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Wang Weizhong, born in Taiwan in 1957, is a 6-person and agent in Taiwan's TV program production html and is known as the godfather of Taiwan entertainment.
When Wang Weizhong started working on TV programs in the second year of college.
He is known for his creative program, and the programs he produced or produced by him have driven the pulse of the Taiwanese variety show industry. For example, " serial ", " Kangxi is here ", "Guess I Guess" and "The Great Pot of the People".
In addition, he also works as a stage play, a voice actor, and a writer. In his own words, used it to the limit.
His childhood was in a military village in Taiwan.
Because he has no family background that can be obtained by reaching out, he has worked hard since he was a child to create the toys and things he wants with his own imagination and hands.
Invisibly, these became his precious treasures for his subsequent successful life.
get up step by step, and only after a small success in his career, Wang Weizhong considered marriage. The year he entered the marriage, he was 36 years old, which was already late, but this also made him understand the preciousness of marriage better.
Wang Weizhong's wife Lin Huijing , is the chairman of Taiwan's Nu Bra Underwear Company, a woman who coexists with wisdom and beauty.
At home, Wang Weizhong is a good man who respects his wife. Their lives are simple but wise.
Just like he said:
When you go to a family, you will know whether the family is the man or the woman. Of course our leader is my wife next to me.
humor brings admiration for your wife.
After 26 years of marriage, the children were gone. The two of them changed their homes and their sleeping mode became separate beds and not rooms. There was a sliding door between the room, so they could hear each other.
Regarding this phenomenon, Wang Weizhong joked: couples become roommates in the end.
There is no grievance or unhappiness, but it is accompanied by more comfort, a marriage life that makes each other more comfortable, continues to move forward.
Some people say that only marriages with disagreement and unhappy relationships can separate; some people say that separation will lead to disagreement between two people, and over time, they will be strangers.
This is not the case. Everyone has their own living habits.
is like carrots and vegetables, each with its own preferences.
Existentialist psychology master Owen Yalong's attitude towards love may inspire us:
The kind of love I dream of is that two people share a passion for pursuing a higher level of truth together. Maybe I shouldn't call it love, maybe its real name is friendship.
couples become roommates in the end. Love goes deeper and becomes friendship.
Isn’t this a kind of happiness?
01 Marriage is a cooperation between two people
Wang Weizhong affectionately called his wife Xiaohui.
In his description, his wife Lin Huijing is very womanly, but she has a manly decisiveness. Although I look very manly, I have the advantages of meticulousness in a woman's character.
"It is better to have different personalities!" This is his summary of the two's personalities.
Two completely different but complementary and mutually beneficial personalities make their marriage life smoother than ever before.
There is a line in the TV series "The Pentium Era":
In marriage, at first we all wanted to find someone like ourselves, but after searching, we became more and more lonely. Later, we gradually discovered that similar people are suitable for playing and playing together, and complementary people are suitable for getting older together.
Wang Weizhong has truly realized the truth in his married life.
"I cooperate with my wife to a good home, I can't do it alone!"
I think this is the most sincere affirmation of a husband to his wife and the most sincere expression of emotional expression.
Marriage is a cooperation between two people, which requires the joint efforts of two people and the joint efforts of two people.Some cooperation fails in the end, while others can make a place called home.
works together to achieve the foundation for a smooth marriage cooperation.
is just like the economist Xue Zhaofeng said in " Strange Talk ":
Marriage is like starting a business. Only when a partner cooperates well can the company continue to run and make profits; by the same token, only when a couple cooperates well can life continue to live, marriage and family can be happy.
Wang Weizhong's marriage, the two of them cooperated well.
The complementary personality, independence of career, and cultivation of two daughters, no matter in terms of their cooperation, there is no deviation in their cooperation.
Marriage is the cooperation between two people. It is about complementarity, sincerity, sincerity and love.
02 Marriage means that the children can be better if the couple is well
Whether it is a young couple or a middle-aged couple, the relationship between husband and wife should be more important than parent-child relationship, so that this family will be full of happiness.
As the saying goes: A loving couple will be with you when they are old.
Most people pay more attention to their children than their partners. The result of this is that the partner lacks care and the child lacks freedom.
If you can wake up while you are young, you still need to take care of your partner.
How can the couple live a better life for the two of them?
Wang Weizhong's answer is: Think less about your children and think carefully about yourself and your partner.
After the two daughters went abroad, the space at home was freed up. Wang Weizhong and his wife changed the structure of the family.
has changed the study room to make it look more warm. It is a space that Wang Weizhong likes to have within his reach of books; and the kitchen, bathroom and locker room are three things that my wife cares about and cannot be changed.
Wang Weizhong also respects his wife's little girl nature. For women, wearing clothes and trying clothes is a kind of happiness, and they cannot and should not be deprived.
The kitchen is very big.
Wife Lin Huijing likes it very much and is good at cooking food. Wang Weizhong likes to invite friends to visit her home.
In the dining atmosphere, feel the warmth and heart-warming that life and family give you, and miss the same hobbies of parents. This is his first and most profound impression of a home.
home should be a place full of fireworks and laughter, a hot meal will be a lifelong bond.
family is a special show for couples; children are just visiting their homes.
Yang Lan said:
Marriage requires another bond beyond love. The most tenacious thing is not children, not money, but about the common growth of the spirit.
is indeed the case. The most tenacious bond between Wang Weizhong and Lin Huijing is the common growth for each other.
03 Divided beds and no room, and the couple became roommates in the end
0 Writer Wu Zhihong once said:
Really healthy love is to work hard to do it, give yourself love, and then share the rich nourishment of the vest with the other party, rather than letting the heart be empty, and working very hard to give for the other party, and the sense of sacrifice is not love.
As the giant ship of marriage continues to sail, Wang Weizhong and his wife also constantly adjust their driving style and posture.
After the renovation of the two people, the bedroom of the two was divided into two parts, with a sliding door in the middle, and each other has its own independent bed and space. Even if you close the door, you can hear the other person's voice.
Why sleep in separate beds?
"Because of snoring every day, my wife couldn't sleep well. When she first started snoring, my wife pushed me twice, and then she slowly got started and slapped her in the face.
Now we sleep each other and have independent space to do a lot of things in it, such as exercise, watching TV, watching movies, etc. The couple is old and look like roommates, and the children are just here to visit. "
Wang Weizhong said so.
is actually very good for couples to become roommates in the end. Because the older a person grows up, the more he cares about his personal space and growth. Only when a mature and rich self can he nourish the other person and his marriage. They are not the only way to get along with
.The way of getting along with couples in
Rene Liu and Zhong Xiaojiang is more profoundly explained than Wang Weizhong and his wife.
The two have separate rooms and study rooms. They made an appointment to go out together, but went to different theaters to watch different movies. After going home and entering the door, one goes to the left and the other goes to the right.
But this does not affect the relationship between the two.
The mode of getting along with each other is not important, but seeking comfort, what is important is the mutual loyalty of the two hearts. Even if you become roommates, you will reveal your sincerest sincerity to each other.
Whether it is Wang Weizhong and his wife, or Rene Liu, the relationship between husband and wife becomes roommates is indestructible and a happy existence.
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