Marriage is particularly important to everyone. You can regard it as the beginning of another stage, or as an opportunity for life to be reborn.

Marriage is particularly important to everyone. You can regard it as the beginning of another stage, or as an opportunity for life to be reborn. So how to find the right partner is a difficult problem in life. There is a saying circulating on the Internet, "Marrying the wrong man will ruin your life, marrying the wrong wife will ruin three generations." This shows the importance of choosing a spouse.

However, giving birth to a child has become the first priority for the couple after marriage. The wife’s fear of the future can easily lead to prenatal depression. At this time, she needs her husband’s company and care by her side. On the contrary, if she even gives birth during pregnancy, After giving birth to the child, her husband has not even come to take a look. Do you dare to imagine how bad the wife feels at this moment?

There is a female artist in Taiwan who announced her marriage to a Japanese in March this year. Later, the two were separated due to work reasons, and they could not meet each other due to the epidemic. At that time, she was pregnant with Liujia, and her belly was already 5 months old. She was only taken care of by her mother. It was several and a half months after the child was born, and the epidemic gradually recovered. However, the Japanese husband was still unwilling due to personal reasons. One look at his wife and children made his wife burst into tears many times.

She is a Taiwanese artist and graphic model named Ouyang Jing, who has the same name as a famous hip-hop player in my country. She was born in Taiwan and depended on her mother. Ouyang Jing was very naughty when she was a child, and she was better than other girls. I am active, like to be exposed to new things, like to travel around, and get to know people and things from different worlds.

Ouyang Jing has a strong personal charm, has her own independent thoughts, and has at least three tattoos on her body. She said that these tattoos represent the wanton squandering of youth. Although Ouyang Jing is not a big star, she has little appeal. She is no less famous than a star. She has collaborated with Shu Qi, and she has also left works in China such as "Alice's Looking Glass", "Imagine Enemy", "Amphibian", etc.

Ouyang Jing had several relationships, but unfortunately they all broke up in the end. An earlier encounter in Japan introduced her to a Japanese photographer. The two fell in love at first sight and hated each other. Finally, in March this year, the good news came that they were getting married. She was also pregnant with a 5-month-old baby. Her fans once Be happy for her. However, due to work reasons, the two had to live apart in two places. Later, when they wanted to meet, they encountered the epidemic and couldn't even leave the house, let alone meet their significant other across the ocean.

As time goes by, the epidemic situation gradually improves, and Ouyang Jing is about to give birth, but the Japanese husband cannot come to Ouyang Jing's side because of his busy work. I personally guess it may be because of this. A Japanese father is a photographer, and after the epidemic, there will definitely be a lot of places, people, and things that need to be photographed, which makes it difficult to get away from work due to the busy schedule.

It’s just that there is a lover far away in a foreign country who is working hard to have a child for him, and on the other hand, he has his favorite job, and he is always faced with the opportunity of promotion and salary increase. How to choose? Is this really a difficult problem in life?

It is reported that Ouyang Jing had experienced the miscarriage of twins before, so she was even more cautious during this pregnancy. However, this was her first time giving birth. Facing an unknown future, she felt fear from the bottom of her heart. Although her mother was taking care of her, the only thing she could think of was that her husband would be by her side. It seemed like a very ordinary and simple request, but in Ouyang Jing's case, it became a huge desire.

Recently, some netizens discovered that Ouyang Jing and her Japanese husband unfollowed each other on social platforms, which caused a lot of heated discussion. They suspected that their relationship had changed, which had to make fans worry about this matter. Ouyang Jing also shared her feelings and experiences without reservation. It is estimated that fans are her biggest motivation for her now.

From Ouyang Jing’s statement, let’s first highlight the key points: “14 days”, “9 months”, “work impact is too great”, and “health risks”.

From these words, we can see that the two of them are now in a couple's quarrel. Secondly, they have not seen each other for nearly 9 months. Then, now the border has been fully opened, but they need to be quarantined for 14 days, and the husband is It seems that the 14-day quarantine has a great impact on work, and Ouyang Jing revealed that since she was pregnant, her husband has never even seen her belly up, let alone missing the child. It's a lie. However, her husband once suggested that she go to Japan to find him, but Ouyang Jing felt that this was an unreasonable request. For the sake of the safety and health of her children, she would definitely not go, and she expressed a strong intention that if you don't Come, then wait until the world returns to peace, and we will discuss the next step in life. Everyone knows this must be an angry comment.

Ouyang Jing once said that she once suffered from prenatal panic and postpartum depression. Because she had a miscarriage last time, she was even more worried this time. If this happened again, she would be at a loss. Mothers and fans It is the only important factor that can sustain her. Now she has quarreled with her husband to the point where it is difficult to recover. And we all know that for many things, face-to-face communication is the best way to solve the problem. Mobile phones can only solve small problems. Problems, big problems will only make people more irritated and uneasy.

Ouyang Jing's current situation is probably like this. The wife feels that her husband is inconsiderate of her, but the husband feels that his wife is ignorant.

When Ouyang Jing's mother saw her daughter losing weight, she felt extremely distressed. She asked for nothing but that her son-in-law could come to Taiwan to meet the mother and son, as a way to return Ouyang Jing's wish.

I just want to know, can work really be compared with your wife and children? You have to know that a girl has endured so much for you during pregnancy and has been in a state of self-comfort. As a husband, you still think she is ignorant. What on earth is this? What's the point? Are the differences between the two countries really that big? Are you not moved at all when you see your own flesh and blood looking so cute? As a photographer, I think the biggest regret is that I can’t give my wife and newborn child the best close-up and leave a lasting impression. The most authentic memories.