Bai Zhiwei, who was in his prime, opened a factory in Lucheng, Wenzhou. His wife Ms. Fu gave birth to a son at the Huashan Friendship Hospital in Wenzhou five years ago and named him Bai Xiaofan.
Nowadays, he has a successful career and a happy family. However, in recent years, there has always been a shadow in his heart. Every time he takes his five-year-old son out, someone says behind his back: "Why is your son not like you!"
The speaker is unintentional, and the listener is intentional. When he returns home, Bai Zhiwei repeatedly looks at his son's appearance. The more he looks, the less he feels like him. Could it be that "Bai Xiaofan" is really not his own? Bai Zhiwei is confused.
The son looks so different from himself, which may be the most difficult thing for all fathers to accept, so he went to the hospital to do paternity test without telling his wife. The result of surprised him. The identification results showed that the son who had been raising for five years had no blood relationship with him .
Bai Zhiwei and his son Bai Xiaofan
What is going on? Bai Zhiwei's first reaction was that he suspected that his wife Fu Wen'e had betrayed her, but the subsequent development of the matter was far beyond his expectations.
The child is not his wife's biological child
After the paternity test, Bai Zhiwei rushed home angrily. As soon as he saw his wife, he threw the appraisal report in front of her and asked her if she had raised a novice outside.
The wife felt inexplicable. When she heard her husband's accusation, she shed tears on the spot and said, "I have worked hard to help you manage your business for so many years, and I have to worry about the affairs of the family. Do you actually doubt me?"
Fu Wen'e said with tears in her eyes: "Don't worry, I have never done anything to sorry for you. If you don't believe it, I can also go to the hospital for paternity test."
Fu Wen'e was very nervous along the way. She felt that this matter was full of fog. This child was not her husband's, so how could it be mine? But if it weren't for us, who could it be?
came to the appraisal center with doubts in his heart, but the result surprised the family. The son who had been raising for five years was not related to Fu Wen'e.
Bai Zhiwei, Fu Wen'e and his son who have been raising him for five years are clear, but the sky has collapsed. Although Fu Wen'e is mentally prepared, she really confirmed that she was wrong and it is still difficult to accept. After all, this child was raised little by little by little by little.
Xiaofan is not his own child, so where is his own child? Bai Zhiwei and his wife called their father and mother respectively, and several people sat together to hold a family meeting to review Xiaofan's growth.
The family began to try to recall every detail after the child was born, but the child has always been favored by all kinds of pampering at home and never let him run around alone.
The more you think about it, the more strange it becomes. Until the mother mentioned a detail, the child had left the Bai family's vision at one time, that is, when he was just born, the child was most likely to be held wrongly, because the characteristics of the newborn child are not obvious, and a negligence may cause mistakes.
bai Zhiwei recalled that on the third day of the child's birth, during the routine bathing process, the sign on his body disappeared when he came back. If something abnormal happened, there must be a monster. Could it be that the hospital accidentally hugged the wrong child when bathing the child.
Bai Zhiwei hurriedly drove to the hospital where the child was born, Wenzhou Huashan Friendship Hospital. After hearing the news, the hospital director was also very nervous because this was a big event in other people's life, and he could not be careless.
So the hospital immediately retrieved the information from that year. During that period, a total of 12 children were born in the obstetrics department of the hospital, and the hospital inspected six of these baby boys.
During the investigation, Bai Zhiwei, who was standing by, just glanced at it, asked the staff to stop, and said, "Stop looking through it, this must be the case. Print a copy of the information for me!"
Why did Bai Zhiwei conclude at a glance that the man was Xiaofan's biological father? Because his son Xiaofan looks exactly the same as Huang Qianwu in the photo, he is just carved from the same mold.
has made some progress, so is my child really in Huang Qianwu’s house? Bai Zhiwei, who wanted to learn the results as soon as possible, rushed to Huang Qianwu's house.
mystery was revealed, raising each other's children for five years
Bai Zhiwei came to the Huang family after inquiring from many sources. As soon as he met, he was shocked by Huang Qianwu. He felt that this person had something wrong, because Bai Zhiwei's first words when he saw him were "Your son is not your son, your son is in my house."
Huang Qianwu
. Huang Qianwu felt that this uninvited guest, and said that the child was carried wrong, which was simply a destruction of his family. He was honest and decent, and he did not have any romantic debts in the past. He felt that Bai Zhiwei was suddenly visiting was inexplicable.
Faced with Bai Zhiwei's request to see his son Xiaohui, Huang Qianwu refused because he could not accept that his son, who had been raising for five years, suddenly became someone else's family.
Bai Zhiwei did not explain too much, and took out the DV and played him the scene of Xiaofan eating corn that he had filmed. After watching the video, Huang Qianwu was stunned and his mind began to become active. Could it be that he had changed the wrong way?
video lingered in the hearts of the Huang couple for a long time and could not be removed. Huang Qianwu felt that his peaceful life was about to face huge changes.
Huang Qianwu's wife Chen Peipei said: "I originally thought that Bai Zhiwei, who was suddenly visiting, was talking nonsense, or simply suspicious. After seeing the photos, she was shocked because the children in the picture revealed the shadow of Huang Qianwu everywhere."
Although the children in the picture look very much like Huang Qianwu, Chen Peipei believes that this is not sure that the child was holding the wrong one, because his son Xiaohui also looks very similar to him.
Huang Qianwu and Bai Xiaofan compare
At this time, Huang Qianwu's mother, who heard the news, revealed a small detail of that year, that is, the second day after his child was born, the child's nose suddenly became high. The Huang family was very confused about this, so they asked the head nurse what was going on.
The head nurse explained: "Your child was born at night. When the child was born, he had a layer of cervical clothes on it. He washed it off after taking a shower in the morning. Once the cervical clothes were washed, he would naturally expand. Isn't it good for the child to become beautiful?"
As the child's grandmother, although he had doubts, after the head nurse said this, he didn't think there was any problem.
The truth is approaching little by little, and Huang Qian and his wife can no longer escape, so they decided to take their son Xiaohui to do a paternity test. The final result showed that the two had no biological relationship with their son Huang Xiaohui.
The news was like a bolt from the blue for the two of them. They stood at the door and hesitated, feeling that things were developing too fast and too unexpected.
Chen Peipei recalled: "I didn't know how I came back that day. It seemed that everything and everyone were no longer in my original position."
Two families raised each other's children
So was the child really wrongly? To reveal this answer. Ten days later, the Bai family and the Huang family officially gathered together and conducted a cross-paternity test. The final result showed that the child was indeed holding the wrong one. They raised each other's son for five years.
is not a biological child than a biological child
. What happened has happened. Then the next step is to discuss the child raising matters. Whether to make the mistake or let the child return to the original family. This is a very difficult choice, and no matter how you choose, it is a cruel thing.
Bai Zhiwei feels that since things have happened, it is better to change them quickly while the child is still young and the pain is not as good as the pain is short than the pain in the long term. Perhaps it can minimize the damage.
Bai Zhiwei was firm and said, "Even if you steal, you should steal the child back. Deep feelings are not an excuse, and blood relationship is above everything else."
Huang Qianwu's father learned the news and said to his son: "What's the point of living? The good grandson who he holds in his palm and hurts is not his own in the end." He was helpless and unable to accept it.
This incident undoubtedly made a desperate attempt to tear a hole from the complete family. Huang Qianwu was reluctant to let it go. He asked the Bai family: "No matter what, I have raised Xiaohui for five years. Although I have no blood relationship, this relationship is indeed true and not adulterated. If you rashly let the two children go to a new family environment, it will have a great impact on the children's psychological state. Instead of breaking the growth trajectory of the two children in this way, it is better to make mistakes and let the two children move more as brothers. , When they were 18 years old, they asked them to choose where to go! "
Huang Qianwu and his wife and adopted son
Bai Zhiwei had a great opinion on this proposal and firmly opposed it. He felt that although the two children looked very lively and cute, the love they paid for in the past five years was similar, but the child was still young now, and it was good for both families to exchange it early. It was a kind of harm for both parties to stay together.
Bai Zhiwei's firm attitude dispelled the idea of leaving the child with the Huang family, and the abrupt and stiff exchange would cause panic to the child after all, so the two sides decided to move around first to establish an intimate relationship for the child.
The Huang family is in a country town. Not long after the incident spread, a troublemaker teased Xiaohui with this incident and said to him: "You are not your parents' biological child. Your dad will come to pick you up in two days."
Every time he hears this, Xiaohui, who was originally lively and playful, will blush and argue with others. Every night, there will be a burst of children's screams at home. Xiaohui speaks in his sleep and calls "Mom". Every time Chen Peipei hears this, his originally sad heart becomes even more painful.
Huang Qianwu also began to become hesitant and repeatedly delayed the exchange time. Faced with the hesitation of the Huang family, Bai Zhiwei disagreed with the opinions and sent his child Xiaofan to the Huang family, so that the child could develop a relationship with them, and then took the two children to his home after staying for a few days.
During dinner, Xiaohui, who had just returned from his grandfather's house, found that there was an extra child in the house. The mother told him: "This is the younger brother from Wenzhou . Your little brother, you two must get along well."
Xiaofan and Xiaohui
Xiaofan 0Night, the two children slept in the same bed, and Chen Peipei stared blankly, her heart was as thorny as a knife. She really wanted to be good to her biological son Xiaofan, but five years of getting along made her feel closer to Xiaohui.
Just as Bai Zhiwei, who was impatient to send his child to the Huang family, returned home. The moment he opened the door, he felt like he had eaten bitter gourd and had no life in the room. Only then did he realize that Xiaofan, who called his father every day, had left, and Bai Zhiwei's wife even hugged her husband and started crying. Five years of relationships could not be easily cut off.
Rebuilding family affection is not easy
What happened next was even more unexpected to the parents of both sides. Xiaofan, who was originally cheerful and lively, became taciturn when he arrived at the Huang family. Chen Peipei said: "Sometimes he really wanted to go to the bathroom, but he was unwilling to tell her that even if he turned on the light and venting a little louder, he would be afraid."
Chen Peipei felt that this was his biological son no matter how much he said it. His restraint and unfamiliarity with him made it difficult for her to accept, and how to explain the current complicated situation to him is also a big problem.
The next day Xiaofan came to Huang's house, and every day he opened his eyes and called to look for his mother. No matter how much Chen Peipei coaxed him, he couldn't coax him well. In desperation, he could only take him to the supermarket to buy toys and snacks to distract him.
Xiaofan's biological mother Chen Peipei
Even if it is delicious and fun, it is difficult for him to stop crying. His heart is full of his original mother.
One day, the two children started fighting while playing. Chen Peipei picked up his biological son Xiaofan, and Huang Qianwu picked up his adopted son Xiaohui. Just after the two were in a stable mood, the adopted son walked to Chen Peipei and said to her, "Mom, you no longer love me alone."
The words of the adopted son pierced Chen Peipei's heart like a needle. She was less and less willing to face the fact that the two were going to separate.
When Bai Zhiwei got his wish and took his biological son Xiaohui to the house, he realized that his feelings for his adopted son were far beyond his imagination.
He looked at the biological son in front of him who would not call him his father, or even refused to call him "Uncle". Bai Zhiwei's eyes were wet. He suddenly realized that his five-year relationship with his adopted son could not be easily replaced by blood.
After the week of emotional cultivation, both parties asked the child whether he was willing to go to his biological parents' home. Then, the naive answers of the two children made people feel distressed and made parents feel heartbroken, because their answers revealed deep reluctance.
Both children are more willing to stay in the home of their adoptive parents. Five years of life have left a deep mark on them. The good deeds of biological parents to them this week cannot make them stay at their biological parents' home with peace of mind. They only have their parents who have been calling for for five years.
Bai Zhiwei said goodbye to his adopted son
But unexpected relatives found that they couldn't wait for the long-term relationship to cultivate their relationship, because too long pulling will only hurt the two families continuously. Maybe putting the past and a beautiful tomorrow will come, so the two families decided to make up their minds to completely exchange for the children.
On the day of departure, both parents used a kind lie to take their biological son away. In order not to let the child notice, Chen Peipei did not clean up the child's toys, clothes, and so on, just because she was afraid that the child would doubt it.
However, when he left, the child was still crying heartbrokenly, hugged Chen Peipei's thighs, and cried to her, "Mom, mom, don't send me away."
Chen Peipei continued to soothe the child's emotions, and then he agreed to follow him. When he left, he said to Chen Peipei: "Mom, you have to come and pick me up early!"
For the Bai couple and the Huang couple, this may be the biggest lie they have told the child. The two families don't know when they will meet again this time.
filed a lawsuit and received a compensation of 90,000
for the six months after the blood was thicker than water, which did not allow them to rebuild their intimacy with their children, and the psychological state of both children had significant problems.
Bai Zhiwei's wife Fu Wen'e
It turns out that after Xiaohui, who was well-behaved and sensible, came to Bai Zhiwei's house, he was often irritated and would tend to be violent from time to time. It turns out that the naughty and naughty Xiaofan has become introverted and shy in the Huang family. He occasionally wakes up from his sleep in the middle of the night and dares not cry loudly.
Chen Peipei has been racking his brains to make the child happy, but the child is unwilling to show her too much smile.
When Xiaofan's birthday approached, Chen Peipei asked him: "A few days will be your birthday. Who do you want to come? "
He lowered his head and didn't say anything. Chen Peipei asked again: "Do you want the parents in Wenzhou to come?" He didn't dare to look directly at Chen Peipei. After a while, Xiaofan whispered: "Can you call them to come?"
Both families took the children back, but they brought unreliable harm to the two families, because the five years of emotions are not traces left by pencils, and can be easily wiped with an eraser.
According to the agreement between the two parties, they will not be able to see their children who have been raised for a long time, because once they meet in the middle, it is easy to rebuild their long-term relationship into a bubble.
Huang Qianwu and his wife
I hope that both children can eventually eliminate the shadows and completely integrate into the home they should have lived in the moment of their birth. I also hope that the four parents can heal the pain in their children's hearts and let their children grow up healthily.
. For the Wenzhou Friendly Hospital involved, the two families decided to take up legal weapons to extend their rights.
In April 2010, Bai Zhiwei formally filed an appeal, demanding that friendly hospitals compensate them for their compensation costs of 360,000 yuan, including mental losses.
Wenzhou Friendship Hospital stated in court that since the plaintiff discovered that there was a difference in the appearance of the baby, why did not ask the hospital to find out immediately? The child came to the hospital when he was five years old and said that the child had held the child wrongly. The hospital did not evade responsibility. He immediately organized a working group to help find his biological son. The hospital could compensate him, but the deposit amount needed to be re-examined.
In the end, the court held that during the hospital, the hospital should ensure the safety and identity of the child. Because the hospital's negligence caused the two families to separate for five years, Wenzhou Friendship Hospital was sentenced to compensate the plaintiff for mental damage, paternity test fees and other expenses, and issued a written apology letter.
Bai Zhiwei
Due to a negligence in the hospital, it brought deep tear to the two happy families. Fortunately, both children found their own biological families at the age of five. I believe that as long as parents continue to give love and warmth, the children will eventually accept their biological families.
Regarding this incident, people inevitably reminded people of "Yao Ce who made a mistake in his life for 28 years". When they discovered 28 years later, things had changed, and Yao Ce, who suffered from severe liver disease, eventually died of death. What do you think about this in front of the screen of
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