Marriage is a major event in life. The butler has already said this sentence and doesn’t want to say it anymore, but it is indeed the case. Today's couples and tomorrow's couples, what they pour into the happy day is not only the piety of their hearts, but also the blessings and expectations of the two families.
Choose the auspicious day of your wedding, which is to choose the starting point of happiness.
And this process, the butler hopes to add some help to you!
How to choose auspicious day
▲Fanglinyuan Hotel
01. Choose Runnian Runnian
Chinese people attach great importance to the selection of auspicious day of weddings, and pay great attention to the sayings of "run month" and "run year", that is, every two or three years, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "run month". Choose auspicious day for weddings, preferably in the year with the Moon month.
02.Do not choose the birthday of parents
In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as the auspicious day of marriage. In fact, it just means that the day of the parents' birthday is not suitable for marriage, but it is absolutely suitable for marriage within that month.
▲Yuyan Palace
03.Real wedding day
If you decide to separate the registration from the date of the wedding ceremony, it is best to choose a date for both days. If you want to make a choice, the traditional etiquette of wedding weddings and wine-selling should be based on the day of the auspicious day, because Chinese tradition always regards this day as a true auspicious day of wedding.
04. Method for counting good and auspicious days
Some people believe that there should be a stricter calculation method for good and auspicious times, that is, use the date of birth of both men and women to calculate the most auspicious wedding date. However, this approach is quite cumbersome, and many people prefer to choose days by reading the almanac, or listen to the suggestions of those who study the Zhouyi.
▲Big Wild Goose Pagoda Holiday Hotel
05. Consider the actual work and study of both parties
If one party is preparing for the exam, you should avoid the intense review and examination date; if one party is working day and night in major projects of the unit, the other party must wait patiently for a period of time and choose the auspicious day of marriage when the good news comes.
When setting the wedding date, you should refer to the newlyweds’ annual work plan and do not choose peak hours or before and after a business trip. This not only allows you to invite enough honeymoon holidays, but also avoids the inability to hold a wedding as scheduled due to sudden work events, or the important work plan affected by the preparation of the wedding.
▲ Afang Palace Weijing International Hotel
06. Consider the actual
Choose an auspicious day, and both the elderly and relatives and friends of both sides have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.
07. Consider the physical condition of both parties
If one party is temporarily unwell or is sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, diagnose and treat it in time, and then discuss it after recovering from health. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of the new life and may also aggravate the physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman’s menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to speak out. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to listening to the woman's opinions.
▲Emerging Days Hotel
08.Unify wedding dates and holidays
If wedding dates and holidays are unified, it may be a wise move. The benefits of doing this are: it is commemorative; the newlyweds are dressed in festive clothes to add interest; relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm, and welcoming relatives and friends to celebrate the holidays together, which is both saving and festive. However, there are many newlyweds who get married during the holidays, so you should pay attention to booking hotels and fleets in advance.
▲Daqin Hot Spring Health Garden
09. The definition of good days is different
No matter what day you choose, the best choice is what everyone is satisfied with. Maybe you can choose one of the year that is commemorative for you, but it is a very ordinary day for others. For example, the first kiss anniversary.
This will not only allow you to spend less money to get the best service, but you will also enter the wedding hall with a very leisurely mood and enjoy the wedding blessings from relatives and friends!
Things to note when choosing an auspicious day
▲Zhongxing Hetai Hotel
01. Respect both parents
Select the date, the elderly will care a lot. You must respect both parents, and it is best to discuss with them before making a decision.
02. Don’t be too superstitious
Although “Yellow Auspicious Day” is a tradition in China, you should also understand that the happiness of marriage depends on whether the emotional foundation of two people is solid, and does not depend on a certain “Auspicious Day”. It needs to be arranged from a scientific perspective.
▲ Guangcheng Hotel
03. Set the wedding date as soon as possible
Try to set the wedding date as early as possible, prepare plenty of time for wedding planning, and avoid hasty action! You can ask for advice from important guests before making a wedding date, but don’t cater to too many people. Once you set a wedding date, don’t change it easily.
▲Xinhuafu·Greenland Happiness Station
04. Try to avoid peak days
During the year, the peak season for weddings is April, May, September and October. At this time, the temperature is suitable and there are many holidays. The newlyweds hope to hold weddings on these days. The housekeeper recommends avoiding the auspicious days when newcomers gather. In this way, it will be of great benefit to choosing ceremonies, cameras, floats, hotels, dresses, etc. It will not only directly reduce the wedding budget, but also improve the quality of the wedding.
In fact, sometimes you only need to advance or push it back a day, and you can choose the most ideal venue, book a good car you have been looking for for a long time, have the best ceremonies to host your wedding, and excellent cameramen record your life ceremony for you, and even relatives and friends don’t have to worry about dealing with several weddings at the same time.
▲Sunshine Lidu Grand Theater
05. Weather on the wedding day
Holding a wedding on a drizzling day is also a kind of romance. But most couples still want the sunshine on their wedding day. Whether it is light rain or sunshine, understanding the weather conditions on the wedding day can make you clear, so that you can make some adaptable arrangements in advance and prepare for the future. So what if it rains at the wedding?
