18 has passed, and Xiaocao, the daughter of Yang Jing and Zhang Zhongxin, will graduate from Public Security University this year.
18, Yang Jing thought that Zhang Zhongxin would scold Zhang Zhongxin once. When she was interviewed by reporters, she also scolded: Zhang Zhongxin is really cruel. He cares about leaving. He asked for a promise from me, and asked me to spend my whole life doing it. After 18 years, Yang Jing has fulfilled her promise to Zhang Zhongxin: concentrate on bringing the grass bigger, and the grass has become a talent.
Yesterday, May 20th, was the day for young people to confess their love to each other. Police sister-in-law Yang Jing said, "I will never forgive him for the rest of my life." She also said that it was Zhang Zhongxin and his daughter who finally made her live like she is now.
When he was dying
He asked her for a promise
In June 2001, Zhang Zhongxin's physical condition worsened and various indicators pointed to death, but he still had three days.
Everyone around him asked Yang Jing: "Did you have anything else that didn't agree to him?"
Yang Jing remembered it very clearly. It was 3 pm on June 15th. Zhang Zhongxin’s request to his wife was: “Don’t do anything else in the future, and focus on raising his daughter.”
Yang Jing did not give him an answer that matched his expectations, but just said, “I will do my best.” Zhang Zhongxin refused to leave. That year, Yang Jing was only 40 years old, and Zhang Zhongxin refused to remarry Yang Jing.
Yang Jing nodded and said, "Don't worry, I will do nothing else in my life, and focus on bringing my daughter up." As soon as I finished speaking, the heartbeats dropped and the breathings dropped on Zhang Zhongxin's monitor, everything quickly returned to zero.
busy to help others
He doesn’t even have time to have the New Year’s Eve dinner
Zhang Zhongxin was a community police officer at Hangzhou Xixi Police Station during his lifetime. He is busy cutting hair, taking a bath, buying rice, buying oil, carrying gas tanks for the elderly in the community every day... He has changed five communities in 15 years since he was a police officer, and he has done these things frequently.
18 years ago, there were very few such police officers.
Zhang Zhongxin was only 43 years old when he died of illness. During his lifetime, he won more than 20 honorary titles including National Outstanding Community Serviceman and National Outstanding People's Police. After his death, he was posthumously awarded the second-level hero and model by the Ministry of Public Security.
Zhang Zhongxin’s story was first reported by Qianjiang Evening News. The reporter went to the community for an interview and only notified ten residents in advance. However, when the reporter arrived, the entrance of the community was crowded with people, all of whom came spontaneously because the policeman treated them as parents and brothers and sisters during his lifetime. Zhang Zhongxin has been away for a long time, and the chalk words "Sheng Mourning Comrade Zhang Zhongxin" on the community blackboard are still painted in new ways by residents.
A policeman often helps community residents do chores. Is this considered inappropriate? At that time, there was a fierce debate within the public security system. But an indisputable fact is that the area under Zhang Zhongxin has always been one of the communities with the lowest incidence rate.
Yang Jing said that he is everyone’s Zhang Zhongxin, not hers. After 15 years of marriage, Zhang Zhongxin only had New Year's Eve dinner at home three or four times, and they were all late. A few days before the New Year, Zhang Zhongxin was the busiest one and wanted to help the elderly in the community buy rice and oil to get haircuts.
When Yang Jing was angry, she would say, "You manage others every day, who will do the family's affairs?" Zhang Zhongxin let Yang Jing scold him, and was said a lot, and sometimes she criticized her: "Yang Jing, why are you so unloving?"
Yang Jing's anger was that Zhang Zhongxin helped others carry gas tanks, but she carried gas tanks at home. When she asked Zhongxin, he was confident: "Those are all widowed people, and they can't do it anymore. If you can't do it, I will help you."
Later, as long as Zhang Zhongxin returns late, Yang Jing will make a cross on the calendar. I fought for three months in a row, except for one day, all the other ones were forked.
Under the nose
The baby son disappeared
Yang Jing didn't know that her husband was actually very kind.
But his son Kunkun disappeared under the nose of this policeman's husband. That was before Zhang Zhongxin's youngest brother got married. Zhang Zhongxin asked for leave to take his son, borrowed a car, and asked his friend to drive to Suzhou . My friend was not familiar with the road, so he drove down the embankment on the village road. The son was unable to rescue him in the end.
The departure of his son almost made Yang Jing collapse. Zhang Zhongxin also cried endlessly, beating himself while crying.
Speaking of the scene at that time, Yang Jing said that her heart was broken.
The accident of his son made Zhang Zhongxin even more silent. During those years, he had been immersed in the residential area for more time.
More than 20 years ago, he was injured in a car accident while working, had blood transfusions in a small clinic, and then hepatitis. He had liver pain and did not go to the hospital in time. When he finally found out, his ascites were already very serious.
At that time, Zhang Zhongxin always said to Yang Jing, "I will accompany you more in the future." On his dying day, he hugged his wife and cried: "I am sorry for you and your son in this life, I will repay you in the next life!"
In the fifth year after his son left, Zhang Zhongxin passed away.
If you want to live
, you must work hard
At that time, Xiaocao was less than 5 years old, and Zhang Zhongxin passed away. Yang Jing collapsed again.
Her periarthritis of the shoulder was so severe that her arms could not be lifted. Sometimes she couldn't stand up even while sitting, so she could only let her daughter push her up from behind. Because she couldn't lift her arms, Yang Jing cut her long hair short and she couldn't always let her daughter comb her hair.
Once she went home late, and her daughter said to her timidly: "Mom, I cooked the rice. Do you think it tastes delicious?" Yang Jing ate the raw rice with tears in her eyes, while praising her daughter: "It's delicious!"
Yang Jing said that she was really unable to hold on anymore, and she almost exhausted all her strength while living. But she must take good care of her daughter. For her daughter, she must do everything she can to save money and make money.
After Zhang Zhongxin left, his family owed a lot of debts. Yang Jing has an accounting certificate, and her income can support herself and her daughter, but to pay off her debts and raise her daughter in multiple aspects, that is far from enough. Back then, everyone’s monthly salary was only one or two thousand, and a piano class cost at least 100 yuan. Yang Jing said to the teacher: I will introduce you to 10 students. Can you give me some discounts?
The teacher’s home is in Nanxingqiao, and their home is on Wantang Road. It takes more than an hour to ride a bicycle. From Xiaocaoju Kindergarten to Junior High School, the mother and daughter rushed over like this.
Yang Jing said to herself: If you want to live and live a good life, you must work hard.
Wait until Xiaocao went to junior high school, Yang Jing suddenly realized that as a mother, she was about to retire. Yang Jing dares not get sick anymore, it costs too much money. After hearing the doctor's words, she walked into the gym. His daughter lives in school, and Yang Jing rode her bike to the gym after work, first doing yoga and then practicing equipment. As I practiced, my heart was fine, my anemia was basically cured, and more importantly, my spirits were better.
After retirement, she went to find a job, but no one wanted her at first. The little sister said, don’t you have an accounting certificate? Do you do finance. Yang Jing went to work in the company. She pretended to know everything, but in fact she often asked someone to ask what to do, so she could only learn from scratch.
Now Yang Jing has been involved in accounting work in many companies, and she still goes to the gym every day.
She has always been connected to him in her life
. Yang Jing said that if Zhang Zhongxin was still there, she would not be like this today. It was Zhang Zhongxin and Xiaocao who made her the same thing she is today.
The daughter became a policewoman, as if she was destined to be reincarnated. Xiaocao has the kindness of his father, and Yang Jing looked at her daughter and seemed to see Zhang Zhongxin again.
For so many years, Yang Jing has always remembered how good Zhang Zhongxin is to her. Yang Jing likes to eat stinky tofu, and Zhang Zhongxin doesn't touch this thing, but he often buys it home and covers his nose and cooks it for her to eat. In winter, Yang Jing's hands will have frostbite. Zhang Zhongxin did not let her touch cold water and rub her hands patiently. Yang Jing said that in fact, Zhang Zhongxin’s relationship is very delicate and he just forgets himself as soon as he works.
Many years have passed. Once, Yang Jing passed by the Construction Community. An old lady recognized her and asked her if she was Zhang Zhongxin’s wife. She also said that she had lost weight now. The ordinary greeting of
was a great comfort to her. Yang Jing suddenly felt that she had always been connected with Zhang Zhongxin in her life.
Everyone has their own real important things to do. For Zhang Zhongxin, it is to help others; for Yang Jing, it is to fulfill the promise.
