Wu Danru , has won the first place in the best-selling Taiwanese female writer in Jinshitang for five consecutive years, published more than 50 books, and is known as the "Taiwan best-selling queen". Her works are all based on inspiration and love, and write down her experience of life and love for readers.
Now, she has a new identity, a 2016 student of China-Europe EMBA, Xiao Ou also made an appointment with her for writing and exclusively obtained Wu Danru's latest work. (There are also love stories of MBA students in China and Europe, which should not be missed!)
Valentine's Day, this beautiful gift and blessings of love are given to you together.
What is the most ideal marriage?
I think of Yang Jiang 's "Three of Us". The family story she wrote when she was ninety-two.
More than a year ago, I read a British biographer summed up the ideal marriage: "Before I saw her, I never thought of getting married; I married her for decades, never regretted marrying her; nor did I think of marrying another woman." I read it to Zhongshu, and he immediately replied, "I am the same as him." I said, "I am the same as me."
A few faint words were touching. What I mean is "Only you are always my lover", but I just use the retro literary version of the language.
The first moment they met, they actually looked at each other. The letters of mutual communication seem to be written in the letters, but they do not seem to be the love of children. A letter was sent to Qian Zhongshu's father stopped him and took it to read it. He found that the 21-year-old Yang Jiang wrote: "Now, we are happy and useless. Both fathers and brothers must be happy. Our happiness is completely unhindered." Mr. Qian sighed while looking, "It's such a smart person." He recognized this wife.
Qian Zhongshu is a rich young man. He has not been trained in trivial matters of life. Almost all the repairs at home are made by Yang Jiang. The two have been married for 60 years. It was a turbulent period of Greater China. No one could escape the cruel criticism and struggles and always supported each other. In his later years, Qian Zhongshu fell ill. Yang Jiang said, I only want to live one more year than him. Because she knew that only women could take good care of men, she tried her best to maintain her health. When he left, she attached herself to his ear and said, "Don't worry, I'm there!" He closed his eyes.
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Her real thought was: "Zhongshu escaped, and I want to escape, but where can I escape? I can't escape at all. I have to stay in the world, clean the scene, and do my best to do my best."
The responsibility of "cleaning the scene" is the love that always carries out.
Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang, both have the same knowledge, the same interests and the same ideas. In fact, if a person has a higher style, the quality of the relationship he talks about is high.
people actually don’t have to complain that they can’t find any good partner. To put it bluntly, it’s still a problem of their own level. You will find an object that looks similar to you. The "never regretted marrying her" is simple, and it contains many requirements. Qian Zhongshu once praised Yang Jiang as "the most virtuous wife and the most talented daughter." Her efforts are broad-minded, and in the process of giving herself, she has never relaxed in her knowledge and growth (I started to learn Spanish translation Don Quixote at the age of 47), and it is the case until she is a hundred years old.
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"In life, , Anan parts are only recognized by you", which is what we call long and long. However, the eternal and unchanging mind that ordinary people want is forced and restrained. It is not natural and conscientious to ask them to swear.
It is never effortless to have such happiness. We must be able to appreciate each other, rely on our essence and hard work, and of course we must also rely on some luck. In any case, it is not enough to sit there and wail, but no one loves you: you have not found the prince because you are not a princess; you cannot find your queen because you are not qualified to be a king.
Responsibility may not be based on love, but in the end, love will eventually become a responsibility. To fulfill this responsibility willingly is forever. How to love
, you still need to improve yourself forever.
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[China-European Love Story ]
Valentine's Day is here, beware of the arrow of the god of love flying around the campus!
In July 2010, Annika Duer from Germany and Robert Ciller from Switzerland were shot by Cupid's arrow in front of the Central European dormitory building No. 3 - it was there, where this couple, who were the freshmen of Central European MBA, saw each other for the first time.
On November 8, 2017 (same as the 22nd birthday of Central Europe), when the two came back to visit the Shanghai campus, Robert proposed to Annika at the place they first met! The happy MBA couple will hold their weddings in Switzerland and Germany in July and September this year respectively.
Wish you a single mind and never leave each other forever. I wish all lovers in the world will finally get married!
I fall in love with your obsession
Some of my friends around me, to put it more elegantly, that is, "A thousand sails are not the same". When my life is about to pass or is half over, I can still call myself a golden bachelor, or claim to be a celibate, or make myself ridiculed as an elderly leftover woman. Singles like
have good conditions and can pass the whole life. How bad are the conditions?
My friend Ahua, a famous screenwriter, is a representative figure. At the beginning and end of the year, my girlfriend rarely has the same person. When I was in love, the women were the Venus in his heart. However, love never talks about the marriage gate.
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Although, he is also the kind of person that many people envy. At the age of 24, the girlfriend I had was twenty-four, and at the age of 34, the girlfriend I had was twenty-four; at the age of 44, the girlfriend I had was twenty-four.
How beautiful is in love: always look at him innocently, listen to his high-profile talk with a beautiful smile on the corner of his mouth. When he thought of getting married, his mother would come out and tell him that women should be able to live a life, so he still dare not marry any twenty-four-year-old.
Another friend, Arun, is a tech newcomer with a good appearance and tall figure. He has been married twice and both divorced. He said, "Ah, woman, it was the same before marrying you, but it was the same after marrying you, and I realized it." So I only plan to fall in love for the rest of my life. The dating girls are also over ten years younger than him and prefer little birds to be gentle and gentle. In fact, his two ex-wifes are also of this type, but according to him, they both turned from birds to birds of prey after marriage.
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The woman who is still floating in the sea of love is represented by Anna, who is engaged in the art industry. She also got married once, and after the divorce, she has been in contact with men who are much younger than her for the past twenty years. The most recent one can definitely be her child at the age. Also because she must be in line with her young lover, she has always maintained a delicate expression and a beautiful witch.
They do have a characteristic: narcissism, so they like to be fascinated by others. Although I don’t admit it, I really like the feeling of “someone loves me again”.
is narcissistic to a very optimistic level.
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narcissistic, so I like newcomers, because only newcomers will say "You are so great" with a deep affectionate attitude, listening to him telling about his great achievements in the past and his unique insights in the present, and listening to him talking about his dreams without pouring cold water.
When a new person becomes an old person and enters daily life, his obsession fades, and the lover's admiration eyes gradually fade. His originally strong love becomes an elves who fall into the mortal world. Without wings, their hearts can no longer be allowed to fly.
No matter how many times they have loved, what they love the most is the obsession of others. They know they are good and worthy of obsession.
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Of course, there are also friends who are also "super narcissist" who live extremely happily in marriage. That's because his wife is really his number one fan. You can always praise him in a tone of admiration, you can always listen to his same jokes with a breeze on your face, and you will always say, "Dear, what you told me is so interesting, can you tell me to my friends?"
really convinced him. This kind of skill is extraordinary and saintly, and its power is enough to tame all rare beasts!
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