Love Song days later Liang Jingru 's courage , and is back.
I still remember that on September 8, when Liang Jingru held a new song sharing session, she sang the title song "Slow Cold" and suddenly couldn't suppress herself, she covered her face and cried bitterly, and then posted the divorce news: Mr. Zhao and I have signed a divorce agreement and raised my son together.
November 4, Liang Jingru made her first public appearance after her divorce, attended the 2020 World Tour press conference, and responded to her life and feelings after the divorce for the first time, saying: "During these days, I myself have been a good role as a mother, a good professional singer, and then I also use my songs to heal myself."
From the end of twelve years of love to crying, to the calm expression of facing the public, it has been less than two months.
No one wants Liang Jingru to get out of the haze so quickly. Although she and Zhao Yuantong have been obscure about the reasons for the divorce and maintain the only remaining decent, rumors of Zhao Yuantong's second cheating have already flown.
But Liang Jingru's love song finally healed Liang Jingru.
has been in the industry for 20 years. Her more than 100 songs are themed on women's emotions at different stages, exhausting the various possibilities of love. These songs have healed countless people, including Liang Jingru, who is in a state of courage in street photography recently.
So which song is Liang Jingru herself that gives Liang Jingru the courage?
"Only those who say goodbye to the wrong ones can meet the right ones"
Liang Jingru's breakup story is no different from the thousands of men and women in this world, and she is even a little embarrassed and bloody.
Before getting married, Liang Jingru had met a better partner, Mayday's Martha .
fans are waiting for their love to take root, and Martha also recognized love semi-publicly at the concert. When Kangxi was asked about Liang Jingru, his answer was firm and decisive: Being a wife must be great.
But in the end, the end of this story is just like the sentence in Liang Jingru's song: It's a pity that it's not you, I'll accompany me until the end.
In 2009, Liang Jingru met her ex-husband Zhao Yuantong.
Two people also loved each other at the beginning.
Meet The same year , Zhao Yuantong gave Liang Jingru a diamond ring worth 170,000 yuan. Later, it was a wedding in three places, and Lee Zongsheng was personally the witness and handed Liang Jingru to Zhao Yuantong.
By April 2014, their son Zhao Yichen was born, as if the story would go on like this.
However, the calm lake surface quietly rippled.
It is rumored that Zhao Yuantong started cheating in his marriage. Liang Jingru saw it but did not cry or make a fuss and chose to forgive her. She thought he would come back in this way.
Even the queen of love songs is difficult to deal with the difficulty of real love.
It is said that Zhao Yuantong was still playing tricks after returning to his family. He cheated on his former employee half a year ago. At this point, Liang Jingru decided to leave this relationship.
Some netizens broke the news in May that the couple was already communicating about divorce. Regarding these rumors, Zhao Yuanren first denied it immediately, admitting that it was just a quarrel between husband and wife, not a big deal, and maybe maintaining this relationship in front of the outside world.
A few months later, the news was unstoppable, and they were exposed to be suspected of being separated. Liang Jingru's agent immediately clarified: something that does not exist at all.
At this time, Liang's best friend Fan Weiqi jumped out to confirm the divorce news and said that he had heard about it (divorce).
Then Hong Kong media revealed again that when Liang Jingru took a taxi, she ignored her love nest with her husband and went directly to another residence. People familiar with the matter said that the two had separated two months ago.
To the end, Liang Jingru publicly admitted on September 8 that love had passed away.
It is true that I once loved, but now I don’t love it anymore, it is true.
Love can deceive people, but you can't deceive yourself.
Witnesses that are gentle in the human world are marriages, and those who see through the impermanence of human nature are often marriages, because the heart of a man is as iron as iron.
Many people are not worth it for Liang Jingru, but being with a man with a bad character is hard to jump out as quickly as possible.
"Only by saying goodbye to the wrong ones, you can meet the right ones."
"Love really requires courage to face rumors"
People are naturally worried about Liang Jingru. External concerns often turn into rumors.
html When she announced the divorce news on September 8, she was emotionally collapsed. The two announced that they would raise their son together, and the reasons for the divorce were not made public.
After the divorce, Liang Jingru was repeatedly rumored that she was unable to get out of the pain caused by the divorce. There are rumors that Liang Jingru was in a bad mental state and needed to see a psychologist to guide herself, which made many fans worried.
Breakup is a natural human nature, but a high-level woman can always see through human nature. After seeing the character clearly, she will cultivate a diamond heart and rely on herself to choose.
A woman’s sense of security has never been given by men, but by herself.
And Liang Jingru's return of full blood was earlier than many people expected.
When CCTV Mid-Autumn Festival Gala, Liang Jingru had already appeared at the party, sang a new song, and also had the song "Courage".
has launched a new album. Stefanie Sun immediately played songs for her online, and reviewed her favorite works of Liang Jingru, and posted a photo of the two people. The two queens in the Chinese music scene were full of collagen. The most important thing was that there was no trace of the gloom of divorce on Liang Jingru's face.
Recently on Halloween, Liang Jingru generously posted a photo with her son, wearing an exaggerated pumpkin hat and sticking to her son, with a brilliant smile.
She no longer talks about divorce. She did not condemn her ex-husband. Everyone knew that she came out of trouble, but she herself was very let go of the past.
All of this makes people feel that I really underestimated Liang Jingru in the past. The Queen of Love Songs is not a little woman who is addicted to breaking up.
Where does the sense of power come from women? It’s not about advocating a few words of chicken soup that I want to become stronger, but about facing the real darkest moments of life and smiling beautifully.
Compared with Liang Jingru, who has faded out of the music industry in the past few years, everyone has found that Liang Jingru has been more active in business and harder after breaking up.
but still working hard to live.
She is not afraid.
is not afraid, first of all, material independence.
She didn't marry into a wealthy family, let alone rely on her husband's support. She naturally has the ability and confidence to turn around immediately when facing betrayal.
also has spiritual independence.
She would not feel that she could not survive without her husband. As she said herself, "I am also a good role as a mother and a good professional singer."
Things are impermanent, and divorce is not the worst ending.
When a marriage is left with only struggle, suffering and compromise, bravely leaving this negative energy journey that consumes oneself is not only a stop loss, but also a courage to start over.
Just like what Liang Jingru told all women in the song: "Love really requires courage."
But many people actually misunderstood that love here is not only about loving others, but also about yourself.
Liang Jingru, grew up overnight
After this story, we saw a very competitive Liang Jingru.
41-year-old female singer who is still singing love songs appears in this era of decline in the record industry and Douyin Internet celebrities. Does anyone care?
There are quite a lot of people who care about it.
Although many articles about Liang Jingru often write about her debut ten years.
In fact, this year marks her 20th anniversary.
Recently, she has been open frequently and posted a few selfies on her social account. In the photos, she is still not afraid of the camera, and directly uses large close-ups. Both selfies are close-up photos. The melon-eating crowd noticed her pink skin, and fans noticed that she was holding the single CD - "Growing Up Night".
That is Liang Jingru's debut song.
1996, Liang Jingru won the third place in the Conch New Rhyme Award in Malaysia singing competition. Lee Chongsheng came to Malaysia to select newcomers for the Rolling Stones. He failed to choose the first and second and directly took her to Taipei 3,000 kilometers away.
The first album was recorded for two years. In Taipei, she was not able to sing well due to local conditions and local conditions, so Lee Chongsheng sent her to Canada to record, but it still couldn't. She ran back to Malaysia to rest and continued recording. It took two years to take "Grow Up One Night", produced by Leehom and Guangliang , was released. Leehom personally opened the way for her and told the media many times that the reason she chose Liang Jingru was because she heard the "essence and initial touch" of love in her singing.
When there was a major earthquake, all album promotion activities were forced to be cancelled, and the song was not popular.
But Lee Zongsheng didn't believe in evil, so he immediately started making the second one. A year later, she released her second solo music album.
The sales volume of Taiwan’s three major record stores alone reached 180,000, and the sales volume in Asia reached 1.2 million. From then on, Liang Jingru's status as the "Queen of Love Songs".
This album is "Courage".
By 2002, "Sunrise, I Like" was released. "Happy Breakup" has become a famous song that accompanies countless urban lovers.
At that time, Liang Jingru naturally would not have thought that 17 years later, this famous song star appeared in countless reports of her divorce.
The general impression is that Liang Jingru only knows how to sing one style of love songs. In fact, she has been changing in the field of love songs. In "Swallowtail Butterfly", she began to try the rock style. " Ningxia " is popular again.
Over the years, her more than 200 songs have been given to every soul who is hurt in love. After the storm of emotions, they are asked to cherish themselves even more.
, just, time is really too powerful.
As we walked, some people forgot their way; including those around Liang Jingru.
But it was precisely from the end of this relationship that Liang Jingru finally became herself and learned to love herself again.
The theme of all love songs is the same - "Love".
If you remove the content and look at the essence, all love stories seem to be similar. When we meet and fall in love, she loves me, she doesn't love me, the pain of not love is displaced, the long journey of understanding, communication, desire, disguise, and conflict may not be able to persevere until the end. If we don't love, don't mention the past...
But the reason why we sing love songs repeatedly is because everyone can project themselves in different love song melodies and lyrics.
Once at a Lee Zongsheng concert, Liang Jingru went on stage to sing together as a guest. She said that she had never understood the lyrics of her elder brother when she was young, and only after she had love when she grew up did she gradually understand.
Lee Zongsheng once lamented that he had too many unsatisfactory feelings in terms of his relationship, and hoped that this little girl could get what she wanted to find a man who cared for her.
But find it and lose it.
It is not scary to have the courage to love and the ability to leave.
This relationship is of course wasted and helpless, but Liang Jingru can get out of negative emotions and start a new life before she can sing the melody of the second half of her life.
When Liang Jingru couldn't continue singing "Growing One Night" and wanted to escape, Lee Zongsheng's words made her bear it - "No matter how you sing in any state, you must be the same as why you sang at the beginning."
"Growing One Night" This is Liang Jingru's least popular album, which is about the memories and growth of a 20-year-old girl before and after her first love and breakup.
Liang Jingru is 41 years old, but a woman's growth is a lifetime. Love, miss, love again, getting married, divorce, passionate, chicken blood and bloody love stories are all over, and Liang Jingru has experienced another night of growing up.
After saying goodbye to the scumbag, Liang Jingru's song healed Liang Jingru. In the end, it was her who gave Liang Jingru her courage.
This love song queen who has encouraged countless urban nights to return home for 20 years with love songs, indeed, she used a powerful Liang Jingru to tell us: those love songs are not in vain.
Everything is just like the title of Liang Jingru's new album - "How am I? - The sun rises as usual."
