With the advent of the Internet era, more and more people have used self-media tools to become "stars" in the eyes of others.
But compared with these people, those who appeared on TV in the middle and late last century who gained recognition from the pre-screen audience with their own efforts are the real stars.
People often have great interest in these characters on the screen, from the front of the stage to the back of the scenes, in order to fully understand the person they admire and meet their psychological needs for chasing stars.
As the online media becomes more and more developed, the lives and stories behind these idols have begun to appear in front of the people.
Today, what we want to talk about is Jackie Chan , which has an important position in the martial arts field in the Chinese film industry.
Jackie Chan, from his debut to today, seems to show a tough guy side in front of the screen, and his reputation is also very good. He even participated in CCTV's Spring Festival Gala many times.
However, these bright and beautiful tags are just his side on TV. Jackie Chan in life basically spends all his thoughts on his career, including communicating with colleagues. The care for his family and children can be said to be minimal, and he is not a competent father and husband.
Jackie Chan has a son, born to him and his wife Lin Fengjiao , named Jaycee Chan. Previously, Jaycee Chan was arrested for taking drugs, and immediately became the hot search list of Weibo . As a father, Jackie Chan also publicly stated that he had not disciplined his son well.
Many people don’t know that Jackie Chan has always had a deep misunderstanding of his wife Lin Fengjiao. He always thinks that the other party compromises and tolerates himself in every way, and must be greedy for his own money. Therefore, Jackie Chan has never been particularly good at Lin Fengjiao.
Later, by chance, Jackie Chan met a woman named Wu Qili . She has a good figure and beautiful appearance. Jackie Chan was deeply attracted by her.
The two people also had a relationship smoothly. One day afterward, Wu Qili told Jackie Chan that she was pregnant and Jackie Chan immediately asked her for an abortion when he heard about it.
However, what was unexpected was that Wu Qili not only did not have an abortion, but also went to the United States alone and gave birth to the child.
This child is the protagonist of our story today, Jackie Chan's daughter - Wu Zhuolin . At that time, Wu Qili insisted on giving birth to this child because she wanted to marry Jackie Chan.
At that time, Jackie Chan and his wife Lin Fengjiao had a futile relationship. The two of them lived their own ways. Wu Qili's appearance made Jackie Chan, who had already distrust his wife, see a glimmer of hope. He even believed that if his wife did anything that hurt him, she would divorce her and then marry Wu Qili.
However, when Jackie Chan revealed to his wife that he was irritable and had a bad life, Lin Fengjiao, who was far away in another country, still chose to encourage and support her husband as always. This behavior moved Jackie Chan very much. So he immediately announced that he would cut off the relationship with Wu Qili and his daughter, and permanently refuse to meet Wu Qili.
On the other side, after Wu Qili learned the news, the entire domestic film and television industry no longer dared to cooperate with her. She lived in the United States alone with her daughter, and vowed that she would never be able to do China again.
Wu Qili's personality is getting stranger and stranger, and her "discipline" of her daughter has also begun to go astray.
Wu Qili grew up in a single-parent family. Her mother Zheng divorced her husband when she was very young. Because Wu Qili looks too much like her husband, Zheng hates her very much and often uses insulting language and behaviors to stimulate Wu Qili, which is also the fundamental reason for her personality problems.
Let’s talk about it again, Wu Qili slowly passed on her mother’s harshness against her to Wu Zhuolin. However, this time, the method she took was "Kidnap of Love".
When Wu Zhuolin was in the third grade of elementary school, Wu Qili still had to carry her to the bathroom, and even after graduating from elementary school, Wu Qili had to "help" Wu Zhuolin wear clothes.
Behind these seemingly intimate behaviors, Wu Qili's excessive attention to her daughter and her strong desire to control her.
She has repeatedly stated that children must be disciplined and that their daughters must be afraid of themselves, so as to establish the so-called "absolute authority of parents."
However, these brought strong psychological pressure to Wu Zhuolin. She had to choose to smoke to relieve the stress and tried to run away from home, but she failed many times. In 2015 and 2017, she called the police twice, claiming that her mother abused herself.
Because his father Jackie Chan did not admit him, many classmates looked down on him and bullied him. In addition, the strong pressure exerted by his mother and the physical harm he suffered, Wu Zhuolin eventually chose to cut his wrist and harm himself.
Even so, her mother still claimed to the public that this might be a popular thing among children.
Even in the face of the police's arrest, Wu Qili still did not admit her crime of abuse of her children. When interviewed by the media, she only responded simply with a sentence "sorry". After the above things such as
were exposed by the media, Jackie Chan said that he hoped that the two of them would not disturb their lives.
In order to vent the anger in Jackie Chan, Jackie Chan's daughter not only chose to call the police to arrest her mother many times, but also chose to disclose her identity on social media.
She once posted a video on the Internet with another female friend, claiming to the public that she is Jackie Chan's daughter, and that she and her "friends" are currently living by picking up trash and asking everyone for help.
What was Wu Qili doing during the same period? Since Wu Zhuolin has not contacted his mother for nearly a month, Wu Qili decided to call the police and lied that her daughter was missing, hoping to use the police's power to force Wu Zhuolin to show up.
Faced with her mother's extreme behavior, Wu Zhuolin responded with just one sentence "I suggest her see a doctor".
From this, we can see that the behavior of mother and daughter has become increasingly similar, and it seems that traces of mother's extreme behavior can be found in the daughter.
This is the issue we will focus on next. What does native family mean for a child's growth and how it will play an irreversible and irreplaceable important role.
We often say that parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers. They will play an important role in the establishment and development of children's outlook on life, values, world outlook and behavior, and sometimes play a decisive role.
You can often see the future of your child from parents, and similarly, you can also reflect the characteristics of your parents' personality qualities and other characteristics from your children.
Wu Qili's mother beat and scolded Wu Qili, which created a violent radical growth environment for Wu Qili at the source. Affected by this, Wu Qili formed a distorted value. In her opinion, perhaps using violent methods can best solve the problem.
At the same time, Wu Qili herself mistakenly believes that in order to prevent her daughter from going astray like herself, she must strictly discipline her daughter from childhood.
But too much is too little. Her extreme thoughts and aggressive behavior actually pushed her daughter farther and farther.
To this day, Wu Qili still doesn't realize what her mistake is. She still thinks that she has not educated her daughter properly. Some media even think that her daughter has grown up too smoothly since childhood and has never suffered any hardships, so she is so "pretentious".
But in fact, in addition to having social attributes, people also have individual attributes. The reason why human development shows diversity is itself proves that everyone has different traits.
Therefore, all education must be based on respect for personal legitimate ideas. Only by doing so can we teach students according to our aptitude, and can more stimulate children's imagination and creativity, so that they can truly learn and grow in a free and happy environment.
In addition, what we want to say is that a slap cannot be slapped. The mother-daughter relationship has reached today, and it is inseparable from the problems that Wu Zhuolin himself has.
Although my original family was not happy since childhood and my mother was biased with her education methods, these can be corrected to a certain extent through her own efforts.
Wu Zhuolin can read more books on education and growth inspiration, become friends with more positive and cheerful people, listen to more experiences of experienced people, etc. to change his thoughts, and even turn to psychologists when necessary.
In addition, in terms of how to deal with problems, Wu Zhuolin must not only have legal awareness and bottom-line thinking, but also have objective laws that should fully consider the process of forming a mother's personality. While changing his wrong extreme thoughts, he will actively help his mother correct his bad behavior.
If Wu Zhuolin can establish a more positive and correct concept in terms of life goals and life values, he will not be affected too much by negative energy at the family level and society level, and his life path will naturally be smoother and smoother.
Of course, if this happens, we must also reflect on whether there is a lack of supervision and other measures in the society for related issues. We can discuss the words and actions of these three people separately.
For example: For Wu Qili, no matter what experience she has experienced, it is wrong to hit someone. For her violent behavior, the social mechanism should stop and educate her as soon as possible, rather than reacting after it happens.
For Wu Zhuolin, a child who has just grown up wants to commit suicide many times. Should this behavior that seriously endangeres family harmony attract the attention of more social groups?
Can the channels for discovering and solving problems be smoother, and should it be more privacy-protective? Are there corresponding legal provisions and specific enforcement measures to restrict issues such as campus violence?
For Jackie Chan, although his acting career has received support from the people, he has no ability to resist when facing some temptations in society.
cannot achieve unity and harmony in the relationship between husband and wife, and has always been absent in the issue of educating his children. Can these be restrained by systems? Can these constraints be linked to their careers and form a comprehensive measure with strong correlation?
If all the above parties can play a role, I think the probability of a situation where a daughter commits suicide by cutting her wrist, a daughter suing her mother to jail, and a father letting her go will be greatly reduced, and the overall harmony, stability and order of society will be more secure.
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