Edited by: Zhang Damao
As people's living standards improve, young people's life pressure is increasing, and late marriage and late childbirth has become the choice of many people. It seems that it is normal to have children when you are old, especially in the entertainment industry, there are quite a few celebrities who have children when you are old, but is this really good?
Wu Qilong A leisurely shopping supermarket. Long Ge is a little "struggle" to hold his baby
We are all familiar with Wu Qilong. We first debuted in the group Little Tigers . It was a glorious and famous back then. Afterwards, with the disbandment of the Little Tigers, Wu Qilong started working day and night in order to help his family pay off his debts.
At that time, he could not survive in the entertainment industry as he wanted, let alone have a reputation and reputation. All the money he earned helped his family use it to block holes.
Wu Qilong did not pay off his debts until he was 31 years old, started his life again, and worked hard according to his wishes. Starting a company and filming films and TV series, finally ushered in the second spring of his career with " Step by Step 1" and became popular again.
It is precisely because of this drama that Wu Qilong and Liu Shishi , who are 16 years younger than him, came together to form a happy family. Although the two have a large age difference, they are still favored by netizens. The two then got married, their wives gave birth to children, and both of them faded out of the entertainment industry and focused on their families and children.
Recently, Liu Shishi's " Golden Years " starring her has been well received, and everyone has paid more attention to her. Not long ago, some fans met a child in a supermarket and then put the photos they took online. caused heated discussions among netizens for a while.
Everyone’s focus is on Wu Qilong’s son Bubu. is very soft and cute in Wu Qilong's arms, and is very cute and cute , which is lovely.
fans also found some clues from Wu Qilong's condition. At that time, Liu Shishi was selecting food on the side and hugging Wu Qilong step by step. 50-year-old Long Ge was obviously a little "struggle". As I spent more and more time visiting the supermarket, I became increasingly unable to do so.
But it is no wonder that Wu Qilong's state is, after all, his age is there. When was born, Long Ge was already 48 years old. is 50 this year. No matter how you look at it, you are always old. It is normal for to be weak in physical condition. netizens expressed their feelings of distress.
In addition to Wu Qilong, there are many stars who have children in old age, which makes people sigh
In addition to Wu Qilong, there are many stars who have children in old age, and most of them have their lives not as casual as they imagined. It seems that having a child in old age seems to be happy, but I am afraid that only I know the sadness in .
When it comes to having children in old age, I have to mention Wang Gang .
As the former broadcasting director of CCTV, Wang Gang became well-known for his broadcasting storytelling "Harbin under the Night". Later, he became famous in " Prime Minister Liu Luoguo " and " Iron-Toothed and Bronze Teeth Ji Xiaolan ". played Heshen and became famous in one fell swoop. So far, whenever Heshen mentioned, he reflected the image of Wang Gang.
However, although his career was successful, Wang Gang's emotional experience was quite bumpy. has experienced two failed marriages.
Until 2005, Wang Gang met Zheng Yandong , who was 20 years younger than him. The two finally achieved success. They got married in times, their wife became pregnant in 2008, and Wang Gang was exactly 60 years old that year. It's definitely a child in old age.
Originally came to Wang Gang, who was far away from the screen and enjoyed his old age, had to come back to the stage for the expenses of his children's milk powder money, education funds, etc. struggles in various programs, and the hardships behind it are unspeakable.
Whether it is Wu Qilong's current situation at the age of 50 or Wang Gang who is still working hard in his sepia, it is not difficult for us to see that is a child in old age.
The three major disadvantages of having children in old age. As parents, we must be aware that
As celebrities, the pressure of having children in old age is still so great. For most of our ordinary families, the disadvantages are even more obvious. Especially the following three aspects have the greatest impact.
1) Economic pressure
If the couple has a child when they are old, economic pressure is the biggest problem at this time. Originally, your savings might allow you to enjoy your old age, but sudden children will cause huge economic costs.
plus the ability to make money at an age is very limited, and the cost of raising children is increasing. These will greatly increase the pressure of life.
In turn, the same is true for children. When parents get children when they are old, they may let their children experience the difficulties of life as soon as possible and shoulder the burden of life. It is also a huge test for life.
2) Educational pressure
In addition to economy, it is education. Families with children in old age will face more severe educational problems. Due to the age difference and generation gap, there will be great differences in educational concepts. The educational help parents provide to their children will be very limited.
In other words, to a certain extent, the expired education of parents is also a delay for children. plus the child is young, it is easy to misunderstand, and eventually further creates a gap between parents and children, which is also a very common problem.
3)Health pressure
Finally, the most obvious is the pressure of health. No one can escape . In the first two points, if the family has a certain economic foundation and can effectively compensate for it, the health pressure of is obviously not good.
. Children are a little older and parents are old. Taking care of children to play is a huge physical test. This will greatly affect the parent-child relationship.
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In fact, the disadvantages of having children in old age are far more than these. We have not mentioned the many impacts of on the existence of children today. In short, having a child in old age seems good, but in fact it is not good for parents and children. Therefore, it is most reasonable to have children and raise children as soon as possible. You must think twice before you get a child at an older age.
