's expectations for "Escape is Shameful but useful" are probably as high as "The Most Perfect Divorce". After watching it, I found that it is still slightly lower than the latter. Compared to the golden sentences of Yuji Sakamoto, I wish I could write a book as a small paper, and the lines written by Akiko Noki seem much simpler and unpretentious. But precisely because of its sincerity, it often contains a characteristic that can touch people's hearts.
In the "Real Escape" with the perspective of Mikuri Moriyama, there is only one argument, which is the position of the wife in marriage, from falling in love to getting married is not a difficult thing. Only when both parties are legal citizens, two marriage certificates can prove that they are the other party's spouse. But "It's not that easy to fall in love, everyone has his temper," and getting married is not easy. Everyone's temper will not change from beginning to end, physically and mentally because of two marriage certificates.
In the play, Miri Moriyama was fired because she chose one of the two in the labor dispatch work and embarked on the road of temporary housekeeping. Then she chose to sign an agreement with Tsuzaki Heihashi and became a contract couple. According to statistics, converting the work of housewives into wages can earn about 3.014 million yen per year, and their labor is often ignored, so many people cannot realize that they are invading the lives of others. It is an unbearable existence to wrap the truth of exploitation with love and marriage as sugar coating. If the family is regarded as a company, and the housewife is an employee or a partner, can this situation be improved? The answer given in the play is very vague. While being a housewife, Miri Moriyama also planned the activities of the Qingkong Market and wrote articles for urban magazines. At one point, she lost her original gentle and considerate appearance due to excessive pressure.
Recently, I happened to be reading Liang Hong's "Legend of Liangzhuang", in which he wrote about a couple of Hengwu who made a living by opening a shop and helped each other. However, the author said that the repair work they did was industrialized and mechanized, while the inside was still from the traditional domestic handicrafts. This makes me think that if I turn back time for hundreds of years, most people on China's land have this kind of existence. The similar words "You farm the fields and I weave cloth" sung in the opera. Putting aside the male protagonist, the female protagonist, the female protagonist, the inside, is nothing more than just managing a family as a small workshop, but the results are obvious to all and are failures. Just like Miri Moriyama, she chose to escape from work and became a contract housewife, but eventually found a job.
There is no absolute good or bad job, it depends on your own mood. A kinder boss, a more friendly colleague, and a less stressed job. Even if the salary is low, it doesn’t matter. If the boss is strict, the working environment is harsh, and the salary is still low, you can’t do anything that you could have done, and a person’s mood has changed tremendously. Work is like buying shoes. You must try it. If you don’t try it, you won’t know which one is suitable for you.
In addition to this, one of the most important things is personal value. For example, Miri Moriyama believes that when working as a housewife, people may ignore it or despise it. There is a gap between people and people’s communication. Even when it comes to face-to-face communication, misunderstandings may occur between each other. If the couple's relationship is compared according to the employment relationship, there is inequality itself, that is, the distinction between superiors and subordinates.
Whether as a partner of the "family" or an employer, the job of "housewife" is in danger in the family. When you are young, you will have two choices in front of you. If you enter the workplace or the family, many people will want to achieve both ways, which is extremely difficult.
The emergence of marriage is a sign that a stranger decides to spend his life with another. But how can a stranger be kind to another stranger with all his heart? Only by pouring endless time, spirit and energy into it. At this time, some people who use "love" and "marriage" as threats will appear. Their words are usually high-sounding, but when you think about it carefully, every sentence is a rope that ties the other person. If you don’t get married, you only sign a contract. Although you don’t have these ropes, you will also lose the protection given by the existing marriage law system. It seems that you have entered a strange formation, with red lights on both sides and no way out.Unless you can give me some good luck and meet someone who is in harmony, everything will be useless and you will be a wedding dress.
