During this summer vacation when my good friend and I went to watch the hit movie " Life Events ". From the perspective of the film's viewing perspective, except that the plot in the second half is too compact and some conflicts are a bit deliberate, the viewing is still very good.
Although the main narrative background of the movie "Major Events in Life" is the burial industry, it is more like a background cover for burial industry. Compared with other movies that describe the burial industry, it is not that serious.
Where does its cover reflect?
usually describes works that are burial, and there will be a certain degree of atmosphere description. However, in the work "The Great Events in Life", the two funeral scenes it describes focus on the superficial skills of doing a good job in the funeral.
Carrying coffin, cremation, delivering urns, ceremony... A funeral, it has everything you should have. However, it made the audience feel that it was not like a funeral; because the originally quiet atmosphere of these two funerals was destroyed. At the funeral where the little girl's grandmother died, there were the little girl's crying, the shouts of the owner of the funeral shop, and the family's noise about how the elderly were dealing with. The old man who held the funeral in advance for himself did not seem to be holding a funeral from beginning to end, but a farewell party.
However, after reading this, I became more curious about the topics that the movie wanted to express.
I didn’t realize until I finished watching the movie that this movie was not about this condom, but about the person who was put in this condom.
There are two main people who put in the movie cover, Mo Sanmei, the owner of the burial shop, and Xiaowen, the little girl who lost her grandmother.
Mo Sanmei is a large young man in her early thirties; she is straightforward, impulsive, and has a bad temper.
Xiaowen is a little girl who has lost her parents since she was a child and was raised by her grandmother. She has a stingy personality and is a little cute in her playfulness.
These two people who had no intersection had a strange connection after Xiaowen's grandmother died.
On the day Xiaowen's grandmother died, Xiaowen thought it was Mo Sanmei and her colleague who killed her grandmother, so she dressed up as Nezha and chased him to "revenge" him.
The other two colleagues in the funeral shop used coaxing the little girl dressed as Nezha, but Mo Sanmei didn't.
As soon as two people with hot tempers meet, they become enemies.
Fortunately, when the two got along, Mo Sanmei gave in first.
Although Mo Sanmei is an impulsive and reckless young man, he has a soft heart.
He used this heart to tolerate Xiaowen's bedwetting.
tolerated Xiaowen to draw on someone else's urn.
tolerated Xiaowen has been running him with her " Red Tassel Gun " toy.
Mo Sanmei knew very well that Xiaowen would leave him one day; because he was not Xiaowen's legal parent.
In his first half of his life, his iron was already rusted.
He doesn't want Xiaowen to do impulsive things like him and regret the things he has for life.
And little girl Xiaowen, she is the most contrasting character in this movie.
She came to chase Mo Sanmei and asked Mo Sanmei to "take revenge" and said in his ear over and over again.
is actually to cover up her insecurity after being in a strange environment.
The video describes a detail about Xiaowen, which impressed me very deeply: Xiaowen wanted to go to the toilet at night, but because there were two ghost dolls in front of the door of the toilet, she never dared to go to the toilet and wet the bed.
From this point of view, Xiaowen is actually an ordinary little girl, and she is also afraid of what other little girls are afraid of.
But
Why did she bravely come to the funeral shop to look for her grandmother?
She is not not afraid of people outside; but compared to this fear, she is more of a child's psychology.
She thought it was Mo Sanmei and the others who took her grandmother away. So as long as she used various methods to let Mo Sanmei bring her grandmother to her, she could go home happily with her grandmother.
But life is always far from as beautiful as children think.
When Mo Sanmei told him after she messed up the funeral, her grandmother had turned into stars in the sky, for the first time she did not poke Mo Sanmei's chest with a "red tassel gun".
She just sat there without saying a word.
At this time, the short article reflects the maturity that people of their peers have not experienced.
It’s not that she didn’t know that her grandmother left her forever, she just didn’t want to accept it and didn’t want to face it.
What she doesn’t know is what kind of life she will live after she loses her grandmother?
The more active her external form is, the more trouble she causes, which instead represents her helplessness in the future environment.
The transmission of love between adults and children requires time to cultivate. If adults do not convey their love to their children at a certain period of time, then that child may spend his life in inferiority.
What is gratifying is that after the two people have intersections, the fate of both people has changed well.
Mo Sanmei gradually changed her attitude towards Xiaowen in her cultivation; she also assumed her responsibilities as a big man.
Xiaowen has shed her scrupulous and trouble-loving cloak in the series of changes after her grandmother's death.
At the same time, she also recognized this "dad".
When Mo Sanmei found her again, she also expressed the love she had been suppressing in her heart for Mo Sanmei's "dad".
video ends perfectly in a wisp of fireworks.
If such a story happened in our reality, it might not be as perfect as the movie presents.
Funeral shop is a place where people will go if they die.
However, in this movie, the funeral shop has become an important place for emotional transmission.
Our two protagonists have spent many wonderful memories in the small funeral shop.
Moreover, both of our protagonists have all their closest relatives lying in the coffin.
But they all hold the same attitude: don’t be sad with others and live a good life.
Xiaowen's grandmother disappeared, but she had a new person who could accept her.
Mo Sanmei's father disappeared, but he had the ability to be a father.
is here, I think the two protagonists are very brave.
If it were me, I wouldn't have gotten out of the haze so quickly.
At the same time, this also tells us a truth:
When we encounter major changes from our relatives, we should not be sad for them.
The key is whether you can enter your life from the sad memories and live your own wonderful life.
If your pet is very sticky and disappears from your vision; if you love
Your relatives leave you; if a happy life deceives you; will you have the courage to start over?
Sorrow cannot flow into a river in people's hearts, unless your heart is already vast.
