Zhao Mengfu has two wives.
As we all know, Zhao Mengfu's wife is a famous calligrapher and painter Guan Daosheng. In the 26th year of Zhiyuan (1289), when Zhao Mengfu was 35 years old, he married Guan Daosheng. "In the 26th year, he returned to me."
However, in his previous poem "Sending Gao Renqing to Huzhou", there is a saying that "the wife and his wife don't have a penny"; historical documents record that before 1289, when Zhao Mengfu copied the "Huang Ting Jing" calligraphy by Wang Xizhi and the painting "Xizhi's Picture of Change of Goose", he once wrote: "I have obtained the ancient copy of the "Huang Ting Jing", please make a picture and copy it again." In other words, Zhao Mengfu was married before, not only that, he also had a son: Zhao Liang. In the "Epitaph of the Wife of Wei Guan", Zhao Mengfu clearly wrote: "Three sons, Liang, died early. Yong and Yi. Six women."
But why did Zhao Mengfu never mention his wife's name? The reason will make many people unacceptable: it is very likely that due to the poverty of the family, Zhao Mengfu could not afford to marry a wife and could only marry a concubine first. His son Zhao Liang was born by this concubine of Zhao Mengfu.
Because Yuan Dynasty "cannot hire money, extravagance is increasing day by day, and there are many cases when there are many capitals going bankrupt, unable to make ceremonies, and even endless disputes, resulting in the loss of time for marriage." For those who are unable to bear a normal marriage, taking a concubine has become a deformed means of making up for marriage. According to the research of contemporary scholar Tan Xiaoling, some concubines in the Yuan Dynasty "promise to marry" and some "directly buy them". These were all "legal channels" at that time. Zhao Mengfu's concubine was either for buying or marrying, but in any case, she was not a famous family.
"Volume 29 says: "When Songxue was in a good school in Shen Wenhui and Shen Fangying charity schools in Jiading." This shows that Zhao Mengfu, who is famous in Wuxing, could not support himself by calligraphy and painting, so he had to leave his hometown and go to a private school in another place to be a teacher. Therefore, it is entirely possible that Zhao Mengfu will have no money to get married.
Perhaps it was when my mother was sick that Zhao Mengfu hurriedly married a concubine to comfort her mother's heart. It is the bad situation that urges Zhao Mengfu to change his destiny as soon as possible. When Cheng Jufu visited Jiangnan again, Zhao Mengfu was unwilling to miss this opportunity.
It was on the eve of Zhao Mengfu's official career that he had the fate to meet Guan Shen, who was famous for his "Ren Xia". Guan Shen liked him very much and intended to marry him to Zhongji (Guan Daosheng, who was 26 years old at the time) who was in the boudoir. Naturally, at first sight, Guan Daosheng fell in love with Zhao Mengfu at first sight. Guan Daosheng is able to poetry, calligraphy, painting, and embroidery. He is an all-round talented woman. He is said to be very beautiful and is the "goddess" of that era.
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After Zhao Mengfu got married to Guan Daosheng, the two spent the happiest period of their lives in Hangzhou. This stage also became the golden period of Zhao Mengfu's artistic creation.
, and Zhao Mengfu and Guan Daosheng were in love, leaving many good stories, and also leaving behind a "public case" - the ghostwriter problem of "Qiu Shen Tie". "Qiu Shen Tie" has 18 lines, 132 characters, and is now stored in the Palace Museum. Most researchers in this life believe that this was written by Mrs. Zhao Mengfu. The controversy in later generations lies in the signature at the end, and the word "Sheng" in traditional Chinese characters is slightly altered. Those who are good at association think that the wife was busy at that time and Zhao Mengfu had free time, so he wrote a letter to his aunt on behalf of the wife.I still remembered that I was writing for my wife in the front, but after writing it, I forgot it. I was stunned and wrote the signature as Zi'ang, so I changed it to Daosheng.
0 The main evidence for those who hold this view is in the smear of the signature. They believe that it was changed to the word "Zi'ang" into "Daosheng". In his book " Pre-Ming Dynasty celebrity letters and comments on " ( Shandong Fine Arts Publishing House ), Mr. Jin Yong pointed out that the smearing place clearly shows that the word "Tao" is modified from the word "zi" and the word "Sheng" is modified from the word "ang".
In fact, the letters written by Zhao Mengfu, except for the content of poetry and paintings, were signed by "Mengfu", and none of them signed by "Ziang", and the same was true in letters to relatives. Therefore, even if Zhao Mengfu really wrote for his wife, the ending signature would not be Zi'ang, but "Mengfu". In this post, the word "Daosheng" has basically not changed, while the word "Sheng" (Traditional) has a little smear. If you guess it with "An" it doesn't matter.
Furthermore, the ancients could greet him, but they could not write for him. Greetings on behalf of others is a normal thing. For example, when Zhao Mengfu wrote to relatives and friends, he usually added a sentence at the end of the letter, "The old wife attached a letter to ask, but it was not announced" ("The old woman attached a letter to thank you" ("The young girl died") and so on. Ghosting usually happens to people who can’t write. If someone who can write instead of another person who can write, it is an offense. In addition, the ancient ways of husband and wife, as the head of the family, even if the husband is close, he should not be too rude. Moreover, Zhao Mengfu was a minister in the court. Guan Daosheng knew etiquette well and would not let his husband write letters for him rashly.
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If you really want to give an explanation, the following speculation is more reasonable: the pipe that raises many children is surrounded by several children every day, " Sensen Childish child born on the sun" (the poem written by Guan Daosheng), which naughty egg accidentally encountered pipe lifting when she was writing a letter, which made the letter slightly smear, so the pipe lifting slightly changed and sent it out. After all, the other party is her relative and there is no need to consider too much etiquette.
If Zhao Mengfu really wrote it on his behalf, he would write it to his aunt directly in his tone. If Guan Daosheng also had a letter to write, add a sentence "Daosheng doesn't write, please give this kind of sincere message" to solve the problem. Moreover, judging from the content of this letter, there is no special meaning to express, and there is no need to borrow Zhao Mengfu's hand to express the meaning of Taoism. Therefore, "Qiu Shen Tie" should be written by Guan Daosheng himself, and there is no situation of ghostwriting.
1311, after Yuan Renzong ascended the throne, Zhao Mengfu heard the imperial edict to go to Beijing. This trip to Beijing became the most glorious time in Zhao Mengfu's life. In the fourth year of Yanyou (1317), Zhao Mengfu was named a first-rank official, and Guan Daosheng was also named "Lady of Wei". The next year, Guan Daosheng was sick and saw that the famous doctor had failed to treat it. Zhao Mengfu asked the emperor for an order, asking his wife to take her back to the south for recuperation, and the emperor approved it. In 1319, they were able to buy a boat to return. It was on the way home that the pipe rose and died of illness. This gave Zhao Mengfu a huge blow. In June 1322, Zhao Mengfu passed away in Wuxing. After Zhao Mengfu died, Renzong named him the Duke of Wei and posthumously named him "Wenmin" to show his achievements in literature.
