: I first saw the title of the movie and thought it was another movie about marriage and love, but unexpectedly, it was based on the funeral industry that was rarely involved in film and television dramas.
From this point of view, the major events in life mentioned in the film are naturally related to life and death. The old man in the play said that besides life and death, there is no major event in life.
This movie "The Great Events in Life" starring Zhu Yilong has given us a new look at the so-called "The Great Events in Life". The protagonist of the story, Mo Sanmei, is a practitioner in the funeral industry who was in jail for the fight of his ex-girlfriend and was released from prison. It sounds like a girl's name, but it is actually because it has never been worry-free. My father's regret is not strong enough. Mo Sanmei, Wang Jianren and Yin Baixue supported a small shop to hold a funeral for the dead and "go to heaven".
From the main point of view, it is because Xiaowen's grandmother's funeral was always chased by Xiaowen and grandmother. Finally, he gradually developed feelings for him and adopted him in the name of Jianren and Bai Xue and became a family.
Later, Xiaowen's biological mother appeared and faced a separation of life and death. Xiaowen regained her "going to heaven", and the best ending for the third sister and Xiaowen's mother also gave Xiaowen the best happiness.
The whole story is exchanged in a cold, cruel and warm and touching person. For example, life is very fragile and will face death. The little girl launched in the ward, her lonely and helpless parents, the corpse of her ex-girlfriend’s husband, Lao Liu, and the horror of Xiao Wenchu’s visit to "Going to Heaven" to see two paper-stuffed villains dare not sleep, let us understand that the practitioners in this industry are not only facing the special nature of the work, but also having unimaginable psychological pressure.
Look at human nature from the attitude towards death. At the beginning of the film, Xiao Wen’s grandmother’s funeral, my aunt always urged her to cremate her uncle quickly and was about to go to Beijing. What’s the point of staying for two more days? He even remembered the ring on the old man's finger very clearly, and the slander was stolen by the third sister and the others.
When the old man carried the coffin out of the house, he still howled with his husband a few times to express his sadness.
But in the young couple who lost their beloved daughter, we felt another kind of sadness. My daughter is sick and still cannot save her life in the end. The moment she sent her child away, she naturally felt desolate. What kind of sad scene does a young mother braid Xiao Wen’s hair?
The third sister's father also left in the end, leaving behind eternal guilt for the second son and comfort for the third sister after finally sensible. Mo Sanmei gave him the most gorgeous funeral. Is this worthy of life?
"The Great Events in Life" first talks about the biggest thing in a person's life is life and death. Nothing is more important than life and death. Another thing that touched me about this movie is the transformation of the two protagonists, the third sister and Xiaowen.
First talk about the third sister, the "third brother" and "dad" shouted in Xiaowen's mouth, from the prodigal brother who is not concerned about everything, to the fatherly sense of responsibility in the process of getting along with Xiaowen, and the fatherly love that transcends family affection, let us see that he is constantly growing and maturing.
, and Xiaowen also started with a little Nezha , Xiaohu's child, during the experience with his third sister, he was willful and lacked education. Later, he was a little adult and couldn't help but laugh at his way of doing things. When the third sister was short of money, she actually urged her grandmother's dance partner to hold a funeral during her lifetime.
Children grow up happily in a new home, and are originally harmonious and happy. But I didn't expect my mother to appear. The heart-wrenching separation became the tear point of the film, and the emotional outbreak reached its extreme.
From this perspective, for Mo Sanmei, the big thing in life is growth, having a sense of responsibility, and knowing how to cherish it; for Jianren and Bai Xue, starting a family, and doing a solid career; for Xiaowen, a big thing in life is to find family affection, feel the warmth of fatherly love and motherly love, and grow up healthily and happily. After watching the video of
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, it actually tells us that the most important thing in life is two words "responsibility".
For the third sister, the initial responsibility is to make Jianren and Bai Xue have a way out, and to have the capital to marry their girlfriend. When you are cuckolded, you will collapse instantly and realize that life is meaningless.
Xiaowen broke into life, and the third sister gradually became a careful dad from a prodigal son who could not take care of herself. The anxiousness of the child when he rushed to the hospital after accidentally eating marbles was unwilling to raise him, so he resolutely took the initiative to adopt him. In order to restore Xiaowen's phone, watch, and grandmother's voice, he was tired and happy when he was looking for solutions everywhere.
When I found out that I did not meet the adoption conditions, I didn’t care too much about it and prepared to discuss marriage with Bai Xue and create adoption conditions. These can be released every year. The third sister is no longer a young boy who can’t do anything in the eyes of her father.
To my father, the third sister may have less responsibility for supporting her. But in the end, being able to inherit his funeral career, guard this family business, and take the initiative to find his father when encountering difficult problems is actually a kind of growth and a kind of responsibility. He fulfilled his promise to promise the most brilliant funeral for his father. The old man commented on the third sister, "He finally has something to worry about."
All the growth of the girl is caused by Xiaowen. Because she wanted to find her grandmother who became a star, Xiaowen broke into the life of her third sister. From the beginning, the "Little Nezha" who was full of thorns and no one dared to provoke him, but when they got along, they became a little adult who made people feel trembling. Renovate bad living habits, know how to share the worries of adults, understand who loves her the most, understand how to repay kindness, and also have the responsibility for growth.
Growth is a process of mutual achievement. This pair of father and daughter, who are not father and daughter, uses pranks of seemingly other children to tell the trivialities that will happen in ordinary families. Whose life is not a mess? The third sister's girlfriend cheated, the sister divorced, the father was addicted to alcohol, the successful young couple lost their daughter, the uncle and aunt who quarreled all day long, and the past that suddenly appeared and had been reported to have difficulty looking back on, everyone's life was actually not easy. The expression of
movie is actually vague. For example, my sister has never explained why she divorced her brother-in-law and actually works in the same industry as her brother-in-law. She should be able to fully understand the special nature of this profession, right? But when we see the end, we may have another understanding, that is, we can regard it as a career, but if we can only be in this circle every day, people will naturally feel a sense of depression, so my sister and brother-in-law chose to separate.
This is understandable. Why is there a wedding shop next to "Going Heaven"? It seems inconsistent, but it is reminding us in another way that life should see the difficulty or happiness of others. Only in this way can we cherish the present more.
The ending of the story is very pleasing, that is, how to resolve Xiaowen cannot do without the third sister, and Xiaowen's mother naturally cannot bear to let Xiaowen go. The screenwriter was happy, "Can we do our job?" Yes, to become a family, have all these problems been solved?
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Everyone has different life events at different stages.
When I was young, I thought the biggest thing was to eat well, play well, study happily, and play happily every day;
When I reached the school age stage, in the eyes of my parents, the big things in life at this time are to think about nothing, be healthy, study hard, go to the best high school, and go to a good university;
After joining the work, your big things in life are to get married and start a career quickly;
After becoming a parent, the focus of everything will be on the top with old age and the bottom with small ones. Parents' health, children's marriage and family are endless hearts
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So, it is not difficult to see that in a person's life, the so-called major events in life are often unrelated to themselves, but they have to bear it and complete it. Whether it is based on the traditional ideas of our parents or our own social responsibilities, these are not easy to escape.
This period is the volunteer application html season 4. Among the coming and going, there are anxious parents and indifferent students.When we are worried about the position value and the filing line, and we are repeatedly calculating the formula, fearing that there will be some problems, the children are fearless and free and easy.
We often say, don’t let your children grow up in the heater, but when will people be able to do it? Elementary school, junior high school rents a school house to accompany you to study, pick up and drop off after school. Saturdays and Sundays are inseparable. Food is delivered to us, clothes are washed and folded, socks are not even needed to wash, let alone housework...
This is us, we are parents. I thought that all efforts would be rewarded the best, but in the end I found that the child had basically no self-care ability and no sense of family responsibility. What kind of reflection would he have when he was indifferent to family affection and thought that everything was right to get it.
Because tomorrow, we will do our own thing.
After watching "The Big Events in Life", I suddenly thought of a question: Xiaowen's sensibility and talent are really only cultivated by a family without parents on the road to growth? Because looking at her cousin, who is the child of her uncle, she has no light in her dull eyes, and she can see that the strong protective education is missing.
The answer is naturally no. But in the era of inverting , if it is absolutely necessary, who would be willing to let their children do experimental products? We have taken care of all the "big things in life" for our children, but what we have to think about is whether they can continue to pass on when they become parents?
Know how to be grateful, have responsibility, have the heart of people, and have the heart of things, and there will naturally be big things in our lives.
