Recently, Lin Chi-ling, who married far away from Japan, appeared in Taiwan for the first time after giving birth!
At the new book launch conference, she wore a long dress and her long hair looked very gentle.
When it comes to her marriage and her life with her son, she choked up and cried several times.
Previously, rumors of Kurosawa Shihei's domestic violence and cheating were rampant, and Lin Chiling had never responded.
This time, she suddenly announced her return to China for development, because she wanted to take care of her elderly mother.
and Kurosawa Shihei also responded that he would not move to Taiwan with Lin Chiling.
After only three years of marriage, they separated from each other, which made netizens speculate whether Lin Chiling had divorced.
But then again, marriage is their own, and there are not many speculations on others.
What surprised me the most was that many netizens said that Lin Chiling had no girlish feeling after getting married and her condition was far worse than before.
They came to a conclusion: Lin Chiling was destroyed!
Coincidentally, , who just gave birth to a second child, was also ridiculed. , collagen , was seriously lost on his face.
Two people were once the number one goddess in Asia and the other was called the national goddess, but now they are ridiculed for their appearance. I feel infinitely sad.
In the eyes of netizens, it is the birth of a child that ruins their appearance.
What is funny is that when a male star is in poor condition because of raising children, netizens expressed encouragement.
Also as parents and stars, the treatment varies greatly just because of different genders.
and similar things are constantly happening on the Internet.
Recently, I saw a concept called "Pregnancy Concomitant Syndrome" .
refers to the husband's symptoms that will also occur when his wife has a pregnancy reaction; when the wife's pregnancy reaction is over, the husband's symptoms will also disappear.
Zheng Jun once revealed on the show that this symptoms occurred during Liu Yun 's pregnancy.
It is worth discussing that when a man has this symptoms, someone praises him as a good man, and only if he loves his wife, he will do this.
They had already received flowers and applause without doing anything.
But in fact, this situation is rare for men, less than one thousandth of the pain of women's childbirth.
Similar things are common. A million internet celebrities on a certain video platform are diagnosed with moderate anxiety and depression at home.
During this period, he was pessimistic and angry, his face was like a wild beast, and he often scared his children to tears.
The root of depression lies in the fact that he has become a glamorous model for the sake of his child.
He was praised on the Internet and instantly became a hot search.
I also admire his efforts for his family, but isn’t this the true portrayal of most mothers?
The following video made me frightened. In the video, the mother was raising her baby alone. Due to tendonitis and menstrual period, she felt very uncomfortable.
But the child followed her step by step. She was so collapsed that she could only squat on the ground and yelled at the child.
The difference is that Ah Bo has no financial pressure, there is a nanny at home, and his wife's understanding and sympathy.
Just to take care of the child, it makes him physically and mentally exhausted and becomes depressed.
As fathers, they were praised only after they suffered part of the pain, but this is the ordinary life of more mothers.
What’s ridiculous is that some men do not have a little more understanding of their wives because of such tolerance.
Even if you have seen your wife give birth, you can still use such pain as topic of conversation.
The husband of a million blogger saw the way his wife gave birth, and actually described it like this:
"Let your husband accompanying him to give birth to is equivalent to persuading him to divorce!"
" Such a big pool of blood, the whole scene is bloody, the whole scene is very bloody!" , I'm about to vomit." '
" I also need to cut the umbilical cord. The sizzling sound made me lose goosebumps all over the floor. '
From his eyes, I couldn't see any distress for my wife, and there was only my disgust for this experience.
And women face far more than childbirth, and what is even more difficult is breastfeeding and raising later.
But on the verge of collapse, they are facing husbands who are not their own and even think they are annoyed.
It is obvious that you only need to take part of the responsibility to be called a good father, but most men choose to turn a blind eye.
I once admitted that when I was taking care of my child, I thought of jumping off the roof.
Since giving birth to a child, she has resigned as a full-time mother. Take care of children and do housework every day. But her husband scolded her:
do nothing all day and can't even take care of the child well.
When she heard this, she felt like she had a sharp cut in her heart, and blood was visible.
As she said, what crushed her was not physical fatigue, but her husband's incomprehension and cold-eyed observation.
But compared to real life, the phenomenon on the Internet is very absurd.
Men on the Internet are very good at using the public's tolerance and start pretending to be full-time dads to fool the public and gain traffic.
Do you still remember the son-in-law who cried and complained about his hard work in raising children in Bijie, Guizhou?
In the video, he said that he took care of the child every day, and the child did not take his surname, and he only had less than 200 yuan on him.
And the reason why he can be popular is, as he himself said, is because 年名网.
Because it is extremely common in life for women to sacrifice themselves for their children, while male parenting is very rare and has more news value.
is exactly the popular saying on the Internet: "Gender swaps, and there are more than 10,000 comments."
Strangely, while public opinion is pursuing male parenting, it tries to kill women's fertility suffering.
Some time ago, a video of a pregnant mother recording her physical changes during pregnancy was removed from the shelves because of the exposure of stretch marks, which affected the user's sensory experience. In the end, her account was even banned.
To be honest, I admit that those lines do not look beautiful with the naked eye, but that is the most real trace of fertility on mothers' bodies. Why cover it up?
Compared with the overwhelming publicity of parenting men on the Internet, I suddenly felt a sense of sadness:
The role exchange of male and female characters actually pays so much attention, even if a lot of the content is performed.
For example, Mr. Zeng personally admitted that his video has a performance element.
And such things are no longer an isolated case.
For example, "dad Xiaoqiang" who attracted millions of fans on a short video platform was revealed to be fake and his children and wives were all fake, and working hard at home to take care of their children is a script.
c Recently, Lin Chiling, who married from Japan, appeared in Taiwan for the first time after giving birth!
At the new book launch conference, she wore a long dress and her long hair looked very gentle.
When it comes to her marriage and her life with her son, she choked up and cried several times.
Previously, rumors of Kurosawa Shihei's domestic violence and cheating were rampant, and Lin Chiling had never responded.
This time, she suddenly announced her return to China for development, because she wanted to take care of her elderly mother.
and Kurosawa Shihei also responded that he would not move to Taiwan with Lin Chiling.
After only three years of marriage, they separated from each other, which made netizens speculate whether Lin Chiling had divorced.
But then again, marriage is their own, and there are not many speculations on others.
What surprised me the most was that many netizens said that Lin Chiling had no girlish feeling after getting married and her condition was far worse than before.
They came to a conclusion: Lin Chiling was destroyed!
Coincidentally, Guo Biting, who had just given birth to her second child, was also ridiculed to have severe collagen loss on her face.
Two people were once the number one goddess in Asia and the other was called the national goddess, but now they are ridiculed for their appearance. I feel infinitely sad.
In the eyes of netizens, it is the birth of a child that ruins their appearance.
What is funny is that when a male star is in poor condition because of raising children, netizens expressed encouragement.
Also as parents and stars, the treatment varies greatly just because of different genders.
and similar things are constantly happening on the Internet.
Recently, I saw a concept called "Pregnancy Concomitant Syndrome" .
refers to the husband's symptoms that will also occur when his wife has a pregnancy reaction; when the wife's pregnancy reaction is over, the husband's symptoms will also disappear.
Zheng Jun once revealed on the show that this symptoms occurred during Liu Yun's pregnancy.
It is worth discussing that when a man has this symptoms, someone praises him as a good man, and only if he loves his wife, he will do this.
They had already received flowers and applause without doing anything.
But in fact, this situation is rare for men, less than one thousandth of the pain of women's childbirth.
Similar things are common. A million internet celebrities on a certain video platform are diagnosed with moderate anxiety and depression at home.
During this period, he was pessimistic and angry, his face was like a wild beast, and he often scared his children to tears.
The root of depression lies in the fact that he has become a glamorous model for the sake of his child.
He was praised on the Internet and instantly became a hot search.
I also admire his efforts for his family, but isn’t this the true portrayal of most mothers?
The following video made me frightened. In the video, the mother was raising her baby alone, and she was very uncomfortable due to tenosynovitis and menstrual period.
But the child followed her step by step. She was so collapsed that she could only squat on the ground and yelled at the child.
The difference is that Ah Bo has no financial pressure, there is a nanny at home to help, and his wife's understanding and sympathy.
Just to take care of the child, it makes him physically and mentally exhausted and becomes depressed.
As fathers, they were praised only after they suffered part of the pain, but this is the ordinary life of more mothers.
What's ridiculous is that some men do not have a little more understanding of their wives because of such tolerance.
Even if you have seen your wife give birth, you can still use such pain as topic of conversation.
The husband of a million blogger saw the way his wife gave birth, and actually described it like this:
"Let your husband accompany him to give birth is equivalent to persuading him to divorce!"
" Such a big pool of blood, the whole scene is very bloody, I want to vomit "
" I also need to cut the umbilical cord. The sizzling sound made me lose goosebumps all over the floor."
From his eyes, I couldn't see any distress for my wife, and only my disgust for this experience.
And women face far more than childbirth, and what is even more difficult is breastfeeding and raising later.
But on the verge of collapse, they are facing husbands who are not their own and even think they are annoyed.
It is obvious that you only need to take part of the responsibility to be called a good father, but most men choose to turn a blind eye.
I once admitted that when I was taking care of my child, I thought of jumping off the roof.
Since giving birth to a child, she has resigned as a full-time mother. Take care of children and do housework every day. But her husband scolded her:
do nothing all day and can't even take care of the child well.
When she heard this, she felt like she had a sharp cut in her heart, and blood was visible.
As she said, what crushed her was not physical fatigue, but her husband's incomprehension and cold-eyed observation.
But compared to real life, the phenomenon on the Internet is very absurd.
Men on the Internet are very good at using the public's tolerance and start pretending to be full-time dads to fool the public and gain traffic.
Do you still remember the son-in-law who cried and complained about his hard work in raising children in Bijie, Guizhou?
In the video, he said that he took care of the child every day, and the child did not take his surname, and he only had less than 200 yuan on him.
And the reason why he was so popular was, as he said, was because of the curiosity.
Because it is extremely common in life for women to sacrifice themselves for their children, while male parenting is very rare and has more news value.
is exactly the popular saying on the Internet: "Gender swaps, and there are more than 10,000 comments."
Strangely, while public opinion is pursuing male parenting, it tries to kill women's fertility suffering.
Some time ago, a video of a pregnant mother recording her physical changes during pregnancy was removed from the shelves because of the exposure of stretch marks, which affected the user's sensory experience.In the end, her account was even banned.
To be honest, I admit that those lines do not look beautiful with the naked eye, but that is the most real trace of fertility on mothers' bodies, why cover it up?
Compared with the overwhelming publicity of parenting men on the Internet, I suddenly felt a sense of sadness:
The role exchange of male and female characters actually pays so much attention, even if a lot of the content is performed.
For example, Mr. Zeng personally admitted that his video has a performance element.
And such things are no longer an isolated case.
For example, "dad Xiaoqiang" who attracted millions of fans on a short video platform was revealed to be fake and his children and wives were all fake, and working hard at home to take care of their children is a script.
Women's efforts to give birth have become their traffic password, leaving away the little attention they paid to mothers.
I wrote this article not to promote fear of marriage and childbirth, or to condemn men, but to beg everyone to understand more about mothers.
Their dilemma is interoperable. Once they have children, they are bound for their whole lives.
Physically, you have to endure a series of pains of childbirth; psychologically, you cannot get the understanding of your family.
People who have never experienced it say that it is easy to raise children, just to enjoy a happy life at home.
But they should be more real than anyone else want to get rid of this imprisoned life.
Women choose to be full-time mothers not to be lazy, but to sacrifice themselves for their families and children.
It is true that those who sacrifice themselves for their families deserve praise.
But while poor parenting men, please pay attention to the mothers.
What they need is everyone "see" from the bottom of their hearts, so that they will not be an isolated warrior!
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