"Hello everyone, congratulations to everyone on seeing the living Lejia ."
10 years ago, when Lejia was the most popular, he always greeted the audience like this. The people below
also gave face and kept shouting "Ohhh".
Le Jia has long been accustomed to such scenes. In those years, whenever he appeared with another "bald" Meng Fei , it would attract the screams of women.
Because in China, there may be almost no woman who has not watched Jiangsu TV , a popular blind date program " If You Are the One ".
till now, especially during the Chinese New Year, some "exciting" clips are still being replayed. But things change, and in recent years, everyone has discovered that Le Jia has disappeared silently on TV.
He has done his old career again: speeches, training, and from time to time he takes on some street commercial performances and annual meetings hosting. Although I have made a lot of money in
, I can't help but lose money compared to the peak of my career.
He can't blame others, and his future is ruined by himself, and it is all because of his hot personality.
But why can a person who provides personality training for others everywhere, even his own personality cannot be managed?
Lejia's 46 years are like a walking textbook of "character and destiny".
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1975, the first strong woman in politics and female vice premier Wu Guixian appeared in China.
In the same year, an ordinary family in , Jing'an District, Shanghai also had their own children, named "Lejia".
The name sounds festive, and my parents don’t expect much from him, just hope to be happy and live a good life.
At that time, Le Jia's parents never thought that their son would create a theory many years later, and said firmly to the camera: "Most strong women in politics have yellow personalities... Vice Premier Wu Yi also has yellow personalities."
People who don't understand this theory may not understand what "yellow personality" is, they just think that this person is "mysterious", but this is all a story later.
When Lejia was born, Shanghai was still the armed base of the Gang of Four, and the situation was very unstable.
When two months old, my parents left Shanghai with Le Jia, who was in his infancy, and moved to a village in Weinan, Shaanxi to live.
When I was a child, Le Jia was very active, naughty, and had many tricks.
But his father was an intellectual and had thousands of books in his family. Since he was 5 years old, Le Jia made trouble when he was outside and flipped books when he returned home.
But it is not easy to live in Qinchuan in these eight hundred miles. Le Jia’s family is not rich. As the saying goes, poor couples are sad. His parents quarrel over trivial matters all day long, and his father sometimes abuses his mother.
Le Jia saw it all and learned the bad habit of "hands-on".
But it took Le Jia to fight with his wife after marriage to see that his parents' greatest influence on him at that time was his rebellious personality.
Lejia didn't study hard anymore, and his grades plummeted. I also hate my parents very much and want to leave them.
Host asked Le Jia which subject is the best. Le Jia answered: My abacus is very good
But Le Jia did not succeed. When he was 13 years old, he moved back to Shanghai with his parents and went to the third year of junior high school in Shanghai. Because of his weak foundation and poor grades, he failed to get into a good high school.
14 years old, Le Jia and his family returned to their ancestral home in Zhejiang Ningbo . This time, he was admitted to Ningbo secondary school and studied financial accounting.
At that time, Le Jia was young, with hair on his head and smooth eyebrows, but he was just competitive.
Once, he bet with his classmates that the loser would have to shaved his head and walk around the school.
Le Jia was full of confidence and agreed immediately, but he lost. Although his self-esteem was hit, Le Jiayuan accepted the loss and immediately shaved his head and simply shaved off his eyebrows.
That day, Le Jia walked in the school with his head naked and became the target of everyone's attention, but he was not ashamed and quite proud:
"Everyone thinks I'm strange, but I'm very proud. I caught the attention of others and felt very unique."
The first time I got such attention, Le Jia tasted the sweetness, and he said to himself, "I don't want to change my hairstyle in this life."
But what's the use of relying on hairstyle alone? Men still have to look at their skills.
soon, it was time for Lejia to show his power with his mouth.
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"Poverty people and short ambitions", Le Jia has learned this truth from his parents since he was a child.
After graduating from technical secondary school, Le Jia also listened to her mother's words and stayed in a bank in Ningbo to work as an accountant. This is my mother’s wish, just be able to go to work steadily and earn some money to support herself.
Cola Jia is unwilling to give up.
sat in that small cube, and no one watched it. He couldn't play any role in his stinum: "That job can't give me happiness. I want to deal with many people, not just the one hundred people in the bank."
But this was still in 1991, Le Jia was only 16 years old. In his mother's eyes, if he didn't have this "iron rice bowl", it would be a problem to survive in the future.
Maybe it was because he was scared, maybe it was something else. Le Jia held on in the bank for 2 years until he couldn't stand it, so he resigned from the bank.
18-year-old Le Jia started real estate sales.
But at that time, selling a house was still a technical job, not just by mouth. Le Jia felt that selling the house was boring because she couldn't understand the architectural drawings and left in disappointment.
But fortunately, he was tall and had a good figure, so he soon found a new sales job - selling cosmetics.
Le Jia, who just worked, had no other customers, could only "kill old customers". His first customer was a female colleague from the previous bank.
This female colleague also gave her face and bought cosmetics worth 900 yuan in one breath.
This is in 1993. Lejia’s monthly salary was only 170 yuan, and the average monthly salary in Zhejiang Province was 327 yuan.
Moreover, Le Jia also took a commission of 200 yuan from 900 yuan because of this order, and the money he got suddenly exceeded the average level in Zhejiang Province.
Le Jia feels that he has found the direction of life, and this thing that can make money by just talking is the most suitable for him.
Since then, Le Jia has tried his best to show women his fair share of tongue, and has received the support of many female friends. He has even tried to get a heart to him when he has nothing to do.
This Le Jia is just born early. If you catch up with this good time, the "No. 1 Lipstick Brother" will definitely not have anything to do with Li Jiaqi. In his first year of working in
, Lejia won the first place in the annual sales list of in Zhejiang Province Avon Company.
He also took the time to go to Ningbo TV University to get a new diploma, and a brand new life is right in front of him.
That year, in Le Jia's own words, it was because he performed too well that Avon Shanghai Headquarters attached great importance to it, and the headquarters decided to let him come to Shanghai Avon Training Department as a tutor.
teaches others how to sell cosmetics.
without any hesitation. Le Jia set out to Shanghai after receiving the notice and escaped from his mother's clutches. My mother has been strict with Le Jia since she was a child. She would use a belt buckle to tick him when she was disobedient. This time she finally couldn't get it.
1994, 19-year-old Le Jia became the youngest direct sales trainer in Avon.
On the podium, Le Jia's energy is twice that of others. In addition, he is tall and loud. Although he is young, he is particularly imposing.
and also gained a group of fans selling cosmetics, one sister on the left and the other on the right.
But the good times didn't last long. A year later, the president of the company who appreciated him was laid off due to internal strife in the group. Le Jia, who was in the wrong team in
, was also excluded and rarely had the opportunity to go to the podium again. Since there was no performance stage, Le Jia was in pain and chose to leave.
However, it is still the same old saying, there will be gains when there are any mistakes.Although he was frustrated at work, Le Jia was extremely proud of his love life. At the age of 20, he was about to become a father.
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"I had a son at the age of 20."
Le Jia said it is true. In 1995, Le Jia met an expert and a training teacher from Taiwan.
Le Jia followed this teacher and learned two courses: one is called "The Potential of Life" and the other is called "How to Set Targets in Life".
learns and uses them immediately, and Lejia is doing well in a new training company with these two new skills. People who come to listen to his training, from grassroots in the market to wealthy ladies, like to chat with him.
, then we talked about feelings. Le Jia met a wealthy daughter. The two of them were in love and were very impulsive and were about to talk about marriage soon.
But the woman's parents didn't like him at all, thinking that Le Jia was a hooligan, and not only looked down on him but also despised him. If the girl hadn't been pregnant before marriage, they wouldn't have agreed to this marriage.
Obviously, life after marriage is not satisfactory. Le Jia was very frustrated in front of this family. He felt that he would not make a dime in his father's pocket for the rest of his life.
helplessly, the two were forced to divorce. Le Jia was hit hard by this.
He hates, he wants to curse his wife's parents in the most vicious language; he hates, he hates these people who hate the poor and love the rich, but they are just snobbish.
so Lejia made up his mind to make money. It coincides with the opening of Amway, the world's largest "marketing company", in China.
Le Jia didn't even think about it and plunged into the "direct sales army" that was surging across the country at that time. Not to mention whether this direct sales are good or bad, it is true that Le Jia has talent. In two years, he has conducted more than 200 publicity tours across the country and formed a team of 10,000 people.
In theory, Lejia is no longer short of money at this time. But in the interview, he said that 1998 was his most difficult time, and he could spend 40 yuan a week.
which is true or false is no longer important, because Le Jia has decided not to do direct sales and is preparing to start a business with his friends.
But everyone who is familiar with Le Jia knows that he is a domineering person, and the people who work with him always have no good results. The company has only opened for a few months and ended in a bad mood.
Le Jia could only do it alone, and he opened a speech company himself. He doesn't want to teach others to sell things anymore, he wants to teach others to give speeches.
Mr. Le Jia said, "You see, the presidents of the United States are very good at giving speeches, but our leaders are still reading manuscripts."
You can start a company without just opening a mouth, but also having a brain. People who want to learn to speak must not have many people who want to learn to make money by selling things. It can be said that there are very few, and there is no market at all. Le Jia can only think of another way.
In 2001, Le Jia founded the "China Character and Color Research Center". This inspiration was learned by chance from a speech. At that time, the man was talking about behavioral psychology. Le Jia did not understand psychology, but thought it would be possible. Whether it is plagiarism or reference, Le Jia is definitely not the first person to connect personality and color.
But he couldn't stand his mouth and accumulated a large number of fans.
From 2001 to 2008, Le Jia transformed into an "expert" and designed an image for himself: bald head + left earrings.
On weekdays, there are indeed not many such people. He just "debuted" like this and made a fortune with his own theory.
Le Jia called himself a "preacher of character and color" and also wrote a book "Lens Eyes to Know People", nicknamed "Lens Demon".
"In 2008, I had reached my peak."
Although Le Jia himself thought so, his rich ex-wife pushed him again.
Ex-wife introduced Le Jia to a program producer, and forced his peak to be created into a "myth".
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Maybe it was someone who inspired Feng Xiaogang's movie.
In 2009, Jiangsu Satellite TV finalized a blind date and dating program, which had the same name as the movie, called "If You Are the One".
General producer Wang Gang thought about it over and over again. There are still two men in the show for so many women.
He found Meng Fei, who was already a little famous at the time, as the host, but he still lacked a partner.
Wang Gang originally imagined that Meng Fei was responsible for the opening and this partner was responsible for the ending.
He should be responsible for the last level of boys choosing girls. It is best to create some conflicts, it is best to be a newcomer. It would be better if he could understand psychology a little more.
△ Le Jia's "There's a Show tonight"
It's a coincidence that Le Jia's ex-wife's friend happened to know Wang Gang, and knew that he was looking for someone, so he said something.
Don’t think Le Jia doesn’t like his ex-wife’s family, but after all, there is a son in the middle and he has contact with his ex-wife on weekdays. Friends around him also like to see the story of these two people, and it’s just like that.
In January 2010, "If You Are the One" was broadcast on Jiangsu Satellite TV. The combination of two bald heads is already strange, one is calm and restrained, and the other is sharp-tongued.
What’s more important is that the 24 female guests are more powerful than the other.
Just one sentence "I prefer to sit in BMW and cry" is enough for the general producer Wang Gang to wake up laughing in his dream. "If You Are the One" became popular at an unprecedented speed.
People all over the country know that there is a program to find a partner, which is particularly good.
△ "If You Are the One" ratings soared
Meng Fei and Lejia also became popular. The old ladies on the streets and alleys could recognize these two bald heads at a glance.
Especially this big guy who is very muscled, hits the nail on the head and reaches the head, which is impressive.
But the audience in front of the TV did not know that this person claimed to be a "preacher of character and color", and he didn't know that when he was the most powerful direct salesman, he had a team of more than 10,000 people.
All you know is that this person does have a way of talking about men and women. He is not an "emotional expert" and must be a "golden mentor".
has a strong sense of substitution, and I feel more anxious than the guests themselves, and I still cry at any time on the show.
But this person also has problems, and is particularly impulsive.
After recording the program, he went to the food stall with the team to have a drink. When he got drunk, he could lie on the ground and cried and hugged his thighs when he saw someone.
is not restrained in the program, and often speaks without any restraint and makes his own decisions.
He once said that two female guests who had been athletes were sexually hungry.
also said to the male guest: "If you can do more than 50 push-ups on the spot, she will follow you!"
But at that time the female guest did not like the male guest at all, and in the end, Meng Fei came out to mediate and explained to the male guest that it was just Le Jia's wishful thinking, not representing the female guest.
However, this does not prevent the audience from liking him.
Lejia asked dozens of security guards to surround him in the middle at the event. Thousands of fans screamed, flashed constantly, and roses were everywhere. Fans wanted to hug him when they saw him, and someone bought 20 books of his at once.
Wherever you go, you will be treated comparable to the treatment of celebrities.
But Le Jia said, "I am very disgusted with others saying that I am a person in the entertainment industry."
But this sounds unhappy. It is obvious that "If You Are the One" created a TV star, but he still doesn't admit it.
What's even more annoying is that Le Jia increasingly regards "If You Are the One" as his performance stage, and often performs roaring and aggressive scenes.
Some people are already dissatisfied with him and conflicts are about to break out.
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Speaking of which, if someone "fires" behind his back, we have no way of knowing it.
Only two bald heads, Le Jia and Meng Fei, can only be seen on the surface, and the smell of gunpowder is getting stronger and stronger.
In fact, when "If You Are the One" was just aired, Le Jia and Meng Fei had a good relationship and had sold corruption. The two said ambiguously: "Only the other party can touch our bald heads."
But the more the program is done, the less they look down on each other, and they don't even pay attention to each other on Weibo.
However, Le Jia still said to the public: "Meng Fei and I have a good relationship. We have a very good understanding and have reached the highest level of friendship. We do not need to follow each other on Weibo."
But the facts cannot deceive people. From the time Le Jia's excuse of being damaged in the vocal cord, one month after "disappearing" in "If You Are the One", the day when the conflict broke out was destined.
The most powerful time they quarreled was when a male guest No. 5 started arguing during the recording, and the quarrel was so loud that he rushed out of the studio.
But there is no way to investigate whether there is any fight in the background.
Later, Meng Fei posted a Weibo: "Please pay attention to the people around you, and you will find that the so-called sharpness is often a humble mouth, and the so-called sharpness often means being uneducated."
Le Jia was not outdone, and then posted a Weibo: "Some people in the world slander me, bully me, humiliate me, lie to me, lie to me, how to deal with it? Shi De laughed and said: As long as he wants him to let him be patient, he respects him and ignores him. In a few years, you can see him."
△ Le Jia and Meng Fei argued with each other
One day in January 2013, Le Jia returned home from the studio after recording the program. He turned on his phone and played only a song "hurt" loop. He said that he had listened to this song at least 400 times.
5 months later, Le Jia posted a message to officially leave his "If You Are the One" that made him famous.
When Le Jia left, he felt that with his current reputation and influence, leaving "If You Are" was as simple as his divorce.
As a 3-married man, Le Jia is not afraid at all. Anyway, new people will appear after they are separated.
But this time, he was wrong.
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"How can you drink in the show? The contestants will not drink either. If drinking affects the performance of the contestants, who will bear the consequences?" Lu Yu advised kindly.
"Shut up, don't talk!" Le Jia, who had overdone his drink, said angrily.
This is a scene of Lu Yu and Le Jia fighting each other in the third season of " Super Orator ", and the scene is full of gunpowder.
But these two people were not like this before.
Le Jia often says that Lu Yu is the object he has always admired, and every word comes to his heart. But when this admiration arises, Le Jia will also touch Lu Yu's little hand excitedly and affectionately.
That day, Lu Yu left angrily, and Jin Xing also said that she was scared by Le Jia.
This was in 2015. Because of this "drinking trouble", Le Jia was implicitly banned and his career plummeted. No TV station dared to ask him to do any program again.
Speaking of which, this is all his "carelessness" by Le Jia himself.
After leaving "If You Are the One", Le Jia's career actually rose instead of falling, and he also hosted CCTV's "Chief Night Talk" instead of Sa Beining .
talks with Cui Jian , and Le Jia is not afraid at all. 20 years ago, Le Jia was a fan of Cui Jian. Whenever he took a cold shower in the dormitory, he would sing "Nothing" to resist nothingness.
Le Jia asked Cui Jian as soon as he came up: "Do you like me?"
Cui Jian answered sincerely: "I like it. Because you are the host of human language."
That visit ended, Le Jia felt satisfied, his career was at its peak, and his children were both in his knees.
He feels that his popularity is already on par with the rock godfather Cui Jianping. His era is coming in response to his calls.
△ "Chief Night Talk" Le Jia talks about Cui Jian
Except for one thing, Le Jia's academic qualifications were counterfeited by Fang Zhouzi:
"American Armstrong University, which awarded Le Jia's degree, was a pheasant school registered in California in 1996 by a Chinese surnamed Wang. It sold diplomas in China at the end of the last century and the beginning of this century, but it has now been closed."
Le Jia was not afraid and explained that he participated in the one-and-a-half-year junior college to undergraduate course sponsored by the school and domestic joint school institutions in Shanghai. The total tuition fee was 35,000 yuan, and he obtained a bachelor's degree.
Moreover, Le Jia has always promoted the public with his secondary school degree, and it is beyond reproach.But as an expert, especially a psychology expert, he has no academic support and has left some words to others.
Especially when he can't control his own strength, it makes it even harder to believe that he can teach others what character to manage.
In 2014, Le Jia hosted " Super Mr. ", and became angry with Ning Jing, and even the audience felt that the fire was really inexplicable.
Le Jia was very emotional, and in the end, Xie Na came forward to relieve the situation.
Speaking of Xie Na, in this show, Le Jia tried to kiss Xie Na forcibly, which also attracted many fans.
"Disgusting", "scammer", "psychopath". Since Le Jia let himself go, more and more people have scolded him on Weibo.
But the more people scolded, Le Jia felt that he was more popular.
His offline speeches and sales signing meetings are also more prosperous.
Le Jia's speech has already talked about Cambridge University. Offline signing updates are often staged as "place the table and step on the stool" and have also exposed some swear words from time to time.
But for some reason, whenever he scolds "I X" and "Go to XX", cheers and applause will sound below.
Not to mention, not only Lejia's fans like to watch this scene, but also the producers of TV programs like it. It is rare for people who are willing to actively create hot spots for TV programs.
But the "Super Speaker" program team never expected that the mentor they invited could reach this level in particular. . On the day of recording, Le Jia took out a bottle of 53-degree white wine to boost courage for the contestants. The contestant did not drink too much, but he got drunk first and went crazy on the stage.
urged Lu Yu, the mentor Lu Yu of the same stage, and pissed off Venus, and also scolded him who came to dissuade him. Dou Wentao .
Afterwards, Le Jia also posted on Weibo to ask netizens, "Do you know how much alcohol I have?" ".
This stubborn operation may be comparable to Zheng Shuang.
Of course, the two ended up similarly. The Liberation Daily published an article to criticize Le Jia.
Le Jia retired.
Whether it is helpless or banned, in short, it is difficult to see this once-savage bald head on TV again.
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https://www. The bottom is only five years.
became famous at a young age, and the middle-aged building collapsed.
46-year-old Le Jia returned to his old career and started speaking and training.
But those who have watched Le Jia's performance no longer believe in his set of character and color theory. People cannot hope for someone who can't even manage their own personality and teach others to manage their personality.
This is a more difficult blow to him than being banned.
10 2010, Le Jia said confidently:
10 years later, when I put 20 monographs of personality and colors in front of everyone. I can let many people who think I can't write things and shut up completely.
10 years have passed, and Le Jia not only failed to shut up, but has become a joke in the eyes of all experts.
A photo of Le Jia's speech on the street leaked, and people sighed that they didn't expect Le Jia to be so down.
In fact, this photo is not a recent photo, but a hot scene of signing on the street at his peak.
A photo, Different situations are two completely different lives in the eyes of others.
This is the unavoidable fate of Le Jia, who fell from the altar.
succeeds and fails.
However, this has always been the case in the entertainment industry. When a person is portrayed as a myth, he is a god and is sought after by everyone; when a person is a joke, he may not be as good as an ordinary person, and anyone can step on it.
Le Jia once said in an interview: "I am actually very fragile, very timid, and very afraid of being hit. Sometimes when I am hit, I will never recover and cry at home for several days.”
I don’t know, when 46-year-old Le Jia saw the few students in the audience, would she go home and cry, and then think about it, is it because of personality that creates his own destiny, or does fate that affect his own personality?
