In 2009, two strange couples sent their 5-year-old child to each other. They told the child that they asked them to stay at their uncle's house for a few days, and then they picked them up, but their eyes were full of reluctance, worry and determination.
Because, the two couples found out that the child they had raised for five years had been wrongly held in the hospital! After discussion, they decided to change their children and re-focus on their own children.
So what happened back then? Can two five-year-old children adapt to the new living environment? What kind of changes will happen to these two groups of families?
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(a)
All this starts with an argument at Bai Zhiwei's house.
One day in August 2009, Bai Zhiwei from Wenzhou took his 5-year-old son Bai Xiaofan to play outside. He happened to meet a neighbor and greeted him. While chatting, the neighbor said that Xiaofan was not like him, and he had heard this many times.
Bai Zhiwei
Although the family does not mention this matter, outsiders always say that they don’t look like this when they see the father and son. Bai Zhiwei looks clear, while Bai Xiaofan has obviously a round face, and her skin is darker than Bai Zhiwei, and her expression and expression are not at all similar to Bai Zhiwei.
Three people became tigers. After hearing this too much, Bai Zhiwei felt a little nervous, so he took Xiaofan to make an in-person appraisal.
Unexpectedly, the identification results show that they are really not related to . This result cannot be taken by anyone. Bai Zhiwei believes that his wife Fu Wen'e must have cheated, because Bai Zhiwei has worked in a factory over the years and often only goes home once every three or four months. Fu Wen'e also often goes on business trips. This life of being together for a long time leads to a high possibility of one of them cheating.
Bai Zhiwei could not stand his wife's betrayal, and he could not stand the child he loved for 5 years was not his own.
Bai Zhiwei's wife
Bai Zhiwei, who got the appraisal report, asked about this matter after returning home and scolded his wife Fu Wen'e for being shameless. Fu Wen'e was confused and looked at her husband who was very nice to her on weekdays and suddenly insulted her. She had difficulty telling her. In order to prove her innocence, Fu Wen'e took Bai Xiaofan to do an paternity test . The result obtained by
was unexpected to the whole family. Fu Wen'e and Bai Xiaofan are not related by blood ! So the whole family sat together to analyze that Bai Zhiwei and Fu Wen'e and Bai Xiaofan have no blood relationship, which undoubtedly shows that Bai Xiaofan is not his child, but the child has never left the family's sight since he was born. How could this happen?
At this moment, Fu Wen'e suddenly realized something. She recalled that after she gave birth to Xiaofan, the nurse took the child to take a shower. When she came back, the card on the child was gone and her appearance changed.
Bai Zhiwei's family of three took a photo
Fu Wen'e asked the nurse, why did the child change? The nurse replied that it is normal for a newborn child to change his complexion after taking a bath.
Fu Wen'e was very weak at that time, and after hearing what the nurse said, she didn't feel suspicious again. Now that I think about it, the child may have been wrongly held in the hospital.
So Bai Zhiwei rushed to the hospital where his wife gave birth. The hospital also attached great importance to Bai Zhiwei's intention. After all, it was a big accident that the child was held wrong due to the hospital's mistake.
Hospital delivery room
Fu Wen'e was born in a total of 12 children in a few days before and after giving birth, 8 of whom were boys. The hospital retrieved records of the parents of the 8 babies. When Bai Zhiwei saw the photo of Huang Qianwu, he decisively said that he didn't need to look down, it was him. Why is Bai Zhiwei so sure?
Bai Zhiwei took out Bai Xiaofan's photo and compared it. The outline, eyebrows, eyes, skin color, and expression cannot be said to be similar to Huang Qianwu, it is exactly the same. In order to avoid mistakes, the hospital notified Huang Qianwu to have a free physical examination. On the day Huang Qianwu came for the physical examination, Bai Zhiwei secretly observed him nearby. Isn’t this a big version of Bai Xiaofan? In Bai Zhiwei's heart, he had already determined that Huang Qianwu was the biological father of his son Bai Xiaofan.
Huang Qianwu
But the next thing made Bai Zhiwei difficult. How should he make the other party believe this? Although I have no good idea, this matter will be solved sooner or later.
Bai Zhiwei came to Huang Qianwu's doorstep according to the address provided by the hospital. Do you knock or not? At this time, Bai Zhiwei was hesitant and could only walk back and forth at Huang Qianwu's door. His hand stretched out retracted several times. He really didn't know how to explain this and returned to the car.
In the evening, Huang Qianwu angrily smashed Bai Zhiwei's car with his hand a few times. Bai Zhiwei was so scared that he quickly rolled down the window. Huang Qianwu pointed at Bai Zhiwei and said, , stay away from our home!
Huang Qianwu
(II)
Because of the unintentional words of the people around him, Bai Zhiwei took Xiaofan to do an in-person identification. The identification result made Bai Zhiwei feel like five thunderstorms. Later, his wife Fu Wen'e also conducted a paternity test, and Xiaofan was not his own child. There is only one place where the wrong child can be held - the hospital. Sure enough, Bai Zhiwei found information about Huang Qianwu, who is suspected to be Xiaofan's biological father, in the hospital. What would Huang Qianwu react to this matter?
As soon as Huang Qianwu got back to the community after get off work, a neighbor told him that someone had stood sneakily at his doorstep for a long time. He looked like a good person. Following the neighbor's guidance, Huang Qianwu found Bai Zhiwei's car.
Huang Qianwu
Bai Zhiwei quickly explained, is not what you think, our child hugged the wrong person in the hospital, your son is actually my son, and my son is actually your son.
Huang Qianwu looked at Bai Zhiwei incredibly and said, What are you talking nonsense during the day! After , Bai Zhiwei quickly took out a photo and a video. In the video, Bai Xiaofan was gnawing corn. Bai Zhiwei explained, "This is my son Bai Xiaofan. My wife and I have had paternity tests and are not related by blood. We went to the hospital to check. Your child was born on the same day and took a bath on the same day. Do you think he looks like you?"
After watching the video over and over again, Huang Qianwu felt dizzy. He invited Bai Zhiwei to his home and showed his wife the video. Bai Zhiwei also met his biological son Huang Xiaohui for the first time.
Huang Qianwu’s wife
Huang Qianwu’s wife Chen Peipei couldn’t accept this news. She knew that her son Xiaohui was not like a husband, but many children were not like fathers but like mothers, and some even looked like grandpas and uncles. It’s not to say that these children have no blood relationship with their parents. Besides, Bai Zhiwei's child was wrongly held. Did he decide that Xiaohui was his biological son just by just a photo and a video?
There is no evidence in front of you, and Chen Peipei will never believe what anyone says. At this time, Xiaohui's grandmother suddenly remembered something. After Chen Peipei had a caesarean section, the child was taken to take a shower by the nurse. After returning, the grandmother saw that the young grandson had a straight nose, her skin color turned white, and even her hand cards changed, so she asked the nurse why.
Nurse said that when a newborn is born, there is a layer of cervical garments. After taking a bath, the cervical garments will swell. It is normal for some changes. Besides, isn’t it a good thing for the child to look better?
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So grandma didn't say anything and hugged her grandson happily. After hearing what my grandmother said, Chen Peipei also felt that the child might have been brought in the wrong way in the hospital. The careless and irresponsible nurse ruined the two families and two innocent children. After
, Huang Qianwu and Chen Peipei went for a paternity test with Xiaohui. The result was that they had no blood relationship with Xiaohui. In order to be foolproof, Bai Zhiwei and his wife, Huang Xiaohui, Huang Qianwu and his wife and Bai Xiaofan respectively conducted paternity tests. Sure enough, the identification results showed that Huang Xiaohui was Bai Zhiwei's biological son, and Huang Qianwu and Bai Xiaofan were father and son who were replaced by falsehood.
The iron-like facts were in front of me, and the two families began to discuss what to do. Chen Peipei couldn't bear to let Xiaohui go. Xiaohui was well-behaved and sensible. Chen Peipei has devoted all his energy to Xiaohui over the years, and the child is 5 years old, and she has already remembered it. She doesn't want Xiaohui to have two parents' experiences in his growth.
Huang Qianwu's family of three took a photo
Huang Qianwu also agreed with his wife's idea, and they knew that their biological son Xiaofan was living well in the Bai family, so it would be better to make the mistake and continue to be like before.
But Bai Zhiwei disagreed. He thought it was true and false. Children will still know about this when they grow up. Instead of making the child more painful, it is better to change it back now. And how can you know where your biological son doesn’t recognize each other?
The family didn't want to change, and the family was determined to change. So Huang Qianwu and his wife decided to change the child as Bai Zhiwei meant. But for the children, their biological parents are strangers, and adoptive parents are relatives. How can they accept the new parents and new environment?
Bai Zhiwei bid farewell to his adopted son
The two families decided to visit each other frequently and wait until the child gets familiar with the new environment before taking back his biological son. However, the two children were unhappy when they made new friends and went to each other's house to visit him.
(III)
The two families learned that they were actually the adoptive parents of the child. After living in the other party’s house for 5 years, they finally decided to change the child. However, the child is not a toy or a puppy or a kitten. asked them to leave their parents who had been with him for 5 years and call others parents. Can the children accept it? Are Xiaofan and Xiaohui more willing to be with their biological parents or with their adoptive father?
Bai Xiaofan is usually lively and active. When he visits Huang Qianwu's house, he always sits on the sofa in a daze, and is not curious about the new environment at all. When Huang Xiaohui visits Bai Zhiwei's house, he doesn't say a word.
Bai Xiaofan
After returning to the adoptive parents' home, the two children also changed a little. They were even more attached to their parents. As long as someone left, the children kept asking, where are their fathers going? Where is mom going? When will you come back? When I went to kindergarten, I repeatedly reminded my parents to come and pick them up soon.
The adults quietly observed the children's reactions and finally decided that long pain was better than short pain. They simply packed up a few pieces of children's clothes and let them live in each other's home.
The child who did not see his adoptive parents was very fierce. Xiaohui went from being obedient and sensible to being irritable and irritable, and even had a tendency to violence. Even the slight changes in the light could make him yell. Xiaofan, who was originally lively and active, also changed a lot. Although Xiaofan was not as angry as Xiaohui, he often sat on the stool and sobbed quietly. When Chen Peipei saw Xiaohui crying, he asked him what was wrong. Xiaohui just kept holding it in, crying quietly, and didn't say a word.
Xiaohui
After half a year, neither of the two children have integrated into the new environment, nor have they accepted their biological parents, and have no friends in the kindergarten. They are depressed and even have a worse and worse appetite.
Both children don’t understand. They clearly said that they would come to pick them up in two days, so why didn’t they come? Why do they live in strangers’ homes?
Looking at the irritable Xiaofan, Chen Peipei always wondered how Xiaohui was doing when he arrived at the Bai family. When facing Xiaohui, Fu Wen'e was often worried about Xiaofan.
Chen Peipei
Looking at Xiaofan's birthday, Chen Peipei asked Xiaofan what birthday gift he wanted, but Xiaofan still didn't say anything, so Chen Peipei said, "Can you please let your parents in Wenzhou see you?"
Xiaofan suddenly looked up, and his eyes flashed with a long-lost light. After that, he waited for his parents to come every day. Seeing Xiaofan's reaction, Huang Qianwu asked Bai Zhiwei's family to celebrate the birthday of the child together.
Huang Qianwu and his parent-child Xiaofan
On his birthday, Xiaofan and Xiaohui were very happy. When they saw their adoptive parents, they got into their arms, grabbed them and refused to let go, completely ignored them and even avoided their biological parents who had been together for half a year.
The two little guys even did the same thing. They lay in the ears of their adoptive parents and whispered, "Can you take me back? Mom and Dad, I miss you so much!"
Seeing the child become much thinner at the home of their biological parents, thinking of the children's request, the two parents sat together again. Although they had tried to be with their own son, the family affection that had been established over the past five years was unsuccessful. Huang Qianwu and his wife took Xiaohui back, and Bai Zhiwei and his wife took Xiaofan back.
Swap life
The two children returned to their adoptive parents, returned to their familiar homes, and became the same person as themselves. Xiaofan was lively and active, and Xiaohui was well-behaved and cute. They love their current home more and will never go to the "uncle and aunt" home again.
The two families agreed to walk around frequently and ensure that they would take good care of their children. Although I have experienced shock, pain, entanglement, reluctance and confusion, the results are now the best.
However, someone should also be responsible for this situation today, that is, the hospital that delivers the two children - Wenzhou Friendly Hospital.
In 2010, Bai Zhiwei and his wife sued Wenzhou Friendship Hospital. The court ruled that the hospital compensate Bai Zhiwei and his wife with 90,000 yuan. Bai Zhiwei and his wife were dissatisfied and continued to appeal. The Wenzhou Intermediate Court upheld the original verdict, and then Bai Zhiwei and his wife continued to appeal.
Wenzhou Friendship Hospital
Now 13 years have passed. Xiaofan and Xiaohui are both adults and should be in high school. They have the careful care of their adoptive parents and the care of their biological parents, which is enough.
In recent years, there have been many news on the Internet that children have held wrong in hospitals. Behind each child who holds wrong, a family falls into a bottomless abyss, and the fate of the child has been completely rewritten. This irreversible consequence is only caused by the carelessness of the nurses and the irregularities of the hospital.
Even if the hospital can give the family a certain amount of financial compensation, who can let the family affection "return"? Who can change the dislocation of life?
Xiaofan and Xiaohui are undoubtedly unfortunate, but they are also lucky. Their biological parents and adoptive parents are both wealthy and have similar families. They are both healthy. The biological parents and adoptive parents respect their thoughts and feelings very much. Although they cannot choose blood, they can choose family affection. I hope they can maintain the family affection they choose and grow up healthily.
