Jay Chou officially announced Kun Ling is pregnant with the third child and is the wife of the king. Why can Kun Ling become a big winner in life? --introduction. In the photos of
, Kun Ling's pregnant belly is already very obvious, and Jay Chou wrote that he originally planned to announce this good news after he was born, but now he should not be able to hide it.
Jay Chou and Kun Ling have been married for seven years, and they have given birth to two children together. It seems that the arrival of these two children has not had much impact on the work of mother Kun Ling, but it has a great impact on father Jay Chou. Fans urged the album to be updated for several years but failed.
However, he is also the "Sister-in-Law" and has a good hand that others can't get for several lifetimes. However, Lee Jinglei is much more miserable than Kun Ling, who has a happy and fulfilling life. Why are the two couples who are also "Sir-in-Law" in marriages very different? So, where is Kunling's charm? In fact, it is mainly reflected in 4 points.
1. Kun Ling is very independent before and after marriage
Kun Ling, who became Jay Chou’s wife, originally had no need to do anything at home, but whether it was before or after marriage, Kun Ling was a woman who worked hard enough and independent enough.
Before marrying Jay Chou, she was a member of an idol group. Although she was not very famous, she still worked very hard. After that, she has been in the entertainment industry as a fashion model. After becoming the "Sir-in-Law Sister", she has not slacked off and still insists on working during her pregnancy.
Not only that, even when Kun Ling was on many variety shows, he never consumed Jay Chou, or he was a big shot because he was the "king of the king's wife". She has founded her own fashion brands, women's clothing brands, contact lens brands, etc. Judging from these experiences, Kun Ling is a woman who loves work and has great interests and hobbies.
2. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious
As we all know, Jay Chou is a very filial person. Before getting married, he had already discussed with Kun Ling to live with his mother, and Kun Ling is also a very "clear" daughter-in-law.
She will bring gifts to her mother-in-law when she comes back from a business trip and will accompany her mother-in-law to church for worship. Kun Ling respects and filial to her mother-in-law, and knows how to keep a distance between them, so that the distance between them and their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be more harmonious.
In contrast, Li Jinglei, from the handwritten letter posted by Wang Leehom , it can be seen that Wang Leehom's parents did not like this daughter-in-law from the beginning. Shortly after getting married, I wanted to divorce Wang Leehom, but later I had three children one after another, so I didn’t get a divorce. As for the divorce in the end, some insiders also revealed that it has a lot to do with the bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
cannot be recognized by his family, nor can he let his husband die from one end. It cannot be said that Li Jinglei has problems. It can only be said that their marriage was destined to be in a good ending from the beginning.
3. Pay attention to personal fashion and external dress
Although Kun Ling is already a mother of two children, she still pays great attention to dressing and has a relatively high-quality consumption concept. She is dressed appropriately, and is fashionable and not too ostentatious. She always looks graceful and generous.
And Li Jinglei, who is also the "king of the king's wife", does not seem to have a big-name bag and wears a piece of clothing for a long time. Of course, this has a lot to do with personal consumption concepts and preferences, and it is not necessarily suitable for everyone. How can a woman who doesn’t care about loving herself?
thrift is a good thing, but her vision of choosing clothes is the same as her vision of choosing men. Many clothes give people the feeling of being like "yellow-faced women". On the contrary, Kun Ling has his own aesthetics both before and after marriage. He will not be dressed as a "good wife and good mother" just because he has transformed into his mother's identity, but will always remain as a young man.
4. Don’t interfere in Jay Chou’s career, but only focus on herself
When she was dating Jay Chou, Kun Ling was still an unknown little person, but she has always been very low-key and never actively demands disclosure or strives for benefits.
Even after the two got married, they never interfered in Jay Chou’s career. Jay Chou has always followed Kun Ling’s footsteps. Journalists often photograph Jay Chou accompanying Kun Ling to participate in the fashion week show, or participating in some activities that Kun Ling is interested in.
As for Li Jinglei, as soon as she entered the door, she took over all the work matters of Wang Leehom from her mother-in-law. Although her education is not low, interfering in her husband's career means that there will be frequent conflicts at work, love will deteriorate, and she will also form hatred with her mother-in-law. This step is a big mistake.
is also the "Sister-in-Law". Kun Ling can not only get the support of her husband, but also gain the likes of her mother-in-law. Although Li Jinglei is a victim in her marriage with Wang Leehom, she also has certain shortcomings in handling the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and her attitude towards marriage.
Kun Ling and Li Jinglei have different attitudes towards love and marriage, which also destined that their marriage will have a different ending.
