"I prefer the days when there are people who control their emotions. The best state of a person is to be alone, quiet and at ease. There is no need to deal with other people's thoughts, nor do you have to deliberately judge other people's thoughts, accompany yourself and return to your true self."
Being alone means reading a book quietly, a cup of tea, a beam of sunshine, and being free and easy.
Don’t compete with others, don’t compete with others, be calm as water, don’t care about those who are not worth it, and don’t get entangled with difficult things.
Don’t talk deeply to everyone. Loneliness is the norm. People who enjoy loneliness have a clean mind and are unwilling to walk with despicable people, and they are even more unwilling to live with ugliness.
is calm and wait for the rewards of time, and the future will last for a long time.
Marquez " Hundred Years of Loneliness ": "The essence of life is that when a person lives, he should not have too much expectations for others. We always want to find someone who can share the pain and sadness for ourselves, but most of the time, our earth-shaking pain is just dust that is brushed by others. Perhaps the loneliness of adults is to save sorrow and joy."
Life is not without perfection, it is the norm. Look open, think through, let go of obsession, and not let obsession follow like a shadow, which is perfect.
You should never try to be the perfect person in the eyes of others, don’t live in other people’s cognition, don’t find your own sense of existence in other people’s world!
In this way, others will not only not be able to treat it calmly, but will also be panicked and have nowhere to let it go.
The relationship between people is a comfortable relationship. Any relationship that is too close is a disaster.
There should be a sense of boundary between people, and don’t be as good as wearing the same pair of pants. If one day others don’t like you, you must take back the pants you wore together, then you can only be naked and let your dignity be wiped out.
Don’t deliberately care about other people’s feelings. You can’t empathize with it. In the eyes of others, you are acting.
There is no need to repeatedly ponder other people’s thoughts. What others think, what others think, the thoughts in others’ hearts are all secrets, and it is all privacy if others don’t want to say them.
Don’t hide your emotions, vent your emotions appropriately, release your bad emotions, and don’t be frustrated.
Fear of people who are alone because they are afraid of the fear of staying alone in a quiet environment.
Everyone's life will not stay in the bustle forever, and everything will eventually become calm after the bustle.
Someone said, "Being alone is a ability, being alone is the sublimation of the soul"; I said, it would be better to say that being alone is the best enjoyment for a person. Enjoy the end of prosperity and enjoy the peace of mind.
is not afraid of the worldly vision, calmly and calmly say "forget it", forget it, not forgiveness, make yourself stronger and stronger.
People who have the ability to be alone can not only enjoy the beauty of the prosperous world, but also accept the desolation of autumn leaves falling. The four cycles of spring, summer, autumn and winter are all under your control.
Learn to be alone in the noisy! Slow down and see the clouds rolling in the sky; listen to the long flow of water in the river; feel the light and shadow of a person with your heart, lonely and comfortable.
Buddha said: "Suffering is not suffering, happiness is not happiness, it is just a temporary obsession. If you stick to one thought, you will be trapped in one thought; if you let go of one thought, you will be in your heart."
The world will meet many people, and many things cannot be forced. Why not relax your mind, let it go, follow the flow, and follow the will.
Yang Jiang said: "Being alone is the best cultivation for a person."
Learn to be alone! Give the soul and the body a gathering, wash away the dew and enjoy the peace of the world. Being alone is a sweet candy in the spiritual world of life, and it is also a feeling for growing up on the road of life.
Use alone to consciously restrain your life behavior and control your desires and emotions.
Use self-discipline to practice the ideals of life and create life sunflower . Being alone will keep you away from the confusion of family matters and make life shine.
Loneliness is the joy of a person, and carnival is the loneliness of a group of people.
Thoreau said: "I like being alone, I have never met a better partner than being lonely."
Learn to be alone, grow up quietly, calm your heart, and stop being impetuous, and quietly become the person you like.
Zhou Guoping said: "The best state in life is rich and quiet. I think that such a state can only be reached when you are alone."
Excellent people can always be low-key and do things in a high-profile manner. Only by working hard can you raise your head and chest to see the world you have not seen again.
"No one has ever asked about it for ten years, and he will become famous in one fell swoop." He studied hard quietly and learned knowledge, and made a splash one day. This is also the charm of being alone.
Give yourself a world of solitude! I will give myself a book, a cup of tea, and a tranquility of the sun!
original; the clouds are calm and the wind is light, and the pictures are from the Internet!
