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Lin Chiling makes a comeback. What happened to her marriage.
Recently, Lin Chi-ling suddenly appeared in Taiwan to promote her new book.
She said that she would move back to Taiwan in the future because she wanted to take care of her elderly mother.
Then, her husband who was far away in Japan, Kurosawa Ryohei responded that
He would not follow Lin Chiling to move to Taiwan.
Kurosawa Ryohei's response is somewhat surprising. You must know that they have only been married for only three years.
This makes people wonder if there is something wrong with Lin Chiling’s marriage?
Otherwise, how could one be in Taiwan and the other be in Japan? The distance of
is no joke.
Lin Chiling suddenly returned to Taiwan to announce her comeback and promoted her new book. According to netizens' speculation, the real reason is probably only these two points:
1. She has no money.
2. She has a problem with her husband.
. What is taking care of her mother? It's just a superficial statement.
Most Taiwanese women are traditionally filial, and the mainstream idea of most women in Taiwan after marriage is to focus on their husband's family.
A woman moved back to her parents' home after getting married and having children on the grounds of "taking care of her elderly mother". This seems unreasonable, so netizens' speculation is inevitable.
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Three years ago, when Lin Chi-ling announced that she would marry Ryohei Kurosawa, who was seven years younger than her, the biggest reaction was male fans in the mainland.
They don’t seem to accept the fact that the goddess in their hearts marry a Japanese.
Because of family hatred and national hatred, many people turned their hatred for her and left their fans because of love.
As a female star who has been making money in the mainland for a long time, she certainly knows the emotions of mainland netizens, but she still chose to marry far away from Japan, which means that she is willing to give up her career for love.
To put it rationally, no one of us should hate or discriminate against a Chinese and a Japanese being friends or getting married because of historical issues.
As a Taiwanese, she has the freedom to marry anyone, as long as she feels happy.
But many netizens believe that as a public figure, if she wants to develop in the mainland, she must consider the feelings of the mainland people. If she ignores this, she will naturally lose many mainland fans.
She chose feelings and gave up the market, and the consequences were naturally borne by herself.
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Let's put aside political factors, just talk about her marriage. On the day of the new book launch conference, some netizens commented on her photo: It looks ten years older than before marriage!
Yes, she does look a lot older, and the harm that childbirth can be seen to women.
Those working women around me who have given birth to children have once complained that if you have a child, you will be at least five years old!
The childbearing age of married women of appropriate age is generally 23-30. Young people are in good health and recover quickly, not to mention mothers like Lin Chiling.
Lin Chiling was born in 1974. She was 45 years old when she got married, and the problem of childbirth was urgent.
So as soon as she got married, she started the project of creating a human.
She successfully gave birth to a son through IVF.
suffered from IVF and suffered even more from ten months of pregnancy. Lin Chiling was 45 years old and had to have a child without hesitation. It can be seen that she really likes children and wants a child of her own.
There is no possibility of having children to please her husband. She is rich, beautiful and has a man, but she just lacks a marriage and a child.
Now, she has everything. Is she really a winner in life?
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But we all know that it is really not easy to manage a marriage well.
requires a lot of effort to get in, tolerate, and practice.
In this kind of sister-brother relationship, which is a seven-year-old age gap, the woman needs to put in more energy to maintain it.
For example, she needs to spend more money and energy to maintain her appearance and figure;
For example, she needs to spend more time attracting the attention of her husband;
It is even possible that she also needs to support her husband who is younger than her financially...
Although Lin Chiling is very excellent, her husband is not bad either. She is a famous Japanese model, with outstanding figure, appearance and temperament.
A man who is in the entertainment industry has countless temptations, and he is much more coquettish than Lin Chiling's younger and more beautiful. In this case, it is really difficult for Lin Chiling, who is aging, to attract men in appearance.
is as smart as her, so she naturally realizes this.
Marriage may not be her final destination, but the child can bring great comfort to her for the rest of her life.
So, her decision to have a child was wise.
Many Dink people only start to regret after they are forty years old. In their later years, the loneliness without children will be more obvious.
Nowadays, people have children not to support themselves in their old age, but that children can give their souls in their later years.
Therefore, from this point of view, no matter what state Lin Chiling's marriage is in, she got what she wants.
That is marriage and children.
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From this point of view, Lin Chiling doesn't lose.
Because for a woman who lives a sober life, she will not be confused when she knows what she wants.
When she gets what she wants, although the process is hard and complicated, her inner loss and pain will soon be replaced by another kind of happiness and perfection.
Yes, compared to three years ago, Lin Chiling has almost lost the market for mainland netizens.
But for her, there should be nothing to regret, thinking that she would continue to be happy in another way.
Lin Chiling is not without storms. Since her debut, she has become popular on both sides of the Taiwan Strait and the Three Lands because of her proud figure, but she has also been questioned. Netizens suspect that her breasts are fake.
In 2008, she fell off her horse when she filmed an advertisement, her ribs were trampled on. After being photographed by the media, she was ridiculed as "the salt water bag was trampled on."
She also endured it for many years before netizens gradually forgot about this.
Beauty like her has never stopped all kinds of rumors since her debut.
I think as long as she does not quit the entertainment industry, all kinds of rumors about her will be circulated in the world, with mocking, disdain or encouragement.
But no matter what, at this stage when she is about to be 48 years old, she no longer needs to worry too much.
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