After Su's mother passed away, Zhu Li cried so hard at the funeral. Even the relatives who came to pay their respects were infected. They praised Zhu Li for her filial piety and lamented that before Su's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law's relationship must have been good. However, there is a contrast. Compared with the grief of Wu Fei and Zhu Li, who have never come, is really a matter of people's words.
Although Wu Fei was unable to come in the United States, everyone had a scale in their hearts. There is no need to say something. If Wu Fei really had a good relationship with Su's mother, he would have tried every means to come, rather than make excuses to shirk it.
Wu Fei has trouble saying that Su Mu’s death was too sudden, and neither she nor Mingzhe had time to prepare. The situation was urgent at that time, so she had no choice but to let Mingzhe return to China first and take care of her children in the United States. However, Wu Fei really doesn't want to go to pay condolences because she has no good feelings for the good mother-in-law Zhu Li said.
Su's lies
When Wu Fei gave birth in the United States, he wanted his parents-in-law to go to the United States to take care of her during confinement. From a common sense, it is understandable that mother-in-law takes care of her daughter-in-law during confinement. However, Su's mother clearly refused. In order to prevent Wu Fei from repeatedly urging them to go to the United States, Su's mother found a very appropriate excuse: Su Daqiang has the problem of ear water imbalance and cannot take planes, especially long-distance planes.
Su Daqiang's self-care ability is very poor, so Su's mother is naturally worried that he is alone at home, so she has a reason not to go to the United States.
At first, Wu Fei believed Su Mu's excuse. Su's mother is the head nurse. She said that Su Daqiang had an imbalance in ear water, and Wu Fei had no reason to suspect that he was misdiagnosed. But Wu Fei did not expect that after Su's mother passed away, the lies were immediately exposed.
After Su's mother's funeral was held, Mingzhe told Wu Fei that Su Daqiang wanted to live in the United States. Wu Fei was stunned for a moment, then sneered in his heart.
After Su's mother passed away, Wu Fei reported this to her mother. Her mother reminded Wu Fei that Su Daqiang was likely to go to the United States. At the beginning, Su's mother said she could not take a plane and could not take care of Wu Fei during confinement, but she was just an excuse to avoid serving her. Wu Fei didn't care at that time. She believed that even if her parents-in-law lies, her father-in-law would not be shameless and betray what she said at the time, right?
Unexpectedly, his mother's words came true, and Su Daqiang shamelessly pushed all the blame to Su's mother and insisted on coming to the United States. Wu Fei pretended not to know about Su Daqiang's lying, and firmly refused him to come on the grounds that Su Daqiang's ears were unbalanced.
Wu Fei will never forget that Su's mother refused to come to the United States to take care of her during confinement, so her mother had to retreat in advance to help. Because my mother gave in advance and lost a lot of money to her family in order to take care of Wu Fei. Although she and her mother said nothing, and Wu Fei did not ask for compensation for her mother afterwards, this incident was like a thorn in Wu Fei's heart, unable to swallow it, and it was painful to pull it out.
Mingzhe also learned that his parents had lied back then. If he was Wu Fei, he might not be able to swallow this breath, let alone Wu Fei is the personal experience of this experience? In fact, Mingzhe couldn't understand. Wu Fei and Zhu Li were both daughters-in-law, so why did Su's mother treat Zhu Li better than Mingcheng?
Zhu Li is going to visit her home, Su's mother demolished Mingyu's bed and renovated the house. Zhu Li was going to get married, so Su's mother sold a house and raised money to decorate Zhu Li. After marriage, Zhu Li went home for dinner. Su's mother not only made matcha cake that Zhu Li liked, but also cooked the good rice and dishes that Zhu Li liked.
In short, Su Mu's attitude towards Zhu Li is to hold it in her hand for fear of breaking, and to hold it in her mouth for fear of melting. Not only did Su's mother be nice to Zhu Li, she also repeatedly instructed Mingcheng and Su Daqiang to treat Zhu Li well, saying that Zhu Li was the only daughter and had been spoiled since childhood. If she didn't help Mingcheng follow her, maybe she might be unhappy one day and Mingcheng would have no wife. .
So, why is Su's mother not worried about Mingzhe and Wu Fei's divorce, and would rather offend Wu Fei than take care of her during confinement?
I think there are three main reasons. First, Mingzhe is a highly educated intellectual. In Su Mu's eyes, those who can study abroad, especially those who can settle in the United States, are talents.Mingzhe looks good and is honest. Even if a person like him gets divorced, he will easily find a partner, so she doesn't value Wu Fei's daughter-in-law.
The second point is that Wu Fei and Ming have a similar academic qualifications and have a better family background than Mingzhe. Wu Fei is a Shanghai girl, and she has the shrewdness and pretentiousness of a Shanghainese. Su's mother always felt shorter when she was in front of her. She didn't expect that the beautiful son of the Su family she worked hard to support was nothing more than that in the eyes of Wu Fei's family. This made it hard for her, who has always been strong, really hard to accept.
Third point, Su's mother is worried about taking care of Wu Fei during confinement. Once she goes to the United States, it is difficult for her to return to China. Su Mu has a strong concept of raising children to prevent aging. Mingzhe and Wu Fei are both people with strong concepts in the new era. Su's mother could see that Wu Fei was the one who was responsible for the big and small things at home. Wu Fei and Mingzhe live in the United States, and Su's mother emphasizes falling leaves returning to her roots, so she will eventually return to her home.
No matter how good she is to Wu Fei, China and the United States are far away. If something really happens to her, she will not be able to count on Mingzhe and Wu Fei at all. Since that's the case, why bother to please Wu Fei? But Mingcheng is different from Zhu Li. Mingcheng is sweet-mouthed and is very good at making Su Mu happy.
Su's mother knew how much Mingcheng was. It was Mingcheng's blessing to marry a beautiful, capable, understanding and profitable girl like Zhu Li. As long as she is good to Zhu Li, Zhu Li will naturally be nice to her in the future, so she pleases Zhu Li in every way.
However, Su's mother pleased Zhu Li and alienated Wu Fei, and another more important reason is that Wu Fei is more difficult to grasp than Zhu Li. Although they are both daughters-in-law, Wu Fei's little thoughts are more flexible than Zhu Li.
The gap between Mingyu and Wu Fei
Mingyu has never seen a photo of Wu Fei. It was not long after her mother passed away that she saw Wu Fei for the first time. Mingyu's first impression of Wu Fei was: a gentle woman who was completely different from the pretty and bright Zhu Li. She had a few faint freckles on her fair face, but there was a smile on her deep corners of her mouth. But Wu Fei's eyes, which were not big or small behind the eye, told Mingyu that this was a smart and strong woman. Mingyu believes that her vision of people will not make mistakes.
Wu Fei also met Mingyu for the first time. The original work read: In addition to being a curiosity about Mingyu, she also has a curiosity about her as a woman. But she didn't expect that what she saw was a haggard tall and thin woman with short hair, only her eyes were embarrassing and enchanting, and her expression was very gentle. The most unexpected thing she did was Mingyu's outfit was a dark blue short-sleeved shirt, light gray cropped pants, a huge bag, and no pearl hairpin on her body. She was so simple that she didn't look like a rich man.
Wu Fei smiled and said to Mingyu: Your elder brother went out to buy vegetables. He said he wanted to make his best spicy fried fish cubes for you.
Mingyu smiled. No one in the Su family had cooked anything specifically for her. She didn't want to talk about this matter, nor did she want to laugh hypocritically. So she changed the topic: When I went upstairs just now, I was thinking, if the eldest brother was not there. , Do I want to find out my ID card and let my sister-in-law verify it?
Wu Fei heard the strong irony in Ming Yu's words. This was not the era when Ye Yu sent a message to the north. It was ridiculous that the family actually met and didn't know each other. However, she felt that this phenomenon was not caused by her, so there was no need to be a burden.
The child is the switch for Wu Fei and Mingyu to turn on the topic, because she and Mingyu have nothing to say except to tease the child. And she vaguely felt that Su Mingyu seemed kind, but she was not friendly.
The first time my sister-in-law met, Mingyu was full of affection for Wu Fei, but Wu Fei was full of alertness for Mingyu. From this we can see that Wu Fei's mind is not as simple as Ming Yu, especially the conversation that followed further exposes Wu Fei's small pattern.
Wu Fei knew that Su Mingyu had suffered trauma since childhood, so he was careful when speaking and said less if he could. However, when Mingyu learned that his father was going to buy a house and Mingzhe wanted to pay for the house, he couldn't bear it and told Wu Fei: Sister-in-law, ask Mingcheng, Zhu Li and his father more about buying a house, don't be too sentimental, Mingcheng's evils have been committed. The baby should not be held responsible. It is not a good thing for a couple to separate, especially for a high-paid male turtle. I hope the baby can always be happy.
Although Wu Feijian said that it is good for the baby, he is talking about adults. She is a smart person, so she naturally understands what Mingyu says and understands Mingyu's attitude. She hurriedly said: I'll thank my aunt for my baby. When I return to the United States, I want to send you photos of my baby frequently.
Send Mingyu away, Wu Fei secretly complained: In Mingyu's heart, the eldest brother and the second brother are all birds of a feather. If it weren't for the baby, she wouldn't have told these words. But now I have to think carefully about what the matter of buying a house has to do with Mingcheng.
Why did Wu Fei send Mingyu a photo of her baby? Because she knew that Mingyu was in a high position at a young age, so she naturally had her abilities and abilities. She could see that Mingcheng was not a good person. If she had to hand over many things such as buying a house to Mingcheng, she would be worried. But Mingyu is different. People like her will definitely do things clearly and beautifully. Now Mingzhe and Mingyu are in the same city, and there will be a lot of trouble for her in the future. Only by using the child as an excuse can Mingyu help Mingzhe more for the sake of the child.
After Mingzhe came back, Wu Fei immediately said how embarrassed she and Mingyu's first meeting was, and expressed that the money for Su Daqiang to buy a house was paid by Mingcheng, and they only paid for the money for hiring a nanny. People are more important to know themselves. In her opinion, the Su family is currently all adults with financial strength. Mingzhe is not the turn to show off, and he does not need to sacrifice his wife and daughter as a moral benchmark.
Mingzhe disagreed, so Wu Fei had a big fight with Mingzhe about this, packed his luggage and went to the station.
The original work reads: When Wu Fei went to the United States alone to study, he had to do everything himself and pay attention to everything and not ask for help. Since getting married, her comfortable life and relatively closed hospital technical working environment have made her lose her fighting spirit and remain calm in a small life when she turns a blind eye to things outside the window. Leave the heavy work to Mingzhe, and Mingzhe originally took on it very well and handled everything in an orderly manner. Now she knows that the trivialities in life cannot withstand heavy pressure. Under heavy pressure, everything will be off track, and her husband is not He is an ordinary person, and his weaknesses are ruthlessly displayed under heavy pressure, so what else can he talk about relying on? It seems that everything depends on yourself.
Maybe you will say that it is not easy for Wu Fei to take care of his children. In fact, in the original work, Wu Fei lives as happy as Zhu Li. Although she has her children, she has no pressure on her work and Mingzhe has to deal with her family's affairs. She focuses on eating, drinking, having fun, and where to take her children to travel.
Now that Su's mother has passed away, Su Daqiang wants to buy a house, Mingzhe's job is facing layoffs, and many things are crowded together, so Wu Fei feels life is hard to bear. Over the years, she has long forgotten what pressure and responsibility are. Now when something happens, she just wants to protect her own interests and be an ostrich.
Wu Fei didn't expect to meet Mingyu at the station. Mingyu couldn't bear to see the mother and daughter suffering, so she had to take them in. That day, Wu Fei came to Mingyu's home and found that his home was quiet like Guanghan Palace, with no breath of life at all. But now she has no time to sympathize with Mingyu, and she is waiting for Mingzhe's apology.
Unfortunately, Mingzhe never asked about her and her children. It was Mingyu who called Mingzhe and got angry. Mingzhe only knew the whereabouts of Wu Fei and his daughter. Under Mingyu's threading thread, Mingzhe and Wu Fei discussed and decided that Wu Fei would come forward to discuss the house, first selling the old house and then buying a new house.
Ming Yu was listening to the conversation between the couple, not worth it for Wu Fei. As soon as the elder brother apologized, she was willing to endure hardships and sacrificed her life to work for her father and Mingcheng, two unscrupulous adults. This silly woman shows that she really loves her elder brother. Mingyu respected Wu Fei, but did not agree with Mingzhe.
In Mingyu's heart, she respects and admires Wu Fei very much. At first, Wu Fei also liked Mingyu's straightforward personality, but because of one thing, she changed her mind about Mingyu.
Wu Fei's back path
Since Su's mother passed away, everything went wrong in Mingcheng, and many things were related to Mingyu, so he touched Mingyu's residence in anger and beat her hard.Seeing Mingyu being stepped on by him and the red and swollen palm prints on his face, he felt a breath of anger that was held in his heart finally spit out.
Mingyu had no power to resist Mingcheng's fist. At that moment, she realized that even if she became a strong woman, she would not be able to beat Mingcheng in terms of physical strength. But she was not the one who broke her teeth and swallowed her blood. Mingcheng hurt her, and she also had her way of venting her anger.
After Mingcheng left, Wu Fei was carried upstairs by the security guard. Wu Fei learned that it was Mingcheng who beat Mingyu like this, and he was so angry that he called Zhu Li and asked them why they did this?
But Wu Fei heard Mingyu make several calls with his injuries, and unconsciously broke out in cold sweat behind him. She found that Mingyu was going to do something about the injury test, so that Mingcheng couldn't afford to take it. Wu Fei knew how much impact Mingcheng was in prison would have on his future. At that moment, she felt that Mingcheng was cruel enough, and Mingyu was even more cruel. When she thought that both the siblings were ruthless against each other, she just wanted to escape from such a family.
After Mingyu was hospitalized, Wu Fei made two portions of porridge, one was sweet and the other was salty. When Mingyu got the porridge, she felt very warm. She knew that Wu Fei didn't understand her taste, so she made two kinds of them. However, Mingyu didn't know that Wu Fei had already begun to plan her retreat.
Zhu Li knew that Mingcheng was arrested and wanted Mingyu to give up her hands. But she couldn't find Mingyu, so she had to seek help through Wu Fei. Wu Fei and Mingzhe reached a united front, and they did not interfere in such matters, so as not to cause more trouble. Zhu Li had no choice but to find Su Daqiang, but when Su Daqiang faced the situation where his daughter was hospitalized and his son was imprisoned, he only knew how to ask Zhu Li: What should I do with my house? I'm going to move out to live in my own house.
For a moment, Julie was helpless. Mingcheng and Mingyu had a conflict, and the Su family was out of the matter, and she was the only one running around in the middle. Zhu Li felt desperate for the Su family for the first time. In fact, Wu Fei has already seen through Zhu Li's situation. When she learned that Mingzhe was foolish, Mingcheng was selfish, and Mingyu was cruel, she decided to return to the United States and no longer care about the idle business here.
Wu Fei returned to the United States and asked her mother to help take care of the children, and she devoted herself to work. Mingzhe originally wanted to interfere in the family affairs, but he has been in China for too long. When he returned to the United States, the child refused to call him his father, and even more so he refused to let him hug him. Mingzhe was worried about a fire in his backyard, so he had to tilt his focus to the United States.
Later, Su Daqiang wanted to marry nanny Cai Genhua, and Mingzhe was very anxious in the United States. Wu Fei thought that only Mingyu could solve this problem, so after Mingyu hung up Mingzhe's phone number, he found Mingyu's driver's number and asked him to help tell Mingyu that the matter was not handled well, and she was the one who suffered the loss in the end. .
Mingyu discovered that Mingzhe and Wu Fei had done nothing except to make things difficult for her. She hated the troubles of the Su family and came to her, and she didn't want others to know about the Su family. Wu Fei's actions touched her bottom line. But Wu Fei is right. Mingcheng and Zhu Li disappeared after divorce. Wu Fei and Mingzhe are far away in the United States, so she only has to protect the Su family.
Although Mingyu came forward to solve this matter, Mingyu developed a deep disgust for Wu Fei because Wu Fei became the boss. If Wu Fei is responsible, she can go back to China with Mingzhe to help Mingyu share the burden, but she chooses to avoid all responsibilities.
When Mingzhe proposed to ask Wu Fei to quit his job and return to Shanghai with him for a long time, Wu Fei said that she was most afraid of Mingzhe being too stupid and filial. Su Daqiang is old and has medical insurance, if he gets sick one day, Mingzhe will definitely help him save his father without caring about his life or death. She doesn't want to lose her voice at work and home. Besides, she doesn't have to consider so many favors in the United States, and she has been recognized by her leaders at work and has a bright future. Mingcheng is an uneasy person, and Mingyu is cruel. She just wants to stay away from the Su family.
Mingyu knew that Wu Fei was a calculating woman. She put her interests first in everything. She was smart enough, so she could always hold on to Mingyu's weakness. But Zhu Li is different. Zhu Li is simple and kind, disdainful of weighing and calculating, and is brave enough to take on things when encountering them. Therefore, after Zhu Li and Mingcheng divorced, Mingyu and Zhu Li got closer and closer.
I once read a saying: Family affection is important in the word "love". Without blood ties, you can have family affection, and blood ties do not necessarily have family affection. True love is family affection.
The biggest difference between Wu Fei and Zhu Li is that Wu Fei is good at weighing the trade-offs between giving and getting. When getting less than giving, he chooses to protect himself. Zhu Li gives with a clear conscience and only cares about his conscience and not the result. Every family has difficult sutras. If you are like Wu Fei, you will hide away when you encounter difficulties, and family affection will lose its meaning. So Su's mother and Ming Yu both had a close relationship with Zhu Li, while Wu Fei was far away.
