Which is more important, the process or the ending,
Wang Shaoyu
"Which process or the ending is more important?" This seems to be a topic that everyone cannot avoid. Different people will have different understandings. The moment when businessmen are happy to receive their income, lovers enjoy the warmth when walking together, and family members are happy at the moment of reunion. Many people enjoy the process, and for me, I tend to be more inclined to the importance of the ending.
Maybe, we enjoy the process because we appreciate the way we struggle, intoxicated by the avenue we walked step by step for our goal, and looking back at the road we walked, our hearts are still full of sweetness. But please don’t forget that from the beginning, we were pursuing a goal: no matter how beautiful the process is, but not satisfactory the end, then the enjoyment process will eventually be in vain.
For example, it’s like a building block competition. You only have one goal from beginning to end, that is, to put the building blocks intact. In the process of building blocks, you must do it step by step, build it bit by bit, and try to do all the steps perfectly. During this period, countless people may be amazed when they see your "work". If you had to win the championship of this competition with confidence, but in the last step, you suddenly had an unexpected accident. A drone used for shooting fell down due to a failure and hit the building block work that should have been ranked first. Indeed, you have enjoyed the process of building blocks, but you will be happy if you use your own efforts to get your own beautiful ending, but you are not destined to be with it because of an accident?
In my opinion, a good ending is often enviable and desirable, while most people who are addicted to the process always like to use their own stories to comfort themselves and others. I like the acknowledgement of a doctoral thesis. The excerpt is as follows:
"I walked a long way and suffered a lot before I sent this doctoral thesis to you . Twenty-two years of study, the road was stormy and muddy, and many were not easy, like a dream, as if the family had just reunited yesterday. "
This doctor walked all the way, full of tranquility and mud. My mother left home at the age of twelve, and my father left him because of a traffic accident when he was seventeen. He fell seriously ill when he was young. Grandma, the high school teachers who are like parents and children will leave him one after another. His first half of his life is miserable, but it is such a person who passed the doctoral exam through his own efforts. Do you think he will enjoy this process? It probably won't be because no one wants to retake the stormy road.
There is no doubt that the process promotes the development of the ending, making the ending of the story natural and even perfect. Regarding that doctoral student, I think he will definitely look back at the road he came after success, even though the road is bumpy. He will also be grateful to himself, and he will be glad that he has never given up, and has walked through the mountains and seas with a tenacious heart and ushered in the dawn. Just imagine, if he gave up easily without seeing the ending, would he have achieved what he is today?
On the other hand, they all left a difficult time in the end. They are unwilling to accept such an ending, so they hypnotize themselves in their hearts, brainwash themselves over and over again, and tell themselves that the ending is not important, and just enjoy the process. This left a question. Will you really laugh at the end? So, I was wondering, could it be because the ending of the story was not beautiful enough that some people chose the process? What is the ending of
? He is not a fragment piece piece by piece, not a piece of the beginning and end, leaving behind the small part in the middle. The ending is like a start button for memories. It has a magical magic that always makes us look back at the end of the journey when we came, or the road of peace, or the muddy road. It is a time node formed by countless red lines of time. Whenever we reach the end, memories begin to emerge, and the bits of beauty and bits of pain can be savored carefully at that moment.
In fact, the ending in reality is often not as perfect as in TV series or movies.We are always used to planning a perfect ending at the beginning of the story, fantasizing about "cultivating the right result", but the real ending is often unexpected, and he always comes quietly when we inadvertently.
It’s like on an early spring morning, someone suddenly took a piece of paper and asked you to end your story. You had to scribble a few sentences. Wherever you wrote it, it was the ending. This is how life is, and the ending is unpredictable. No matter how beautiful the process is, but the ending is bad, it cannot be called a good story. On the contrary, the process is very difficult but the ending is beautiful, which is the norm in most "authors".
Comment: If I were asked to answer which is more important, the process or the ending, I would say that growth is important, and it is more important to improve my cognition and realm throughout the entire experience. Because, everything will never go well in a lifetime. If we are too entangled with the process or the ending, it will only add to our worries. Therefore, we need to practice "quietness". "Silence is also stable, and movement is also stable." Temper yourself in things and reach a state where you can maintain inner peace whether you are quiet or doing things.
