[Distance]
has always been a very mysterious concept in the process of interpersonal communication
Some people say that the process of interpersonal communication
is the process of continuously shortening the distance between people.
Some people also say that
distance can produce beauty.
In
"Chinese Wedding - My Daughter Got Married", which will be performed at 10 o'clock this Saturday night,
we will get to know a couple who seem "distanced".
Huang Fangli from Guilin, Guangxi, China
and Gary from Germany
And their love story,
is a story that breaks the distance.
The first level of distance: cultural differences
This young couple in a cross-border relationship,
their relationship began with love at first sight 7 years ago.
After choosing to be together,
two people from different countries,
the first thing they need to face is the huge difference in cultural background between them.
Gary is a young man who loves Chinese culture,
but in the segment of "The Son-in-law Lives Together" in this episode,
the collision between the foreign son-in-law and the Chinese father-in-law is still shown.
The language barrier makes it seem that the father-in-law and son-in-law cannot fully understand each other.
However, when the talkative father-in-law and the cheerful son-in-law live together,
there is no awkward silence as imagined.
In order to let his son-in-law integrate into China,
Huang Fangli's father started from the tea culture.
Not only did he bring out precious tea leaves for many years,
he also tasted the taste of different varieties of tea leaves with Gary.
Gary's investment and patience in asking for advice also impressed his father-in-law. To put it bluntly, "it can be taught."
While on an outing with his son-in-law,
his father-in-law kindly told Gary how
Chinese husbands generally deal with their wives tactfully.
This is not only the wisdom of "compromise" between Chinese couples,
Gary has also benefited a lot.
The second level of distance: age gap
Huang Fangli and Gary are not only a cross-border couple,
they are also siblings who are 6 years apart.
In addition to the distance between them from cultural backgrounds,
they also need to face the distance brought about by the age gap.
Gary is very determined and persistent in this relationship.
Not long after they met,
Gary recognized Huang Fangli,
and gave up the stable life in his hometown of Germany,
chose to settle in China,
which also moved Huang Fangli.
When the two get along,
Gary always injects the expression of love into the details.
He will prepare morning coffee for her every day for years;
He always likes to hold hands and often reminds the other person to hold her tightly;
And when Huang Fangli forgets about life because of work,
Gary will remind her that the two of them should go on a date. ,
even just holding hands from upstairs to downstairs.
Wedding planner Hu Jingwen said
Their love can be described as
"What you love is separated by mountains and seas, and mountains and seas can be leveled"
.
It is precisely because the two love each other enough that
makes these distances no longer a problem.
This Saturday (June 4th) at 10pm
Junle Baoyue's live "Chinese Wedding - My Daughter Got Married"
Let's take a look at their stories.
Source: Hunan Satellite TV
