A few days ago, 34-year-old internet celebrity Xu Dabao publicly revealed that she was abused by her husband, which caused heated discussions across the Internet. Xu Dabao denied the statement that her husband alluded to the woman's cheating first. On May 4, Xu Dabao responded: "I can't communicate with him, so I can only sue."
Internet celebrity Xu Dabao revealed that he was abused by her husband
female Internet celebrity cried in a video of
being beaten four times by her husband, with bruised neck eardrum perforated right eye congested
On April 22, Xu Dabao issued a statement online saying: " I really want to leave the other party and live well, but I don’t know if I can live until the day I got the divorce certificate . I feel very painful now. I just want to divorce early now, but I am very passive in the process. The other party kept apologizing and dragging it on, so I can only sue it. ”
Xu Dabao cried in the video, saying that he didn’t want to occupy public resources to talk about his affairs online, but fans kept asking about her out of concern. Xu Dabao said that he was beaten by his husband four times, causing very serious physical and mental damage.
video shows that Xu Dabao has bruises on his neck and his right eye is congested. The first time was bruised for 5 days; the second time was slapped in the face for 1 hour, causing perforation of the eardrum and hearing loss; the third time was that the eyes and one side of the face were swollen; the fourth time was that the face was swollen and the eyes were congested.
Xu Dabao said that her husband beat him four times
The police issued a warning letter
The husband beat his wife late at night because of emotional problems, and was scolded by the police station
Xu Dabao not only announced the hospital's diagnosis certificate, but also provided a domestic violence warning letter issued by the police station in the district of the Daxing Branch of the Beijing Public Security Bureau on April 15 with an official seal, with the signature of the warned person printed on it.
April 12 at 23:30, at home in Daxing District, Beijing, the couple had a dispute over their relationship and her husband beat Xu Dabao. The above facts include evidence such as the victim's statement and his own statement. According to Article 16 of the " Anti-Domestic Violence Law ", the police decided to give Xu Dabao's husband a warning, requiring timely correction of illegal acts, and strictly prohibiting re-executing of violent acts against family members.
police issued a warning letter
Internet celebrities said it was not hype
denying cheating in marriage denying self-directing and self-acting "no one will reveal the scar to gain popularity"
"Every word I say is true, and I am willing to bear all legal and social responsibilities for it." Xu Dabao said that he was not hyped by her husband's family.
reporter noticed that netizens have different opinions about Xu Dabao's self-revealed domestic violence. Some people questioned that it was hype, to attract attention and gain popularity. On May 4, Xu Dabao live streamed a certain mango. Some netizens said: "It's a bit difficult to understand if you want to bring goods."
Regarding the reason why he was raped by by , Xu Dabao said that he did not cheat on his marriage, did not chat or have affair with other men, and it was even more impossible for the purpose of live streaming to bring goods. No one will reveal his scars to gain popularity. He does not want to consume this matter, but just wants to work hard to live a good life.
Xu Dabao responded to the concern of netizens and said: "I will come out, it's the way I should go... Everything is the best arrangement... I will cheer up again."
The husband admitted that he was going to beat someone
, which is not right. "The woman instigated netizens to rape me and my family online." After the incident of
caused heated discussions across the Internet, Xu Dabao's husband indirectly responded and admitted that he was willing to bear the consequences, saying that he did not want to implicate his family. He emphasized that it was not because he didn't love his wife, but because he saw something he didn't want to see after returning home, and said that any man would be angry when he saw that situation. He was unable to bear it and took action, which meant that the woman was also at fault.
Some netizens said that the man posted many screenshots of Xu Dabao’s chat records, as if he wanted to say that domestic violence was because of the different views of both parties.
htmlOn May 5, the reporter sent a private message to Xu Dabao's husband, but no response from the other party has yet to be received. Public information shows that his identity is the chairman of an advertising company.Xu Dabao's husband responded in Weibo : "I am willing to bear all legal responsibilities for the authenticity of the screenshot content. I don't want to whitewash it, nor do I want to shirk responsibility!"He said: "It's wrong to beat someone, but Ms. Xu avoids the important things and induces netizens to commit various online violence against me and my family, and reserves the right to hold people accountable. My family and friends should not be able to bear such torture. At this point, I hope netizens can distinguish right from wrong and don't bother them again."
siblings and brothers' relationship
Xu Dabao responded: "I can't communicate with him, I can only sue him."
Whether the couple will divorce in the future, and who is right or wrong, perhaps only the couple can explain it clearly. On May 4, Xu Dabao responded: "I can't communicate with him, so I can only sue him."
Internet celebrity Xu Dabao was once a well-known actor in the entertainment industry. After becoming famous, he transformed into a live-streaming anchor. Born in 1988, she married her husband, who was born in 1993. The two are 5 years apart in age. It is said that they had a sibling-brother relationship and then they got married in a flash.
Xu Dabao admitted that after all, he was the person he chose. He thought he could entrust him for life and trust him unconditionally, so he forgave him several times. But this time, she was really awake.
Lawyer made a case and said that
Domestic violence is not a housework. You can apply to the court for personal safety protection order
On May 5, the well-known lawyer Zhou Zhaocheng made a legal interpretation based on this case.
"Domestic violence is not a housework, it is an act that should be punished according to law!" Zhou Zhaocheng pointed out that my country's Anti-Domestic Violence Law stipulates that if the perpetrator commits domestic violence and constitutes a violation of public security management, public security management punishment will be given in accordance with law; if it constitutes a crime, criminal responsibility will be pursued in accordance with law.
According to the provisions of my country's " Criminal Law ", those who intentionally harm others' bodies shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than 3 years, detention or control. If the circumstances do not constitute a crime, according to the provisions of the Public Security Administration Punishment Law, those who beat others or intentionally harm others' bodies shall be detained for not less than 5 days but not more than 10 days, and shall be fined for not more than 200 yuan but not more than 500 yuan; if the circumstances are mild, those who are detained for not more than 5 days or fined for not more than 500 yuan.
Zhou Zhaocheng specifically pointed out that according to the provisions of my country's " Civil Code ", if a divorce occurs due to domestic violence, abuse, abandonment of family members, or other major faults, the party at fault has the right to request compensation for damages. "In this case, if the wife who was beaten divorces her husband, she can ask for compensation from her husband for damages."
If she encounters domestic violence, how should the victim save herself? Lawyer Zhou Zhaocheng suggested that the victims can complain, report or seek help from their units, residents' committees, villagers' committees, , women's federations and other units.
"You can also report the case to the public security organs or file a lawsuit with the court in accordance with the law. If the party is suffering from domestic violence or faces the real danger of domestic violence, you can also apply for a personal safety protection order from the court."
Zhou Zhaocheng reminds that if the party is a person with no civil capacity for , a person with no civil capacity for , a person with no civil capacity for , or if he is unable to apply for a personal safety protection order due to coercion, intimidation, etc., close relatives, public security organs, women's federations, residents' committees, villagers' committees, and rescue management agencies can also apply on their behalf.
"The family is the basic cell of society, and family style is also an important part of social style." Zhou Zhaocheng said that if we want to build a civilized family style, we must not let "husband-wife relationships and family conflicts" become the "protective umbrella" for illegal crimes. We must give strong legal deterrence to the perpetrators of domestic violence. Only in this way can we protect and build a harmonious and civilized family atmosphere!
Huashang Daily reporter Li Hua Editor Zhang Hong
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