"The four difficult moments in life: wait for food halfway through eating, wait for water halfway through bathing, wait for advertisements halfway through video, wait for you to reply halfway through chat.

Every emotion must be responded to.

That day I saw a sentence on the Internet:

"Four difficult moments in life: wait for food halfway through eating, wait for water halfway through bathing, wait for advertisements halfway through video, wait for you to reply halfway through chat."

Don't forget, this is an era where everyone keeps their hands on their mobile phones.

He wants to reply to your message long ago. You are waiting for an answer, but you don’t know that not replying is the biggest answer.

The messages sent out, and many people have experienced the moments of hard waiting.

I think it is precisely because of this that we cherish the people around us who reply to messages in a timely and seriously, right?

Just like they said:

"This type of people have their own persistence and their own temper."

But please believe that every temper is a manifestation that only one person can care about.

People who like to reply to messages in seconds, value feelings

The world of adults should have heard two words: another day and looking back.

opened the chat record with your ex, and couldn't help but smile bitterly. The frequency of these two words appears extremely high.

I still remember when he was preparing to get married last year, he was busy with work and traveling on business all over the world.

I thought I couldn't always disturb him with trivial matters, and I solved most of the problems myself. I occasionally asked him about the hotel venue and invitation design. There was often no movement there for a long time. After a long time, I replied: "I'm busy, let's talk about it later."

However, this time I turned around, there was no news and no further information.

When asked about the reason, he always said that he forgot.

The wedding was not carried out. I was completely disappointed with patience.

is like the line in the movie "He actually doesn't like you so much":

"He is very busy, he is almost crazy, and he can't take time to call you in a day.

has a mobile phone, speed dial, and even voice dialing. Why don't you have time to call? If you really like it, you won't forget it. If you forget it, it means he doesn't care about your disappointment.

' is a weapon of mass destruction in love, and it is synonymous with a bastard. A bastard is the person who uses it to perfunctory."

I think of a friend of mine, who is in a different place with my husband.

Some time ago, because something happened at home, she posted a message on WeChat Moments saying that she was really unhappy during this period.

That day we happened to have dinner outside together. My friend’s husband called the video and he said, “I’ll come back and see you.”

My friend said, “Don’t you say you’re very busy? Why do you have this time?”

He said, “For you, I can’t be busy.”

My friend’s husband started a business outside and was carrying a team of forty or fifty people. It was really hard to make time.

But in order to meet, he doesn't care if he is tired and running around.

Fu Seoul said:

"Space, leisure.

love, all are idle.

If there is still love in busyness, it is probably true love."

deeply agrees.

For ordinary people, the best love words in this world are probably not "I love you", but "I am very busy, but I am willing to have time for you."

What is willing?

Maybe it's, I don't ask you to reply to every message in seconds, but no matter how busy you are, remember to take the time to give me a response.

I don’t ask you to put me first in everything, but you still give me the sense of security I want.

I don't ask how wide your shoulders are, but you still try your best to make me rely on them.

After all, the most heartwarming thing about a man who likes to reply to WeChat in seconds is his persistence in his relationship and his seriousness to his partner.

People who like to reply messages in seconds are loyal

There is a saying that says this:

"Return later is the privilege I give you; reply when you receive it, it is the special you give me."

Whether it is love or friendship, it is actually the same.

I have a kid named Dahua.

Over the years, my friends have been working and getting married, only Dahua and I have been staying in my hometown.

I write articles and Dahua teaches.

Never contact during the day, I am afraid of affecting Dahua's class, Dahua is afraid of affecting my writing.

Only in the middle of the night will they warmly look for each other: "Do you have time? Let's talk a few words."

often get a response when the topic is together.

This feeling of tacit understanding lasted for a long time.

Once, I had a severe cold and had a high fever that I didn't dare to alarm my parents. I could only post a video to ask Dahua if I could come and help me.

I didn’t expect that the big flower would return in seconds.

She ran to take care of me, a small man of about 1.5 meters, raised me as tall as a big man and ran up and down.

is registration and payment again.

It’s cooking porridge and soup again.

I asked Dahua: "Why can I reply to my message as soon as possible?"

Dahua said: "As long as you talk to me, I will reply in seconds when I see it, let alone encounter this situation today, even if it is a sea of ​​swords and fire, it will appear in front of you as quickly as possible!"

I felt warm in my heart when I heard it. This friend Dahua is really loyal!

remembered a sentence I heard before:

"There is a kind of sadness in this world, that is, I slept for an afternoon, and the room was pitch black when I woke up, and there was no sound at all."

And what I want to say is that I have never experienced such sadness in the years since I knew and intersected with Dahua.

People who like to reply to messages in seconds are very delicate

Intuition is very accurate. When you are with someone, you can keenly detect all his cherishing and neglect, and you can clearly feel all his care and care.

I remembered that at the end of last year, I attended a work dinner with my cousin who was in business.

At the dinner table, my cousin sent a video invitation, and people around me started to make noise.

My cousin didn't answer at first, but hung up several times, and finally turned off the machine.

But he never thought that his cousin's wife had just given birth to a child and suffered from severe postpartum depression.

Think about everything, self-doubt, many discomforts cannot be expressed, and many depressions are piled in the heart.

wants to talk to her husband, but being treated like this roughly, anyone would find it unbearable.

Later I found out that my cousin almost did something stupid at that time.

The cousin's wife sent a WeChat message to her sister, saying that the child was still young, so she asked her family to help take care of her.

When she received her sister's WeChat, her sister immediately noticed something was wrong and quickly chatted with her to relieve her emotions...

Later, my cousin's wife mentioned: "If it weren't for my sister that time, I really didn't know how to hold on."

A difference in thought may bring about earth-shaking changes.

A delicate person is always reluctant to let others' enthusiasm and expectations be lost.

The older you are, the more you feel that being delicate and considerate is the most precious quality of a man.

is not domineering, not professing aloofness, not speaking beautifully, not being false and false, but being truly gentle and genuinely caring.

He will care about the quality of your mood, pay attention to the changes in your emotions, and resolve your worries.

After all, it’s nothing if a person is smart and interesting, and being smart is nothing. Being able to take care of other people’s feelings is the most rare and reassuring thing.

Every kind of relationship must have a response

I remembered a variety show "Mother-in-law and Mom" ​​I followed two days ago.

Li Jiahang originally wanted to do his own thing, but was interrupted by his wife twice in a row. First, he came over to feed him an orange, and later he came to tell him that the flowers at home were blooming.

Although it is all irrelevant trivial matters, Li Jiahang still stopped the work at hand and said helplessly and docilely: "My desire to survive tells me that I want to accompany my wife."

Someone complained about his wife being annoyed in the comments, but I think, if it weren't for caring, who would want to share everything with you? If it wasn't for liking, who would want to get your attention?

Whether it was a partner, friend, or family member.

Whether it was love, friendship, or family.

Every kind of relationship must be responded to.

If you have something to do, say it, go and do your business.

reply as soon as you see it, I will give you peace of mind and comfort.

The feeling of being cared about by you is great.

I hope everyone will meet will make you feel warm from the bottom of your heart and truly feel loved.