whim? As profit-seeking businessmen, even if they have children, it is only a matter of time before An Yan can bring benefits to the company like thunder particles.
people have thoughts, but in the end they are empty. After all, in the workplace, you need to understand these two rules:
. Below the shortcuts, they are all deep pits. Things that are easy to get are easily lost, and things that are rare are hard to lose. It may be long to reach a high position down to earth, but it is also more stable. On the contrary, just like Peter Chen who climbed high when he was young, he is now in vain. is just like An Yan today. He thinks he has taken control of Mr. Lu, but how can this thousand-year-old fox be like to be with him?
. Coordinate with virtue and a long-term solution. The high position of has never been just a respectful title. If you don’t have matching strength and virtue, how can you convince the public? The reason why Thunder Particles have a strong appeal is that it has proved its strength over the years. And An Yan now has a high position, and his methods are despicable. How many people are really convinced? Naturally, it cannot last long.
