"The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you slowly, until we are so old that we can't go anywhere, and you still regard me as the treasure in our hands." I think this lyrics are probably the love that we Chinese yearn for the most. Yes, perseverance and companionship have always been the best definition of love for our traditional Chinese people.
For ordinary people, perhaps this is still easy to do, although the divorce rate is getting higher and higher now. But what if one party has a disease that is difficult to cure, what if the other party can hardly move for the rest of his life, he will rely on you to take care of him? Can you still do it? I think many people will ask questions in their hearts. Maybe 3 years or 5 years, but 10 years or 20 years, what about a lifetime? However, in Sanshui, Foshan, Guangdong, there is a husband named Li Tianqiu. For 15 years, he has been with He Liling, his wife who suffers from ALS 3, and has taken care of her carefully and persevered silently, creating a miracle of life.
The wife suddenly suffered from "Abnormal Frostbite" and had a happy family. Her husband quit his job as a bus driver to take care of his wife all the time
Before he fell ill, He Liling was a teacher at a school in Foshan , teaching and educating people and living a happy life. But in 2007, when He Liling was giving a class on the podium, she suddenly couldn't make a sound for two or three seconds, but she didn't care much at that time. It was not until July 2009 that she went to the hospital for examination and was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, which is "amyotrophic human disease". When the doctor told He Liling's husband Li Tianqiu that patients with "Abnormal Frostbite" can only survive for 3-5 years, Li Tianqiu burst into tears instantly, which was a result he never expected.
After that, He Liling's condition deteriorated rapidly, leaving only her eyes, mouth and neck in her body, and even swallowing became a problem. She could only eat liquid food. Li Tianqiu quit his job as a bus driver without hesitation. He carefully cooked porridge for his wife every day. Then poured the porridge into a mixer and beat it into a liquid state, and fed it to his wife with a spoon by spoon. It took more than an hour to feed it once. In 10 years, he broke 3 mixers, and in Li Tianqiu's refrigerator and storage cabinet, more than 20 kinds of porridge ingredients such as black beans, soybeans, mung beans, and black rice were neatly placed. Not only that, he also had to treat his wife not only every day, but also give him massage, etc., which was very meticulous in taking care of her.
Take care of your wife is a trivial matter. I just want your wife to be happy every day
Because of the sense of gap brought by the disease, He Liling was depressed and felt extremely depressed. After all, such an experience was really too shocking, and the couple also cried together several times. But life still needs to continue. In order to make his wife cheerful, Li Tianqiu will take He Liling out for a walk and see the scenery in her spare time, and find ways to make her happy. Day after day, year after year, the 5-year deadline has passed in a flash. In this most difficult five years, her daughter graduated from college, got married, and gave birth to a granddaughter. More and more good news has allowed He Liling to slowly get out of the haze and face life more actively.
And even in this situation, her husband Li Tianqiu still does not forget to create romance for his wife: his wife likes jasmine, so he asked someone to buy more than a dozen jasmine seedlings, and pots are arranged neatly on the balcony. When the snow-white jasmine flowers bloom, the fragrance of flowers in the room also makes He Liling happier; wife likes to listen to music, so he plays music for his wife at home every day, and the song that plays the most is "Wife, Wife, I Love You". Li Tianqiu himself said that now I just hope that her quality of life will be higher and that she can do her best to take care of her so that she can be happy every day.
This is really what love should be like. In any case, we will never leave each other. We will rely on each other for a long time. I sincerely wish this couple from Foshan can live a better and better life.
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