Before I finished writing an article, I heard news of Wang Leehom’s apology. Wang Leehom, thinking about it all over and over, felt that continuing to tear it would be unfavorable to him. Think about it, let’s apologize. Perhaps, only in this way can we save something. Let's take

An article was published. Before I finished writing it, I heard the news of Wang Leehom’s apology. Wang Leehom, thinking about it all over and over, felt that continuing to tear it would be unfavorable to him. Think about it, let’s apologize. Perhaps, only in this way can we save something. Let's take a look at his apology.

He said this: "Thinking about it, men should still take on all responsibilities. I no longer make any explanation or defense. I have not managed a good marriage, causing trouble to my family, and not giving the public a good image of idols. It is all my fault. Here, I will apologize to my parents and children. Since I have divorced, it is meaningless to argue about the past. From now on, I will pay attention to my words and deeds, and will take on a father, son and public figure. As a responsibilities, take care of Jinglei and her children as much as possible in terms of financial life. I am going to temporarily withdraw from work and leave time to accompany my parents and children to make up for the harm caused by this storm. Jinglei, we still have to take care of the three children together. I will transfer the house you live in to your name. I will also participate in the raising and education of the children throughout the process and bear the cost. This matter must be mainly due to my improper handling. I apologize to everyone again. "

To be honest, it is still a bit gratifying to see such an apology. If you make a mistake, especially a public figure, you are caught by others and you know that you are clear about it and you are actually wrong, don’t make a quibble. Sometimes, being honest and facing mistakes is much smarter than deliberately covering them up or even trying to cover them up.

If it weren't so excessive at the beginning, Li Jinglei wouldn't have angrily quarreled, and would have thought about the old love and save some face. Even if a couple breaks up, why do you need to take ruthless actions? If you owe something, giving more compensation is what a person should do the most. With Wang Leehom's apology, Li Jinglei should be relieved in her heart, and the marriage storm between them will come to an end for a while. The melon-eating crowd can disperse. What I want to say today is that the party who betrays the marriage after divorce should do two things: one is to think left, one is to think right.

The so-called left-leaning thinking means reflecting on one's past and seeing if one's behavior has indeed hurt the marriage. If a person does something that is sorry for his marriage and something that is sorry for his partner. You can't feel at ease. Even if the other party has problems, there are some things you are not satisfied with. You can completely terminate the marriage, let go of the marriage, and get along well and break up. There is no need. On the one hand, it enjoys the benefits brought by marriage, and on the other hand, it complains about the troubles brought by marriage, making it impossible for me to do whatever I want. If you don’t want to lose your marriage, or feel that you can’t get rid of your marriage, you can’t wait to make mistakes. Such a person is really a matter of character. So, either you will not be discovered by making mistakes, or you will not make mistakes at all. Marriage problems, resolved within marriage. No problem can be your reason for betraying your marriage.

and think about it right, that is, think backwards. Although I have divorced, if a couple has fallen in love, they should cherish the fate of holding hands and leave a good impression on each other. If you have a child, you should also think about it carefully. Even if the couple separates, they become strangers. However, because of the child, there is still an inevitable connection between the two. Two people still need to give their children a fatherly and maternal love that is not short of weight, and try their best to reduce the adverse effects on the children due to the divorce of your husband and wife. This is what a person should consider and do the most.

Wang Leehom said something in his apology letter, such as "From now on, I will pay attention to my words and deeds, and will assume the responsibility of a father, son and public figure, and take care of Jinglei and the children as much as possible in terms of financial life." And "Jinglei, we still have to take care of three children together. I will transfer the house you live in to your name. I will also participate in the raising and education of the children and bear the expenses." I think this is the style that a man should do. Making mistakes means making mistakes, and you must bear the responsibilities you should bear.

It is better to be honest and divide the common property of a couple.There is no need to give more, just hope to share it fairly.

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