1. Don’t give up easily
Yesterday, when I was watching the 5th episode of Korean drama "Itaewon", I received a call from my friend Xiaoke.
Xiaoke has liked a boy for a long time. On Valentine's Day, he finally mustered up the courage to confess his love to him.
The boy declined her.
Xiaoke was sad and called me to tell me.
I have always believed in a truth: confession is the responsibility of boys, so girls must not confess their love.
"I like you" sentence, please let the boys say it.
However, girls should create opportunities for boys to confess their love.
girls can not confess their love, but if you like the other person, please pass on the message you like. The most important thing about
is that if a girl in doesn’t express her feelings, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t fight for her.
Even if the other person didn’t like you so much at the beginning, as long as you don’t hate you, you still have a chance.
If you believe that the other person is the person who is worth your life with, then please don’t give up easily.
Sometimes, the forced melon will be very sweet.
2. The revelation of "Itaewon"
The Korean drama "Itaewon" has just aired for 5 episodes, and the rating has soared from 7.6 at the beginning to 8.8 at the current level.
heroine Zhao Yirui (played by Kim Gome) is a college student with an IQ of 162 and a bit antisocial personality. She is also an internet celebrity with 700,000 fans, and a little girl who starts to go to bars, drink and fight when she is underage.
By chance, the male protagonist Park Selo saved Zhao Yirui who was entangled by the evil man.
The super sense of justice, super execution and super responsibility that Park Selo deeply attracted Zhao Yirui.
But in Park Selo's heart, there is already a first love Oh Soo-ya who he has been secretly in love with for 10 years.
If it were another woman, no matter how much she liked her, she would have stopped at this time, but Zhao Yirui was different.
She found Park Se-ro and said to him, "I want to be with you..."
Seeing him in surprise, she changed her words and said, "... Let's open a store together to make money."
Park Se-ro rejected her, saying that her small shop can't afford to hire so many people.
But Zhao Yirui did not give up. She pointed out the various problems in Park Selo's store and gave solutions, which made Park Selo look at her with admiration and successfully became the store manager and was able to work with Park Selo.
She looks brave and brave, cool and beautiful.
will not talk about the ending, just this attitude of fighting for the sake of the competition is worthy of praise.
"Li Taiyuan" stills
3, Zhao Min: I insist on being forced!
In Jin Yong's novel "The Legend of the Condor Heroes", Zhou Zhiruo and Zhao Min both fell in love with Zhang Wuji .
Zhou Zhiruo is very scheming. In order to get married to Zhang Wuji, she got herself hit by the Ten Xiang Soft Jin Powder. Zhang Wuji definitely can't stand it and refuse to save her, but to detoxify, she must go to her skin.
Zhou Zhiruo accurately calculated that Xie Xun (Zhang Wuji's adoptive father) and Zhang Wuji would engage in an engagement with her considering her reputation.
At the same time, she designed to frame Zhao Min and create an illusion, causing Zhang Wuji to misunderstand that Zhao Min killed Xie Xun.
Her plan worked.
However, she did not expect that her love rival Zhao Min was actually a arrogant queen who "stands to force".
Zhao Min broke into the engagement banquet where heroes gathered alone, and had the following conversation with the Ming Cult's "Xiaoyao Right Envoy":
Fan Yao frowned and said, "Prince, the unsatisfactory things in the world are in the past ten. Since this is the case, he can't come."
Zhao Min said, "I insist on forcing it!"
"I insist on forcing it", not a kind of foolish courage, but a kind of wisdom, courage and persistence.
"badly" is not to let you "beaten by force", but to use a correct "badly" method.
Zhang Wuji misunderstood that she killed her adoptive father and hated her to the core, but Zhao Min still stuck to him and tried every means to prove herself.
and seize the opportunity to confess:
You can't bear to leave me in your heart, I'm enough. No matter what Yuan and Han people he is, I don’t care. You are a Han Chinese, I am a Han Chinese, you are a Mongolian, I am a Mongolian.What you think about is the military and national affairs, the division between China and the barbarians, the rise and fall of the rise and fall, the power and the reputation of power. Brother Wuji, I think of it is just you. Whether you are a good person, a bad person, an emperor, or a beggar, they are exactly the same for me.
Zhao Min
4. Ren Yingying: " Let it go " "barrier"
Jin Yong's novel "The Smiling Proud Wanderer", while saying "I don't want to force it", while on the other hand, he kept pushing it silently.
She knew that Linghu Chong only had one junior sister Yue Lingshan in her heart, but she wanted to be with Linghu Chong.
For Linghu Chong, he was willing to block his life and carry him to Shaolin Temple to find Master Fang Zheng to heal Linghu Chong.
Ren Yingying's "barrel" is more hidden than Zhao Min's.
She used "letting go with the flow" method to achieve a "badly" effect.
She knew that the younger sister was Linghu Chong's fatal point, so she respected Linghu Chong's deep affection for the younger sister from beginning to end.
Her generous and tolerant nature brought Linghu Chong's trust and gratitude to her.
When they first met, Ren Yingying knew that Linghu Chong had only one junior sister in his heart.
but she chose to wait.
If the younger sister is Linghu Chong's disease, then she will let Yingying take Linghu Chong's medicine.
Her affection, her dedication, her understanding, and her tolerance eventually made Qinse harmonious love.
Swordsman
5. "Barried" happiness
I have known my best friend for twenty years, and it is also the happiness "Barried" happiness.
When she met her husband, she was already a 30-year-old "old woman".
Moreover, she has been divorced.
Her husband was an unmarried young man at that time, 3 years younger than his best friend, shy and unwilling to speak, but he was pretty and had a good job.
At the beginning, the young man had a good impression of my best friend, but when he heard that she had been divorced, he became alienated from her.
best friend also understands it very well. After all, you can imagine the pressure of your family to fall in love with a divorced woman.
But my best friend decided that the young man was the one she was looking for and did not intend to give up.
She creates various opportunities to get along with young and handsome guys.
The young and handsome guy likes sports and especially likes to play tennis. He plays tennis for two days a week.
best friend immediately contacted the university physical education teacher he knew and then asked a few physical education teachers to play tennis.
These physical education teachers have won awards in domestic tennis competitions and are of high level.
arrived at the tennis court, and my best friend introduced the physical education teacher to the young man and suggested playing basketball together.
The young and handsome guy is naturally very happy. Being able to compete with experts is the best way to improve your tennis level.
has more opportunities to get along with each other, and the young man knows more and more about his best friend, and the two finally got together.
They have been married for more than ten years now, and their relationship is so good that it is enviable.
"Next Stop Happiness" Stills
6. Summary
Everyone says love cannot be forced, but I want to say that love cannot be forced but can be fought for.
When you meet the right person, you should strive for it with all your strength, at least not leave any regrets for yourself.
The following are the things to pay attention to when fighting for it: the premise of fighting for
- is that the other party has a good impression of you. If not, your struggle will become harassment;
- is not just a blind effort, but should talk about methods and strategies;
- needs patience, not afraid of being slow but only being wrong.
Finally, I wish everyone can bravely grasp their happiness!
