text | Happy Baby
In the movie "The Great Events in Life", in addition to interpreting the two kinds of sufferings of life - separation of life and separation of death, life is also translated to future generations like a book. Some can turn to the last page, some can end, and some have ellipsis.
There are three details in the movie, which interprets the entire process of life. Do you still remember the three stores in the movie?
A family is Lao Liu's maternal and child shop, indicating a new birth (birth), that is, the beginning of everyone coming to this world.
The family is the big fat wedding next door, which indicates a lifelong event for a person - a marriage matchmaking.
The family is the funeral shop of the third brother to heaven, indicating the death of a person.
In the video, this small street, three details show three important stages of a person's life.
. Among these three things, there is no choice between birth and death. The only thing that can make your own decision is marriage. It shows its importance and you must be cautious!
And the three things that unfortunate women fear the most are afraid of, that is, they are afraid of marrying people like their father, afraid of living like their mother, and afraid of their children being like their childhood self.
Parents always hope that their children will become people who surpass themselves. The reality is that most people have become like parents. The influence of the environment and the values brought by the original family cannot be underestimated.
How important is a woman to home? Children need a happy mother, fathers need a sensible and gentle mother, and also a mother who can make money.
Grandparents need a filial and obedient daughter-in-law. They can earn money and have to be filial to them and spend money, not the kind that can be spent by their parents.
grandmother needs an obedient and sensible good daughter.
Mom has paid too much in a family, and has a variety of roles. She has become a soldier by herself, but she has no one to be herself.
How many married women are not afraid to tell their parents after being wronged, for fear that their elderly parents will worry, they are really helpless at that moment. Suddenly, they will have no family after getting married, and they will only bear everything themselves.
There was a father who was idle and asked his 8-year-old daughter, asking, "If I divorced your mother, who would you go with?"
My daughter glanced at him and said, "You don't even want your own wife. Can I feel safe if I follow you?"
The father was stunned at first, and then began to complain to his daughter: "Your mother cares about it all day long. I was almost depressed. "
What shocked him even more was that his daughter said, "Can the school behave well without paying attention to the students? Can parents be successful if they don't care about their children? My wife is not care about her husband, and her husband spends money all day, and she can have a happy home?"
This father was taught a lesson by his daughter, and was so angry that he had nothing to say. He was so old that he still thought about it all day long.
In fact, people with self-discipline and ability generally will not be controlled by others. Think about whether they did it well.
Milan Kundera once said this: "Except for being sick, the pain you feel is brought to you by your values, not real existence. The greatest sorrow in the world is that this is not the life I want, but the life I have to ask for. I have nothing to say about, and I cannot tell anyone about my sadness."
We should regard life as the stage, we are the protagonist, and everyone else, including parents, are supporting roles, and accompany ourselves to play a play.
We are serious in the play and assume the role responsibilities we should bear; at the same time, we are outside the play, we wait and see and try to understand their words and deeds, and do not expect anything from them, so there is no disappointment or anger at all.
This way of life should be more calm!
