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Some sociologists conducted four surveys on the number of children in the family and the impact on the happiness level of the family. The families of these subjects were between the ages of 20 and 89 respectively. They found that after the parents were 60 years old, the happiness level of the second-child family would be greater than that of the only child family!
Why will families with more children be happier after entering the old age? Mainly because they have three trump cards
The first trump cards: brothers and sisters take care of each other
Jin Hui is my elementary school classmate. She is very beautiful, but after she graduated from junior high school, she didn't go to school and went out to work to go to school for her younger brother and sister.
Because she is beautiful, she also met a boyfriend in the city. Her boyfriend has a bachelor's degree and has a house in the city. After getting married, her boyfriend opened a convenience store for her. Later, Jin Hui brought her younger brothers and sisters to the city. Now brothers and sisters support each other.
Jin Hui's parents want to go back to their hometown and live in their hometown. They plant a little land. Usually, their sons and daughters will give them some pocket money. If they don't want to stay in their hometown, they will go to their sons and daughters' house for a few days. They live a leisurely and comfortable life.
The second trump card: my parents are sick and someone takes care of
Colleague Mi Li is a local from Guangzhou, I am an only child, and my husband is also an only child . My parents have two houses on my side and my husband has two houses on my side. The family conditions can be said to be very good.
She didn't want to have another child after giving birth to a son. Although she had some family background, she didn't want to make trouble. didn't want to reduce her quality of life.
But since the old man got sick once, she sighed that she should have one more. It happened that her own mother broke her leg and injured her tendons and bones for 100 days. She also needed her father to take care of her, but her father was not in very good health, so she could only hire a nanny.
As a result, her mother-in-law was hospitalized because of hypertension and . The nurse did not take care of . While they went to work, they also had to pick up and drop off their children and took care of the elderly. They were really tired.
She thought that if the couple got old in the future and had only one son, then the son would marry an only daughter. If the elderly were sick, it would really put a lot of burden on the child, so she decided to have another second child.
People will inevitably get sick in the elderly. Although you can hire a nursing staff if you have money, it is difficult for the nursing staff to take care of their children so carefully. Moreover, when the elderly are sick, they hope that their children will take care of them, which will make them feel more psychologically comforted.
So there are more than two children. If one is not available and the other is available, you can take care of it. If there is only one child, it will really put a lot of burden on the child.
The third trump card: the family will be more lively
Nowadays, many young people late marriage and late childbearing , and even DINK that get married and don’t have children. There are also some who have children but only one.
000000 means that if grandparents want to take care of their children, the two families may have to rush to take care of their grandchildren, but if they have more than two children, the children here will not be allowed to take care of themselves, and there will be children on the other side for them to take care of themselves.
Because many elderly people are lonely when they are old, they really hope that a young child will join in the fun of with them. Therefore, if there are more than two children in the family, it will be more lively in their later years.
For example, if the son and daughter go home together on weekends and bring their grandson back together, this lively atmosphere will make the elderly feel very happy and comforted, and can also avoid the elderly being too bored by themselves, thinking about by themselves, which will cause some psychological problems.
Although giving birth to more than two children will be more busy, tired, and need to spend more money when you are young, you can enjoy your happiness after you are old.
So now the country has already relaxed the second or third child. If you want to live a happier life in your later years, you should still have a second or third child while you are young.
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