Today, mom takes you home
30 years after separation, this sentence from my mother made 34-year-old Yan Mingfei (pseudonym) cry. On July 18, at the ceremony of the Criminal Investigation Detachment of Changsha Public Security Bureau, he and his mother and sister hugged each other and cried, and were reluctant to part.
30 years ago, Yan Mingfei was lost with his family in Guangzhou and later abducted and trafficked; 30 years later, the Criminal Investigation Detachment of Changsha Public Security Bureau worked with many parties to help him finally found his family and felt the warmth of his mother's arms again.
△On the afternoon of July 18, Yan Mingfei (pseudonym) hugged and cried with his mother who had been separated for 30 years. Changsha Evening News All Media Reporter Zhou Shuyi Photo
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Hugging mother and sister tightly
The three of them hugged each other and cried
"Mom...Sister..." At around 3 pm on the 18th, in the office building of the Criminal Investigation Detachment of Changsha Public Security Bureau, Yan Mingfei hugged them tightly as soon as he saw his mother and sister, and the three of them burst into tears in an instant. This is the first time Yan Mingfei met his mother and sister after 30 years of separation. They have been looking forward to this meeting for too long.
"Sorry, I'm not a competent mother." Mother Zheng Mouxian expressed his long-standing guilt to his son. She blamed herself for not being able to retrieve her son in time and let her suffer so much outside. Yan Mingfei shook his head and held his mother's hand tighter.
"Today, mom takes you home, let's go home..." The mother repeated this sentence many times, making Yan Mingfei, a thirty-year-old man, cry out like a child.
It turns out that Yan Mingfei’s original name is Yu Mouhua. In 1991, my father worked in Guangzhou and took Yan Mingfei and his sister to Guangzhou Railway Station. During this period, Yan Mingfei and his father accidentally got lost and met his first adoptive father in Guangzhou. However, he was abandoned when he was six or seven years old and was later abducted to Puning, Guangdong.
Yan Mingfei came out to make a living after finishing junior high school. He worked as a bricklayer on the construction site and suffered a lot. Now, he is a courier, and has a family and has two children.
"I have always wanted to find my family since I was lost." Yan Mingfei said that he was too young when he was lost and could not remember the address of his hometown and family information. Not only did he forget the dialect, but he even remembered his name incorrectly. Even so, he never gave up looking for relatives. He kept asking all parties, posted online, and contacted volunteer teams such as "Baby Go Home".
Sister Yu Mouhong told reporters that when Yan Mingfei got lost, his family searched for him from many sources, but there was no result.
"We heard many people say that some children may be beaten as disabled and beg outside after they get lost, or even be killed." Yu Mouhong said that the family had worried, fear and even despair because of this, and in the end they did not dare to touch this topic again. "Some people say that no news is the best news, for fear that one day I will get a message that 'other people are gone'."
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00 At the bride recognition ceremony, nearly 30 "baby go home" volunteers accompanied Yan Mingfei to the scene. Some of them came from all over Hunan, and some came from Guangdong, Jiangxi and other places.
"His journey to find relatives is too difficult, and we have followed him for nearly 11 years." Volunteer Zhu Yongheng recalled that in October 2010, Yan Mingfei registered for the search information on the "Baby Go Home" website, and the volunteers posted a search post for him. However, Yan Mingfei misremembered his original name as "Yu Shuihua" (due to dialect reasons, the pronunciation of the characters in the middle is also different from the actual name), and he still remembers that there are coal, keel water wheel, locust flower pancake, camellia nectar, tea seeds, etc. in his hometown.
As of July this year, its relative search post had more than 40,000 views and 165 replies. Among these comments, there were volunteers from about 10 provinces, cities and districts, and they each analyzed their hometown location based on the plants, specialties and customs in their memories. However, these volunteers felt that Yan Mingfei should be his fellow countrymen, and the answers they gave were far different - Henan, Hubei, Hunan, Anhui, Shandong, Chongqing, Jiangxi...
Zhu Yongheng once organized Hunan volunteers to search for the oil tea production areas in Hunan based on memory information such as "tea seeds".At the same time, they also used the homophone combination of different surnames such as "Yu, Yu, Yu, Yu" to seek help from the public security departments in some regions, but no valid information was found.
In recent years, with the birth of more online platforms such as WeChat and Douyin, volunteers have also used more ways to spread Yan Mingfei's search information, and even specially included it in the category of "difficult and complicated diseases" for searching for relatives. Everyone repeatedly discussed more possibilities in volunteer groups in Guangdong, Hunan and other places.
cannot be given up! Yan Mingfei and the volunteers both hold this belief. On May 29 this year, volunteers from "Baby Going Home" contacted the "Reunion Operation" special team of the Criminal Investigation Detachment of Changsha Public Security Bureau, which also brought a new turning point to the 30-year search for relatives!
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At that time, volunteers asked the Changsha police for help, saying that according to Yan Mingfei's memory of life scenes and the analysis of many netizens and volunteers, he may be from Wangcheng, Changsha.
The "Reunion Action" special team of the Criminal Investigation Detachment of Changsha Public Security Bureau took quick action, and the "four synchronized" inspections were carried out by investigating, technical, video investigation, and intelligence analysis personnel. After collecting Yan Mingfei's blood samples for inspection, the technicians of the special team of
were examined and compared, but there was no information on the comparison. The investigators sorted out the cases (incidents) of missing and abducted children over the years, and no missing and abducted people who met the conditions were found; the video investigators did not find any of them met the conditions after portrait comparison and intelligence analysis. The
verification work once stagnated, but the police in the special team did not give up. They broadened their thinking and carried out inspections through the new DNA testing technology - the male family line screening system, and compared them locally in Changsha City, without comparing any family line.
"Later, we expanded the scope of comparison to the whole country and sent comparison and verification requests to more than 10 provinces, cities and districts." The police in the special team introduced that under normal circumstances, the preliminary comparison will only send 25 gene loci information, but they sent 42 more comprehensive loci information.
After continuous comparison, good news finally came from Shangrao City, Jiangxi Province, and a local family was compared.
"The 42 sites have been compared, this one is this!" The police officers of the special team set off immediately. With the joint efforts of the Shangrao police in Jiangxi and the "Baby Go Home" volunteers, they found that Yu Mouhua, the son of Zheng Mouxian, a resident of Xinzhou District, Shangrao City, Jiangxi Province, was lost at the Guangzhou Railway Station in 1991. This situation is consistent with Yan Mingfei's memory. Zheng Mouxian currently lives in Haiyan County, Jiaxing City, Zhejiang Province. After contacting the local police, the Changsha police collected Zheng Mouxian's blood samples and Yan Mingfei's DNA for single-parent comparison, and finally officially confirmed the relationship between the two.
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On July 18, Zheng Mouxian saw her son again after 30 years. When others asked about her feelings, she replied, "I feel sorry!" She looked at her son's tanned skin carefully, and her eyes were full of heartache.
When leaving the marriage recognition ceremony, Zheng Mouxian always held hands with his son, and neither side was willing to let go. She was careful and found that her son's walking posture was a bit unnatural. After asking, I learned that Yan Mingfei accidentally fell off the lifting frame while working on the construction site at the age of 17, resulting in a fracture of his left leg. Even though my injury has healed for so many years, my walking posture is still a bit abnormal.
Zheng Mouxian, who had not cried anymore, heard about this, her eyes turned red again. She held her son tightly and said, "Let's go home, we go home..."
Zheng Mouxian said that over the years, the family has long been no longer living in her hometown in Jiangxi, and she is going to take Yan Mingfei to her home in Jiaxing, Zhejiang to take a look.
What are the plans for the future? Zheng Mouxian knew that now his son has his own small family in Guangdong and he has adopted parents. Zheng Mouxian knew what kind of choice dilemma his son was facing, and he must have struggled in his heart.
"Of course I hope he lives with me, but mainly respects his own wishes. It will be convenient for me to go there in the future, and you can come back if you want to come back." After 30 years of dreams of seeking relatives, I finally have a dream come true. Reunion is not easy, and she doesn't want her son to be embarrassed anymore.
Sister Yu Mouhong said that she later married to Meizhou City, Guangdong Province. When she learned that her younger brother was in Puning City, not far away, she was both uncomfortable and happy: "The fate of our siblings is born, and we were not that far away. From now on, even if he lives in Guangdong, we can often visit each other."
The relevant person in charge of the Changsha Municipal Public Security Bureau introduced that since the launch of the "Reunion Operation", the Changsha Public Security Bureau has found relatives for more than 40 people. "Relying on new technologies to serve anti-trafficking work, allowing more abducted children to return home as soon as possible is the direction of Changsha Public Security's efforts and the common expectation of the whole society." The person in charge said.
Source丨Changsha Evening News All-Media Reporter Nie Yingrong Correspondent Gong Yi Intern Shen Jiaoli
Source: Changsha Evening News
